WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR FEBRUARY 2023
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SophieRosieMom wrote: »Happy Valentine's Day!
Heather - Are you watching Season 12 of Vera? Great as always. I need to switch over to the new Death in Paradise when I finish this episode.
***The light discussion - if anyone is interested, here's the video by Dr. Been about sunlight, melatonin and near infrared light. Toward the end he goes over the benefits of light from fireplaces and how LED lights aren't as good as incandescent. He goes over research which supports this.
I slept great last night again - 7 1/2 hours, but it was good sleep, good dreams. I wonder if the incandescent light is helping. Crossing fingers.
***Taxes: I finished and filed 2022 taxes yesterday. I used TaxAct and have for years. It took a couple calls to them to help me through the return and dealing with DH's death last year, but they were great and stayed on the line with me to make sure the E-File went through OK.
Debbie - I cleaned that Dungeness crab last Friday, took a bite and immediately my tongue and mouth felt funny, started burning. I waited a little while and took another bite, same thing. I called my doc's office, the nurse said take a Benadryl and don't eat any more, it might be a shellfish allergy! So I'm tossing it. I need to make an appointment with Dr. Lisa. If I never eat crab or shrimp again, no biggie. Just need guidance on how careful I'd need to be with cross-contamination.
Betsy - have a wonderful cruise and enjoy being away from our weather! So glad to hear your sister is stable. I've heard good things about immunotherapy and hopefully it will be the bright spot in cancer treatment in the future.
My cleaner is supposed to arrive at 8 but we have 3" of snow on the ground. Her house is on a hilly road so not sure if she'll brave it, we'll see.
Make it a wonderful day! Hugs to all!
Lanette
SW WA State
We got one last year that was a bit off.
Betsy- we have not bought either the internet package or the drink package on any of our cruises. The guys do buy the coffee card for the fancier coffees.
The one splurge I insists on(I am the cheap one in the family) is the cabin has to have a window. Each time we have upgraded a bit. Our first had the big window that didn't open, we were just above sea level and nice view of the water. I am very short(5') and I LOVED sitting IN the window. It was the perfect size for me. I spent a lot of time in there, if we weren't out and about.
Since then we have gotten the room with a balcony, either a small one or larger one. That is nice but, as long as I can see out, I am fine. DH wants the extra space and the balcony.
It is windy and a bit cool but going to do my first hour or so walk at the wetlands in over a week.
Will be sure to bundle up. 49 right now. I am sure the wind will pick up even more closer to the water
Dinner tonight will be taco's- everything is just about all prepped. Hopefully the guys will want them, if not, I will have them myself.
Son and his girlfriend dipped strawberries last night- did a bunch.
Brunch this morning was left over meatloaf and mashed potatoes. Don't usually eat anything and if I do, just a few babybel cheese. Think I will freeze the rest of the meatloaf if dh doesnt have any at lunch.3 -
Our Tarragon Chicken was fabulous. This is the recipe I used, but I prefer thighs to breast, so used them. Not slimming, of course, but I'm allowing an exception for today.
https://www.nigella.com/recipes/tarragon-chicken
Now we are having a digestion break until DH's apple and blackberry crumble.
I laid the table properly, so it was a nice change. I used the tealight holder I made at pottery class.
After dessert we are going to watch a very old Midsomer Murders.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx4 -
Afternoon ladies
I hope everyone is enjoying there Valentines day..
Found out earlier this morning.. a friend I went to school with,and worked with passed away ,she has 2 adult sons and 2 young granddaughters.
She has had her share of hardships and vices so i think it finally took its toll. Poor lady.
My friend Trudy is back home from her trip to Antarctica..
My little boy was a cutie today as always ..7 -
Speaking about my mother in law, she is is poor health, we're waiting for news from Lee's brother today. She is in her 90's but still, we are both worried.
Rebecca
Whidbey
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Happy Valentines Day friends!!
Okie in the TX Hill Country
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I ate 1098 calories today, 2 left. Talk about cutting it close! I should be done eating for the day, but I have said that before. Then dumbbells tonight.
I tried to put some smaller jeans on, but no luck. They went on, but so tight I was afraid to rip something. They aren't exactly new. I only have one pair of jeans that fits right now. So I will wear leggings to do laundry tomorrow.
Annie in Delaware5 -
Welcome newbies! (((hugs))) to those who need them.
OMG Rebecca! I can't even imagine. Pregnant and going through that. Not a happy pregnant lady would not even begin to describe me! But yeah, that kinda figures. I just thank God that Anne got medically discharged so her benefits followed her. She has to deal with the VA, but the MN VA is pretty, darned good.
Rita, I used to love my mucklucks! Haven't heard that word in ages.
14-Express creativity by making art, or cooking a new meal... every day!
Happy Valentine's Day!
Love and Blessings, Carla, in MN2 -
Anniesquats100 wrote: »I ate 1098 calories today, 2 left. Talk about cutting it close! I should be done eating for the day, but I have said that before. Then dumbbells tonight.
I tried to put some smaller jeans on, but no luck. They went on, but so tight I was afraid to rip something. They aren't exactly new. I only have one pair of jeans that fits right now. So I will wear leggings to do laundry tomorrow.
Annie in Delaware
Annie- all I wear are leggings, all year around. Now I wear either fleece or flannel ones, during the summer they are cotton capri length ones. They HAVE to be super soft or I won't even try them on. Yes, VERY picky. I have at least 20-25 pairs I would guess.
Can't remember the last time I wore jeans. I am sure it was at least 5 yrs ago. I have a pair I really like but haven't even tried to put them on in years.1 -
Stats for the day-
Walk w/family- 1hr 54min 38sec, windy!, 37elev, 3.04ap, 92ahr, 110mhr, 6.11mi= 588c
Strava app = 749c
Walk home to gym- 10.48min, .53mi= 55c
Strava app= 66c
Rowing machine- 25min, 44aw, 113ahr, 138mhr, 3767meters= 196c
Elliptical machine- 5min, 5incl, 5resist, 115ahr, 141mhr, .42mi= 65c
Lateral machine- 20min, 10wide, 3resist, 51arpm, 116ahr, 130mhr, 2.12mi= 151c
Walk gym to home- 10.35min, .60mi= 51c
Strava app= 74c
Total cal 1105
Took it easy at the gym, haven’t been there in a while.
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minicooper452 wrote: »Welcome newbies! (((hugs))) to those who need them.
OMG Rebecca! I can't even imagine. Pregnant and going through that. Not a happy pregnant lady would not even begin to describe me! But yeah, that kinda figures. I just thank God that Anne got medically discharged so her benefits followed her. She has to deal with the VA, but the MN VA is pretty, darned good.
Rita, I used to love my mucklucks! Haven't heard that word in ages.
14-Express creativity by making art, or cooking a new meal... every day!
Happy Valentine's Day!
Love and Blessings, Carla, in MN
The fact that I was walking my eldest son to school every morning a mile, and picking him up, well that was a desert trek all its own. I was not a driver back then. I remember bringing lots of water in the stroller (my middle was 3 and 1/2 yrs old) and I would just have water bottles to re wet sunhats, and baseball hats. I had a tripod foldable camp seat that I just put under the stroller. In moments where I thought I was gonna faint, I would bring that chair out and sit! When I delivered baby #3, doctor said my bag had to be popped manually, like a balloon, it was so strong! I also seemed to developed a sinus cold from all the pollen in Fairfield CA. Never bothered me before but I had a nebulizer and everything. So fearful when I went into labor I wouldn't be able to breathe well. Well once I did, like my sinuses opened up like heavens gate. Ahhhh! Yay!
Rebecca
Whidbey
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Karen: I showed my husband the baby and he was delighted with the pictures!
Lisa: Thinking of you!
Lanette: I have started the taxes but have yet to finish!
Tracey: I would be "very annoyed" if I had time coming to me and this wasn't being recognized.
Sue: Good luck with the vegetable garden!
Rebecca: I hope your son gets a promotion!
RvRita: How did you lose 60 pounds. I can't lose 15 pounds?
Grandmallie: Glad you got to the baptism.
Annie: Good for you for walking the 60 minutes!
Barbie: I love the: "No, Thank you! That's not my food" line.
Stronger Faith: Good luck on your weight loss journey!
Ycatss: Weight loss is hard. I don't like meat but have a lot of insulin resistance so shouldn't be eating pasta.
Machka: I love what Susan B Anthony said about bike riding!
Heather: Hope you DH is feeling better before bed in the evenings! Love your cooking!
Debbie: I have lost track. Is your MiL frail or ill. Why is your DH always there? You must be totally frustrated by the situation. Hang in there!
Happy Valentine's Day! Thank you to everyone for all your support when I lost the mobile help parts. I appreciate your thoughts very much. This set me back 104.00 and then another 100.00 to overnight mail the base that I did have to send back. So the whole thing was a fiasco. But it is behind me now!
We watch Escape to the Country about the Real Estate in England. We also watch MidSomer Murder which is very good and ran for many seasons..over 20 in Britain. I also put on Penelope Keith's Britain's Hidden Villages and leave it on with the sound turned off just to have the views on in the room!
Best,
Rosemarie from Georgia
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I did my dumbbells Yay! So it's a 300 calorie deficit day. Yay!
Annie in Delaware2 -
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Not bad, just noticed, 23186 steps5 -
Karen - I feel a lot of people get married because they don’t think anyone else will love them. It’s sad really.
My Grandson was not happy to have a little sister, he was concerned she would cry and keep him up all night. 😂. He loves her though. I think a lot has to do with how the parents handle it.
Machka - the blonde guy and black haired woman are probably Chip and Joanna Gaines. They have a whole television network now. She also has cookbooks, cooking shows, a magazine and several businesses in Waco Texas area.
Debbie - we had tacos tonight too.
Rebecca - thinking of you and Lee. No matter their age when we lose someone it takes a toll.
Annie - I have jeans that fit well, but I prefer leggings and softer materials these days. I don’t know how I thought they were comfortable I. My earlier years.
Spoke to my MIL today, she said she’s doing OK but the days are long. She has a daughter and granddaughter living with her, I hope they are spending time with her, not just off in their own worlds. Our niece does work so is gone 5 evenings a week.
The parcels we sent to ourselves from NB have arrived we will have to go pick them up Thursday. I can’t lift two of them by myself.
I think I’ll head to bed and read some. I’m bored and tired
Tracey in Edmonton
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Barbie That is so true! And funny!
Lanette My DH had eaten crab legs and lobster for years, but one time his lips swelled badly. No more shellfish or iodine for him.Betsy Have fun!
Hormone therapy? Any experiences? Thoughts? Thinking it might be worth checking in to.
I hope your Tuesday was all you hoped for!
Lots of Love,
Kylia in Ohio
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Rosemarie2972 wrote: »Karen: I showed my husband the baby and he was delighted with the pictures!
Debbie: I have lost track. Is your MiL frail or ill. Why is your DH always there? You must be totally frustrated by the situation. Hang in there!
Happy Valentine's Day! Thank you to everyone for all your support when I lost the mobile help parts. I appreciate your thoughts very much. This set me back 104.00 and then another 100.00 to overnight mail the base that I did have to send back. So the whole thing was a fiasco. But it is behind me now!
We watch Escape to the Country about the Real Estate in England. We also watch MidSomer Murder which is very good and ran for many seasons..over 20 in Britain. I also put on Penelope Keith's Britain's Hidden Villages and leave it on with the sound turned off just to have the views on in the room!
Best,
Rosemarie from Georgia
MIL fell back in June and broke bones in her hand and wrist then fell again(UTI) 3 ribs. At that time, she truly needed someone there all the time. She has gotten better but still WANTS(but doesnt NEED) dh's help all the time. He goes over every morning to give her breakfast, her pills and feed her dog, same thing at night. She is physically capable of doing more for herself but she wants to be waited on.
She is very mean towards him but he continues to wait on her, then complains to me. Is mad now because he is doing all of it himself. I was helping a lot- walking her dog every day, cooking a lot for her, all while she complained about me. Since my accident then surgeries, I have only been there once and I am totally fine with it.
She hates me and hates dh but there is no one else. Her other son, her favorite that still lived with her died in a car accident 11 yrs ago.
She is 86 yrs old. She doesn't want to be alone but has no friends because she has been mean to everyone.
He comes home all pissed because he picks up food(she will not even try it if she knows I cooked it now), and then she won't eat it. I just hope he is using her money to buy all this food for her twice a day, every day. He is mad about throwing so much food away. She tells him not to bother picking up food because she isn't eating anymore. I told him he can't force her to eat. Offer it and if she doesn't want to eat, let her go hungry. It is her choice.
We have tried hiring help to come in so he gets a break but she didn't like the lady. I told him he has to do something. He is beyond the breaking point right now.
I would be happy if we put her in a home which is what she says she wants(but she is expecting one that everyone caters to her every wish-NOT going to happen), clear out her house and rent it out to help cover the cost of the rest home. Don't want to sell her house.
Something needs to happen before something happens to him. All this stress is not good for him- he is diabetic, has high blood pressure. He is a total pessimist and doesn't let things go. He dwells on things forever. He is going to have a heart attack, stroke or do something to himself.
Tracey- didn't have the tacos- son and his girlfriend went out. Dh picked up pizza for his mom and ate over there. I didn't feel like making the tacos just for myself. Dinner ended up being cheesy mashed potatoes and a choc. dipped strawberry that son and his girlfriend made last night.
Tacos tomorrow I guess.
Debbie
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Feb 15 if you are waiting in line today, let someone go ahead of you. Do it all the time especially for moms with kids. I’m not in that big a hurry and am more comfortable with the little ones on their way out rather than behind me in line :devil:
Lovely stroll with Joe and the dogs to the mailbox though the breeze was B R I S K. Line dance party started at 5 and I pooped out at 7:15.
Welcome @mariekylco Marie from Co! I’ve had osteoporosis for decades, but unlike you was never particularly active. Now I do pt exercises, walk or dance daily-ish and have added some dumbbells for upperbody strength 3 days a week. I also take alendronate weekly. The bone loss seems to have slowed/stabilized, I haven’t broken anything since 2005 :laugh; IMHO its weight bearing exercise that helps the bones. Good luck!
Barbie I am a moderator, usually, and Joe is an abstainer. If he eats something, he eats it until its gone, so I’ve learned to portion any treats I make for him.
Betsy bon voyage!
Lanette glad you were cautious. Mama never had a seafood allergy until one time she ate a lot of shrimp on an empty stomach. Throat closed up, rushed to hospital, spent the weekend in an oxygen tent. Be careful!
Carol praying good results from your DH’s test.
Rebecca likewise prayers said for your MIL.
More I wanted to respond to but cannot keep eyelids up.02/14: Move: 3 sets PT, mailbox stroll with Joe and the dogs, line dance party. active mins:291 steps:8457 so farLighter, lovelies!
Fuel: plants running count for week so far: 15+2+5+1+4+0+1 =28 apple, basil, beets-baked+juice, carrot juice, celery juice, corn-kernels and muffin, cucumber, garbanzo beans, kidney beans, lettuce juice, mint jelly, onions, parsley juice, peanut butter, pecans, pepperoncini, popcorn, potatoes, radish, romaine, sauerkraut, soffritto, spinach juice, tangerines, tea, tomato juice/sauce/chunks in soup and chili, watercress juice, wheat (English muffin/pizza crust/rigatoni/sourdough). CI<CO=933
Live: Joe, readings, BP, one load laundry Wt: 138.0
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
2023: Be of good cheer.
February: Move more, fuel better, live NOW.
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Barbie That is so true! And funny!
Lanette My DH had eaten crab legs and lobster for years, but one time his lips swelled badly. No more shellfish or iodine for him.Betsy Have fun!
Hormone therapy? Any experiences? Thoughts? Thinking it might be worth checking in to.
I hope your Tuesday was all you hoped for!
Lots of Love,
Kylia in Ohio
Hormone therapy could have killed me. It increases the chances of blood clots in people like me who are genetically prone to developing blood clots and who have had blood clots before.
Big ol' no for me.
I struggled through years of perimenopause on my own until my husband's accident when it all became too much. Went to my gynaecological oncologist and was put on Effexor for depression and to reduce some of the perimenopause symptoms.
Still on it even though I have been fully in menopause for at least 2 years.
M in Oz3 -
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Virtual (((hugs))) and 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for all those those who need them.
🙋♀️ Miele failte to the newbies.
☘️ Terri
Pg 39
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mariekylco wrote: »Good morning- thought I'd introduce myself. My name is Marie. I'm 55 and live in lovely Northern Colorado with all sorts of outdoor opportunities. My goal is to gain muscle strength, improve core strength and lose weight overall. I am very active by nature as a nurse and a slow, long distance runner. I had been using MFP and working out the first half of 2022 with really good success- until I clumsily sustained 3 fractures in my toes in July. I wasn't healing and my doc wanted me in a fracture boot and basically stop most forms of exercise- not even swimming! I now am diagnosed with early stages of osteoporosis. Long story short, I put back on 10bs in 6mos. My husband and I are back on MFP. We have used it together to good success a few times, but seem to gain back whenever we are not mindful or we are injured. We both really love our outdoor exercise and probably rely on calorie burn for weight control more than our diets.
Are others also working on maintaining bone and improving strength and balance while losing weight?
Well done on the long distance running!
I'm a long distance cyclist ... or was until fairly recently, but I'm building up again.
As for maintaining bone and improving strength, I climb stairs, walk, lift weights, and do Pilates.
The climbing stairs really seems to help with weight loss.
I also rely more on calorie burn for weight control more than our diets.
Machka in Oz4 -
Poor New Zealand, our neighbouring country.
New Zealand authorities confirm four deaths, including child, as ex-Cyclone Gabrielle moves away and magnitude-6.1 quake strikes
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-02-15/bodies-found-as-cyclone-gabrielle-moves-away-from-new-zealand/101974994
Machka in Australia7 -
Recovering from a fall on glare ice on Monday. We have had a terrible year with ice. What happens is the huge snow pack we have melts then it goes below freezing and it will look like it is just wet but it becomes glare ice.
Nothing is broken or fractured but I was very sore. My right arm is getting better everyday. I am doing exercises and using arnica for the swelling and pain. It makes me understand how hard it was for my mom who broke one arm and fractured the other in a fall. The fractured arm always gave her problems after that happened to her.
I will be wearing what I call my nail boots until the ice situation improves.
Margaret13 -
(((hugs))) to those who need them.
Tracey, is the the daughter and granddaughter who "think" the house is going to be theirs "soon"? I would be a little concerned about some undue pressure, but that's me. Hope someone is watching out for MIL. Sorry...
OH NO Margaret! That is my biggest fear! We get that rain, cold, ice and you just don't know what's under the snow. Hope you feel better soon.
15-If you are waiting in line today, let someone go ahead of you... don't know where I'll be waiting in line, but the next time it happens, I will.
Love and Blessings, Carla, in MN4 -
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