Your Thoughts of Big Girls in Bikinis ?

donyellemoniquex3
donyellemoniquex3 Posts: 2,384 Member
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You're at the beach / amusement park and you notice a fairly large girl in a bikini. Would you be totally grossed out, or commend her on the amount of courage and self-respect she has ?
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  • mister_universe
    mister_universe Posts: 6,664 Member
    Paging Sir-Mix-A-Lot, Sir-Mix-A-Lot to the nearest courtesy phone, please.
  • KANGOOJUMPS
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,474 Member
    um, no...
  • PapaverSomniferum
    PapaverSomniferum Posts: 2,670 Member
    I'd be turned on.
  • emmawoolf84
    emmawoolf84 Posts: 243 Member
    Paging Sir-Mix-A-Lot, Sir-Mix-A-Lot to the nearest courtesy phone, please.

    paging misteruniverse. secret admirer here!
    you have the best one liners.
  • MzManiak
    MzManiak Posts: 1,361 Member
    honesty.jpg

    People are offended by mothers breastfeeding in public... they'll be offended by anything!

    I've gotten rude comments in a bikini before... because I was with my kids and that is SO not appropriate, apparently. Whatevs. Judgmental people judge and that's just how it is.
  • TheGymGypsy
    TheGymGypsy Posts: 1,023 Member
    Honestly I don't really pay enough attention to care either way. If you are concerned with what people decide to wear out in public one way or the other then you're doing it wrong. I'm not going to admire a fat person for wearing a bikini, and I'm not going to be disgusted by them either.
  • RainHoward
    RainHoward Posts: 1,599 Member
    haters gonna hate
    *kitten* the haters
    what do I think about a fat chick in a bikini? Not a damn thing. I don't worry about what other people have on or don't have on.
  • TKRV
    TKRV Posts: 165 Member
    I don't care what your age or weight is. If you feel confident and comfortable in a bikini, there is no reason why you shouldn't wear one proudly.
  • JewelsinBigD
    JewelsinBigD Posts: 661 Member
    Both- there are some that are big but still have a nice shape to them and have a bikini that fits- I commend them for their bravery. Then there are those that are wearing a bikini that is way too small and I think - YUCKO!! Get yourself a suit that fits you or lose weight! I think it is all in the presentation- if you look big but classy- YEAH! :)
  • JustAnotherGirlSuzanne
    JustAnotherGirlSuzanne Posts: 932 Member
    I wouldn't say anything. Because I don't really care what people wear to the beach so long as they wear something that covers up their privates.
  • jenjencin78
    jenjencin78 Posts: 4,415 Member
    I just...I don't know. *sigh*. Part of me commends them for their bravery but as someone that was formerly pretty heavy I just can't imagine rocking a bikini when I was that large. I STILL won't wear one and I know I could get away with it.
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    Depends, is the "big girl" in this scenario, you, OP?
  • IronMikeFox
    IronMikeFox Posts: 458
    Seeing a woman in a bikini turns me on. Period. End of story!
  • mud7urtle
    mud7urtle Posts: 500
    Only judgement I would pass is "good for her for being secure enough to wear that"

    Just don't go posting everywhere that "curvy" is better (i.e. fat). That is just delusional.
  • DainaLC
    DainaLC Posts: 18,937 Member
    Seeing a woman in a bikini turns me on. Period. End of story!
    That's the answer every woman is looking for!
  • mister_universe
    mister_universe Posts: 6,664 Member
    Paging Sir-Mix-A-Lot, Sir-Mix-A-Lot to the nearest courtesy phone, please.

    paging misteruniverse. secret admirer here!
    you have the best one liners.

    We had something going with each other til you said it out loud. Now it's just awkward. :\
  • tworthen79
    tworthen79 Posts: 1,173 Member
    I would personally think that they had a hell of lot more confidence than me. I would never wear a bikini. I say if the person is happy in the skin their in, rock that bikini.
  • Velum_cado
    Velum_cado Posts: 1,608 Member
    I probably wouldn't say anything, but I'd think she's awesome
  • Trueray
    Trueray Posts: 1,189 Member
    Probably wouldn't even notice the person. Ahahaha!
  • InForBacon
    InForBacon Posts: 1,508 Member
    Why do you care?
  • BlueBombers
    BlueBombers Posts: 4,064 Member
    To each their own, not my business what people decide to wear.
  • IronMikeFox
    IronMikeFox Posts: 458
    Seeing a woman in a bikini turns me on. Period. End of story!
    That's the answer every woman is looking for!

    HA HA HA ... What can I say? I LOVE the female body in all it's shapes and forms. Just show me some skin and I am happy!!!!!!!!!! I wish I could get my wife to buy into my line of thinking. She dresses like a nurse in a snow storm at the pool and at the beach.
  • SoViLicious
    SoViLicious Posts: 2,633 Member
    Depends, is the "big girl" in this scenario, you, OP?

    Hi Taunto
  • EmilyOfTheSun
    EmilyOfTheSun Posts: 1,548 Member
    I wouldn't really care either way. If I'm happy in what I'm wearing, then I'm happy. Other people's wardrobe choices don't have an affect on me.
  • skullshank
    skullshank Posts: 4,323 Member
    if they have the confidence to rock it, by all means go for it! good on ya!

    who am i to judge? considering that if the shoe were on my foot (or bikini on my body), i wouldnt have the confidence to wear it.
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    Don't care.
  • VeganLexi
    VeganLexi Posts: 960 Member
    I guess it depends on how "big" we are talking...

    I'll probably get abuse for this but I shall answer honestly...

    If there's a massive woman with everything hanging over/hanging out I'd probably think to myself "just look at the state of that".

    Each to their own though, the woman in question probably gives the same amount of a **** about what I think of her as I do to what she thinks of me.
  • harvo
    harvo Posts: 4,676 Member
    :smile: Post a pic and I will give my honest opinion....:smile:
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    Wouldnt care. Would look, evaluate if i WB/WNB, then move on.
  • Cre8veLifeR
    Cre8veLifeR Posts: 1,062 Member
    I don't care either. To each his/her own. Some guys like BBW.

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