Sexting in a relationship

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  • Toblave
    Toblave Posts: 244 Member
    Cheating imo. There's a huge difference between a harmless smile or a joke and sending pics of yourself and talking dirty to someone else other than your partner.
  • Nicolee_2014
    Nicolee_2014 Posts: 1,572 Member
    I believe if you're doing something you wouldnt do in front of your partner, then you probably shouldn't be doing it

    ^This

    Yup. This.
  • 1dce
    1dce Posts: 238 Member
    Shady, shady. I believe if you're doing something you wouldnt do in front of your partner, then you probably shouldn't be doing it
    exactly this I take it a step farther and say you shouldn't have any friends you wouldn't want your partner to meet either
  • Mr_Bad_Example
    Mr_Bad_Example Posts: 2,403 Member
    To echo my wife's post, not a big deal to either of us. If anything, it would probably just make us want to jump each other even more. Everyone wins.

    :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile:

    Sup, stud?

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  • etoiles_argentees
    etoiles_argentees Posts: 2,827 Member
    I believe if you're doing something you wouldnt do in front of your partner, then you probably shouldn't be doing it

    ^This

    Yup. This.

    True.
  • JDMarlowe
    JDMarlowe Posts: 327 Member
    I wont even send my wife pics.... With my luck, she would leave her phone somewhere or loose and and my junk would be on public display or end up on some website.... lol.
  • norahwynn
    norahwynn Posts: 862 Member
    It's stupid. But I'm 47 and might be behind the times, though I don't see myself as old at all. It just seems demeaning, and it's sad that not only adults do it, but kids do it too
  • jsiricos
    jsiricos Posts: 340 Member
    And thats, basically, why I am divorced

    Because he couldn't keep it on the net, and he couldn't stop..
  • BlueBombers
    BlueBombers Posts: 4,064 Member
    I wouldn't tolerate it in my marriage.
  • BlueBombers
    BlueBombers Posts: 4,064 Member
    To echo my wife's post, not a big deal to either of us. If anything, it would probably just make us want to jump each other even more. Everyone wins.

    :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile:

    Sup, stud?


    Hah!
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  • emsoquena
    emsoquena Posts: 127 Member
    Nope. That would already be considered cheating.
  • To echo my wife's post, not a big deal to either of us. If anything, it would probably just make us want to jump each other even more. Everyone wins.

    :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile:

    Sup, stud?

    tumblr_m1i5x0fjwm1r0rz5to1_500.jpg

    We can ball sometime, if you want to.
  • Mr_Bad_Example
    Mr_Bad_Example Posts: 2,403 Member
    To echo my wife's post, not a big deal to either of us. If anything, it would probably just make us want to jump each other even more. Everyone wins.

    :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile:

    Sup, stud?

    tumblr_m1i5x0fjwm1r0rz5to1_500.jpg

    We can ball sometime, if you want to.

    What's your number? :smokin:
  • To echo my wife's post, not a big deal to either of us. If anything, it would probably just make us want to jump each other even more. Everyone wins.

    :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile:

    Sup, stud?

    tumblr_m1i5x0fjwm1r0rz5to1_500.jpg

    We can ball sometime, if you want to.

    What's your number? :smokin:

    867-5309
  • Ivey05131980
    Ivey05131980 Posts: 1,118 Member
    Texting is taking it too far, but if you send headless pics, you should be ok. :laugh:
  • klinger6395
    klinger6395 Posts: 44 Member
    lol
  • AstroRocket
    AstroRocket Posts: 119 Member
    In my opinion it's cheating. It's like saying the person you're with isn't good enough and you have to go else where. If you're in a relationship and feel the need to flirt with other people, then leave the person you're with because you're clearly not happy with them.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    OP does this post have anything to do with that fiancee who you were worried about how many months salary to spend on ur own engagement ring? Or would it have anything to do with one of his brothers who u were annoyed by their closeness on FB? Who is sexting who here..exactly?
  • Mitzki5
    Mitzki5 Posts: 482 Member
    To each their own but I have been with my wife a long time and have never even thought about doing such things. It would be disrespectful to her. If a person is having to look for something like this outside of their relationship, then that relationship has some problems.
  • mockchoc
    mockchoc Posts: 6,573 Member
    yep yep
  • SweetLilyR
    SweetLilyR Posts: 283 Member
    My husband actually encourages it...of course, that's also because I get paid to do it. The non-paid sexting is only with him or my boyfriend.

    And, to be honest, if he wanted to sext with another woman, I'd be fine with it.

    It's all about the rules of YOUR relationship, not someone else's.
  • Stump_Likker
    Stump_Likker Posts: 2,059 Member
    I wouldn't do it...unless he was really cute...or shirtless...or a good cook
  • Donald_Dozier_50
    Donald_Dozier_50 Posts: 395 Member
    My husband actually encourages it...of course, that's also because I get paid to do it. The non-paid sexting is only with him or my boyfriend.

    And, to be honest, if he wanted to sext with another woman, I'd be fine with it.

    It's all about the rules of YOUR relationship, not someone else's.


    Why even be married?
  • SweetLilyR
    SweetLilyR Posts: 283 Member
    My husband actually encourages it...of course, that's also because I get paid to do it. The non-paid sexting is only with him or my boyfriend.

    And, to be honest, if he wanted to sext with another woman, I'd be fine with it.

    It's all about the rules of YOUR relationship, not someone else's.


    Why even be married?
    Because we love each other. Same reason most people get married. And shockingly, we've been married longer and are more in love with each other than any of our friends and family. 13 1/2 years together and still acting like newlyweds!
  • t1nk6
    t1nk6 Posts: 215
    personaly i call it cheating..

    treat others how you want to be treated.. ask yourself how would you feel if your husband/partner was doing it ?

    some people are happy with sharing... personaly im a greedy *kitten* and want my man all to myself ha
  • Naomi0504
    Naomi0504 Posts: 964 Member
    Not "cheating".

    But it's possibly inappropriate if it's extreme.

    I agree with this, but I see how other could consider it cheating.
  • Mobilemuscle
    Mobilemuscle Posts: 945 Member
    Sexting? people still do that?? sooo 2011
  • ffhsanfran
    ffhsanfran Posts: 63 Member
    not OK if you are running for elected office.
  • justwanderful
    justwanderful Posts: 142 Member
    Sexting with someone who isn't your partner is cheating. It's a deal breaker. If you can't see that, your moral compass is broken.
  • SweetLilyR
    SweetLilyR Posts: 283 Member
    not OK if you are running for elected office.

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    Ran for elected office and won.