WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR AUGUST 2020

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  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,598 Member
    I was married at 18, 3 months before I turned 19. I wasn’t legal drinking age yet. I was not pregnant, I was in love. We have been married 33 years this past June.

    Tracey in Edmonton

    Unusual these days ... but very nice. :)


    I was married at 20 and 41.

    M in Oz

  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    Barbara,
    Our rv has needed lots of work. It is currently doing better than last year. I think the idea of driving a big RV from western Oregon to Virginia is a huge undertaking for the majority of healthy people. DH has diabetes & MS. He doesn’t have the energy to be in the driver’s seat for long days. I have not driven it very often but if we drive I will do my share.

    Bottom line, he doesn’t want to go by car or rv & he doesn’t want to fly. I want to go for the sake of our son & his wonderful family. We’re discussing what to fo.
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    what to do
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,598 Member
    auntiebk wrote: »
    Machka if you snooze someone, do they know it? :love: the I before e coffee cup! I like trains too! I had my first birthday on a train.
    Barbara

    No, I'm pretty sure they don't know that you've snoozed them. Same with unfollowing. I wouldn't be surprised if people snooze me from time to time! Too much talk about bicycles and brain injury!

    M in Oz
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,598 Member
    Friday's Walk

    Distance: 4.55km
    Elevation: 36m
    Moving Time: 42:45
    Pace: 9:23/km

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    After a cool but relatively nice week, winter is making a comeback this weekend. Windy with showers, snow down to 500 metres. They're predicting as much as 30 mm (1.18 inches) of rain over about 48 hours.

    But it is still winter. Spring doesn't happen until September 1!!


    So we might get on our indoor bicycles and Zwift! We'll see.


    Machka in Oz
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    Kim, I hope the fire is far from you & those you love. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
  • bananasandoranges
    bananasandoranges Posts: 2,410 Member
    @Beth I hadn't heard about any paper shortages.
  • bananasandoranges
    bananasandoranges Posts: 2,410 Member
    edited August 2020
    Faye: oh wow, that is a big limitation. I haven't traveled more than 200 miles per day since October. I only went to the coast which is less than 200 miles away. I'm sorry about that.That must keep you close to the land. I am not that big on travelling these days. It's a must for me to go see family and friends and my homeland in the usa, from to time, so far, but I find more and more tiring.
  • bananasandoranges
    bananasandoranges Posts: 2,410 Member
    GLOVES AND GEL
    I went to buy some masks upon doctor's orders at time of confinement since I had a slight cough. none available but the lady before me bought 100 latex gloves. so I bought some. I used them in the beginning to open door when I went out for a walk or go food shopping but finally I agree with the video posted above. it's easier (or rather still necessary) to wash hands with gloves on between touches, so the gloves don't do much. I carry gel and I don't remember to use it all the time but use it plenty when I stop some place.i'm glad when they have it available at shops and restaurants (most do). The hotel I was at didn't have gel available anywhere and I find that a real lack.they could charge an extra 2 euro surcharge for extra cleaning products (my hairdresser charges an extra 2 euros for covid cleaning of chairs between cuts and disposable paper smocks) and no-one would complain. Of course I wash hands much more than before but I'm not perfect long term.
  • bananasandoranges
    bananasandoranges Posts: 2,410 Member
    edited August 2020
    I did NOTHING yesterday. I lazed and then realised it was to be a very hot day and lazed some more. it didn't feel great way to spend the day but today is another day! Weight is up from this time last year but in a down fluctuation at least from some recent months and weeks. I didn't limit eating much when out but ate rather healthily: cereal in morning, fish dish for lunch and bought things like rice cakes carrot juice, cucumber, and the occasional small scoop of sorbet...wzkwi931sj1r.png
  • bananasandoranges
    bananasandoranges Posts: 2,410 Member
    edited August 2020
    August goals revisited
    Financial Goals:
    -As close as possible to zero-based budget. I have to check.i didn't spend a ton but hotel and eating out cost something.Transport was very cheap.200 euros car rental, 32+20 train,4.50 bus
    -No need to transfer money from one account for living or holiday expenses. so far so good!
    - Check what's going on in partially stock-based savings (i know close to nothing about stocks). (I know it had lost 90% COVID) but i see every thing is tanking and maybe i need to sell and put into cash---), not yet
    - keep making progress on filing not yet since not home
    - Pay bills one
    - follow up rental repair (mild water damage last august, slow to solve partially due to covid) not yet not home

    Spiritual Goals:
    -meditate 5 min per day some days

    Health Fitness Goals:
    -Walk w heart rate monitor at least 3x a week, (w/rate above 115 for 20 min or so) (no more gyms here for the foreseeable future). not during vacation.i brought it and wore it once
    -Track all and aim to lose 0.4 k per week. (a bit less than a pound) haven't tracked much at all. but weight is down, or fluctuation down 0.8k from aug 1. (1.7 pounds)
    - Get progressive glasses. (finally, i've been able to get by without glasses for reading till now, but it gets tough on very fine print). not yet.
    - Get hiking sandals or something close.They were out of my size when I went to buy some. I managed very well between sneakers, hiking sneakers and flip-flops

    Educational Goals:
    -Work 4h a day on thesis after 2 week vacation break starting, so from Aug 19 not yet! need to start today right?
    -read one of the novels I bought Aug 3. not done
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    Family and loved ones Goals:
    -Read sister's emails not yet
    -Go to exhibit and do a writing session with M. not yet
    -Meet up with friend.s at 1x a week. I was away so I chatted and hung out some with people I met and stayed at a friends one night. oh yes, at the mini-house near the forest I went for a little walk in the forest with the hostess both mornings and we had coffee and watched for stars together one evening.

    Career Goals:
    -Send email to required address for training period I got a mail saying it's not necessary! yay!
    -Disconnect till August 19 at least pretty good job at that

    -Update website not at all


    Home Goals

    - follow up repair water damage (here too) slowed due to COVID b] not at all[/b]
    -order big shelving unit to stock my masses of papers (for thesis, teaching etc) (ikea online) picked them out but didn't ordre yet since I wasn't sure of return date
    -maybe; order smallish sofa bed went to check out but didn't order for same reason
    -order small, round dinner table (ikea online) was out of stock
    -Get rid of Japanese divider if not fixed by end of august (very useful but fragile and broken) I keep wanting to fix it but I never get to it.
  • bananasandoranges
    bananasandoranges Posts: 2,410 Member
    people don't know if you snooze them on facebook.
  • bananasandoranges
    bananasandoranges Posts: 2,410 Member
    today I need to at least:
    1) go for a walk
    2) clean/tidy for an hour

    3) contact friend who invited me for a weekend visit and probably reserve transport
  • spikeyhair
    spikeyhair Posts: 2,078 Member
    Kate UK ❤️
  • KetoneKaren
    KetoneKaren Posts: 6,412 Member
    <3
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,598 Member
    Much more consistent recently. :)

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    Machka in Oz
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,598 Member
    Review ... (Distances include cycling + walking + a bit of rowing)
    Mar-15 … 489.8 km (304.3 miles) = 38 hours 4 min
    Apr-15 … 491.94 km (305.6 miles) = 43 hours 6 min
    May-15 … 361.81 km (224.8 miles) = 35 hours 50 min
    Jun-15 … 569.53 km (353.9 miles) = 41 hours 53 min
    Jul-15 … 230.7 km (143.35 miles) = 32 hours 45 min
    Aug-15 … 211.3 km (131.3 miles) = 28 hours 8 min
    Sep-15 … 306.7 km (190.6 miles) = 35 hour 2 min
    Oct-15 … 441.82 km (274.5 miles) = 47 hours 43 min
    Nov-15 … 660.21 km (410.23 miles) = 60 hours 41 min
    Dec-15 … 499.91 km (282.8 miles) = 54 hours 56 min
    Jan-16 … 864.79 km (537.35 miles) = 65 hours 36 min
    Feb-16 … 470.53 km (292.4 miles) = 40 hours 39 min
    Mar-16 … 917.73 km (570.2 miles) = 66 hours 13 min
    Apr-16 … 417.83 km (259.6 miles) = 40 hours 23 min
    May-16 … 267.09 km (165.9 miles) = 36 hours 10 min
    Jun-16 … 552.1 km (343 miles) = 54 hours 48 min
    Jul-16 … 709 km (440.5 miles) = 60 hours 41 minutes
    Aug-16 … 775.9 km (482.1 miles) = 54 hours 52 minutes
    Sep-16 … 371.3 km (230.7 miles) = 32 hours 20 min
    Oct-16 … 649 km (403.3 miles) = 49 hours 46 min
    Nov-16 … 403 km (250.4 miles) = 52 hours 16 min
    Dec-16 … 511.05 km (317.55 miles) = 52 hours 2 min
    Jan-17 … 741.9 km (461.0 miles) = 70 hours 3 min
    Feb-17 … 600.5 km (373.1 miles) = 57 hours 30 min
    Mar-17 … 1113.2 km (691.7 miles) = 78 hours 25 min
    Apr-17 … 1181.9 km (734.4 miles) = 76 hours 45 min
    May-17 … 426.6 km (265.1 miles) = 39 hours 21 min
    Jun-17 … 575.7 km (357.7 miles) = 41 hours 53 min
    Jul-17 … 714 km (443.7 miles) = 52 hours 23 min
    Aug-17 … 475.8 km (295.6 miles) = 38 hours 41 min
    Sep-17 … 455.5 km (283 miles) = 41 hours 25 min
    Oct-17 … 647.1 km (402.1 miles) = 57 hours 19 min
    Nov-17 … 427.0 km (265.3 miles) = 50 hours 4 min
    Dec-17 … 553.5 km (343.9 miles) = 52 hours 12 min
    Jan-18 … 590.2 km (366.7 miles) = 57 hours 49 min
    Feb-18 … 826.9 km (513.8 miles) = 57 hours 35 min
    Mar-18 … 582.01 km (361.6 miles) = 50 hours 11 min
    Apr-18 … 176.23 km (109.5 miles) = 29 hours 47 min
    May -18 … 167.6 km (104.1 miles) = 29 hours 08 min
    June-18 … 349.9 km (217.4 miles) = 36 hours 58 minutes
    July-18 ... 324.2 km (201.5 miles) = 24 hours 26 minutes
    Aug-18 ... 210.1 km (130.6 miles) = 25 hours 59 minutes
    Sep-18 ... 261.7 km (162.6 miles) = 25 hours 11 minutes
    Oct-18 ... 230.8 km (143.4 miles) = 30 hours 15 minutes
    Nov-18 ... 216.8 km (134.7 miles) = 30 hours 3 minutes
    Dec-18 ... 285.2 km (177.2 miles) = 37 hours 49 minutes
    Jan-19 ... 241.6 km (150.1 miles) = 27 hours 2 minutes
    Feb-19 ... 175.5 km (109 miles) = 19 hours 8 minutes
    Mar-19 ... 170.3 km (105.8 miles) = 28 hours 21 minutes
    Apr-19 ... 160.3 km (99.6 miles) = 25 hours 4 minutes
    May-19 ... 164.0 km (101.9 miles) = 29 hours 10 minutes
    Jun-19 ... 246.2 km (153 miles) = 25 hours 40 minutes
    Jul-19 ... 217.3 km (135.0 miles) = 33 hours 45 minutes
    Aug-19 ... 162.5 km (100.9 miles) = 28 hours 4 minutes
    Sep-19 ... 136.0 km (84.5 miles) = 23 hours 10 minutes
    Oct-19 ... 196.5 km (122.1 miles) = 31 hours 27 minutes
    Nov-19 ... 155.5 km (96.6 miles) = 25 hours 01 minutes
    Dec-19 ... 203.7 km (126.6 miles) = 26 hours 54 minutes
    Jan-20 ... 304.4 km (189.2 miles) = 32 hours 49 minutes
    Feb-20 ... 248.6 km (154.5 miles) = 34 hours 50 minutes
    Mar-20 ... 148.3 km (92.2 miles) = 30 hours 12 minutes
    Apr-20 ... 171.9 km (106.8 miles) = 19 hours 28 minutes
    May-20 ... 183.7 km (114.1 miles) = 20 hours 49 minutes
    Jun-20 ... 130.9 km (81.3 miles) = 18 hours 50 minutes
    Jul-20 ... 41.8 km (26 miles) = 9 hours 8 minutes

    Saturday, 1 August 2020 … 0.0 km walking + 8.3 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 0 flights of stairs
    Sunday, 2 August 2020 … 5.2 km walking + 0.0 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 0 flights of stairs
    Monday, 3 August 2020 … 3.2 km walking + 0.0 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 4 flights of stairs
    Tuesday, 4 August 2020 … 1.8 km walking + 0.0 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 4 flights of stairs
    Wednesday, 5 August 2020 … 1.8 km walking + 0.0 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 5 flights of stairs
    Thursday, 6 August 2020 … 1.8 km walking + 0.0 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 4 flights of stairs
    Friday, 7 August 2020 … 1.8 km walking + 0.0 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 4 flights of stairs

    Saturday, 8 August 2020 … 4.2 km walking + 0.0 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 0 flights of stairs
    Sunday, 9 August 2020 … 0.0 km walking + 12.0 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 0 flights of stairs
    Monday, 10 August 2020 … 4.6 km walking + 0.0 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 4 flights of stairs
    Tuesday, 11 August 2020 … 1.8 km walking + 0.0 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 4 flights of stairs
    Wednesday, 12 August 2020 … 1.8 km walking + 0.0 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 4 flights of stairs
    Thursday, 13 August 2020 … 2.2 km walking + 0.0 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 4 flights of stairs
    Friday, 14 August 2020 … 0.8 km walking + 0.0 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 0 flights of stairs

    Saturday, 15 August 2020 … 1.0 km walking + 0.0 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 0 flights of stairs
    Sunday, 16 August 2020 … 5.6 km walking + 0.0 km cycling + 0.8 km rowing + 0 flights of stairs
    Monday, 17 August 2020 … 1.8 km walking + 0.0 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 6 flights of stairs
    Tuesday, 18 August 2020 … 5.9 km walking + 0.0 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 4 flights of stairs
    Wednesday, 19 August 2020 … 6.2 km walking + 0.0 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 4 flights of stairs
    Thursday, 20 August 2020 … 2.4 km walking + 0.0 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 4 flights of stairs
    Friday, 21 August 2020 … 5.4 km walking + 0.0 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 4 flights of stairs

    2020 Monthly August
    Walking Distance (km): 59.2
    Walking Time (min): 691.1
    Cycling Distance (km): 20.3
    Cycling Time (min): 84.0
    Flights Stairs Climbed Number: 59.0
    Flights Stairs Climbed Time (min): 47.2
    Rowing Distance (km): 0.8
    Rowing Time (min): 5.3

    Totals
    Total Distance (km): 80.3
    Total Distance (miles): 49.9
    Total Time (min): 827.6
    Total Time (hr): 13:47:38
  • Faetta
    Faetta Posts: 1,059 Member
    Heather That is amazing and wonderful!

    Barbara My thought on latex gloves is if everyone put on latex gloves when they entered the store and never touched their face and then disposed of them when they left, this would stop the spread in that store if also employees wore and changed them frequently. Surfaces would never be touched by dirty hands. It will never happen because of the expense. If everyone used the hand sanitizer that would also make a difference. According to my doc, the virus can live on your hands for a long time, but it is short-lived on latex gloves.

    DF
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  • KJLaMore
    KJLaMore Posts: 2,847 Member
    lol I may have to switch my chat time with you ladies to the evenings! I spend all of my allotted time in the mornings, reading posts and catching up. I took pics of the posts that I want to respond to, so I will touch base with you all again tonight! Just going to leave a reminder of a few I need to chat with (for myself, mainly). Heather, Faye, BArbara, Barbie, Cathy in Arlington, Kim, Debbie, Rita, Pip...ttfn xoxoxo KJ (Kelly)
  • LisaInAR
    LisaInAR Posts: 2,020 Member
    edited August 2020
    Morning, afternoon, evening, all...

    Heather,
    If that last post of yours wasn't a description of why I find your actions a pattern worthy of following, I don't know what is. Your joy in your own fitness and your care for your husband's health and fitness are admirable.

    Machka,
    It sounds like you're recovering well from the surgery - has your sense of smell returned completely? Or is it still intermittent?

    Barbara AHMOD,
    I had to let my husband deal with his dad's death, and shortly after, his youngest brother, who had Down Syndrome. Corey had grieved in his own way after we visited his dad and his brother in Alaska nearly two years prior--he knew that neither was likely to make it to our next visit. Men seem to process things quite differently in terms of grief--no less deeply, just more quietly. While I may not understand it, I tried to respect his process. Not easy, when I wanted to poke at him and see if he was OK.
    _______________________________________

    Dishwasher and clothes washer are whooshing, and I started wondering why this is my happy place. There is peace here for me that, as the saying goes, "passeth understanding."

    And since I don't understand it, of course, I had to poke it, because that's what I do.

    I realized that for the first time in many years (if ever), I am wholly present. Not thinking about work and what needs to be done. Not worrying about what might happen at work. Here. I've got some more thinking to do about that, but won't bore you with it here.

    Finished Levi's afghan last night, will start work on Haley's next, then Tyler's. Three weeks for the first one (I think); we'll see how long the other two take!

    Shopping morning - trying to keep it just to Fridays these days, go early, get in, get out, get back home--which pushes my exercising later, but am learning to adjust to that, as well. I'm getting to be such a hermit that it really annoys me to have to put on real clothes and go out and look at other people, even if it is over a mask!

    Love y'all,
    Lisa in AR
  • margaretturk
    margaretturk Posts: 5,255 Member
    edited August 2020
    Machka9 wrote: »
    exermom wrote: »
    Terri – I soaked my mask in boiling water with fabric softener in the water

    Michele NC

    Couldn't you use borax ... like how we get the smell out of polyester exercise clothes?

    I wouldn't use fabric softener.


    M in Oz

    Using vinegar in the rinse cycle works well too. It takes out the excess soap too as a bonus. Vinegar also kills fungus too.
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,598 Member
    LisaInAR wrote: »
    Machka,
    It sounds like you're recovering well from the surgery - has your sense of smell returned completely? Or is it still intermittent?

    Love y'all,
    Lisa in AR

    Ummm ... my nose is coming along but is still annoying.

    It was stitched up with dissolvable stitches and I presume the ones inside my body are dissolving, but in the process, pieces of thread stick out. I've already removed quite a bit and there is still more. I can see them and I can definitely feel them. It's like having hard pieces of snot painfully lodged in your nose. And the area around them is slightly swollen. Apparently it is a waiting game ... they should eventually go but it could be weeks.

    Plus my sinuses drain like Niagara Falls at random times, but especially about 2 minutes after I step outside in the chilly weather. So I've got a running faucet during those walks, and I get a lot of dark looks when I'm within sight of people and whip out the tissues. I absolutely cannot go anywhere without tissues! After about an hour outside in the chilly conditions, my nose has had enough ... it hurts.

    And I'm having some nerve issues which is a known complication. The tip of my nose is numb. My two front teeth feel really weird. And a spot on the roof of my mouth right directly behind my two front teeth feels like I burned it. Evidently these complications should resolve within a few months. Yes, months. This means I eat cool food all the time and drink cool coffee and tea. If I eat or drink anything hot, it makes that spot behind my teeth feel so much worse!

    And as for the sense of smell, it still comes in occasional waves, overwhelming blasts, but mostly there isn't much change.

    However, I can breathe better. :)

    I will see my surgeon in mid-September to make sure things are on track. But otherwise, I just have to be patient.

    And meanwhile, I rinse my sinuses, moisturise the interior of my nose, and use the steamer in the bedroom to try to make things more tolerable.

    Machka in Oz
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,090 Member
    As Lisa is i have wash down in the laundry room going and dishwasher going...trying to pack for the weekend for both me and Alfie..will try and get to the bank today but if not thats ok too..
    My SIL was on me last night to work next friday... i have to take Homer to groomers and finally renew my license at the DMV .when I was at the cottage last weekend i told her 3 times and she put it in her phone that i couldnt do friday or thr weekend.
    So last night really come on,you cant work,the other caregiver is going to California to visit her daughter..
    She knows i cant but taunts me any way.. Sherri wanted me to come for an hour this morning so she can get a tooth fixed before she leaves...again I cant i have plans....ya know she has to have back up..she said if she has to she will send my brother down...
  • SophieRosieMom
    SophieRosieMom Posts: 3,651 Member
    edited August 2020
    It's Friday!

    Barbara - I always enjoy reading your "Get to Do's" and "Chose Wells". Inspiring and gives me a kick in the rear to get after some tasks around here that I've been putting off. Hope Tumble is over the crud. :# Been there.

    Took Rosie the Bratwurst Schnauzer to the vet yesterday. Good news and bad news and interesting news. Good news - no spending $$ on dental cleaning right now, some plaque but can wait. Per the vet, front teeth falling out in little dogs happens, the canines and molars should be OK for quite a while. Bad news is that when the groomer brushed her teeth a week ago, she must have used more than a doggie toothbrush because there are now scrape marks. :s More ragged surfaces for plaque to take hold. I know the groomer was just trying to help and save me some $$ by avoiding vet dental cleaning. So will move on from it, lesson learned, and endeavor to keep up with Rosie's teeth better here.

    Interesting news is that when we discussed Rosie's weight gain and went over what she was eating, I mentioned I had recently discovered the dog dental chews I'd been giving her twice a week (recommended daily, but they are spendy and I'm cheap) have nearly 50 calories per chew. Vet's eyes opened wide and said she'd been told they have no calories and went into the lobby and grabbed a bag from the shelf which gives NO information other than the special ingredient which keeps the dog's teeth clean. I told her my plan was to cut back on dog food on the days Rosie got her chew.

    She said she was going to check on the calories and when I came home, I called the manufacturer and sure enough, the info on the Chewy website was correct. The vets there have been stocking and recommending them for several years. :o I would imagine there was a lot of conversation about it among the other vets and staff in the vet clinic yesterday afternoon.

    Heather
    - your testing is also giving me a kick in the pants. When I went to do my SWSY workout a couple days ago, I looked at my calendar and realized I hadn't lifted a weight in 2 months. :( And I realize how much my DH is declining when I think about what he was able to do a year ago.

    Had a long phone conversation with a good friend yesterday. Her DH is 64, planned to keep working until 66 to get full social security. He works in maintenance in a facility where there's been a virus breakout in the past week, so if plumbing breaks, he's been the go-to guy. He is now considering immediate retirement if he can't be assigned to jobs in other parts of the facility where he wouldn't be around infected folks. Which is kind of putting a crimp in their plans to have the car and truck paid off by the time he retires. It's bringing back memories of when I sped up my retirement plans and budget decisions that had to be made in our own household 4 years ago.

    Lisa - so happy you decided to retire and I'm impressed at how quickly you were able to move forward.

    Ladies, I confess. I haven't been logging and my eating has been horrible. Honesty pants getting painful. Likely worry over the dog's teeth and DH's concern about the firewood not being delivered. Both of those situations are now resolved. I now understand how/why my folks were overwhelmed by little things in their later years and need to hone my ability to flip situations.

    Speaking of dogs, time to get their breakfast ready and let them out for their morning constitutional. Porch light on, flashlight in hand. Already.

    Sending hugs and prayers for all of you whose families are affected by the smoke and fires. <3

    Lanette B)
    SW WA State

  • Faetta
    Faetta Posts: 1,059 Member
    edited August 2020


    Della best known as Faye
    alive to see another day
    preparing her bunker
    for another hunker
    Of the sturgeon, she is jealous
    For they don't have to be zealous

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