WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JUNE 2023

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  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,084 Member
    I can't remember who it was that asked about me taking her for a weekend..it won't happen.. she doesn't want to spend time with me either and treats me just as rude as she does her parents
    The only ones she kisses up to are Seths parents ,they don't know how mean and spiteful she can be..
    If she is stealing from her grandfather who is to say she wouldn't do it to me..
    I love her to pieces .but she is just off the handle right now and I told Tracy that you guys spent money trying to have Miles now is time to spend some on trying to get Taliah back..its up to them..
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,588 Member
    Morning ladies
    Woof this morning was a nightmare...not for me but for Tracy....
    She had a meltdown..Carmine is just beyond beyond.. she is doing as she pleases.. and Tracy with Kyle away is dealing with it alone..no more therapy,because the therapist said all she does is go to crab about how mistreated and horrible her life is..
    So no more therapy.. she didn't show up to the house Tracy found out she was hanging out at a local restaurant.. well at least let mom know where you are..
    She stole pills from her grandfather, so she is no longer aloud down there ,granted it was only melatonin but still.. so Tracy went through her room last night.. so Carmine came down and started going through her parents room..and so it goes..
    They can get no help anywhere financially because they make to much.. and I told her to call the crisis line..its now or never..
    It is effecting Miles for sure..

    Just thoughts by someone not in the situation. ~Your Granddaughter is *screaming out for attention, from the people that are suppose to love her the most! Her family. She has gotten away with the negative behavior for so long.. its her and the families normal. Has her parents tried spending time .. -quality time with her only. Plan a long weekend the 3 of them, so she can have that one on one with her mom and dad so she understands -she -matters to them! It’s hard to compete with a cute toddler. The therapist needs a therapist.

    Very insightful!
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,588 Member
    I have lost 4 kg (8.8 lbs) from the high weight I hit after my holiday in March/early April. So that's 4 kg down in about 2 months. :)

    How?
    Cutting back on food a little bit.
    Climbing lots and lots of stairs. I've climbed 230 flights of 20 stairs so far this month. Up and down, plus landings.
    Plus walking, cycling, and jogging.

    Machka in Oz
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,084 Member
    Well i just looked at the Quest lab results hmmm,screen shot this wb8bs3phssap.jpg
    Yikes.. not jumping to any conclusions until i see a rheumatologist..
  • skuehn48
    skuehn48 Posts: 3,038 Member
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  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,588 Member
    Rori - So glad your boys won the championship. A great achievement. <3
    You truly do need to be super fit to be able to do these events. Excellent job! I would be out of it after a couple of hours!

    My fitness has much declined since I broke my wrist. Less exercise and too much eating. I can really feel it. Fortunately, once I get on the ship, I always go low carb, apart from evening alcohol, so I don't usually put much weight on, despite the gorgeous food. It's easy to eat masses of salad and veg, plenty of protein, and there is zero fear of going hungry. Someone else preparing it for you means you get loads of salad variety. I don't miss the carbs. I love the dancing twice a day and we get up early in the morning for a gym session. Plus LOADS of stairs! I hope to come back fitter. as I'm missing my old body and fitness. On port days there is usually quite a bit of walking, sometimes a lot! I'm not going on DH'S hikes though. I think there is a lot of uneven ground and I can't put much weight on my hand, or grip properly yet.

    Yesterday I really felt the heat, and my thigh was playing up. It didn't go into spasm, but I was limping a bit. Coming home was better with a couple of Nurofen after lunch. I enjoyed the Gwen John exhibition, but the rooms were over warm. Several wonderful, touching, genius, pictures.
    It was lovely seeing G and we ate lunch under umbrellas and trees in the courtyard. Very green and restful.
    It seems as if the old demon trains have been retired, and newer ones procured. The old three carriage ones had no toilets and our very local station is just a halt with nothing. I didn’t use the facilities, as my journey was shorter than normal, but it is reassuring to know they're there. I caught an earlier train, so got home by 4 pm.

    Today will be exercise, with a short test of rowing to see how my wrist gets on . Very short. Then a very short last writing session, just to say I've done it, then starting on the packing, mainly sorting the small stuff, like jewellery, medicines, accessories, shoes and toiletries. Decisions. Clothes don't take long, because I have a small wardrobe and I always take the same things. I do wear them all!
    Monday is the off!

    Love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxxx (who really, really, wants to get her fitness back)

    Have an extra glass of water when your thighs cramp.
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,588 Member
    ginnytez wrote: »
    Allie-hopefully you can get a definitive answer. With either condition you need to take care of yourself. Question-did you say recently that Kyle and Tracey were celebrating 5 years? Is Kyle Carmine's biological father?
    Rosemarie-too bad about the van. I am sure it will sell.
    Rori-what a cool experience.
    Annie-could you maybe contact someone like Best Buy Geek Squad? It might be worth the money (and your sanity).
    Pip-I am glad you found your key (I totally missed it was lost!)

    Food pantry went well. Haven't got report of how many served yet. Pleasant evening, rain held off. All of the people were in a good mood.

    Only working around 5 hours tomorrow (have to use some vacation or lose it). Monday is a holiday. I may. do som stuff over the week end to get out of way before vacation trip on July 25.

    Take care all,

    Ginny in Ohio

    I wondered whether Kyle was Carmine's father too and if he were a second husband for Tracy. It's a bit unusual to want a second child with the same father/husband so many years later but it is more common to want a child with a new husband.

    I read an article recently that said Americans tend not to take all their vacation leave. The article gave several reasons.

    I found that amazing because I (and other Australians) take time off whenever we can! We love our holiday time.

    I took today off. 😀

    M in Oz

  • TerriRichardson112
    TerriRichardson112 Posts: 19,001 Member
    Just keeping up to date with y’all. I’m winding down into summer time. We are having an unusual spell of balmy weather, so I’m spending lots of time in the garden.


    Rebecca: You’re a good sister.
    Heather: A good way to approach the food on board. Go for the quality, in moderation of course 😝 and ignore the sugar fest.
    Allie: Not a happy situation for anyone involved. (((Hugs)))
    Rori: What an experience for you. You
    look very relaxed. It certainly keeps you fit.

    Time to get up and move. DH is doing an online yoga class downstairs and I am doing Pilates.

    🤗 🤗 🤗 and 🙏🏻 🙏🏻 🙏🏻 to all who need/want them.

    ☘️ Terri
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,690 Member
    edited June 2023
    Terri - I also don't eat any potatoes, rice, pasta, bread, cakes etc, though I do usually have a bowl of porridge at least once during the trip as I never have that at home and I love it. I even have the savouries at afternoon tea, no scones, and just eat the toppings off them. :p The butler brings canapés to the suite at 5.30 and I do the same - just eat the prawn and caviar! It all works perfectly for me. I do not have a sweet tooth anyway.
    The speciality restaurants on this ship, which is the sister ship of the one we've been on before, are Nepalese and Italian. We won't bother with the Italian, but will try the Nepalese. I love that kind of food, but it's difficult if you're not eating rice or noodles. I actually prefer eating at our window table in the dining room where the food is nearly always excellent and the waiters know my funny little ways. "No potatoes, extra vegetables, " and 'smelly, runny cheese please, celery and a few walnuts." After a couple of days I don't have to ask. :p The portions are very moderate, so I never feel stuffed. Small starter, main with veg, and cheese. Neither of us are dessert eaters anyway.
    We like to eat at our table for two and size up the couple at the next table before we choose to chat. Mostly we don't, but sometimes they look promising. It's amazing how few people are good conversationalists. We have never made 'friends' with anyone, because we prefer our own company, and we are very different to the normal demographic. We often have more interaction with the visiting lecturers and performers. Plus our butler! :p
    Can't wait! 17 nights. So glad my hand is functioning better. It's improving every day.

    I've been learning Norwegian on Duolingo for years now. Still not very good! I do it every day.

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,084 Member
    Morning ladies
    Didn't sleep very well at all last night.In alot of pain and can't help worrying about Carmine and the whole family..
    I have a 1 yr old Birthday party to go to tomorrow, here is hoping im up for it..
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,588 Member
    Machka: 8 months on the road with the blue bike! What an adventure that must have been!

    Best,
    Rosemarie from Georgia

    It was!

    2012. We "retired" ... my contract came to an end, my husband ended his contract. We did not renew our lease. We put everything into storage. And we hit the road for the next 8 months.

    Hong Kong
    Taiwan
    Japan
    Scotland
    The Netherlands
    Germany
    Luxembourg
    Switzerland
    France
    England
    And then throughout North America. However, we borrowed my parent's van for that part and cycled in the places we stopped along the way. Vancouver to Florida to California and up the west coast.
    Then over to Western Australia ... and finally back to Victoria, Australia where we had started.

    M in Oz

  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,244 Member
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  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,588 Member
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  • DerbyRose
    DerbyRose Posts: 2 Member
    This blog is really great! Thank you!!
  • fanncy0626
    fanncy0626 Posts: 7,152 Member
    Rebecca
    🎉🥳🎂Happy Birthday 🎂🥳🎉

    💕Mary from Minnesota/Arizona
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,084 Member
    Morning again ladies
    Kyle just got home,poor guy is exhausted..been up for more than 24 hrs.. theybleft around 10 last night and there dad passed at midnight.. so at least they got to see him,and he knew that they were there when they first came.. So thats a blessing.
    It is all quiet now.Tracy at work,Carmine in her room Miles finally down for a nap and Kyle finally getting some much needed rest.
    Haven't heard anything from rheumatologist so will call them when I get home.
  • Anniesquats100
    Anniesquats100 Posts: 3,284 Member
    Good morning ladies!

    Happy birthday Rebecca!

    Flea, hope your family troubles smooth out.

    Katiebug, great loss!

    Heather, glad your hand is feeling better. How exciting to be preparing for a cruise! When I went, I discovered my clothes were all wrong. How cool to have it all figured out.

    Ginny my dad does have a tech support service he can call. He does that after I tell him to reboot. It still makes me nervous because I don't really trust the service.

    It's day one of my sister challenge. Lots of exercise today! And sticking to my diet. I have a pot roast to make for my parents, and some laundry to do. Should be an easy day.

    Annie in Delaware


  • LisaInArkansas
    LisaInArkansas Posts: 2,877 Member
    Rebecca - Happy birthday!
  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,588 Member
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  • minicooper452
    minicooper452 Posts: 643 Member
    (((hugs))) to those who need them.

    How wonderful for you, Rori!!! Congrats to your team.

    Allie! As much as you'd like our support/advice to show to Tracy, DON'T! DO NOT SHARE that you have shared all of their family troubles online. OMG! From personal experience, children do not want you sharing their private issues with anyone else, whether they know them or not. And then to "throw advice in their face" (in their opinion) is what it would feel like. No. Don't do it. We're here to support you and give you advice to share with her IF you choose to "from YOUR years of experience being on this earth". That's all. And just watching others go through things.
    Good luck on your diagnoses, neither of which are great news, but at least they're something that could be treated.
    I'm so very sorry for the loss of Kyle's dad.

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY REBECCA!!!
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    Love and Blessings, Carla, in MN
  • fanncy0626
    fanncy0626 Posts: 7,152 Member
    Allie sorry for the loss of Kyle’s Dad and prayers for comfort for their family and friends.

    💕 Mary from Minnesota/Arizona
  • ginnytez
    ginnytez Posts: 1,399 Member
    Allie-prayaers for Kyle and family. Also-I second what Carla said about not letting them know you have talked about everything. Please don't overthink lab tests yet.
    Tracy-hope you find the additional support you need.
    Lisa-I think we all need to goose ourselves occasionally!
    Rebecca-happy birthday!

    Catching up on some work odds and ends this morning. Clocked off to do some stuff while I am waiting on some report information I need to deal with before the weekend officially starts. Got in a 3 mile walk to start my day.

    Take care all,

    Ginny in Ohio