Women 200lb+, Let's Astonish Ourselves This April!!!
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48 yo 5’3” 6/2013 SW 277 ((in 2021 lost 57 lbs from May 1- Dec 31))
April goal - lose 1.5 lbs - make it to 159.9 (and be utterly astonished!)
Enjoy Easter maintenance calories the rest of the month!!
12/1 176.2
1/1 172.2
2/1 172.2
3/1 165.8 cycle
4/1 161.4
4/7 160.8
4/15 158.6
4/22 161.4 cycle
🐇Walk at least 3-5 miles OR or low-impact for 1 hour (+ more if possible), every single day!
🐇Be patient! Remember that increments are where it is at, and focus on habits.
🐇Be consistent in logging, exercise, and weighing all food.
🐇Remember: Total loss of over 115 lbs!!
So for giggles I looked up maintenance at my goal weight, (IF I didn't exercise and was sedentary during the day - now I usually burn 500 calories a day in exercise). For my height/age: at 130 pounds, my daily caloric goal is 1550. What is interesting about this number and my usual exercise calories, is when I looked back on my active life, I figured I probably ate around 2000 calories a day. Which is exactly what TDEE+activity would eat to be at maintenance when I was in my teens/twenties.
Once I got sedentary, and then got ill, and bedridden.. I ate 2000 calories a day. If I am sedentary, and do not exercise and eat 2000 calories a day: my maintenance weight is 220 pounds. Which I absolutely was for a very long time. Lols. I was eating at maintenance. How did I end up 270? Prednisone was a huge factor, makes you hungry as all get out and retains water, and I was miserable, and an insomniac, and I was stressed. I started eating over 2000 cals a day. Then ending up in the situation where I was 277 for years. So this teaches me, that I am always eating at maintenance... it is just a question of what weight my cico is maintaining me at!
Math is so much fun!!
Continue your weight journey ladies, you have always been on it!!
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@CupcakeCrusoe I have a funny story about shoes in the house!! Okay, so I totally ignored (and continue to) Flylady on the shoes thing. I have hot foot, and it is Houston, TX. I wear flip flops everywhere except church. Well, me and my great-nieces from the Phillipines - we all got hot foot. So one day, I was barefoot around the house and BAM broke my toe on the coffee table! Oh, it was brutal. First question my mother-in-law asks me, "How did you break your little toe on a coffee table? You would think shoes would stop that from happening." Well, maybe they would - if I wore them in the house!! She is not a Flylady follower - because that woman is sorted and so is her home. So I learned. I got rid of the coffee table and have not broken another toe since!!4
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@rockitwell86 So if that is 4 servings, how many calories are in a serving?1
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@roz0810 Some quotes I found helpful to keep me focused on weight loss, maybe they can encourage you too:
@ferousavocado quote: “You will never always be motivated, so you must learn to always be disciplined. There is no one big step that does it. It is a lot of little steps. The hardest part about weight loss is not diet or exercise - it's PATIENCE. It takes a long time. I constantly remind myself that we are in this for the long haul. We are in this for life! If I have a bad day, I log it and move on - the most important thing is getting right back to it the next day. It's about sticking with it. Dedication and persistence will pay off over time.”
@danp quote: "Lessons I've learned in previous failed attempts that have helped me to succeed this time.
- It's about weight management, not weight loss. Weight loss has an end date, weight management is for life. Weight management is about being in control of your weight. Making conscious decisions about when you'll eat in a deficit to lose weight, eat at maintenance, or even eat in a surplus to splurge and enjoy life.
- It's all about consistency. It's better to eat 'pretty well' forever than 'perfectly' for a month or two.
- Weight management is simple (but not necessarily easy) so don't overthink it. When it comes down to it weight management isn't complicated. Find what works, do what works and keep it simple.
- The old saying you can't out run your fork. While there's a small degree of overlap, generally speaking weight management happens in the kitchen and fitness happens in the gym."
@cheesy567 quote “Goals must be focused on the habits. You can control your habits, you can control what you *do.* You cannot control the outcome. You can chose to follow your meal plan and exercise plan to a T. You cannot control what the scale says. You cannot control your weight. Weight is a byproduct of the balance of your lifestyle, the balance of all your eating and fitness habits. Focus on your habits, one by one.
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All that has been said about weight and ADHD is true. If I take my meds I can stay on my plan. Not because they suppress my appetite, but because with them I can ignore the little flirting thoughts of "There's ice cream in the freezer" "Have a little something..." "Yes, dinner's in an hour but you're getting hungry...." and that makes all the difference. I can still feel hunger on it and if I do get genuinely hungry in the evening before bed I'll have a little something, but I don't do it automatically any more.
And when I'm medicated I move more cause I can think straight and get things done.5 -
@justanotherloser007 - 259 for the amount of filling I used. About half can of diced jalapeños, 2oz cream cheese, half cup shredded cheddar.
It's crazy how ADHD does different things to each of us even though the symptoms are the same. I had to stop meds because they were actually making things worse for me. My home was SO BAD and my diet was absolute crap. Work life has never been my issue, thankfully I can set my day up based off how my brain is working that day. The meds caused such a depression crash and lack of sleep I wasn't eating properly, wasn't cleaning, half the time I was drinking WAY too much just to feel something. I definitely have bad days, but much better without meds than with them. I hope you ladies who also are in this boat have found treatment that works best for you.1 -
Hey ladies!
Just playing catch up with all you, support, motivation, tips…… all amazing!
Had a good loss last week but up 2lbs already. Have come down with a cold (it’s not ‘COLDvid’ as my eldest calls it!! 🤭 Tests are negative) but it has knocked about a little bit. Dreading this weeks weigh-in. Not going to complain though as this is my first illness since chemo ended last year
Thinking I’ve water retention/bloating from the soups (salts) and toast and honestly - comfort snacks that the bunny left 🐣😉
Wishing you all a good weigh-in for this week.5 -
Good morning everyone!
Managed to sleep in AND get up before everyone, great times. Weight is 192.0 today! So we're slowly getting back to it.
Plan for today is to clean the house, obtain a birthday present for my niece, get groceries (that fell through yesterday), help Oldest cook something, and pack for the trip to niece's birthday next weekend. I hate a long road trip, but it's important to do this kind of thing. And then make cheeseburgers* and play video games!
*I'm going to be making a cheeseburger platter for myself, ground beef, mushrooms, cheese, and seasoning, on a bed of spinach, with air fried potatoes, and the correct condiments (but not mayo). The best.
Tag party time!
@JAC581 you know, I see a lot of myself when you sayOnce your "main" priorities are taken care of for the day (whether it be job, kids, etc) it can just feel like you need the remaining time to "survive" and regroup. This usually results in me laying on the couch playing word games on my phone
@rockitwell86 Ooooh, thanks for the recipe! I like to go lighter on breakfast so I can have snacks of a fruit and a protein bar, so I modded yours a little, looking forward to something different for this week! We'll see how me changing the eggs to egg whites does- I know in a normal quiche, the egg to dairy ratio is important. Either way, I'm going to eat it, lol. And I never add seasoning to the recipe calculator- not worth it to me, but I love penzey's sandwich sprinkle, so probably that, and maybe some poultry seasoning.
@justanotherloser007 it's so interesting how that works out. At the end of last year, I was aware of my weight in the 190s, I was watching it, just wasn't willing to do much about it at that time, and I was just maintaining for quite a while- until the holidays, when I'm doing a ton of cooking and there are treats everywhereI'm a firm believer in treats, so all of my efforts this time, this last time, are to make sure I know how to balance them out- because if I want them, I'm going to have them, it's just a matter of when and how much. Life is too short.
Also, flylady would say "told you so" about your foot.And those are great quotes!
@AlexandraFindsHerself1971 anecdotally, my husband forgets to eat on ADHD medication all the time. It's a real problem for him, as he's normal weight. He'll often joke with me that I just have to get on speed, that's all.But I have a feeling it wouldn't work that way for me!
@77topcat the most important thing while you're sick is to get better. I hope you do quickly! Drink some good tea and soup for me! If there's a "favorite" part of being sick for me, it's endless cups of herbal tea with very liberal amounts of honey, lol.
Have a great Saturday, everyone!4 -
I love frittatas! I make them weekly and then eat the leftovers all week for breakfast.
I use a modified version of this recipe: https://www.epicurious.com/expert-advice/ultimate-easy-frittata-recipe-article
I swap out some whole eggs for some whites - exact ratio depends on how heavy they are. I also often just throw in whatever veggies I have on hand.
Still traveling and staying with family and having a lot of fun. Hope everyone has a great weekend!3 -
I've mostly been lurking this thread the past few days but I've skimmed the last page or two of posts and it looks like everyone is making progress and figuring stuff out. You love to see it. Welcome to the new folks sliding in right at the end of the month - glad to have you, hope you'll come with us into the May thread as well
Weigh-in day!
Age: 30
Height: 5'3"
SW 252.8 (11/13/2020)
CW 188.6 (4/1/22)
4/2: 187.4
4/9: 186.4
4/16: 186.0
4/23: 187.4
4/30:
GW for April: Weigh less than my husband by 4/30
GW for 2022: 145
HECK. I think I'm gearing up for yet another period and retaining water, but also, last week was far less disciplined than it really needed to be, so some of that could also be fat gain. Womp womp.
I have been getting more steps this week, so hopefully I'll see that reflected on the scale soon - now that the new LoseIt Challenge is well and truly underway I have that little extra push of motivation to move more, and on top of that my SIL and BIL and I have joined a Lord of the Rings-themed Conqueror challenge. It's an app where you log distance traveled (walking, running, or cycling, outdoors or on a machine) and the app gives you little themed rewards for racking up certain distances. You can form a group ("fellowship" with this theming) and pool your distances to finish faster - so if I walk 5 miles and SIL walks 5 miles and BIL walks 5 miles, we all earn 15 miles. They have a bunch of different challenges themed around real places (Appalachian trail and the like), but the LotR-themed one follows the journey of Frodo and Samwise from the movies. It's a five-part challenge and you get an actual, physical medal, like in the mail, for finishing each part. The first part is about 145 miles; all five parts together, from Bag End to Mount Doom, is about 1900 miles. We've covered over 40 miles between all of us in 5 days, and I'm working on getting my husband in on the fun as well, since he certainly racks up enough steps just on his clinical days, but he also knows he should be walking more.4 -
Age: 44
Height: 5'10"
HW: 290.6 (4/19/2021)
SW: 287.4 (7/16/2021)
CW: 214.6 (4/1/2022)
GW for April: 207
GW for 2022: 170
UGW: 170
4/2: 214.0
4/9: 212.4
4/16: 209.8
4/23: 210.0
4/30:
Well, that is not the way I wanted to move, although some is related to pms water retention I think. I did slack a bit this week though so not totally sure. Kids were with their dad for spring break so I missed my daily/afternoon walks to school, and it totally messed with my routines. Also trying to work my way through all the older excess stuff in the cupboards/pantry so I don't have to move it, and realized that some of it really doesn't hit my satiety needs, lol. Will regroup this weekend, and definitely work on planning a routine to meet my goals over the summer so I don't get off track again. I definitely need to start packing this weekend so I am not overwhelmed when move day gets here!
Goals for April
- Meet protein goal at least 3x weekly (or avg weekly at goal) ❌️ only 2 of 7 this week
- Meet fiber goal at least 3x weekly (or avg weekly at goal) ✔️ 4 of 7
- Get minimum of 6000 steps daily ✔️
- Drink minimum of 8 glasses water daily ❌️ 2 of 7
- Take a day of self-care: Day off work, massage, and manicure/pedicure3 -
@rockitwell86 Ooooh, thanks for the recipe! I like to go lighter on breakfast so I can have snacks of a fruit and a protein bar, so I modded yours a little, looking forward to something different for this week! We'll see how me changing the eggs to egg whites does- I know in a normal quiche, the egg to dairy ratio is important. Either way, I'm going to eat it, lol. And I never add seasoning to the recipe calculator- not worth it to me, but I love penzey's sandwich sprinkle, so probably that, and maybe some poultry seasoning.
Update: this looks so gooooooooood. I multiplied the recipe by 2.5, so this will be two work weeks' worth, in a 9 x 13 pan.
I didn't bother shredding the cheddar for the top or cutting the turkey bacon into bits, feel fine about it.
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Hi 👋
I'm new here, I guess? I've used mfp off and on for years, struggling with weight loss, but I am on a new account (fresh start!) and I have never used the forums here.
Ummm...
Age: 42
Height: 5'0" or 5'1" depending on who is doing the measuring
SW 273 (04/04/2022), 274.4 (04/18/2022)
CW 266.8 (04/23/2022)
GW for April: Haven't figured out yet
GW for 2022: Haven't figured out yet
GW: Haven't figured out yet
I'm partially physically disabled and have diagnosed asd and a bunch of other trauma induced diagnoses. I have had issues with my weight since I was pregnant with my daughter (13), and *really* struggled for the past 4-5 years.
Tend to get caught up on the numbers, quit tracking, and gain back any weight I lost + extra lbs.
Hoping to find some sort of group or friends or something this time around and that will help me follow through?
Hoping it's okay to join in here?
Oh, yeah, btw I'm Sissy! Hi, and nice to meet yall!6 -
@Cluelessmama1979 Welcome sissy! Nice to meet you too!! Glad to see you here. Now is the right time, and here is the right place.2
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@justanotherloser007 hi! Thank you! I think I should have tried these forums a long time ago, lol. Even just getting a reply at all is so motivating!3
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goal06082021 wrote: »I've mostly been lurking this thread the past few days but I've skimmed the last page or two of posts and it looks like everyone is making progress and figuring stuff out. You love to see it. Welcome to the new folks sliding in right at the end of the month - glad to have you, hope you'll come with us into the May thread as well
Weigh-in day!
Age: 30
Height: 5'3"
SW 252.8 (11/13/2020)
CW 188.6 (4/1/22)
4/2: 187.4
4/9: 186.4
4/16: 186.0
4/23: 187.4
4/30:
GW for April: Weigh less than my husband by 4/30
GW for 2022: 145
HECK. I think I'm gearing up for yet another period and retaining water, but also, last week was far less disciplined than it really needed to be, so some of that could also be fat gain. Womp womp.
I have been getting more steps this week, so hopefully I'll see that reflected on the scale soon - now that the new LoseIt Challenge is well and truly underway I have that little extra push of motivation to move more, and on top of that my SIL and BIL and I have joined a Lord of the Rings-themed Conqueror challenge. It's an app where you log distance traveled (walking, running, or cycling, outdoors or on a machine) and the app gives you little themed rewards for racking up certain distances. You can form a group ("fellowship" with this theming) and pool your distances to finish faster - so if I walk 5 miles and SIL walks 5 miles and BIL walks 5 miles, we all earn 15 miles. They have a bunch of different challenges themed around real places (Appalachian trail and the like), but the LotR-themed one follows the journey of Frodo and Samwise from the movies. It's a five-part challenge and you get an actual, physical medal, like in the mail, for finishing each part. The first part is about 145 miles; all five parts together, from Bag End to Mount Doom, is about 1900 miles. We've covered over 40 miles between all of us in 5 days, and I'm working on getting my husband in on the fun as well, since he certainly racks up enough steps just on his clinical days, but he also knows he should be walking more.
OMG I was just looking at this during the week.....I might need to revisit it! Love LOTRs!1 -
SW (Feb 3rd): 220
Feb: -6lbs
March: +3lbs
4/2: 217
4/8: 212
4/16:211.4
4/23:210
4/30:
April GW: 212
🌻 April Goals🌻
🌻 Keep moving
🌻 Bring in some strength training
🌻 Some light fasts
Ok this is why weekly logging like this is such a good idea, I was totally feeling like I'd messed up and not made any progress because I vaguely remembered being at 15 stone earlier sometime and I thought that was last week, but it was this week. So I did get down to 15 earlier in the week, had a big dinner out (which was so lovely to do) and got back down again. So yet again thank you all for this space keeping me sane!
Some of you will have seen I was struggling with a challenging social situ this week, I'm feeling a lot better about it after some sleep and active rest today. Thanks all for the support etc on it.
I shaved more time off my swimming this week (I'm doing a 800M challenge to improve my swimming for the end of May so gradually working on improving that over the next few weeks). I haven't been doing much but I think the time in the pool is also helping to just get me more comfortable for when I have a bad swimming stroke, or someone splashes me. And we're off to the woods tomorrow morning for our first outdoors archery experience, looks like we'll join the club (once I can scare up the money).
Apart from that my hip is super inflamed again, I hadn't used my little tens machine in a few weeks but blasted myself today. Have only been for one walk-jog this week, I want to see if my hip will settle a bit more before trying again, so going to give it a few days and keep using the anti-inflam gel to get it down.
So fab to see everyone checking in and the new faces, hopefully I'll get a chance to pop in during the week. Best to you all! Also I'm 15 stone! I'm excited to not be 15 stone again EVER!4 -
Hi I’m 53 and 5’6”.
Original Starting Weight: 257.8 (1/14/21)
April Start Weight: 217.3
April Goal Weight: 216.0
Ultimate Goal Weight: 170
April 2: 217.3
April 9: 216.9 (-0.4)
April 16: 215.7 (-1.2)
April 23: 217.0 (+1.3)
April 30:
Gained this week but my clothes felt looser so I’m okay. I haven’t taken my measurements in a couple of months so I should do that.
Thank you all for the comments regarding my hives/rash, etc!!! @justanotherloser007 so sorry to hear all you’ve gone through. My issue started to get a little better then my kids took me out to dinner to celebrate my promotion. I ate a lot of pine nuts and woke up the next morning way worse!! So I have been cutting out nuts since then and it’s gotten a little better. I am going to a work conference in 2 weeks with a semi-formal banquet. I would love to be able to wear my contact lenses for it. Hopefully soon work will settle down and I can get back on track with the group.8 -
@porquenoirl do it! The story and postcard rewards are great little nuggets of motivation that come in at steady intervals - we haven't gotten the medals yet obviously but they look cool as hell in the promos. Especially if you're the type who is motivated by spending money LMAO. Note, they advertise a "refer x people and get a discount/free entry" promo but the LOTR challenges specifically are excluded from that - we found that out the hard way, womp womp2
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Good morning everyone! Hope you are all having a good weekend.
SW 233
CW 229.25
GW 180
I'm really proud of myself for the last few days. I've been trying to take the kids out a lot, otherwise they destroy the house faster than I can fix it. Plus it's been nice to go places like the zoo. But for me sometimes when I'm out, I don't eat the most healthy things. But this time, the kids had crispy chicken and fries, I had a vegan salad!
I'm feeling strong, motivated and determined to stay on track this time!
@porquenoirl thank you so much for your warm welcome. It's so nice to identify with other people on here, feels so supportive to find people who know what this is like. I'm so glad you are feeling a bit better
@rockitwell86 I know how things like a broken dishwasher can make me feel overwhelmed, especially when you just want to get on track with meal planning, glad the disposal got fixed for you.
@justanotherloser007 I totally agree about the Iink between clutter and overeating. I dont have a cluttered house but when it starts to get cluttered it makes me feel out of control and overwhelmed. Definitely feel that way about eating too! And congratulations on your amazing progress!
@roz0810 @sandielewis2001 and @lmgoff232 well done on the amazing progress so far!
@JAC581 welcome and good idea on the water drinking.Ive started trying to drink a glass of water everytime I think I'm hungry before I eat anything!
@seltzer_lover I loved your story about trying on clothes, that must have been such an incredible moment
@KeriA the workshop sounds really useful, I hope it goes well.
@goal06082021 the exercise challenge sounds brilliant, so good to do things like that in a group to make it fun
@Cluelessmama1979 welcome to the group, wishing you lots of luck with your weight loss, you've got this!
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