WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR DECEMBER 2021
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Soo, this morning’s training has not gone well. We’d only gotten halfway down the drive when we met Joe coming up, back from shopping. Of course the dogs streaked toward the van and would not come back to me. Neither would Joe let the dogs into the van, fearing Shadow would break his purchases. Coaxed Tumble back up the drive and into the house. Grabbed a lead, got Shadow leashed up and safely home, giving Joe the all clear. Now I’m winded, frustrated and not in a good head space for puppy games. Gonna fluff up some qinoa and try again after breakfast.
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
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Enjoying a quiet weekend.
DH went to LA Comic-con on Thursday morning and won't be back in town until about 2AM on Monday(and will quickly grab a shower and go straight to work and work a full 8 hr shift, instead of a 4 hr or 5 hr. His hours change, depending on the day of the week)
My son and his girlfriend set the tree up Thursday night, dh did the outside Tues/Wed. I need to work on the inside.
When son wakes up, I will teach him how to make French toast. His girlfriend loves it so want him to learn to make it for her. He enjoys cooking(and cooks a whole lot more than dh, that isn't saying much as he doesn't cook anything at all)
I will get the rest of the decorations done and hopefully get my printer to cooperate so I can print something to ModgePodge for former hubby for a little Christmas gift to go with all the goodies I make him next weekend with mom.
May get started on the cards- will wait and see.
Next weekend will be candy making with mom for three days- SO looking forward to that.
Here are a few pictures of my "helper"- wanted to get these animated stuffed animals put up(batteries in them then put on the back of the couch) but had to wait. The second is same cat- Tonashi- napping in front of the tree. I put these cute boxes in front of the tree to TRY and keep the cats from going under the tree-helps, sort of.
So, here is a strange thing that happened.
Thursday night as I was taking the recycling out, the little neighbor boy called to me and said there was a dead cat in the road. I went out, picked the poor thing up-it was one of the feral cats that had started coming over for food. It was late so I laid it in the corner to take care of it the next morning. The next morning, totally dreading having to bury it but knew I had to, went out and it is GONE-
We live in town so not an area , like mom's that a bobcat, coyote or something would take it. Just gone.
DH asked if I was sure it was dead- well, I didn't think to check for a heart beat but looked dead to me.
I looked all over the yard and never saw any sign of it- no clue what happened but glad I didn't have to bury it.
Ok- time to finish my tea and get some things done- take advantage of two more full days of doing just what I want. Really enjoying it.
Debbie
Napa Valley,CA7 -
The vet thinks an ulcer might be the cause so her treatment is tailored to this. Only way to tell for sure is a very invasive test. A problem I am having already is two of her meds are taken with food and she is not eating again. She ate some of the rice and boiled hamberger and/or chicken. Today no go. Those who have dogs have you ever had this condition with your fur baby and how did you help them regain their health. Margaret3
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Margaret I never had to deal with a canine ulcer. Good luck. Teddy did go through a stage of not eating when we first moved here. I started taking the food away after fifteen minutes, and he got used to the idea that he better eat promptly. But he wasn't ill, just being picky/anxious.
I still need to do my Christmas shopping today. I get anxious over gifts as well as a hundred other worrisome things. Do you all have any gift ideas?
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Annie,
I try to go consumable when I can. Food, drinks, bath/beauty if I know what they like but perhaps won’t buy for themselves. My BFF usually gets goat soap that she loves (and can afford but won’t buy for herself) from me.
Okie in the TX Hill Country3 -
Not giving gifts this year, apart from the grandchildren. Only one person was put out. Most were just relieved.
Heather UK xxxxxx0 -
Afternoon ladies
Got a text from Tracy that Carmine was exposed to someone at school so she is out of school for the next 2 weeks ,she is also not vaccinated..
With Tracy a month out from delivery this is a predicament.. with the new Omni verant out there ,there isnt alot of vaccines out there ,i was with Carmine Thursday so im hoping all is well ,im vaxed up but will be staying away until Carmine is vaccinated..
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Anniesquats100 wrote: »Margaret I never had to deal with a canine ulcer. Good luck. Teddy did go through a stage of not eating when we first moved here. I started taking the food away after fifteen minutes, and he got used to the idea that he better eat promptly. But he wasn't ill, just being picky/anxious.
I still need to do my Christmas shopping today. I get anxious over gifts as well as a hundred other worrisome things. Do you all have any gift ideas?
Annie in Delaware
I usually get gift cards for the few people I give gifts to. Amazon is great. A few clicks on December 23rd, and I'm done.
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I bought books for my Dad and my mom. She gets Kristen Hannah. He gets an adventure about Teddy Roosevelt on the Amazon. And my sister gets luggage from her wish list, that is from me and my parents. So that leaves my Aunt and Uncle and my cousin. I'm not even really sure we are exchanging gifts with them. Or whether we will do a meal together and buy them a ham or something. I guess I need to go over there again and ask what they want to do. I feel so awkward about that and I don't know why.
Annie in Delaware2 -
We are home and happy. We had a great time with our son, ddil, and grandsons in Virginia. We were happy to cuddle the new baby and play with his big brother.
I have had some challenges logging in here and am grateful for my friends here who have helped me to join the thread.
We have year around hummingbirds here and they’ve been peeking in our windows to see that we’re at home. A good friend in our neighborhood kept their feeders full while we were away.
I am happy to be here with all of you.
Katla, at home in Oregon4 -
Took me over an hour but I got all the batteries in the toys- Ezie will have a lot of fun when she comes in Monday.
I know, the one quilt really doesn't go with it BUT, that was made by my great grandmother. The top anyways. Mom had them for about 50 yrs before she had a friend finish them off for us. Grandma Bee loved to make crazy quilts and I love having it on my couch.
Debbie
Napa Valley,Ca4 -
Yogi’s 1st pic with Santa. Took us7-3/4 years but better late than never
Went to the local rescue and bought some raffle tickets, donated a big bag of dog food, and yogi took a pic w/the man
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Ooh met a Navy momma that sews aprons! So she's sewing me one with Norwegian-ish flowery fabric, anchor, and writing fabric, all things that are important to me. It will so unique!
Fun huh!
Rebecca
Whidbey
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Plus the music related saying!💖1
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Whidislander wrote: »Ooh met a Navy momma that sews aprons! So she's sewing me one with Norwegian-ish flowery fabric, anchor, and writing fabric, all things that are important to me. It will so unique!
Fun huh!
Rebecca
Whidbey
WA
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Hi Gals,
Oh Ladies ! thank you so much for the suggestions – I love the kintsugi and gardening ideas --- the embroidery has some potential too… how ever after listening to how to say kintsugi and being afraid that I’ll say it wrong I think I’ll use gardening (with a hidden kintsugi theme) – Thanks one and all, now with the idea time to write an outline.
Gifts We are all different on this issue, but if I could afford and it was acceptable I would give gifts to everyone I know. There is nothing that gives me joy more than picking a person off my list, and spending some time thinking about them and what they might like. Usually I can think of something!!!
This year I have some challenges and stealing from a few articles I read on Medium here is how I am handling them. One of the things is my goal is the “perfect” gift, one that is personal to them, that I truly believe they will like and will go WOW! That is a high goal, but with some thought and listening all year I can often hit this note.
One friend is hard for me as they have every dietary issue imaginable, live by choice a very minimal lifestyle and they things they would like are way way more than I can afford. I started by evaluating my goal, and accepting that my goal was too high for this situation. I have never done a wow gift for her, and once was told (years later) that she had thrown out a gift I thought was perfect . The article said start narrowing down the options by asking yourself questions 1. Are there any physical limitations if so be sure your gift either assists with the limit or is such that the limits will not matter. 2. Do they have a hobby (or more than one) that you could find a related gift 3. Would they appreciate an experience more than a thing? This really has helped me - Accepting with this friend I will never hit WOW - I am going to do a Trader Joe’s gift card and a couple of books her birthday is at the same time and I am doing to do a box of truffles, I know she loves them and hubby doesn’t really approve…
The same group I am going to make a presentation to is doing stockings a single inexpensive gift for each of 14 people who will be gathering for Christmas. The age range is 4-93, and it doesn’t have to be the same gift for each. Some folks are married and are sharing a stocking with their spouse…. Again doing the questioning thing, I figured there would be lots of little junkie toys for the kids ages 4,7,9 so it dawned on me that I could order pillow cases for their beds and embroider their names on them. I have ordered those. And for all the others (all adults) I am making spiced nuts and chocolate drizzled nuts and will put one little bag of each in each stocking.
Thinking of everyone.
Smiles Kim in N. California
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Rebecca, I thought you might enjoy seeing the aprons my mom made for my sister’s daughter and two grandchildren out of the scraps from making them stockings and pillow covers and a piece of material she found in her stash of purple and gold dancers.
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Well i bought myself an Apple watch ,but being the bonehead I am because I have an android phone duh wont work. So will return it..
Havent really felt great all day ,lots of phlegm sorry TMI but if not better in the morning going to the walk in,i know i dont have covid,but Im worried about pneumonia.. no fever or headaches or anything but coughing and tightness in chest.. not heart attack material.. I promise ill trot on off in the morning, i even have a bag packed in case they make me go you know where...
Will let Tom know in the morning and he can come get Alfie or I can drop him off.. Alfies emergency bag is already over there..
Its sad that i have to have things like that in place but what can you do?4 -
Had a fun party tonight with lots of food, music and games. We got a little lost coming home but Siri got us on the right track.
Thanks for all the book suggestions.
Michele- I am sure they appreciate your working extra hours. Several of our restaurants had to reduce hours because pg lack of staff.
Tired tonight as we had a bad storm last night and it kept us awake.
SueBDew in TX3 -
Anniesquats100 wrote: »I bought books for my Dad and my mom. She gets Kristen Hannah. He gets an adventure about Teddy Roosevelt on the Amazon. And my sister gets luggage from her wish list, that is from me and my parents. So that leaves my Aunt and Uncle and my cousin. I'm not even really sure we are exchanging gifts with them. Or whether we will do a meal together and buy them a ham or something. I guess I need to go over there again and ask what they want to do. I feel so awkward about that and I don't know why.
Annie in Delaware
I used to feel awkward doing that sort of thing ... partly because my mother used to be the one to do it.
But then I realised that I'm in my mid-50s, and my mother was in her mid-50s when I was depending on her to be part of organising family gatherings etc. so it was time for me to step up.
Go in with an idea in your mind of what you'd LIKE to do. Then if they are hesitant and not sure, you can say, "What if we do this ...". You may have to compromise a bit, but you've got a chance of getting what you'd like.
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drkatiebug wrote: »Rebecca, I thought you might enjoy seeing the aprons my mom made for my sister’s daughter and two grandchildren out of the scraps from making them stockings and pillow covers and a piece of material she found in her stash of purple and gold dancers.
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I just finished knitting another blanket for Project Linus. Our chapter has donated over 2000 blankets so far this year and there will be another delivery next week. I'll drop off my blanket tomorrow along with a few knitted hats.
Knitting is what I do instead of decorating and buying gifts.
Barbie2 -
Good evening.
Oh, Allie, I hope you feel better soon so you don't have to go in to be checked out.
Katla, so happy that you are safely back in Oregon. It sounded like you had a wonderful time with your family.
Those aprons are adorable, Katie. I love aprons, and have quite a few, but none as cute as those are.
Feeling a little down tonight, not horribly, just melancholic.The severity of my situation has finally hit my husband. I think he was just in survival mode during the chemo and surgery, and he was ready to relax a little and move on. Then we started talking about the medicines I am going to be taking, likely for the rest of my life, and he got very frustrated. He complained, not at me but at the situation, "This is never going to end!" And that is correct. I feel bad for him because this is certainly not what he signed on for, but the alternative really isn't acceptable to either one of us. I have a 15 year old for God's sake. I need to at least make an effort to be here for the next few years!
And this next bit is going to make me sound like a spoiled brat, but I just began to realize how much all of this is costing. I know that sounds entitled, because I haven't seen a bill for months. Literally. I go to pick up my medicines, go to my appointments, no co-pays, not a dime. Apparently my husband's company pays for incredible insurance. (I know it costs them a fortune,) and my deductible must be ridiculously low. I've been stashing money away since I was diagnosed, waiting for the big bill to hit, but I think it isn't. I mean, some of those early scans, I paid a pretty penny out of pocket, but then it was over.
Survivor guilt is a real thing, and I was feeling it last night and most of today. So many people, over the centuries would have just had to suffer and die, perhaps not even knowing for sure why they were sick, and I get scan after scan, medicine after medicine, without a thought for what it is costing. I made the mistake last night of looking up the cost of the nuelasta shot I got after most of the chemo treatments, and I was just aghast.
Sadly, the whole reason this came up is because for the very first time during this experience, my oncologist talked about the cost of something -- the Ibrance. $10,000 a month. No kidding. My insurance will probably pay for it, but she didn't want me to worry about the co-pays, which, she said, can be hefty, because apparently there is some help from somewhere to help cover the costs to the patient.
Anyway, I just feel bad. That's all. One of the first questions my nurse navigator asked me at the beginning of all this was if I was worried about how I was going to pay for everything, and I just said, "No. Not at all." And that ended up being true.
I feel bad because even if he wanted to, my husband really can't quit his job because the insurance benefit is too good.
I'm not looking for any, "you're not a bad person because you haven't had to pay much financially for this disease," but I just felt like I needed to get it out. I need to figure out how to deal with this guilt, and the feeling that I am not deserving. Which is actually true! I am no more deserving of treatment than people who lived in the past or people who do not have financial assistance available to them. Yet, for the luck of living in this time and having the insurance I have, I get benefits that others don't.
Flea
Willamette Valley, OR5 -
Worked, then stopped at Food Lion for soda for Vince since it’s on sale today. The FL by me no longer gives out rainchecks so I went to another FL who usually has the soda and they did. Then we put out more of the Christmas decorations. Got in over 10,000 steps. How I miss my exercise!
The plan for tomorrow is to do Bob Harper’s Ultimate Cardio Body DVD
Am making a tunnel of fudge cake for Vince’s birthday. I’ll take it to ceramics Monday since we won’t be there Tuesday (I have to lector, I totally forgot feast of Annunciation)
Ordered the wrong cat litter from Chewy so I wrote them asking if I could exchange it. Instead, they are crediting my credit card for the litter with the understanding that I donate it to the Humane Society. They’ve always been very good. One time we got some cat treats and the container opened up. They sent us a new container. This time they’re crediting my account even tho I told them that I know it’s my own fault. I think that is very nice of them.
Rebecca – love those M&M characters. Where did you get them?
Barbara – no, I don’t plan to quit BK. Usually I only work M-F. The gal who does the prep on the weekends is gone to Vietnam to see her father for the month. I’m going to be working the Saturdays until she gets back. I seem to recall that she’ll return around the 27th. I talked to the manager to ask her 1) if we’re open New Year’s Day. We are, but they are opening later. And 2) does she want me to come in on Jan. 1? It’s interesting, she said “I’d rather have you”. Guess I can take that as a compliment. I told her that I know what I’m going thru trying to catch up having been away for a week, I can hardly imagine what she’s having to do when she gets back. Also, this will make me look better (hopefully) when I ask to take a month off in February/March
Lost my pen at work today. Oh well...not like that’s a biggie, I can always get another one. I did chop up extra lettuce and wrapped extra cheese for the manager who will be doing the prep tomorrow. She asked me to chop the onions. I didn’t think you could do that, but I did it for her. I was going to peel more onions, but didn’t bother
Julie – why won’t you get the moderna if a 4th booster is called for?
Really need to get started on my cards. Wonder why I’m procrastinating? That’s not like me. I usually have them done by Thanksgiving. Update: did them.
Carol – handsome grandson
Debbie – glad the cat must be alive
DrKatie – loved the things your mom made
Michele NC
who is glad she isn’t working tomorrow and can exercise
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Its that time of year! If you wish to donate your used calendars, I make envelopes out of them! This year was a flower calendar so I have cards for the summertime! I have 28 pen pales I write to, so its nice to recycle, and my envelopes aren't boring white ones. On most envelopes I cut a rectangle from an index card to write the address and have it be clear for the most office 👍
Just send me a message, and I'll give you my address.😊. Thanks!
Rebecca
Whidbey
WA
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