Sexting in a relationship

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  • Hexahedra
    Hexahedra Posts: 894 Member
    I believe if you're doing something you wouldnt do in front of your partner, then you probably shouldn't be doing it

    ^This

    TOTALLY AGREE.
    Correct. Your partner has a certain expectation of behavior from you. If you don't know it, then you should ask. If you know it and can't live by it, then you should tell her/him.
  • gr8pillock
    gr8pillock Posts: 374 Member
    I think, if your relationship is mutually satisfying, both emotionally and physically (sexually), the need for the attention outside the relationship goes away. Unless you have an agreement and enjoyment of flirting/swinging that way.

    I personally send my tit shots to just the honey pants... unless I'm single. :)
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    In my relationship, it's perfectly fine. Half the time, we're sexting the same people. Or we're in the same room sexting others. It works for us.

    I honestly am shocked that someone compared this to abusing children. After 2 years, I thought I'd seen it all. Well done, mfp. Well done. :flowerforyou:

    WHat. Milo never sexts me.

    OH wait. My phone doesn't get texts.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    It's 2013 and obviously there is alot of technology out there, which means new ways to connect with people. My question to you is how do you feel about people sexting, sending pictures, or flirting via internet with other people outside their relationship?

    I won't judge anyone. I have a pretty strong character, but I've been guilty of things over the years. It is easy to get drawn up in the attention and physical aspect of it all, as well as the emotional side. This is true even in a very satisfying relationship. The 'detached' nature of fooling around online is a huge draw and justification.

    Then again, access to porn and other physical type addictions are even more commonplace with technology now too, but that's a whole other side of it.
  • djeffreys10
    djeffreys10 Posts: 2,312 Member
    Personally, if I am in a relationship, anything and everything sexual is going to be confined strictly to the relationship. If either of us have to have interaction with another person for sexual fulfillment, then there are problems between us that need to be addressed to determine if the relationship will continue. Ymmv.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    1-800-ROADDOG. Sext me.
  • KANGOOJUMPS
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,474 Member
    of course it is great
    everyone does it
    makes a relationship much better,
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    1-800-ROADDOG. Sext me.

    Sent. With p3n0r pics.

    Cheers.
  • Mainebikerchick
    Mainebikerchick Posts: 1,573 Member
    1-800-ROADDOG. Sext me.

    Sent. With p3n0r pics.

    Cheers.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    for me, if I was in a relationship, I'd consider that cheating, but that's just me. I' old fashioned that way.

    I feel the same way. I wouldn't want anyone else seeing my guy's goods. I'm selfish.
  • Excuse_less
    Excuse_less Posts: 874 Member
    for me, if I was in a relationship, I'd consider that cheating, but that's just me. I' old fashioned that way.

    I feel the same way. I wouldn't want anyone else seeing my guy's goods. I'm selfish.

    Completely agree ! But sexting between the two of us ............even at my age ............is hot lol
  • MiloBloom83
    MiloBloom83 Posts: 2,724 Member
    Why sext in the first place? Booooooriiiiing!

    You're doing it wrong. Sooooo wrong.
  • simonsaysso
    simonsaysso Posts: 72 Member
    for me, if I was in a relationship, I'd consider that cheating, but that's just me. I' old fashioned that way.

    I feel the same way. I wouldn't want anyone else seeing my guy's goods. I'm selfish.

    Completely agree ! But sexting between the two of us ............even at my age ............is hot lol

    This^
    I agree 110 %. The only person I sext with is my husband - after 26 years I am always looking for new ways to heat things up!!!:smokin:
  • bacitracin
    bacitracin Posts: 921 Member
    I'm in an open relationship. I flirt constantly and have exchanged nude pictures outside of the relationship. As long as I send them to her too, she's happy. I tell her everything.
  • sizzle74
    sizzle74 Posts: 858 Member
    My husband actually encourages it...of course, that's also because I get paid to do it. The non-paid sexting is only with him or my boyfriend.

    And, to be honest, if he wanted to sext with another woman, I'd be fine with it.

    It's all about the rules of YOUR relationship, not someone else's.


    Why even be married?
    Because we love each other. Same reason most people get married. And shockingly, we've been married longer and are more in love with each other than any of our friends and family. 13 1/2 years together and still acting like newlyweds!

    GASP! But! But! You don't live your marriage the way he thinks you should!
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    for me, if I was in a relationship, I'd consider that cheating, but that's just me. I' old fashioned that way.

    I feel the same way. I wouldn't want anyone else seeing my guy's goods. I'm selfish.

    Completely agree ! But sexting between the two of us ............even at my age ............is hot lol

    Between you and me? *wiggles eyebrows*
  • SweetLilyR
    SweetLilyR Posts: 283 Member
    1-800-ROADDOG. Sext me.
    Boo...all I'm getting is a "failure to deliver" message. Got another number, darlin'? :wink:
  • SweetLilyR
    SweetLilyR Posts: 283 Member
    My husband actually encourages it...of course, that's also because I get paid to do it. The non-paid sexting is only with him or my boyfriend.

    And, to be honest, if he wanted to sext with another woman, I'd be fine with it.

    It's all about the rules of YOUR relationship, not someone else's.


    Why even be married?
    Because we love each other. Same reason most people get married. And shockingly, we've been married longer and are more in love with each other than any of our friends and family. 13 1/2 years together and still acting like newlyweds!

    GASP! But! But! You don't live your marriage the way he thinks you should!
    LOVE this!! :drinker:
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  • sizzle74
    sizzle74 Posts: 858 Member
    My husband actually encourages it...of course, that's also because I get paid to do it. The non-paid sexting is only with him or my boyfriend.

    And, to be honest, if he wanted to sext with another woman, I'd be fine with it.

    It's all about the rules of YOUR relationship, not someone else's.


    Why even be married?
    Because we love each other. Same reason most people get married. And shockingly, we've been married longer and are more in love with each other than any of our friends and family. 13 1/2 years together and still acting like newlyweds!

    GASP! But! But! You don't live your marriage the way he thinks you should!
    LOVE this!! :drinker:

    husband AND boyfriend?

    PAID to sext?

    where can i sign up
    ?????????????????

    AHEM!!!! ~flails arms around frantically~ Where do *I* sign up too???????? I'm so good at sexting I really should be getting paid for this *kitten*!
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    it gets boring after awhile you can only write c_ck p_ssy so many times before you need the real thing
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    it gets boring after awhile you can only write c_ck p_ssy so many times before you need the real thing

    :drinker:
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    My husband actually encourages it...of course, that's also because I get paid to do it. The non-paid sexting is only with him or my boyfriend.

    And, to be honest, if he wanted to sext with another woman, I'd be fine with it.

    It's all about the rules of YOUR relationship, not someone else's.


    Why even be married?

    Um, why even say that? Just because somebody's relationship is outside of what you are personally comfortable with, it doesn't make it less valid.

    Many people are into sex with children so I guess based on your immoral standards that is ok if they are personally ok with it.

    How in God's name are you equating sex between consenting adults (or 'sexting' rather, which as far as I know isn't actual sex) to child molestation? Please educate me so I can be a beacon of moral righteousness too.

    Damn, things got super retarded.
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    1-800-ROADDOG. Sext me.
    Just sent you a wang pic. Holla!
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  • Beckboo0912
    Beckboo0912 Posts: 447 Member
    I think each relationship has its own rules...I'm single so well I have no rules, it's great!
  • Excuse_less
    Excuse_less Posts: 874 Member
    for me, if I was in a relationship, I'd consider that cheating, but that's just me. I' old fashioned that way.

    I feel the same way. I wouldn't want anyone else seeing my guy's goods. I'm selfish.

    Completely agree ! But sexting between the two of us ............even at my age ............is hot lol

    Between you and me? *wiggles eyebrows*


    :drinker:
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    I would kill my man.

    If he wants to sext here I am baby!

    Weren't you just advocating to get a boyfriend and to get a sexting job?

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