Sexting in a relationship

MeIShouldB
MeIShouldB Posts: 578 Member
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It's 2013 and obviously there is alot of technology out there, which means new ways to connect with people. My question to you is how do you feel about people sexting, sending pictures, or flirting via internet with other people outside their relationship?
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  • sunglasses_and_ocean_waves
    sunglasses_and_ocean_waves Posts: 2,757 Member
    Are you asking if it's OK to sext with someone other than your partner? I wouldn't care.
  • amyk0202
    amyk0202 Posts: 666 Member
    In my marriage, it would definitely be cheating.
  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,454 Member
    Everyone has to navigate those waters using their own moral compass.

    I wouldn't do it, nor would I want my SO to do it. But how are you going to police that?
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    It is up to you and what you feel the boundaries of "cheating" are.
  • CoffeeNBooze
    CoffeeNBooze Posts: 966 Member
    Shady, shady. I believe if you're doing something you wouldnt do in front of your partner, then you probably shouldn't be doing it
  • aquarabbit
    aquarabbit Posts: 1,622 Member
    Not in my marriage personally. No problems with porn or something like that. But actually talking and interacting with a person isn't something I would feel comfortable with. I doubt my husband would the other way around either.
  • ILiftHeavyAcrylics
    ILiftHeavyAcrylics Posts: 27,732 Member
    It would not be acceptable in my relationship.

    However, every relationship has its own rules. My advice is to discuss it with your significant other and figure out how you both feel about it. If no rule has been established I'd assume it's not okay.
  • emmawoolf84
    emmawoolf84 Posts: 243 Member
    I believe if you're doing something you wouldnt do in front of your partner, then you probably shouldn't be doing it

    ^This
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    Hell no. Female friends and harmless flirting are no big deal, but sex talk and revealing pictures are definitely not ok.
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    Hell no. Female friends and harmless flirting are no big deal, but sex talk and revealing pictures are definitely not ok.

    But porn is ok with me. Lol.
  • GiddyupTim
    GiddyupTim Posts: 2,819 Member
    It would hurt me if my SO were doing it.
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    PM me for my KIK name.












    :laugh:
  • Fiercely_Me
    Fiercely_Me Posts: 481 Member
    Damn right that's cheating. I don't play that.
  • sunfirelynn
    sunfirelynn Posts: 186 Member
    That's cheating and I would not stand for it, or do it...
  • playgun
    playgun Posts: 163 Member
    I would not do it in a committed relationship, nor would I want my partner to
  • BeachIron
    BeachIron Posts: 6,490 Member
    Considering that I have trouble sexting with a straight face, and my wife cracks up laughing anytime someone tries it with her, all I can say is whatevs.
  • Zombella
    Zombella Posts: 491 Member
    I believe if you're doing something you wouldnt do in front of your partner, then you probably shouldn't be doing it

    ^This
  • JDMarlowe
    JDMarlowe Posts: 327 Member
    It's not really my thing. As far as general flirting goes, everyone does that. But I think it's crossing a line when you start sexting with someone that isn't your partner.
  • Warchortle
    Warchortle Posts: 2,197 Member
    Anthony Wiener?
  • NZhellkat
    NZhellkat Posts: 355 Member
    If I had a phone I might actually do it........with my hubby. The whole explicit pic thingy though......yup not EVER. Hubby prefers a more hands on approach as do I. Doing that with anyone else.....?! Never gonna happen on either side. Just no time for that and neither of us play stupid games like that.
  • Mrs_Bones
    Mrs_Bones Posts: 195 Member
    Shady, shady. I believe if you're doing something you wouldnt do in front of your partner, then you probably shouldn't be doing it
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    Meh, my husband and I would both be fine with it, but we're not super tied to sexual monogamy. So, depends on the couple.
  • BikerGirlElaine
    BikerGirlElaine Posts: 1,631 Member
    It's whatever the rules are in your relationship.
  • wildcatnyc
    wildcatnyc Posts: 2,410 Member
    It's not really my thing. As far as general flirting goes, everyone does that. But I think it's crossing a line when you start sexting with someone that isn't your partner.

    I agree with this!
  • JUDDDing
    JUDDDing Posts: 1,367 Member
    Not "cheating".

    But it's possibly inappropriate if it's extreme.
  • Mr_Bad_Example
    Mr_Bad_Example Posts: 2,403 Member
    To echo my wife's post, not a big deal to either of us. If anything, it would probably just make us want to jump each other even more. Everyone wins.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    I wouldn't do it. And I know it's definitely not something my husband would do. But, I think it's ok, if both partners are consenting of it.
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    Damn right that's cheating. I don't play that.

    Damn right! Agreed... I don't play that.
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    To echo my wife's post, not a big deal to either of us. If anything, it would probably just make us want to jump each other even more. Everyone wins.

    :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile:

    Sup, stud?
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    Definitely wouldn't be happy about the husband doing that nor would I do it myself.

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