At Goal & Successfully Maintaining. So Why Am I Doing This All Over Again?
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pridesabtch wrote: »Thank you for this thread, I love reading it. You are honest and kind spirited with many helpful tips.
If I'm scrubbing floors by hand I may count housecleaning, but it is very, very rare. House keeping is not my strong suit.
Cooking I just laugh as I imagine them doing squats or jumping jacks while chopping veggies.
I actually do sometimes do squats, lateral leg lifts, calf raises, or something like that while cooking. Why not? I still don't count it as exercise . . . . 😉
“Coffee squats” to pass the time while it’s brewing 😄4 -
Confession time. I really enjoy doing a one legged sideways yoga pose when loading the dishwasher. I feel like a dog stretching must feel.7
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It’s all about meeeeeee today!
Yesterday husband was busy, so I grocery shopped alone at Lidl, a European chain which has opened several stores here in metro Atlanta. They had just gotten their lovely European holiday treats in, and I went hog wild, breaking my own rule #1 : Don’t grocery shop on an empty stomach and #2: Stick to the grocery list.
I came home with gingerbread Lebkuchen, iced stars, chocolate dipped speculoos (yeah, spelling) cookies, peppermint bark, marzipan minis. All my favorites from the Christmas markets and I had a major pig out. Some of it was pretty awesome (marzipan, gingerbread), some of it I was so disgusted with myself (peppermint bark) for wasting the calories, I threw it out.
BL watched the carnage silently. He never said anything, never criticized.
This morning he quietly observed,”You know, you don’t do that when we grocery shop together. We keep each other in check.”
And it hit me, doggone it, he’s RIGHT.
When we shop together, we are so busy setting a good example for each other and silently supporting each other, questioning “is there something lower cal we could choose instead?”or “Do you really want that?”, that would never have happened if he’d been there.
So the new agreement is to be patient and wait til we’re both available to shop.
Support works outside the home, too!
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Speculoos (or speculaas) is one of those things I take for granted, having easy access here. Luckily I do NOT have a sweet tooth 😁1
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pridesabtch wrote: »Thank you for this thread, I love reading it. You are honest and kind spirited with many helpful tips.
If I'm scrubbing floors by hand I may count housecleaning, but it is very, very rare. House keeping is not my strong suit.
Cooking I just laugh as I imagine them doing squats or jumping jacks while chopping veggies.
I actually do sometimes do squats, lateral leg lifts, calf raises, or something like that while cooking. Why not? I still don't count it as exercise . . . . 😉
“Coffee squats” to pass the time while it’s brewing 😄
I'm "guilty" of tooth-brushing squats and/or lunges.5 -
springlering62 wrote: »It’s all about meeeeeee today!
I came home with gingerbread Lebkuchen, iced stars, chocolate dipped speculoos (yeah, spelling) cookies, peppermint bark, marzipan minis.
My husband makes lebkuchen and pfeffernuesse every Christmas. mmmm.... I have a feeling that during the couple of Christmas weeks, I'm just going to have to move to maintenance calories. There's no way I'm missing out on those babies.
Anyway, it's probably best to bring the hubby to the store with you during the holidays. Extra support is definitely needed in the yummy season.
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Lebkuchen. I will cross state lines for lebkuchen, so either I can't have it in the house, or I give it to my husband to dole out to me, or I just admit Christmas is here and I won't be sticking strictly to my daily routine. (I can ignore a lot of other things, but Contessa lebkuchen is not one of them.)3
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You had to bring up marzipan, didn't you? Mmmmmmarzipan.4
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You had to bring up marzipan, didn't you? Mmmmmmarzipan.
Ann, Lidl has individually wrapped sticks at 140 calories each. Just realized I forgot to log it in the pigfest the other night but I can vouch it is excellent quality.
Daughter arrives from Germany Wednesday night and is bringing me a log of Niederegger. That is the pinnacle, utmost, heaven of marzipan.
ETA to add happy squees:
And YAAAAYYYYYYY! First time we’ve seen her since her wedding there in 2019.9 -
We went to the local Mexican restaurant. The good one.
Waitress came to drop a bowl of chips and salsa off and husband put up his hand. ✋🏻
“No thanks,” said he.
I nearly fell out of the booth in astonishment.
“I don’t have the calories for it and really, all we need is the meal anyway.”
Talk about mixed emotions. Cue vast secret disappointment and enormous pride.
I usually get bell pepper strips for the salsa but he said no to those, too. “Just wait”, sez he.
And he was right. Dinner was big and filling and fit in our calories.
Like the anal MFP idiots, no, Warriors we are, we spent our time calculating how many chips in a bowl, and how many calories we’d saved.14 -
springlering62 wrote: »
Do you have a fitness tracker? Are you utilizing it to the best of your ability? What can it do that you have you haven’t taken advantage of?
Yes. And no.
I currently have the Fitbit Charge 3, two upgrades from my original Flex. I like having the heart rate function in addition to step counting. I do aim to hit my 10K daily steps and there have been a few times I've been at 9900 ish and pacing the house just before bedtime to hit that goal. So it's somewhat motivating. On the other hand, recreational outdoor walking is about to end for the season and I won't get 10K again for a while and it doesn't bother me.
There are various things you can log on Fitbit like food and water intake that I don't bother with. There's a "female health" logging/tracking area that doesn't apply since I don't have periods.
I gave my old Flex to the SO and he liked it for a while but it kept falling off at work so he abandoned it.1 -
“Somebody commented about my food diary! Can people see what I’m eating?” BL was in a bit of a panic.
“Your diary is open to friends. They can see what you’ve eaten and what exercise you’ve recorded to your diary.”
I didn’t tell him that I set his privacy settings this way, so that his bestest friend (me!) could monitor his diary. 😇
“Someone posted ‘Yum!’ to my feed when I closed my diary. Why would they do that?!”
“Maybe they liked your manly steak and potato for dinner. Maybe they liked that you enjoyed a slice of cherry pie? It’s not threatening. It’s just….yum.”
You can choose your privacy level for your food diary from locked to everyone, to viewable only by friends, to public (anyone can see it).
https://www.myfitnesspal.com/account/diary_settings
Why would you want your diary to be visible?
Members often ask for help, or complain that they’ve “plateaued”. If their diary is open to see, other users can do a quick review to see how and where they can tighten up on logging, if macros are out of kilter and changing them might perhaps cure the nibblies , or if there are substitutions that might help cut calories.
Sometimes folks simply like to look at diaries of successful losers for ideas, or new foods or products to try.
My diary is open, for better or for worse. Having mine open makes it simple for BL to copy or save meals straight from my account to his. This afternoon I made a loaf of bread. He simply copied the meal/recipe off of my diary, and then logged it, adding his portion of the loaf.
Do you ever look at peoples diaries, and why?1 -
Sometimes I like to peek at a diary, it is really interesting to see what counts as a regular meal for someone on the opposite side of Australia (or the world). I've checked out diaries and then googled products, occasionally I have made a purchase based off someone's diary.2
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Aside from people posting in the forums asking for advice, I look at my friends' diaries occasionally. Not so much for inspiration, but to get a general idea of their calorie intake, exercise burns,...
My own diary is public, just in case anyone is interested, but at least half of it is in French or Dutch so probably not that interesting to most 😁2 -
Our daughter is currently en route home for the first time in five years. We haven’t seen her since her wedding in Europe a few weeks before lockdown began. Yay!!!!! Train closures, signage outage at her home airport, multiple gate changes. I just want her butt in that seat for that transatlantic leg.
She’s already given us a list of American foods she intends to have while she’s home: Chick-fil-A, Waffle House, local sushi, bubble tea, mom’s Mac and cheese.
We’re probably going to surprise her with an early Thanksgiving dinner.
Stay tuned to me and BL’s food diaries and restaurant adventures as we try to keep the calories in check!
BTW, BL was down over three pounds at weigh in yesterday. This man of mine is focused!!! I’m so proud!14 -
I never look at others' diaries, nor is mine open to anyone.
I've never been interested in weight loss so my diary isn't much use to someone who is. I log primarily for a) sodium and b) protein so unless you're a sodium-restricted Canadian pescetarian who leans heavily vegetarian, my diary isn't very helpful. And vice versa.
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I've looked at someone's diary once because they asked for feedback. Otherwisw, nah. Mine stays closed because I log weirdly and nor most of what I eat, and I really am not interested in what other people are eating.
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Yeah, speaking of logging weirdly... I'm a lazy logger and I just add something in whatever meal it was last logged in whenever possible. So the other day it looked like I didn't eat any lunch because all my lunch foods were in my recent snacks, and that's where they got added.
On trips I just log my morning protein for the sake of "logging in" to maintain my streak so there have been days at a time where it looks like I only ate 130 calories of protein, when in reality I was scarfing down 4000+ calories of restaurant food.
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Yeah this is exactly the sort of thing I mean. I log wherever I last put the food/can find it closest. There's a lot of stuff I don't log at all - always my morning coffee, but when traveling or out for an event, that's it. I don't tend to log a lot of condiments, spices, or fruit veg anymore (personally). I'm pretty dialed in for the main part of my diet and let a LOT slide.
This works for me but it is basically shorthand. if someone tried to use my diary as an actual eating guide they would DIE and I'd feel bad. If they'd took it literally they'd think I was going to die.
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BL did awesome today. Well within calorie goals.
Me, I’ve polished of a 500gr pack of chocolate covered glazed Holiday gingerbread and 200 more of little chocolate flowers covered in nonpareils (sugar beads).
Thank God I told daughter to bring only one of each with her.
My stomach hurts and this has been the longest day in memory. She’s asked us not to go to our gyms or the yoga studio, and to wear masks out everywhere while she’s here because she’s terrified she’ll get Covid and won’t be able to get back home (lives in Europe). I didn’t realize how much of my day is filled with classes and workouts. I’ve looked at Pinterest til my eyes have crossed while she recovers from jet lag. I am literally climbing the walls.
BL is fine He closed his ring setting out folding chairs (masked and distanced per her request) for the Veterans Day observation. It ‘s pouring rain and me and the dog are looking at each other like “what’ll we do do the next hour?” because this is usually evening walkies time for the two of us.
Weight loss. The double edged sword. Energy to burn and when you can’t, what do ya do? Boredom eat gingerbread and chug hot drinks.
the irony.
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