WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR FEBRUARY 2023
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Rosemarie: My heart breaks for you. 💔 You were a wonderful caregiver to your DH. So much about your journey parallels what I went thru. It has been 21 months since he transitioned, but my grief still catches me at the most random moments. My DH's hospice facility provided me with excellent, free grief therapy for which I am forever grateful. Please be gentle with yourself physically and emotionally. Here for you if you ever need to talk offline....
Rori
Colorado Foothills
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Rosemarie - so sorry for your loss. Glad your DH's passing was peaceful and family were with you.
Everyone take care, Sue in WA0 -
Another dull morning, but it’s still early, so may brighten when the sun rises properly.
Katla: MFP has glitches all the time, so don’t feel stupid.
Yesterday went well. I finished a painting of calla lilies, and sketched out a landscape for my next one. My group are putting on a display at our next monthly meeting, so I am organising pieces for that at the minute.
Grief: It’s part of being human, and can hit us many years after the person has passed. It shows that we care deeply. We don’t ‘get over it’, we just learn to cope with it.
DH has to go for a kidney scan at 10am. It’s part of the monitoring process for his prostate. He’s a bit anxious as he had to drink 2 pints of water this morning.
No commitments today, so will work on prep for the week ahead.
Intentions for today
📍Creative Writing prep
📍Shakespeare prep - read Julius Caesar
📍Latin prep - grammar
📍Declutter bedroom surfaces
📍general chores
📍solid habits
Virtual (((hugs))) and 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for all those those who need them.
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☘️ Terri
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Rosemarie, so sorry to hear of your husband's passing, but glad it was peaceful.
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Ah, Rosemarie, Much love sent your way. I remember feeling such relief mixed in with the sorrow when my grandfather passed. I was 15, but had spent much time imagining what it must have been like for him to lose control of his body. When he died, I felt I had merged with him for a moment and like a bird let out of a cage, soared free. I rejoice and weep with you for his release.
Karen in Virginia6 -
Good morning ladies!
I am awake much too early again. There was a little noise, but I should have slept through it. Oh well. Now if I move too much Teddy will wake up and need to go out. That starts my day.
I found a video of the Strong Women Stay Young exercises. My book is due here on Thursday. So far, the program looks interesting, but the slow pace is killer. And I am wondering how it could integrate with my current dumbbell routine. The exercises overlap but the timing is all different. And it's only 30 mins instead of 75, so it burns fewer calories by MFP tracking.
Annie in Delaware
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I thought I was going to make it through this Covid vaccination without side effects, but 24 hours after receiving it, I experienced vertigo, headache, and fatigue - just as aqua exercise was winding up - so I plodded back to the apartment, stripped out of my swimsuit, put on a warm caftan, and collapsed into my recliner, where I have been except for pee breaks for me & the dogs for the last 16 hours. I feel better now. My wife had to fend for herself. She made herself soup and managed her own meds and water refills. I was grateful her side effects this time were minimal so I could surrender to the torpor, lol!!!
I expect today to be back to normal, as I am feeling much better now.10 -
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DH has to go for a kidney scan at 10am. It’s part of the monitoring process for his prostate. He’s a bit anxious as he had to drink 2 pints of water this morning.
Intentions for today
📍Creative Writing prep✔️
📍Shakespeare prep - read Julius Caesar
📍Latin prep - grammar
📍Declutter bedroom surfaces
📍general chores
📍solid habits
Virtual (((hugs))) and 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for all those those who need them.
🙋♀️ Miele failte to the newbies.
☘️ Terri
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Photos of my last landscape of Lindisfarne, and the calls lilies I finished yesterday.
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TerriRichardson112 wrote: »Photos of my last landscape of Lindisfarne, and the calls lilies I finished yesterday.
Beautiful ... and Lindisfarne is a suburb of Hobart.
M in Oz1 -
Exercise Totals:
Exercise time each day
I added in my commute walks
Machka in Oz
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Only if you're interested in doing something like this as we go along ...
Feel Good Feb and/or Exercising the Alphabet in FebruaryFeel Good Feb
https://www.actbelongcommit.org.au/programs-initiatives/feelgood-feb/
Exercising the Alphabet in February
In other words, on February 1, you'd walk to a street that starts with A or do an exercise video hosted by someone whose name starts with A or something ... A.
On February 2, you'd go swimming at a Beach or play a game of Baseball or something ... B.
On February 3, you'd go Cycling or Climb some stairs or something ... C.
and so on.
There are, of course, 26 letters in the alphabet and 28 days in February, so you'd have 2 free days if you didn't exercise those days or couldn't fit in the next letter of the alphabet.I have listed several January highlights so that meets the calendar suggestion for February 1...
And I walked to the Asian "dollar store" next to the Asian grocers and bought Art supplies at lunch today. That'll be my A.
Put myself in someone else's shoes --- I've been treating my difficult work colleague with kindness by talking to her about her son, complimenting her skirt, talking quietly and gently to her and so on.
And today, I walked to Bathurst Street to Buy some Books. I also climbed stairs in my Building.
Watch a movie that reminds me of kindness --- probably not tonight!
C is for Climbing and walking on Collins St!
Take a picture of three things that make you happy --
D is for exercising Downstairs!
Rowing - 16 minutes
Walking - 38 minutes
Weights - 10 minutes
Be kind to yourself -- Sleep, gardening and cycling!
E is for Exercising!
Plus we cycled on Endeavour Ave and the Esplanade.
Start a conversation with someone new --- I'm not the sort to strike up random conversations, or conversations at all. But I did chat with a person I met recently and one I haven't seen in a few months today.
And ... F!
Consider a current struggle. Write down two thoughts that bring you comfort.
Hmmm ... A current struggle, like only one? Let's go with waiting. I feel like I spend most of my life waiting.
And a walk to the botanical Gardens through the rose Garden!
Consider and celebrate diversity! Does that include people who look at things completely differently than you do? If so ... woohoo! I've had that opportunity today!
H is for Hobart - walking around. And Hanging clothes outside.
Identify a role model who embodies perseverance and find 2 ways to emulate them.
Well, I don't have role models ... and I've persevered as much or possibly even more than many people I know.
However, today was brought to you by the letter I. I did walk by and around IMAS (Institute for Marine and Antarctic Studies).
Check an item off your to do list this weekend!
YES! I tidied a shelf in the kitchen. I've been meaning to do that for months but finally did it today. There was a large quantity of rubbish on that shelf ... more than I thought. So, much of the cleaning process was just throwing things out.
I've also been dusting our entertainment unit and all the stuff on it.
And I went outside and tidied the area right in front of our front door which involved moving a whole bunch of pots and other garden things to a different location and then sweeping out a year's worth of leaves and stuff. I climbed up and down and up and down stairs doing that.
This evening I made an attempt at digging the area I want to plant things next to my dry stream. I got a new spade which is great, but even so, there are so many roots, I'll need to use something else to break it up.
Just getting rid of Junk and Jabbing the Soil
Make twice as much for dinner and either invite guests or deliver a meal to a friend ...
We're actually doing that sort of dinner thing on Tuesday.
Meanwhile, all my exercise was in K ... Kingborough today!
Cycling:
Heaving a heavy mattock in the garden:
And walking our Kitty, Rhody.
Make a list for the week ahead so you stay focused.
I have one massive ongoing things to do list with the most urgent things at the top.
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Walking exercised my Legs.
Gardening exercised all my Limbs!
Consider a recent disagreement. Did you extend forgiveness?
Yes.
I don't like being at odds with people.
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Meandering around Bunnings.
Moving the Mattock.
Express creativity! I finished another version of my Project Plan!! That's as creative as I had a chance to be today.
N = Nowhere
I walked the stairs to nowhere and the road to nowhere.
If you are in line today, let someone go ahead of you. I do every now and then.
O - walking Rhody near home.
The next time someone does something you appreciate, let them know. I did today!
P - Perusing the shops today while it rained outside and Purchasing a few things.
Offer a helping hand to someone such as holding the door for a stranger. I do this now and then ... probably about once a week.
Q is for Queen.
My lunch walk was around the Queen's Domain!
Share about a recent book you read and what you learned.
The recent books I have read have been fictional mystery/suspense, and I have confirmed I like this genre for relaxation and stress relief.
R is for Rocks.
Hauling rocks. Placing rocks.
And walking Rhody.
Show sincere appreciation when someone serves you food or drink. I always thank my husband when he serves dinner.
S is for ... Sifting and Shovelling through Soil. Gardening ... I was gardening.
Compliment someone today. I didn't have a chance today because there was hardly anyone around.
T is for Target!
It was raining again today so I walked through the shops.
Where was I before I was swallowed up by work??
Feb 21 - When you recognise someone is struggling, offer words of support.
Frequently, with my husband
U - Another rainy day so I walked up and down through the shops.
Feb 22 - Ask for help. That's a simple way to express bravery
I frequently ask for help. I don't often get help, but I ask.
V - Vinnies!! I walked to Vinnies ... but didn't buy anything. 3.15 km plus commute walk.
Feb 23 - Encourage your teammates to utilise their unique strengths
Yes, and I thanked so many people today.
W - Walked!! 2 km plus commute walk.
Feb 24 - Reflect on steps you have taken to achieve past goals.
Somewhat appropriate for today.
In brief, I accomplish goals by writing them down and breaking them down into steps. Then I work my way through the steps.
X - marks the spot!
Spotted on my walk today!
Feb 25 - Express gratitude today by thanking someone.
Every day. And this week, I've thanked a lot of people! My husband for doing such a good job cleaning the house and doing garden work. So many people at work for giving me the opportunities and for being so warm and welcoming.
Feb 26 - Think about the upcoming work week. How can you apply teamwork?
By not being there? Hopefully my husband and I will be able to apply teamwork.
In the alphabet exercise challenge I have Y and Z to go.
Yesterday could have been Y ... Y not go downstairs and row given that it is pouring rain! We'll see if another Y presents itself today.
Feb 27. Send or leave a handwritten thank you note to someone.
This rarely happens. Pretty much the only time I handwrite is when I'm quickly jotting notes at work.
Zipping around a local neighbourhood on our bicycles in a bit of a Zephyr!
Feb 28. Giving constructive feedback is one way to ignite honesty.
Yes it is, and I had a month of igniting honesty.
Machka in Oz
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Anniesquats100 wrote: »Good morning ladies!
I am awake much too early again. There was a little noise, but I should have slept through it. Oh well. Now if I move too much Teddy will wake up and need to go out. That starts my day.
I found a video of the Strong Women Stay Young exercises. My book is due here on Thursday. So far, the program looks interesting, but the slow pace is killer. And I am wondering how it could integrate with my current dumbbell routine. The exercises overlap but the timing is all different. And it's only 30 mins instead of 75, so it burns fewer calories by MFP tracking.
Annie in Delaware
You are supposed to lift weights relatively slowly, concentrating on good form and flexing the muscle.
When you lift weights, what do you do for 75 minutes?
M in Oz
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Morning ladies
Woke up to snow but no worries im over with mr Miles..
Tracy went to work as did Kyle,Carmine is home from school.1 -
Welcome newbies and returnees! (((hugs))) to those who need them.
Kylia, that's what I keep saying to myself! I guess I am thankful I have a job I enjoy most of the time. (I just don't enjoy some of the people I work with some of the time)
Terri, those are beautiful! Watercolor is one thing I never mastered.
28-Giving constructive feedback is one way to ignite honesty... I try to be constructive. I just don't think people even like constructive anymore.
Love and Blessings, Carla, in MN3 -
TerriRichardson112 wrote: »Photos of my last landscape of Lindisfarne, and the calls lilies I finished yesterday.
Oh my gosh, Irish Terri! These are spectacular!
Karen in Virginia3 -
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Machka I have about 35 different exercises and stretches including planks, crunches, chair squats, deadlift to upright row, 2leg lift variations, punches, bicep curls, row, overhead lift, calf raises, and many more. It takes me longer, but I log it as 75 minutes. I use light weights and move faster than "real" strength weightlifting. My goal is more about burning calories than building muscle.
I don't know if I could handle the recommended slow pace. I'm too impatient and it makes me lose count when my mind wanders. Plus the fast way is working for weight loss. I'm probably not getting the full benefit, but I'm getting it done.
Annie in Delaware
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Morning, afternoon or evening, y'all...
Terri - the callas are beautiful, as is Lindisfarne! I may have to find a watercolor tutorial online, as I can't seem to get what I want with watercolors.
Rosemarie - Thinking of you still. We're all here with you as you start the next chapter of your life.
Karen - I love that image, while still noting that there's an intensity to it that is more than I can muster these days.
Plumbers were supposed to show up at 8 a.m. to swap the walk-in shower for a tub/shower combo--I have my doubts they will show up at all today, but have cleaned everything out of the bathroom that's movable anyway. Not even really sure why I have my doubts, except the contractor who runs the plumbing teams showed up in a spanking new, bright white, 2023 Mustang to take a look and give us a bid. It's just past 8 a.m. and no sign of them yet. I'll give him to 8:30 and I'll call.
I doubt it will do any good, because honestly, he just felt shady as all get out, and pinning him to any date or time or even a specific dollar bid was almost impossible. I finally said, "OK then, I'll see your team on Tuesday morning at 8 a.m.," and he said, "Sure." I also winkled out of him a rate ($125 an hour) and I've purchased the needed materials. It should just take three or four hours according to him. We'll see what happens. I hate being suspicious of people, but was really triggered by that darn car for some reason. I'll gladly eat my words if they do show up at all.
Have I mentioned how much I hate having people in my house? Yeah, I probably have. Not looking forward to all this at all. I really need to flip that script and be grateful that we have the finances to afford getting it done.
✅ - Maintain my weight: Made it! I was at 149.9 on the last day of January, and was 145.0 this morning. I am trying to keep my weight in the 145-150 range from here on out.
✅- Be healthier: I am having better days, a little more energy, a little less brain fog.
X - Stick to the budget: Nope, didn't make it. The materials and labor to get the new tub put in blew our budget this month. It's hopefully the last major job for a while. Still putting money away, just not as much as we could have.
My cup of tea is done, time to straighten up my office.
Love y'all!
Lisa in AR
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Ginny ... "astoundingly poor food choices" would be my reference to binges of an embarrassing nature ... I've moved on from it.
Karen ... your words to Rosemarie are perfect ...
I am glad this is the last day of February. Very much ready for a new month.
Beth near Buffalo5 -
DH & I are in Illinois. Our son & daughter are packing up our belongings in Oregon and will bring them to Illinois where our daughter lives. A neighbor will be buying our home in Oregon.
Our Oregon home is wonderful, but DH can no longer climb stairs to second story bedrooms. I would happily find a single story home in our Oregon town, but our kids want us to be close to them.
DH has health issues and is doing better. We are currently living in a senior citizen facility. DH is improving and is in the care of registered nurses. I can visit him any time. I am in an apartment in the same building. My neighbors are healthy and are pleasant companions. 🌸
Katla in Illinois7 -
(((Rosemarie)))
(((Carla)))
Terri WOW!
Lisa I feel the same way about having a workman in our home. DH does not understand the prep work and clean up that is needed. I found it is better to be proactive. We lost a shelf once because I did not take it off the wall when we had some work done. I was left with the clean up. I am sure they heard it fall. I was not home at the time. (Working) DH was and he did not clean it up. A Handyman wants to work fast and they do not take the care that you or I would. Hope they come and get work done quickly. Fortunately it was an old shelf I hung in the basement, and it was expendable.
Newbies Watch for Barbie to give us a way to access March. It will appear sometime today. Click on it and it will send you to the new month. Make sure to bookmark it in the upper right hand corner. It will look like a small flag. See you next month. Go to bookmarks to find us again when you want access.4 -
Terri your watercolors are fabulous!
Karen glad you are feeling better.
Lisa I see you were feeling better this month. Yay for improvement, even if it's slow.
I have to buy groceries today, then start a pot roast. Then my dumbbells. Nothing exciting.
Annie in Delaware3 -
Anniesquats100 wrote: »Machka I have about 35 different exercises and stretches including planks, crunches, chair squats, deadlift to upright row, 2leg lift variations, punches, bicep curls, row, overhead lift, calf raises, and many more. It takes me longer, but I log it as 75 minutes. I use light weights and move faster than "real" strength weightlifting. My goal is more about burning calories than building muscle.
I don't know if I could handle the recommended slow pace. I'm too impatient and it makes me lose count when my mind wanders. Plus the fast way is working for weight loss. I'm probably not getting the full benefit, but I'm getting it done.
Annie in Delaware
Annie- I think the Strong Women Stay Young program is designed for women to develop some muscle and strength, not weight loss. And avoid injury to our older joints. As you read the book, you'll see that the goal of strength training is to fatigue the muscles which makes them stronger by gradually upping weights. Some calories might be burned in the process, lol, but I don't think it does what cardio (like riding a bike or HIIT - high intensity interval training) - would do.
But, I'm a big fan of "if it works for you, don't fix it."
Lanette
SW WA State
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I am not happy with today's effort, but at least I painted something! I've been putting off painting this view because it's important to me. I can't seem to do it the way I want it, but it's better to do something than nothing and it's a learning curve. Terri, I love your new work!
This is Sunset from my Bedroom Window.
Love Heather UK xxxxxx
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Oh good grief, I love being over sixty.
I phoned the contractor at 8:30 and left a message, because of course he didn't pick up his phone... so I texted him at 9:30 and said, since he had not contacted me or shown up, I would assume by 10 a.m. that he doesn't want our business and call another plumbing firm. I got a call from him at 9:32 telling me where his crew is, and that they would be here within the hour.
When I was younger, that would have been really hard for me to do--I would assume it was my fault and just sit and wait and fume. We'll see if they show up within the hour, still. I don't have any issues with getting a different company in.
And on the flip side, I could not find my phone earpiece - I'm not fond of holding a phone to my ear, and have a hard time hearing it if my phone is in another room, so I generally have an earpiece in my ear. It's amazing how much cleaning you can get done when you're trying to find something small! Finally found it under the couch. Egg's fault, I'm thinking, but when I scolded her, she just blinked at me. Silly cat. But at least the house is cleaner...
Later, y'all,
Love,
Lisa7 -
DH is on his way to see his heart doctor. I am not accompanying him today. I hope DH will tell me about the Doctor visit.
Katla4
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