WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR SEPTEMBER 2022
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Lisa - I love the cruise, in fact, I'm over the moon about it. But the window situation is really getting on my nerves, and I hate the old, shabby bedroom deco that we inherited from a teenage boy. Yuk! DH doesn't even notice.
I am really looking forward to the cruise, but, if someone handed me the money, there would be no choice.
The new bed cushion covers have just arrived - my little attempt to make it look better.
I spend most of the day in the bedroom. It's my study and retreat.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx4 -
Well, we'll see if I still have a job on Monday. Went home early with a massive headache, neck pain and backache yesterday. Wrote to my boss/supervisor, whatever you want to call her and basically asked her where the heck the disconnect/miscommunication went awry? Very politely, but firmly. I explained that I'm only asking for the equipment I left on my desk back in March 2020. I asked her why she was asking someone, who has nothing to do with my medical assistance billing job, why I need this equipment back after I told her verbally last spring, in an email last spring and several emails over the summer and fall. I told her that I felt very disrespected for that and I was sorry if she felt this email was in any way disrespectful. It was simply what I felt. I said that due to the headache I've suffered daily all week, it became unbearable today (yesterday) I was leaving early. I also said that the money that I bring into the district can be used to purchase the equipment I need to do my job so I don't have to deal with neck, back and eye strain.
So......... we'll see if I still have a job on Monday.
Love and Blessings, Carla, in MN9 -
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Good morning ladies!
Carol- how frustrating for you. I'm trying to think of how I'd try to do it on the sly, lol. Maybe a small box at a time, thinning here and there. See if he notices. An idea. He might be Hawkeye and notice every little thing, my DH could be like that sometimes.
On getting & giving gifts at our age...
As I look around my house and garage, I'd say half of what I need to declutter are items that were given to me or DH. Out of love or obligation. Maybe 15% to 25% is meaningful or usable/practical and worth keeping. Otherwise, it's just sentimental clutter.
I'm boxing things up as I write this.
I'm spreading the word with friends and family to please NOT give me "stuff" for Christmas, birthdays, you name it. If they must give me something - a card and a small gift card is great. An edible. Olive oil is always good. I'm doing the same for them, maybe they'll catch on.
I actually tried to put this into practice a few years ago. Just recently someone gave me a large item for the garden that I'll never use and after thanking them profusely, said "I very much appreciate it, but already have something similar and just don't have room. So I can't accept this. I am trying so hard to thin stuff down, I can hardly walk through DH's shop and storage shed and the garage shelves are still full of who knows what. Do you still have the receipt so you can get your money back?"
Rosemarie - I do my best to follow your posts. You are handling the situation with your husband with strength and courage. I send many virtual hugs to you every day.
Karen - that bin gazebo is too cute.
Ginny - bet it will be good to finally get the surgery over and done with.
Kim and all - my energy saving strategy is paying off. Just got the electric bill, and it's $32 less than it was in August of 2021, even though I used the air conditioner more this year. I know some of it is due to the new heat pump and water heater, but I also went around the house and have unplugged everything I'm not using. And I haven't used the clothes dryer in probably a month - the wooden drying rack is still doing a great job and we've had plenty of sunshine and wind. I'm hoping to keep this energy saving going through the cold winter months. Rosie is already wearing a sweater at night and snuggling under her doggie blanket.
Ok better get crackin'.
Make it a fabulous weekend!
Lanette
Smokey and hot SW WA State5 -
Worked then cut the grass. Bought gas for the mower, now home to have dinner. It’s supposed to rain tomorrow so I just may go to the gym. I’ll go for my walk tonight
Carla – I question if ANYONE can be as great a monarch as Elizabeth was
SuebDew – feel better fast
Ginny – good thoughts for your surgery. I was born in 55 so I haven’t know anyone other than Queen Elizabeth
Michele NC
who is off to take a shower and then probably work on the jigsaw puzzle
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Worked then because it was raining I got to go to the gym. Yea me! And no work tomorrow so the plan is to do the Biggest Loser Last Chance Workout then some yoga. Sometimes life can be so grand. After the gym went to the Salvation Army and found a DVD. Now home
Sue – your leg and calf under the tractor? I’d be scared out of my wits if that ever happened to me
Rebecca – did I miss it??? Happy anniversary
Heather – do you somehow have to “prepare” that duster so that it’ll pick up the dust? If not, what’s the name of it?
We make a list of what we want for Christmas/birthdays. This way we get what we need and want. Only Denise doesn’t hold to it. She’s so materialistic, not at all like me. I’d much prefer something that someone made with me in mind than something bought at a store. But Denise thinks things that you buy are the greatest.
Lector at the church tonight.
Michele NC1 -
Carol, I am so sorry about the frustrating situation with your husband. I, too, used to keep everything that might be useful one day. I very much understand that way of thinking. I have so much empathy for both of you. (((Hugs)))
Karen in Virginia2 -
Heather interesting podcast “Cave early” insights about change and learning, as well as about ignoring the body’s hints and whispers. Never thought of quitting as opening the way to more creative, effective pursuits. But that slime mold discussion… eeuuuwwww ! :sick: Will look for the Barb Knows Best podcast on indecision, waffling is this “Barb”’s middle name. Enjoying dusting? No accounting for tastes… Your secret’s safe with us.
Rori brave gal trying white water rafting on the wild rivers of Montana!
Suebdew “.. under the riding mower”??? Hope you get it checked out and no permanent damage.
Karen “Fire moon-over Cedar Mountain” sounds like a drama. Love the grainbinzebo, but might’nt it get hot?
Ginny glad to hear they’ve taken steps to make the MRI less scary. Prayers for favorable results. Share your pickled Brussels sprouts recipe?
Rebecca is it your and your Chief’s anniversary week? Ah I see Carol has already wished you happy anniversary. Remind me which date it was?
Michele I was born in 1950 but sure don’t remember George VI. It’s always been “the Queen” for me.
Kay thanks I’ll look at aslobcomesclean.com later today or maybe next week . . .
She sure sounds more like me than any bee who only has to cope with clutter and not dirt, dog hair, spruce needles, grease and and and … “…listen and clean at the same time.” ROTFLMAOWMP but well, maybe… ok saved her youtube 5 steps to my watch later list, will play it and listen Monday while waiting for my PA to call with bloodwork results. Thanks!
Rosemarie ((hugs))
Machka no at work snacks AND stair climbing? Well done!
Debbie stunning sunset AND step count. Bravissima!
Margaret Your nux vomica sounds like it comes in the same format as some mineral salts my former chiropractor suggested for building up the immune system. Always best to start slowly, especially when we want to hurry up and fix whatever NOW.
Carol how frustrating! Truth be told, that’s what I do when Joe tries to purge our stuff :devil:
Lisa love your “deal” suggestion to Carol. 15 lb trimmer would get heavy fast. Was the battery operated one lighter?
Carla if you don’t have a job on Monday it could be a good thing for your health, and costly for the school district, just sayin’.
Lanette trust the giver was not offended and was able to return the gift. So with you on consumables vs stuff, especially since many of the things I need to release back to the universe were things I gave Mama…
Anyone hear from Janetr in OK? Miss her.
BONG there goes my 30 min timer, but before I sign off just had to share. All you cleaning frenzy, purging de-cluttering organizers are seeping into my consciousness. Found myself rooting through the bathroom drawer yesterday in frustration. Stopped at Dollar Tree yesterday and invested $2.50 in 5 plastic baskets to organize it. The larger baskets didn’t fit, but the smaller ones did. TaDa!!!
Then the larger one found a home in my most-used kitchen utensil drawer.
Amazeballs.
Done:9/9: Move: 2 sets pt, dogs to powerline, stroll chat with T. active mins:271 steps:431
Fuel: plants (running count for week) so far: 9+9+3+5+5 almonds, apple, artichoke, avocado, beans-black, beans-kidney, cacao 70%, cashews both salted and cheese, cherries, chickpeas-hummus, coffee, cornmeal in Fritos, cucumber, ginger-crystallized, jalapenos, maple syrup, mint jelly, orange-marmalade, peanut-sauce and butter, peas-wasabi, pecans, peppers-sweet-orange, peppers-sweet-red, peppers-sweet-yellow, radish, romaine, scallions, soy-breakfast sausage, tomato sauce, tea, walnuts, wheat-pizza+bread+samosas+scone+Eng muffin. . CI<CO=431
Live: Joe, readings, BP, called MD billing re BNP coding, voicemailed nurse,
Wt: 136.7
Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
2022: Be still and listen.
September: Move more, fuel better, live NOW.
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Really smokey here from the forest fires. When we went out to feed horses this morning the ash was coming down like snow covering cars, lawn etc. Our barn cat is really disgusted with it. Her black coat was sprinkled with bits of ash and of course everything smells like smoke. DD and I both have sore throats and headaches from it. Horses and goats are out but have access to shelters. We will probably have to change out water several times today as the ash is falling in it too.
Everyone take care, Sue in WA9 -
We are expecting a visit from our daughter and grandsons today. I am hoping to get a chance to buy a few items at the store. A new shoehorn for DH is high on my wish list.3
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Stats for the day-
MS Bike Ride done!
outside ride MS Deception Pass Classic Virtual Ride Part 1- 3hrs 46min 31sec, 847elev, 69aw, 13.3amph, 137ahr, 165mhr, 50.08mi= 1841c
Strava app = 1049c
Zwift home bike trainer MS Deception Pass Classic Virtual Ride Part 2- 28.44min, 85elev, 153aw, 21.0amph, 123ahr, 151mhr, 10.07mi= 295c
Strava app = 251c
*4.2lbs of sweat lost
*started outside ride at 5am, got home took a short break to lower heart rate then got on spin bike and finished last 10 miles by 9:40am
*total calories burned 2136
*Total ride 4hrs 15min 15sec
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Barbara - Loving the baskets! Isn't it a good feeling!
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx0 -
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Michele - This is my duster, which it says is currently unavailable, but there are other suggestions on the page. I am finding it very addictive. In this older house we have picture rails etc.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx2 -
minicooper452 wrote: »Well, we'll see if I still have a job on Monday. Went home early with a massive headache, neck pain and backache yesterday. Wrote to my boss/supervisor, whatever you want to call her and basically asked her where the heck the disconnect/miscommunication went awry? Very politely, but firmly. I explained that I'm only asking for the equipment I left on my desk back in March 2020. I asked her why she was asking someone, who has nothing to do with my medical assistance billing job, why I need this equipment back after I told her verbally last spring, in an email last spring and several emails over the summer and fall. I told her that I felt very disrespected for that and I was sorry if she felt this email was in any way disrespectful. It was simply what I felt. I said that due to the headache I've suffered daily all week, it became unbearable today (yesterday) I was leaving early. I also said that the money that I bring into the district can be used to purchase the equipment I need to do my job so I don't have to deal with neck, back and eye strain.
So......... we'll see if I still have a job on Monday.
Love and Blessings, Carla, in MN
You might check with HR on the laws regarding making your workspace ergonomically appropriate for you. In California, if you mention it to any manager or to HR, they are required by law to provide it. Some companies will even send an ergonomic expert to look at your work area so that you get what you need and that it fits you.
You should not be expected to work in an uncomfortable environment, especially when what you're asking for is very easy and inexpensive to provide and especially when you work for a public organization. It's affecting your health and well-being too. There is no excuse for them.
Tina in CA4 -
Sue oh my gosh that fire must be close! Stay safe! I don't know how you could evacuate with goats and horses.
Annie in Delaware0 -
One thing I learned from listening to years of podcasts from "The Minimalists: is to ask myself "How could my life be better with less?" Several years ago we stopped giving gifts and told friends and family to not give us anything.
I have no new news about the problem with my eye. The visit yesterday was diagnostic and the results will be sent to the retina specialist. It was the test where you sit stationary for five minutes with your chin on a rest with one eye covered and stare at a light and click every time you see a light flash in the bowl, then do the same thing with the other eye.
My Sunday morning walking friend can't walk tomorrow so we walked at noon today. Much too warm for both of us. I might need to take a nap
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Barbara - I did pause for a moment before thanking her and refusing the gift. This isn't the first time she's given me and/or DH gifts that were expensive and/or not something we'd use. Generally they come with a "I saved the receipt if you want something else". I have given her the "a card and a gift card is perfect" lecture many times. Small things like a shelf sitter or little cooking gadget is easy to stick in the garage then take to the thrift store later. She said she'd give the garden thing to her sister for HER birthday. Whew. It was a seat on wheels. I already had one my neighbor gave me that I'm giving to the thrift store - it's too low, too unstable, and I don't have any use for it. That's why my neighbor who is also tall got rid of it. The only way to get off it is fall off, seriously. I have a taller little bench that's the perfect height plus can be flipped for a kneeler.
OK enough on that.
My mom used to be a good one for going to Florida in the winter and hitting flea markets. She was constantly sending me crocheted toilet paper roll covers and like. I finally said Mom.... please STOP with the stuff. Save your money. Or donate it and don't get anything in return. Just give them $5 for their cause or something. Then she got a great idea... she started cleaning out her closets and drawers and sent me my old report cards and things I'd left at her house that were really fun to look at and didn't take up space.
DH and I had a good arrangement. Throughout the year we'd buy what we wanted and say to the other "look at these new shoes (or tool) This is my birthday present or Christmas present from you. Thank you, it's perfect!"
Barbara - great job with the drawers. I rearranged my bathroom cabinet drawers last winter - I too found that some of the larger Dollar Tree baskets didn't fit. Or didn't leave room for anything else = wasted space. I've been saving small plastic mushroom containers - they hold 8 oz and are sturdy. I could wedge a couple of those next to a Dollar Tree basket. Isn't it nice to be able to find things? Your kitchen drawers are awesome. That's for THIS winter, and the thrift store will get a big haul.
Carla - I bet you'll have a job to go back to. Boy how frustrating though. Tina had good points about ergonomics. Could you have kept working remotely? Or at least until they are really ready with your office situation?
Sue - oh my word, how close is the wildfire for you to get ashes? We are getting really nasty smoke coming from a fire about 70 miles east of us near White Pass/Packwood. No ash but stinging eyes, hard to breathe. Air is eerily yellow. Hopefully you and I will get some onshore flow tomorrow and break this stuff up.
Lanette
SW WA State3 -
Afternoon ladies
Im just laying low today..
Doing a load of laundry.
Something messed up with washer im hoping it is fixable. But its working.. will get the studf in the dryer...
Been glued to CNN watching the British monarchy change..0 -
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Lanette - Bolt Creek fire is just 3 towns east of us along Hwy 2. Stevens Pass and part of the highway are closed. The town of Index has been evacuated and we are on alert. Has burned about 2000 acres so far. We don't anticipate a problem but will hitch up horse trailer just in case.
Sue in WA3 -
Lanette - Bolt Creek fire is just 3 towns east of us along Hwy 2. Stevens Pass and part of the highway are closed. The town of Index has been evacuated and we are on alert. Has burned about 2000 acres so far. We don't anticipate a problem but will hitch up horse trailer just in case.
Sue in WA
Sue - wow. I hope you'll be safe. I just saw parts of Index are being evacuated. Is there someplace designated as a holding area for horses and farm animals? I see we have a lot of farmers around here ready to head east with their own trailers and bring threatened livestock to their own safe pastures far from the fire, plus our Fairgrounds is ready as well. I love how our community pulls together in times like this.
We're being affected by smoke from the Goat Rocks fire, and I just read Hwy 12 is closed from Packwood to White Pass. Looks this fire has grown to 1500 acres. I haven't seen a report from our DEM but looking at the Seattle News Feeds.
Please keep us posted. Sending hugs and prayers the fires are contained soon.
Lanette
SW WA State
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PIP you were burning some calories, girl! Awesomeness! Congrats!!!
Wowza!
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Sue ... your leg was under the riding mower?? I assume the blades were not engaged. Still, that sounds like a good way to break something.
Lanette ... Yay for you on already seeing electric cost savings! I haven't made enough changes yet to see a difference.
Pip ... congratulations on finishing your ride and on passing the $1000 mark!
Carol ... I am not able to declutter anything of my husband's, especially if it's supposedly "on display." If it's junk and papers strewn all over the house ... those I gather and put in a box and make him sit down with me and go through everything ... otherwise, I tell him, I'll toss it all.
Carla ... I hope you have a job on Monday only because I hope the people you work for paid attention to your email and realize your worth and address your concerns.
Today, I reminded my husband that the garage had to be cleaned out since we're closing the pool early (roof being replaced and not wanting debris to land in the pool) and need to get to the stored covered. It was buried behind so much stuff that we had collected in just 3 months!! We worked on it together all day (he seems to need my presence whether I d0 anything or not ... what is up with that) and it hardly looks any different. Truth is he really should have an out-building for most of what's in the garage. But he also needs to let things go. I tossed almost everything that was mine.
Making progress in getting my mother to NY. A Medicare Broker is helping me with the change of insurance due to a new state and a conversation with a skilled nursing facility social worker here in NY was an absolute godsend in explaining the details of transferring my mom to rehab and then to an assisted living facility. Traveled to OH and worked with my mom's banks (that was incredibly frustrating and we're going to just close one account on the bank's advice) and visited with my mom as well. She is giving recovery her best effort. She really is tough, but it breaks my heart to leave her each time. I'll be back out there again on Wednesday as I want to attend her surgical follow-up appointment with her. The surgeon's opinion as to when she can safely travel is the one piece that everything else hinges on.
Beth near Buffalo
Traveled home last night and watched the rising Harvest Moon.10 -
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Izzy aka iz aka pip
In Central CA3 -
Lanette - Bolt Creek fire is just 3 towns east of us along Hwy 2. Stevens Pass and part of the highway are closed. The town of Index has been evacuated and we are on alert. Has burned about 2000 acres so far. We don't anticipate a problem but will hitch up horse trailer just in case.
Sue in WA
I recognize the area- Steven's Pass- How close is the fire to Lake Stevens? I have an aunt and cousin there and cousins and a friend in Mt. Vernon.1 -
Heather – did your pole come basically with two poles – one for making it a duster and another that is the extension?
Lanette – that’s what Vince and I do for some gifts (mostly clothes). I buy it, try it on, then give it to him to give to me. At least I know it fits and that I like it...lol
Michele NC1 -
Pip & Machka - this made me think of you.
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Lake Stevens is probably getting smoke and ash. They are about 50 miles from the Bolt Creek Fire. Mt. Vernon is actually closer to another fire farther north. Bolt Creek fire is now about 5000 acres. They have set up facilities for evacuees at the fairgrounds in Monroe.
Sue in Snohomish, WA3 -
Barbara, you go girl! I love me some drawer organizers.
Beth, prayers for you as you continue to help your mother. As for me and mine, I'm taking her to a lawyer on Monday to at least get a will in writing. She never felt the need before because everything was in Daddy's name. Even with a will, it's going to be a mess one day. I don't see my brother playing nice, but it is what it is. I'm hoping to have my mother for a really long time so that we don't have to deal with it anytime soon.
Barbie, our eye doctor makes us do that test every year. I hate it!
Sue, prayers for safety.
Carla, good grief! How stressful. I hope your boss listens to you.
I'm struggling with my eating and exercise goals at the moment. It's still a very stressful time and I am hanging in as best I can. I'll be ok, but it is just taking time.
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