WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MARCH 2022
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Happy birthday to Machka and Debbie!
Barbie that's a good idea. I'm still getting used to being responsible for her.
Annie in Delaware1 -
I had a lovely chat with my daughter and granddaughter. They are planning to paint granddaughter’s room. Many possibilities put a smile on my face. It is a combined mom and daughter project. I hope DH will feel good enough to fly to Illinois and spend time with the kids and our daughter. I spent several weeks there and I a couple of years ago. I hope we can both do it later this year. 😊1
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Friend highly recommended this for my scar. When my tapes fall off then I’ll start using the oil.5 -
Hi there all. I am new here so I hope I am doing this right. Anyway, my name is Suss, I'm 57 and disabled after a long term CO leak. I have struggled with eating habits and eating disorders my whole life. I am advised by doctor to not vaccinate since I have had anaphylaxis to medications many times. And so I still have to isolate and my gosh have I grown. I have not dared to weigh myself for a while.
I tried Noom but it didn't work for me. The articles were good but you could not see what was in your food in the end of the day. My diabetes doctor say I cannot loose weight since I take so much insulin. But I have decided I absolutely have to get in better shape. And I believe that if you just work hard enough on it, you can overcome the impossible.
I look forward to get to know you all. It was a bit of a challenge to find the way in this discussion jungle so I really hope to find my way back again.
I have to comment about what your diabetes doctor said.
In November 2015 my brother had to take over the meals for our Mom. She was diabetic, 4 insulin shots a day, plus a long term one and her sugars were still incredibly high. She was showing signs of dementia and would forget she had eaten. He had been taking her to buy her groceries and was controlling at least what was in the house. One Saturday morning, after putting Mom’s groceries away the night before at 9pm, he received a call from Mom telling him there was something wrong with her stomach and she had to go to the hospital. He went to her house (they lived beside one another) and found that she had eaten half a block of cheese, a full package of hotdogs, a half loaf of bread and 2 litres of milk.
He decided to take the food out of her house and he and my sister-in-law delivered meals and snacks for her. As soon as this decision was made he went to visit the dietitian and he took notes. If they suggested something he knew Mom wouldn’t eat he would ask for an alternative. He followed the recommendations 95% of the time. Friday nights they went out for supper and Mom had no restrictions. 3 or 4 nights a week he would let her have a small bag of chips and a can of pop. When Mom was admitted to the nursing home in December 2016 she had lost 60lbs and was down to one metformin pill a day. No exercise, my Mom basically sat and watched TV when she was awake. My brother did make her go to his house for supper a lot to make her get some steps in. Mom is now bigger than she ever was, and her diabetes is hard to control again.
Anyway, after the novel, the point is I think you can do it in spite of your doctor.
Tracey in Edmonton8 -
3028 steps today4
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Friend highly recommended this for my scar. When my tapes fall off then I’ll start using the oil.
YES!!! DH used that after each of his hip replacement surgeries(all four of them)- Mom used it after her shoulder surgery- really helped.
Machka- Happy birthday.
Have to go back to the dentist tomorrow(hopefully, beings they are closed on Thursdays)- crown that they just put on popped off already.
Had won ton soup for dinner and Cold & Flu tea. Hope it calms this cough.
Going to bed early.
Debbie2 -
Ginny - Yes that is what I mean. We have three of them and we are finding over and over that the way the previous payroll system was paying was not setup correctly and there are years and years of errors that were mostly to the employees benefits. As we’ve been trying to get the new system working properly we are reading the agreements closer and it has ended up in some lower payments for the staff. This keeps opening up grievances, so as soon as we have what we interpret the agreement to read is not how the unions interpret it so we have to change something else.
Heather - I’m happy you were able to find him.
Annie - Has the doctor offered any advice as to where to get some help in understanding dementia and what needs to happen for your Mom’s safety? It’s a very difficult thing to have to go through. Hugs to you. We took our Moms meds away very early on because she could have overdosed herself easily. I don’t know if I would trust her crossing off. She may question the crosses and take again anyway.
We were told when Moms doctor asked for a list that just because he prescribes it doesn’t mean that is all she is taking or if the prescription was filled. Also, sometimes patients don’t stop something when they are supposed to. That happened to my Dad. When he started getting very sick he and Mom hadn’t understood when the doctor told him to stop his blood pressure meds. We found out when he collapsed from low blood pressure.
Debbie - a terrible way to spend a birthday. Hope it was nice in spite of it.
Machka - Happy Birthday
Tracey in Edmonton
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Debbie, lists of prescriptions are great, but it might help your mom & your mom's doctor if you would take the actual bottles of medicines she is currently taking to her doctor visit next time. You'd be amazed how often there are old medicines, duplicate bottles, problem OTC meds, or even someone else's meds. Sometimes a medicine is missing and hasn't been refilled. It's the most foolproof way to be sure your mom is on the right medicines.
Karen in Virginia6 -
Stats for the day-
Partial slow walk w/family- 19min, 2.01ap, 119ahr, 129mhr, .66mi= 90c
Strava app = 79c
Other- 55min, put away laundry clothes, wash and put duvet cover on, fold/put away quilt, help reposition bed, 108ahr, 122mhr= 260c
Total cal 350
Don’t b mad, this is taking it VERY easy for me that is
I hope you weren't lifting laundry baskets and other things!!!1 -
Anniesquats100 wrote: »Both of us nap afterwards! I got a lecture about keeping better track of my mom's medicine. I need to learn the names. The Dr asked what she was taking and I didn't really know. I thought he would know because he prescribed it! I can design a better sheet for her to cross off her doses, with the meds for am and pm listed.
Then we can take the sheet with us.
I have a list of medications for my husband on my computer system and his so that if we go to the doctor, I can access it from my phone. I've also printed the list for my husband so he knows what he needs to take.
In addition I try to figure out the pronunciation of each medication, and look them each up so that I know what they are for and what side effects I might want to watch out for. A couple have changed and I haven't done that with them, but I will soon.
I got him a Webster pack, similar to the one below, so that his medication is divided into the times and days where it needs to be. That way I can cast a glance at the pack to see if he has taken his medication or not.
Every 3 months, we see his main doctor and a couple days before, I send her an email with new issues and things we need to deal with in that appointment, then his medications, then his ongoing issues. I often bring a printed copy of that email with me to GP and other specialist appointments.
His scripts are at a chemist close to where I work and either when I suspect that it's time to get more or when he lets me know, I go in and order more. Before trips, long weekends, etc., I check ... although I didn't check just recently, and we had to make a special trip for them.
Machka in Oz
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MACHKA & DEBBIE
Thank you all!!!
My husband and I went out for dinner yesterday to a pasta and pizza place. I had tortellini with pesto sauce.
He wanted to get me something for this birthday (we don't usually exchange gifts for anything) so I told him about a shop I really like - Kaisercraft: https://www.kaisercraft.com.au/ - and he came home with all sorts of art stuff for me.
Today (my Australian birthday), my workmates got me a cake, and then we went out for lunch. The lunch was for a girl who is leaving to go on mat leave. She's due in about 3 weeks. But I figured it was a happy coincidence.
Tomorrow is my Canadian birthday and this coming weekend is a long weekend - Labour Day.
Machka in Oz2 -
cajmanthei wrote: »I am trying to get back to healthy eating and lose some weight. I am 61, so well over the 50 mark. Blessings to all!
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dlfk202000 wrote: »Debbie ~ I am wondering if the garden project has gotten to be too much for your mom! I know you love it, but, it seems like she may have lost heart for it since your Father passed. If so, I hope that she doesn't have to depend on it just for the money it brings in. Please don't take offense. Just a thought on my part.
Allie ~ Fingers crossed that your daughter will be able to find something to do at home. What kind of work does she do for the Vet? I did stay home for 3 mos. after my son was born but without pay. When I came back to my job, the pay was the same but I had been replaced in my position to one I did not like.
Pip ~ Continued wishes for your complete healing.
Got my garbage bill today and it had gone up another $10. $100 in all for 3 mos. And, we forget to put the can out a lot of the time. Everything has gone up and a lot was due to the increase in gas prices.
Carol in GA
Still trying to catch up- Spent two hours in the dentist chair plus I have a cold or allergies- kept having coughing attacks while he was trying to do the filling and fit the crown.
Great way to start my birthday. If I didn't have my daycare girl today, I would be curled up in bed with a hot cup of tea-just took some cold meds.
Thanks for the birthday wishes.
Debbie
Napa Valley,CA
My dental office wouldn't have allowed you in the door!! You would have needed to produce a very recent negative COVID test result.
Sorry that you had to start your birthday that way.
I hope you had a good day besides that.
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Caregiver Organisations
Do those of you who care for loved ones have caregiver organisations in your area? Have you signed on with them - been registered as a carer? What sort of help and benefits can you get?
We've got a national organisation with state branches and I've signed on with them. But I am finding them more difficult to navigate than I think they should be - Carer Gateway: https://www.carergateway.gov.au/
However, they've got some articles of interest and they've got a forum. Those can be interesting for advice, especially if you're just starting out in a caring role.
Machka in Oz1 -
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Accountability:Chose well: Joe, wii, readings, BP, dogs to powerline, steps >7400.
Bonus: fasting labs, ANSAR, ABI & neuropathy tests. Just one thing: bupkes
Workin’ on it: 142.2, H20x3, active 3:02
Mindful March
8: Eat mindfully. Enjoy the taste, texture and smell of your food.
9: Take a full breath in and out before you reply to others.
Welcome @susseca2 Suss and @cajmanthei !
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Skimmin’ but just had to respond to Beth. I’d be more than miffed at that doctor refusing to treat your dad because of his being unable to transfer himself from wheelchair to table.
Vicki what you said! Amen, sister, amen.
And pip, we’re not mad, just concerned that you are jumping back into too much activity too soon. Love ya’
Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
2022: Be still and listen.
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Morning ladies
Snow today i dont know if Tracy will want to haul Miles out in the snow we shall see..
Tracy is having a phone conversation with the school counselor about Carmine.
The school counselor also thinks Carmine needs more help than she can give.. so I hope they can get the help they need for them ..I want to see a happy grandchild again,i have a happy little one ,i want to see a happy older one.6 -
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Well, my friends, breaking news- we have had to cancel the cruise.
Saga rang us at lunchtime to say that they have had to cancel the Italian leg of the trip, because the Italian government are not allowing cruise ships into port. Covid fears. Saga were putting on four more Spanish ports, but that was not alluring enough to us. The Pompeii, Sicily and Sardinia bit was the attraction.
So we cancelled. Our money has been refunded.
My brain is in a complete whirl as I was already on the ship in my head, making preparations etc. But we have the Iceland trip in June and the refund means we can book something for next year. I had almost spent all my savings!
Plus we can go to Fatto a Mano next Monday for Bea's birthday!
Oh well, big sigh. It hasn't quite sunk in yet.
Only this morning, early, we saw that the sister ship had turned around in the Azores on the way to a long trip around the Caribbean. It is back in Southampton. They had covid on board, mild, but the Caribbean wouldn't let them in.
I had just downloaded a ship tracker to my phone. Ours is half way down Norway at the moment. Not 'ours' now.
Love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxxx7 -
Aw Heather! That's disappointing.
Annie in Delaware0 -
Stats for the day-
Partial slow walk w/family- 19min, 2.01ap, 119ahr, 129mhr, .66mi= 90c
Strava app = 79c
Other- 55min, put away laundry clothes, wash and put duvet cover on, fold/put away quilt, help reposition bed, 108ahr, 122mhr= 260c
Total cal 350
Don’t b mad, this is taking it VERY easy for me that is
I hope you weren't lifting laundry baskets and other things!!!
No heavy lifting. I’m not stupid. I do laundry every Sunday. This was laundry that was already upstairs, he had not put it away4 -
UK Ladies, a request. In the March 6 Sunday Mail, there was an article/interview headlined "Extinct? I'm bark from the dead" with a picture of a Skye Terrier. If any of you have or can get it, please pm me.
Thousand thanks from Tumble and
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
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The situation with my son is getting worse. I’m having trouble dealing with this emotionally. Thank you all for a place to vent.
RvRita13 -
Not wearing my Velcro waist girdle today, c how I feel. Down another pound this morning, I didn’t update my profile, just left it alone. Kirby and yogi went out for their 8 mi walk without me :0(.
Mom called me this morning. I have not told her about what’s going on with me, she’s at a rehab place after fracturing her hip, so she needs to concentrate on herself. Told everyone not to tell her.
Down to my max goal weight, not the best way to get there but I’m there. I have two of them. One is goal, and I could live with that, every thing else under that is just bonus.
Sister and hubby came by to see me and brought dinner. That was nice.10 -
(((Rita))) - So sorry for your worries. ❤️0
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I did my 8 min elliptical, 6 mins marching, and 58 mins yoga. Yay! It's hard to feel proud after I skipped dumbbells last night. I ate a big late dinner and was too full to exercise. Totally my fault. But I'm back on track today, so Yay!
Rainy day today. I got up early to do my mom's pills. So a nap is in order.
Pip glad you are taking it easy.
Rita hugs for you.
Annie in Delaware1 -
DH is having a tough time. He needs to talk with his Doctor. He’s hoping to have a telephone visit today.3
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