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Whidislander wrote: »I had imagined that this winter (just ending) would be slow and relaxing. I envisioned getting the puzzles out and doing lots of reading. I even imagined I would make progress on the office mess.
Then I blinked and it's almost the end of winter. I am well behind on several things. Plus the puzzles and office haven't been touched.
So many other things came up!
On bees ...
A queen lives about 5 or 6 years while other bees (scouts, guards, nurses, foragers, etc.) live 3-6 weeks.
Early in her life, the queen takes a flight where she mates with a drone. She returns to the hive and proceeds to lay eggs in the honeycomb cells. The brood is tended by the nurse bees and most of the brood grow up to be scouts, guards, nurses, foragers, etc. This process keeps going and going because the scouts, guards, nurses, foragers, etc. have short lives.
But in the spring, sometimes the nurse bees choose a few female larvae, feed them royal jelly, and raise them up to be queens.
When one hatches, the old queen will usually leave and will take about 2/3 of the bees with her ... in a swarm. If you ever see a swarm, leave them alone, contact your local beekeeping association and someone will come and get them. Those swarms are highly valued.
Meanwhile, the new queen will kill all the other would-be queens and will set up shop in the hive. If the old queen doesn't leave in time, she'll be killed by the new queen too.
The old queen and her followers will be collected by someone (or will set up a hive in a tree or chimney or something), and the year will pass. Next spring, the same sort of thing might happen.
Our bees were a caught swarm, so we can't know for sure how old the queen was. She could have been nearing the end of her life.
The brood box was empty so I figure she passed on at least 3-6 weeks ago, the nurse bees got the last set of larvae hatched, and then there was no more.
So yes, it happens from time to time.
The Queen Bee: her birth, life and death
https://www.geesbees.ca/post/the-queen-bee
And yes, we'll clean things up and see if we can obtain another swarm.
Machka in Oz
I find the world of bees fascinating! When you tell it, it sounds like a Medieval kingdom, I can picture the story in my head. The old Queen with her loyal followers, retreating to another part of the kingdom in the dark of night. Truth be told, I am scared to death of them. One of my phobias.
Rebecca
Whidbey
Wa
One of the neat things about the bees is that all of them, except the drones, are female. So all the worker bees - nurses, guards, scouts, foragers, etc are female.
M in Oz
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It has happened! My youngest called today! I was like, "is this really you"???? He's like," yes mom I'm sorry, so sorry". I was crying, he was crying! Then we all relaxed and had the best 2 and a half hour chat.💖 Oh my heart. I am beyond the moon.
I am breathing a sigh of relief.💖🙏👍⚓
Rebecca
Whidbey
WA
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Our chat!
Rebecca
Whidbey
Wa
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Rebecca-I hopped back on because I realized I didn't give you message for your sister-please tell her from one widow to another, there are no rule books for this thing. It's been 8 years for me and some days I am still crazy. She will feel what she feels and that is totally ok. AND THEN-I see your news! That is epic-we have all been hoping for you and there he is-the prodigal son returns! So happy for you.
Pip-I think I like the looks of your camping set up better than my house!
Allie-hope you get some relief soon and can enjoy your trip.
Rita-good for you working on not drinking. I think there are some on-line AA groups-some of them may be separate from Facebook. The reading for both AA and Alanon hold wisdom.
Nothing much else to say today-can't top Rebeca's news!
Take care all,
Ginny in Ohio
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Whidislander wrote: »It has happened! My youngest called today! I was like, "is this really you"???? He's like," yes mom I'm sorry, so sorry". I was crying, he was crying! Then we all relaxed and had the best 2 and a half hour chat.💖 Oh my heart. I am beyond the moon.
I am breathing a sigh of relief.💖🙏👍⚓
Rebecca
Whidbey
WA
Oh Rebecca! I'm crying tears of joy and relief for you.
I am so happy all is well
Flea
Willamette Valley OR6 -
Whidislander wrote: »
Our chat!
Rebecca
Whidbey
Wa
He looks wonderful! I love seeing all three of you together.6 -
Woo hoo Rebecca! So very, very glad you have finally heard from your son. Loved the pic of your sister and Tucker.
Smokey again here today. Can't stay outside too long or I start wheezing. Had to go do followup mammo and then ultrasound today. Computer was down in the garage so valet parking was free. Computers at breast center were not working quite right so the overlays for the 3D were very slow but everything is stable. Just have to go back in 6 months.
Rita - good for you. I liked that quote.
All is well with relatives in So Cal. Even the house in Mexico came through unscathed.
Everyone take care, Sue in WA
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Wonderful news Rebecca! So happy for you.
My mosquito bitten skin has turned into hives so glad that I started taking Claritin yesterday. Felt relief about 2 hours after taking one gel cap. Took another this morning and will probably continue for a few more days to make sure it clears up.
Made some dills today and bread and butter pickles. My cucumber patch is so big. Need to cut back next year and space my plant rows further apart. With all the rain and heat this year my plants grew so well. I have a lot of space so can spread out my garden more and make it easier to pick everything.
Booked a trip for next year in June. Going to Newfoundland on an escorted bus tour. Booked early as I wanted a guaranteed departure tour that was a small group tour of 24 maximum. It’s a 13 day tour that circles the entire province and also includes one day in Labrador. I have seen all provinces in Canada except Newfoundland and Quebec. Quebec is on my wish list for 2025.
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Rebecca Yippee for your good news 🌞🌻🌼
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Debbie – glad the heat helped with the itch. A friend of ours does the same thing – he runs hot water over the itch. Same idea.
Pip – I have to ask – why bother living in the other place?
Allie – my pool noodle broke and I wish I could find some. None of the stores around here have them. Either they never got them in this season or they are all sold out.
Lisa – I use a book calendar to keep track of things like what we’re going to eat for dinner that night, what exercise I have planned, and our engagements, sometimes things like people’s birthdays, etc.
Lanette – yea Fairy!
Rebecca – there’s no way I’d put peanut butter on the waffle! But everything else sounds so good
Cynthia – can you show me a pic of your trike?
Rebecca – so happy for you, doing a happy dance
Took my walk then made rice krispie bars for Vince. I got these marshmallows on sale, but they were the giant ones. Cut them in half and added more rice krispies. Probably should have added more but I had to guess as to how much butter and rk to use.
Michele NC
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Rebecca - I'm crying tears of joy for you!
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Rebecca: You made my evening! I am so excited for you! You all look wonderful in the pictures!2
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Awww Rebecca that is the most wonderful happy news!!!!Yipeee
He is safe and sound..
Rita- my dad was in Al- Anon for over 40 yrs and my mom was a friend of Bill W for almost 20 before she passed.. i have been to many a meeting with her and with dad.. I give you a whole lot of credit..
I slept for a few hrs.and will go back to sleep in a little bit,then get up in the morning and take a shower have to be at the rheumatologist at 10..hopefully get some answers.3 -
Whidislander wrote: »It has happened! My youngest called today! I was like, "is this really you"???? He's like," yes mom I'm sorry, so sorry". I was crying, he was crying! Then we all relaxed and had the best 2 and a half hour chat.💖 Oh my heart. I am beyond the moon.
I am breathing a sigh of relief.💖🙏👍⚓
Rebecca
Whidbey
WA
Oh my stars and whiskers, Rebecca... I'm so incredibly glad for you. I know that two and a half hours are what your mama's heart needed more than anything in the world. And I'm so GLAD the first words out of his mouth were "I'm sorry." They needed to be, and you needed to hear them. Oh my. Trying not to cry over here.
Joy - Corey's cucumbers just finally stopped producing, and only three plants produced more pickles than he will eat in the next two years! He pulled them out and said the same as you - they needed more room to spread and grow so he could get to them. He has plans for a different trellis design next year. His tomatoes are still producing like crazy, though.
Sue - So pleased your people are ok in SoCal, and that your scans are showing stable.
Cynthia - One of our newest members - welcome! We're glad you're here.
Slept for an hour and a half on the couch, the heat just really takes me down fast... but got what I was looking for in town before I fell over. It's still 103 degrees outside. I think I'll just stay in the house tomorrow.
Later, y'all,
Love,
Lisa in AR
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Rebecca - What a relief for you.
So glad.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx1 -
Rebecca - We are doing a happy dance with you and Lee
Owain looks happy, healthy, and great. Bet you'll play the conversation back in your head a hundred times (were you able to record it?)
I can't think of better news than that. Have a wonderful evening.
Lanette5 -
Rebecca-I hopped back on because I realized I didn't give you message for your sister-please tell her from one widow to another, there are no rule books for this thing. It's been 8 years for me and some days I am still crazy. She will feel what she feels and that is totally ok. AND THEN-I see your news! That is epic-we have all been hoping for you and there he is-the prodigal son returns! So happy for you.
Pip-I think I like the looks of your camping set up better than my house!
Allie-hope you get some relief soon and can enjoy your trip.
Rita-good for you working on not drinking. I think there are some on-line AA groups-some of them may be separate from Facebook. The reading for both AA and Alanon hold wisdom.
Nothing much else to say today-can't top Rebeca's news!
Take care all,
Ginny in Ohio
We try to make it cute :0)
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Rebecca-I hopped back on because I realized I didn't give you message for your sister-please tell her from one widow to another, there are no rule books for this thing. It's been 8 years for me and some days I am still crazy. She will feel what she feels and that is totally ok. AND THEN-I see your news! That is epic-we have all been hoping for you and there he is-the prodigal son returns! So happy for you.
Pip-I think I like the looks of your camping set up better than my house!
Allie-hope you get some relief soon and can enjoy your trip.
Rita-good for you working on not drinking. I think there are some on-line AA groups-some of them may be separate from Facebook. The reading for both AA and Alanon hold wisdom.
Nothing much else to say today-can't top Rebeca's news!
Take care all,
Ginny in Ohio
I told her that she should do as best she can with tools she's learned from her grief counseling. Its never something that you ever get over, grief isn't linear, but to give yourself time to grieve on days that are difficult. That her emotions need to pour out of her eyeballs, its a manifestation of the love she'll always have for her husband. I told her to continue to reach out to her friends, to me, to the support system on days when doing anything seems meaningless.😥
Yes today is marked on my calendar as the day my heart stopped hurting. Replaced by fuzzy love. I feel like I used to after performing singing something. The giddiness, and heart pounding after jitters.💖
Rebecca
Whidbey
Wa5 -
Lee said he was proud of me for not just bursting into tears, but I didn't want to miss what he was saying! He has changed a lot since I last saw him. He's gained 20 lbs. Sadly that has prompted him to have high blood pressure, so he's on lisapril, (or however you spell it). The weather where he's at is hot so exercising is taxing on the body.
Here he was in the thick of COVID, quarantined on his ship. 2020.
This was today
And just for Shi it's and giggles his eldest brother. They are clones!
I will sleep good tonight.😁. Thanks ladies for the kind supporting words.
Might take a bath too.🤗👍
Rebecca
Whidbey
Wa
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Machka - I must not have paid much attention in school. I don’t remember the bee life.
I feel about summer here as you do about Winter there. I’m betting this Winter will go by fast for me since I’ll be in school, learning something new each week.
Rebecca - I was imagining the same when Machka told us about the bees.
How incredibly exciting! I’m so happy for you. A weight must have lifted.
Rita - that is very well said. It took me a long time to learn that my happiness had to come from within.
Rosemarie - I was just reading a post that they are reminding people to have their vaccinations up to date because another strain is coming around. I hope tomorrow is a more pleasant call with your mother.
Katie - I worry about dementia too. Several members of my family were diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. Including my mother.
I’m hoping to take more after my maternal grandmother.
Joy - have you been to the territories as well?
I have been through Quebec a few times and spent a week in Montreal for work once. I never could get up the gumption in all of my opportunities to take the ferry to NFLD from NB. I struggled with the PEI - NB ferry.
I made more shirts today. 2 for myself to use for shirts to go with new PJ pants. 3 for Rodger.
I think that completes all but one of my Cricut projects for a while.
A couple are for DH so I’ll put them in a spoiler.
Tracey in Edmonton
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