WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR OCTOBER 2020
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Hello everyone.
I took yesterday off from work to get weekend shopping done prior to the weekend crowds. My car started acting funny, various warning lights going on and off, etc. I did not make my first destination. I ended turning the car around to research what may be in need of repair. If I am correct I need a new alternator. Car repair costs are so expensive here I figure it's a $1k repair. It is probably less but I do need two new tires, an oil change, a power steering hose replacement (which will require a full drain of the power steering fluid with fluid replacement), and an air conditioner fan. I can replace the air conditioner/heat fan myself, but the rest of the items I cannot do. Engines are so darn tight now! One almost has to drop an engine for any type of repair. Oh, where are the 1980 models where the alternator required the removal of 3 bolts with an easy slip off and on?? The hardest thing back then was adjusting it so the belt would catch!!
After I returned home I let the car sit awhile and drove over to the local grocery store. It was still making the weird noise but no warning lights. I figure I have a week or two before I need to get it in the shop. Here is to hoping we get our full bonuses this quarter.
I am actually on the fence with getting Betsy the Beast repaired - she is a 2003 and is good for around the town, but I am not comfortable driving her more than 20 miles away from home. It has dampened my lifestyle.
Love all the memes and grand baby pictures! Keep them coming.
Hugs to all and prayers for those in need.
SuziQ - SFL
SuziQ. Shoot! I hope your repairs are not too expensive. Both our cars had the wires chewed recently and cost us some money. So far only one car is repaired. But we bought the sonic/light deterrants and attached them under the hoods; keeping fingers crossed. Dang critters! The squirrels and other small critters have a bumper crop of acorns and spillover bird seed from our feeders, yet they still munch on our Coleus, outdoor furniture, kayaks, and wires in attics and under car hoods. Aaaargh!!
Karen in Virginia
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"Get to do"s and "chose well"sChose well: dogs to powerline, recycling, Dollar Tree, BiMart, Grocery Outlet, Freddie’s, Pilot login fixed.
Bonus: moved plant stuff and one tote out of guest room, emptied greenhouse.
Get to do: strip guest bed and pack up bedding for donation, drag pictures, totes and boxes out of guest room into office for sorting, purging, veg prep, submit grant pics and receipts, take pics of car, test Bluetooth speaker so can do BB&B or T’ai Chi from voice recordings, make experimental almond paste, declutter sideboard, practice new dances (Nothing but You, Shake it like that, Larger than Life, Here I Go Again/Mama Mia, Real Deal, Get it Right); prep potato area and raised beds for beets, carrots, parsley root, parsnips, radishes and sow; weed drive again, finish weeding flower bed, mulch flowerbed; invest another 10 minutes in prepping living trust, Freddie’s for complete series TDAP <$48, get Shingrix vaccine, find and configure a screen time popup. figure out where to plant naked lady bulbs, Frisday: call Progressive adjustor, shop for part D. Reward: inventory seeds, plan fall cool season garden, order replenishments
Self Care October
23: 3 things that have gone well recently: cider pressing, we painted the deck, lead on bed donation.
24: recognize I can choose priorities:
Lower body too tired and achy to dance at the port yesterday afternoon. Pooped out on Bible study too.
Fae Good on you for thinking deeply before making the lifetime commitment. There IS expense and effort involved and they never live long enough. On the bright side: https://thebark.com/content/portuguese-water-dogs-play-ball
Barbie “… play back the recording “ made me laugh. Once Joe gets an idee fixee, not even hearing himself on tape would dislodge it
Katla both our male Skyes were sensitive to tomato products, and boy is that hard to clean up.
Beth I startled Joe by laughing out loud at the 2020 pinata!
Katla there are some beautiful ceramic trivets on Etsy.
Pip “made up for not working out yesterday” you are one determined gal! To be honest, after spending a day with Mama I’d be wiped out and need a nap.
Karen Olivia and Phoenix. What a miracle Olivia is!
SuziQ good luck on the car decision.
Lisa oh those Levi eyes! Hope your daughter and her hubs have a big baseball bat.
Hips and knees still v. achy. Struggle to get out of chair. Heading for the hot tub.
Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMODOctober: better than September.
daily: sit with Joe: 23, weigh: 22, steps>5491=8290 vits=23 log=23 CI<CO=22 CI<250<CO=18 Tumble & Shadow 5=24 mfp=23 outside=21 up hill=21
wkly: T’ai Chi or BB&B x3= rx=3 dance=1 clean 30 mins=3
mnthly: board mtg=1 grant=1 20for20=
bonus: AF=16 play= sew=03 -
@dlfk202000
I used to be the only one sending xmas and bd gifts, greetings, (complicated to send across the sea), but I finally stopped. I also have some grown (young adult) nieces and nephews that I sent gifts too and who never even acknowledged that. so I stopped after a while. I contributed 1000 dollars for one's first year in college and didn't even get an acknowledgement.4 -
@Tracey and @Barbara I agree it's sad but it's better to get space if not happy-making.
@Barbie, I've gotten that scam from time to time: cryptic mail saying don't try to call, my phone's not working, we are in trouble can you send some money. the 1st time was from a rather close friend who does travel, but who has no money issues and is very organised and would certainly contact many family members (one of her 3 siblings or one of her DH's 9 siblings, or their grown kids, etc etc.) before contacting me.2 -
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thanks for all the kind thoughts!2
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"Get to do"s and "chose well"sChose well: dogs to powerline, recycling, Dollar Tree, BiMart, Grocery Outlet, Freddie’s, Pilot login fixed.
Bonus: moved plant stuff and one tote out of guest room, emptied greenhouse.
Get to do: strip guest bed and pack up bedding for donation, drag pictures, totes and boxes out of guest room into office for sorting, purging, veg prep, submit grant pics and receipts, take pics of car, test Bluetooth speaker so can do BB&B or T’ai Chi from voice recordings, make experimental almond paste, declutter sideboard, practice new dances (Nothing but You, Shake it like that, Larger than Life, Here I Go Again/Mama Mia, Real Deal, Get it Right); prep potato area and raised beds for beets, carrots, parsley root, parsnips, radishes and sow; weed drive again, finish weeding flower bed, mulch flowerbed; invest another 10 minutes in prepping living trust, Freddie’s for complete series TDAP <$48, get Shingrix vaccine, find and configure a screen time popup. figure out where to plant naked lady bulbs, Frisday: call Progressive adjustor, shop for part D. Reward: inventory seeds, plan fall cool season garden, order replenishments
Self Care October
23: 3 things that have gone well recently: cider pressing, we painted the deck, lead on bed donation.
24: recognize I can choose priorities:
Lower body too tired and achy to dance at the port yesterday afternoon. Pooped out on Bible study too.
Fae Good on you for thinking deeply before making the lifetime commitment. There IS expense and effort involved and they never live long enough. On the bright side: https://thebark.com/content/portuguese-water-dogs-play-ball
Barbie “… play back the recording “ made me laugh. Once Joe gets an idee fixee, not even hearing himself on tape would dislodge it
Katla both our male Skyes were sensitive to tomato products, and boy is that hard to clean up.
Beth I startled Joe by laughing out loud at the 2020 pinata!
Katla there are some beautiful ceramic trivets on Etsy.
Pip “made up for not working out yesterday” you are one determined gal! To be honest, after spending a day with Mama I’d be wiped out and need a nap.
Karen Olivia and Phoenix. What a miracle Olivia is!
SuziQ good luck on the car decision.
Lisa oh those Levi eyes! Hope your daughter and her hubs have a big baseball bat.
Hips and knees still v. achy. Struggle to get out of chair. Heading for the hot tub.
Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMODOctober: better than September.
daily: sit with Joe: 23, weigh: 22, steps>5491=8290 vits=23 log=23 CI<CO=22 CI<250<CO=18 Tumble & Shadow 5=24 mfp=23 outside=21 up hill=21
wkly: T’ai Chi or BB&B x3= rx=3 dance=1 clean 30 mins=3
mnthly: board mtg=1 grant=1 20for20=
bonus: AF=16 play= sew=0
Yeah, I feel ya, moms tend to do that to u1 -
Barbara Yes, I am one to go all out with unconditional love whether pet or partner. I have learned in my old age, from the school of hard butt kicks and painful titty twisters, to think things out in every way. Think with my mind and feel with my heart. They can work together in harmony but such has not always been the case in my past. I see one can buy realistic-looking fake dogs. I haven't found a Portuguese yet, but if I do it will be a battle not to hit the order button.
Unexpected obituaryI received news just minutes ago that a cousin died at age 68 from prostate cancer. He had been out of contact with any in the family for over 30 years. No record of him could be found online. He vanished. The obituary explains it all. He had undergone a gender transformation but didn't have his prostate removed. He hadn't legally changed his name but started using his partner's name so no one in the family could find him. He adopted a daughter that must be in her 40's now. At age 3 he lived with my family for a year after his mother died of breast cancer. That was the last I saw him. I did hear from him in my early 30's when he called up one day all high and was talking crazy. I never heard from him since. He didn't like my advice that he should seek help for his addiction. His dad died when he was in his 20's and he inherited millions so he never had to work. Unfortunate that they didn't have genetic cancer testing back when he did his change because males in my family even 2nd cousins have a 95% chance of getting prostate cancer before age 70. Females have an 87% chance of getting cervical cancer. This is why I want my cervix removed, but with all the covid thing, the specialist that would do it also needs to remove most of the vaginal tract. I didn't want it removed at 21 the time of my uterus removal, because of hormone therapy necessary, and that raising my chances of breast cancer. So far no sign of cancer detected in that region other than a virus that has disappeared after some unpleasant scrapping in my nether region's inner sanctum.
Fae with a few dripping tears on a very wet rainy day5 -
Snowflake- I think that Machka might know how to help with your locked-out computer. I refuse to set multiple passwords. There is no way I’d be able to set rotating passwords without going insane. That said, it is my computer, in my home and nobody uses it but me.
Lanette- We had an invasion of hornets or wasps a few years ago. They crept through a crack under our garage roof where it meets the outside wall. We used RAID Wasp and Hornet spray in the evening while they were sleeping and thoroughly soaked their nest. After they went to hornet heaven, we removed the nest from our garage overhead storage area and sent the thing to the land fill. DH used caulking to close the crack under the garage roof for good. I love bees, but wasps and yellow-jackets are not on my good list. :noway:
Fae- Use measured scoops to dole out your food portions. If you need to inclreas one thing or another, use a scoop twice, Or use your lagest scoop plus a smaller one. I bought measured scoops at a restaurant supply store in Portland several years ago. They are great tools for portion control and much easier than weighing every bite on a food scale. :flowerforyou: I’m sorry for the loss of your family member.
Allie- Thanks for the tip on the Vermont Country Store. I’ll take a look on-line.
Fae- If I remember well, the Obamas had a Portuguese Water Dog while they were in the White House. I haven’t known anyone personally who is/was an owner of that breed. Good luck! So sorry for your loss.
Barbara: Thanks for the tip on trivets. I’ll take a look on Etsy. DH shops there regularly. :flowerforyou:
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
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Lisa - Loving Levi. He seems a happy chappy.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx1 -
Katla I have several scoops both fixed and collapsible in 4 sizes. I never weigh anything anymore and use the scoops and/or spoons. I eat my three breakfasts out of the container. For instance, breakfast #1 is (1 cup) 16 tablespoons 4% cottage cheese, and 16 tablespoons unsweetened organic applesauce. #2 is 8 tablespoons Nancy's whole milk yogurt and 2 tablespoons of almond butter. #3 is 2 Kodiak power flapjacks (fixed in the toaster), topped with Tillamook butter and local organic wildflower honey. #3 is the only one using a plate and fork. Living alone I can partake in such barbaric behavior.
Fae working on flapjacks she types
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Evening ladies
Had a lovely dinner with friends..i whipped up an apple crisp..there are just 5 of us that get together .. we each bring something and enjoy each others company..
Went this morning and picked up the jug for the 3rd time.. will either do the catch tomorrow or Monday..
All tucked in with Alfie for the night..
Lisa-Levi is getting so big and the afgan you made just adorable..1 -
Did the Body by Bethany DVD. The plan for tomorrow is to ride the recumbent bike.
Karen VA and Lisa – OOOOOHHHHH….heart be still
SuziQ – I’m sorry about your auto problems. I remember when Jess lived in Reston she used to have her car serviced here in Newton because it was less expensive. It was actually worth it for her to drive here
Fae – the last time I wore a bikini was before Jess was born (she’s 36 now) and that’s because we were invited to a party that had an “island” theme so I wore one with a grass skirt. I still have that bikini, but you wouldn’t catch me in it for a million dollars
Worked then came home and helped Vince put out more of the “fence” for the Halloween decorations. Went to WalMart to see about a certain paint but what they had doesn’t specifically say that it is for use on plastic (we use it on PVC pipe) so do hope it works. Then made a citrus cornmeal cake for Steve who is coming here next week. Also made some sugar cookies and chocolate chip ones.
Now going to take a shower and then maybe work a little bit more on the jigsaw puzzle. This is going to take me a long time to do
Tomorrow early I’m planning to go to Aldi’s.
Michele NC
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Age 63-65 170-180 lbs Age 68 135 lbs Age 70 142 lbs
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Karen - Olivia and Phoenix are adorable!
Heather - glad its only a cold and not more serious.
Suzi - I would switch my car in a heartbeat if I had the means to do so. They are such a necessary evil.
Lisa - Levi is a sweetheart.
Katla - I called my IT department and they unlocked it for me. I hadn’t noticed the caps lock was on and attempted to log in too many times.
Michele - I am working on a jigsaw puzzle too. I was told to get away from screens a bit each day and that was my solution.
I picked up me eldest daughter today and took her with me to my youngest daughter’s who was colouring my hair for me.
When I go to her house the Grandkids came out to give me hugs and kisses. The temperature was -10 Celsius. Michaela was wearing a T-shirt of her Father’s and her new winter boots. Jonah was wearing a t-shirt, shorts and his winter boots. They didn’t visit long but we had this little conversation:
Michaela - I wish we could go with you.
Me - you’ll be out to visit tomorrow at our house, Mom needs a little break so that’s why I’m taking her.
Jonah - yeah today Mom gets a break and tomorrow Dad gets a break, it’s a break exchange! Just don’t exchange brakes with Dad’s car.
They then go inside, Lauryn gets in the car and explains that Ryan’s brakes are gone and that is why Jonah was warning me.
Tracey in Edmonton5 -
I got more than a sneak peek of pictures today.
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Sorry, I can’t resist.
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Love the photos of the grands!1
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I had a joyous afternoon riding my exercise bike and knitting while watching figure skating on TV. I danced in the morning and walked the dogs in between.
Barbie in chilly NW WA5 -
Stats for the day-
Walk w/family- 2hrs 50 min 50sec, 260 elev, 3.10ap, 84ahr, 106mhr, 8.90mi= 805c
Strava app= 1078c
Other- change bed sheets, bathe yogi, wash down patio- 56.51min, 77ahr, 88mhr= 265c
Walk to dinner, Best Buy n bk w/family- 1 hr 53min 20sec, 89ahr, 139mhr, 5.58mi= 509c
Strava app = 677c
Total cal 1642
We walked a total of 14.48mi with yogi today. I usually don’t look at or count steps but watch says 364407 -
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Hi Gals,
Creepy crawlies – I did not remember until I saw the box, I think my dad had one and made them to tease us girls…
National bird count – yes we do in the US I think it is around Valentines day… mid -February and over a 4 day period at Christmas time.
Kim from N. California
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Long day and I am grateful to see all of you. Early today NUTHIN’ did any good. Eventually I managed to get two plants into winter shelter. Yay! One is a tiny geranium and the other is my chocolate mint plant. The herbs on my deck are winter hardy. No worries about them. Halloween is coming right up. 👻🎃💀🎃☠️
Katla in Halloween town2 -
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Loving the photos of the children and the snazzy seventy year old.
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Our clocks have gone back. I managed to stay dozing until 6.30. Very pleased.
The main problem today will be hungry an hour early. I have very rigid meal times. !!!!!!!
Couldn't get on to Community last night at all. Probably maintenance.
Made a broccoli, pea, broad bean and feta fritatta last night and I saved some for lunch sandwich today. Getting excited already.
Unusually for us we had quite a meaty week, so I wanted vegetarian. In a row we've had goat, chicken and then pork. Normally we eat more fish.
DH's younger daughter gave him a lovely bottle of cassis for his birthday, so we opened a bottle of Prosecco. Reminded me of holidays.
It absolutely poured and blew a gale last night.
Typing on her phone, Heather UK xxxxxx4 -
Kate UK ❤️0
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"Get to do"s and "chose well"sChose well: dogs to powerline, typed hymns, called Chief about NFIRS reports.
Bonus: stripped guest bed, dragged pictures, totes and boxes out of guest room into office for sorting, purging, email to credit union and Thrivent, watched Absolute Dogs FB live (CALM), and yesterday listened to their first podcast while driving to/from town.
Get to do: pack up bedding for donation, filing, veg prep, livestream church, submit grant pics and receipts, firehouse best practices survey, take pics of car, test Bluetooth speaker so can do BB&B or T’ai Chi from voice recordings, make experimental almond paste, declutter sideboard, practice new dances (Nothing but You, Shake it like that, Larger than Life, Here I Go Again/Mama Mia, Real Deal, Get it Right); prep potato area and raised beds for beets, carrots, parsley root, parsnips, radishes and sow; weed drive again, finish weeding flower bed, mulch flowerbed; invest another 10 minutes in prepping living trust, Freddie’s for complete series TDAP <$48, get Shingrix vaccine, find and configure a screen time popup. figure out where to plant naked lady bulbs, Monday: call Progressive adjustor, shop for part D. Reward: inventory seeds, plan fall cool season garden, order replenishments
Self Care October
24: recognize I can choose priorities: Don’t let the mess overwhelm. Chose three things to blast a path to free up space for Shadow’s raised training bed.
25: Plan a fun or exiting activity to look forward to: Stroll with T after church.
After several of Barbie’s “loving conversations” I’ve agreed to let the box springs and mattress go, keeping Mama’s bed frame for some future project to make into a bench. Joe kicked in half what the mattress set cost to ease the sting. Friends volunteer with several community organizations and while the organizations cannot accept mattresses, they know people who need ‘em, and will pick up Monday or Tuesday. This morning Joe wanted to move the mattresses into the dining room to make it easier for pickup, but to even get to them I needed to drag all the stuff out. So that is what I did this morning while Joe shifted the dining room table and chairs over to make room for the bed set along the wall. He moved the mattresses out to the dining room, and within AN HOUR, moved them back into the guest room. ??? Seems they were easier to move than he anticipated, and he wanted the dining room back the way it was. :laugh:
Now my office/exercise/meditation/music/sewing/craft/dog training room is chock a block with boxes, totes, lamps, bedding all hurled pell mell in with no system and little space in which to move. Must not let myself become paralyzed, instead focus on clearing enough space for one training bed in time for tomorrow’s training games.
Fae ((hugs))
Tracey your grands’ conversations. Kids do “… say the darnedest things.” Resistance is futile, keep the pics coming :laugh:
Time to snooze and awaken refreshed, with energy to blast a path…
Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMODOctober: better than September.
daily: sit with Joe: 24, weigh: 23, steps>5491=4412 vits=24 log=24 CI<CO=23 CI<250<CO=18 Tumble & Shadow 5=26 mfp=24 outside=22 up hill=22
wkly: T’ai Chi or BB&B x3= rx=3 dance=1 clean 30 mins=5
mnthly: board mtg=1 grant=1 20for20=
bonus: AF=16 play= sew=03 -
My workout is done, load #1 of laundry (stretch nylon bras, underwear, and socks) gently in the dryer, load #2 (towels, jeans & tops) harshly in the washer, load #3 (white cotton face and kitchen rags) waiting for their cleansing. I always do them last because I bleach them heavy and it leaves the washer smelling clean.
Fae in PNW airing her dirty laundry2 -
Good morning all! Happy Sunday! I had a wonderful afternoon yesterday with my sister. It was a bit overcast, but the sun was peeking through every once in a while, and when it did rain, it was just light sprinkles for only a few minutes at a time. So...perfect for a walk, lunch on the beach (in a restaurant that sits on the beach), and a bit of souvenir shopping for her and her best friend. Came back to my house and decided to go for another walk to collect some leaves for her to take home to her granddaughter. Brought back memories of when she moved down there (Florida), many years ago, and I collected leaves to send to her and her (then) very small children. Oh well, time flies and all that. The restaurant on the beach...it was my first time there, as it is a bit pricey. I had been busy all morning trying to get things done before my sis and friend arrived, so I hadn't eaten at all that day. By the time we got to the restaurant it was about 1:30/1:45. I ordered a wood-fired pizza. It was an 8" pizza, thin crust, with goat cheese, and mushrooms and truffle oil. I also had a bloody mary. I felt pretty good with those choices. THEN...I was up later than normal last night with my son, chatting and watching Sherlock (omgilovethisshow); and he bought me a sub from his favorite shop. I shouldn't have eaten that, because I wasn't really hungry. BUT, I did. It was yummy, but the day/time with family was wonderful!
Karen VA, Lisa, Rebecca, and Tracey- Your grandchildren! Getting so big!
Barbara- I HATE getting new mattresses. lol First of all the moving of them is a P.I.T.A.! (If you get a new mattress, the guys that deliver the new one, will usually take the old one). But even the testing out of a new mattress....Ugh! I long for the days when I was young and could sleep on anything!
Fae- Do you journal? You should think about it, if you don't. If you don't write a novel about your life, you should at least chronicle it for your self or friends/family. You have had so many interesting life experiences! I love that pic of you from 20 years ago. Stunning then and stunning now!
Was able to viber with my daughter and the boys, last night. While we were talking, Miguel, who was in the background laying on the floor drinking a bottle, stood up (unaided), dropped his bottle and walked the 10-12 steps to me (the phone)! All smiles! He then grabbed the phone and I could see his little finger touching the phone (my face), he picked the phone up to give it a kiss (camera area enters mouth), waved and pushed the "red button" (call end)! lol Bye Grandmere! lol
Well, today, rain or shine, I am getting outside and washing the outside of the house. I need to get the hose put away, but the house needs to be cleaned before I do. IF it doesn't rain, I will also mow the lawn one last time. Pretty sure this will be it before the snow flies! (Thank GOD!) Having a second cup of coffee and off I go! Hope you ladies have a wonderful day! love and hugs to all! ttfn xoxoxo KJ (Kelly)5
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