WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR NOVEMBER 2023
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Flea - I followed the link and got to the realtor and he has a collection of open listings, but wasn't sure which was yours..... maybe I missed something.
Kim
Ah! I didn't notice that. It's 2371 St. Andrews Drive -- the most reasonably priced listings, in my opinion. We are hopeful that since it is affordable, for the area, it might sell more quickly.
I can't edit the original post. I think this is the link directly to my mom's house:
https://windermere.com/listing/WA/Shelton/2371-E-Saint-Andrews-Drive-N-98584/182113255
Flea
Willamette Valley, OR5 -
Flea - Jess invited Denise weeks ago, Denise just never responded that she couldn't make it. This is very typical for her.
Michele NC
I totally misread that, Michele. I thought Denise had texted her the day before with the invitation. I'm sorry Denise didn't even acknowledge the invitation.
Flea
Willamette Valley, OR1 -
Anniesquats100 wrote: »Hello my friends,
Well it was a tough day. Mom was still weak, had diarrhea and was refusing any more fluid than a tablespoon of tea, even when I threatened her with the ER. So I took her to the ER, where they did a lot of tests. I told them about her losing teeth and the lesion in her mouth. The ER did a cat scan and told us it was mouth cancer that had spread to her lymph node. They admitted her and the hospital doctor just called me. He says there is a sinus tumor, but he isn't convinced that it's cancer. We get the expert opinion tomorrow from the ENT oncologist. Eventually there will be a biopsy.
My dad is devastated. We went across the street to my aunt's, and she called in my cousins. I called my sister and she is flying up on Monday. I still have to tell my sister-in-law in California. She is the widow of my brother.
Rebecca you are right. I do need a village of support. Thank you for being part of it.
Thank you all my friends for being in my pocket! Lisa, Kylia, Rosemarie, and DrKatiebug and more!
Allie I will look it up. I could use a laugh!
Heather your painting looks like Van Gogh to me! Especially the specific blue and yellow tones.
Michele Teddy is affectionate with mom, especially when she has food. He has spent extra time lying at her feet this last week.
So tomorrow it's back to the hospital. At least this one has a cafeteria.
Annie in Delaware
This group was a lifesaver when my husband was sick, I has having to drive the freeway from the Oregon coast to Portland for various treatments. Vent when you need to. I also found a caregivers support group put on by the senior center and every couple of weeks was able to be there for an hour. It was an hour of not being a caregiver, and a place to put my feelings. That helped a lot. We are but a click away from you. You could add me on Facebook if you wish. I can sing ya Christmas carols on video chat.😁💖
Rebecca
Whidbey
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Anniesquats100 wrote: »Hello my friends,
Well it was a tough day. Mom was still weak, had diarrhea and was refusing any more fluid than a tablespoon of tea, even when I threatened her with the ER. So I took her to the ER, where they did a lot of tests. I told them about her losing teeth and the lesion in her mouth. The ER did a cat scan and told us it was mouth cancer that had spread to her lymph node. They admitted her and the hospital doctor just called me. He says there is a sinus tumor, but he isn't convinced that it's cancer. We get the expert opinion tomorrow from the ENT oncologist. Eventually there will be a biopsy.
My dad is devastated. We went across the street to my aunt's, and she called in my cousins. I called my sister and she is flying up on Monday. I still have to tell my sister-in-law in California. She is the widow of my brother.
Rebecca you are right. I do need a village of support. Thank you for being part of it.
Thank you all my friends for being in my pocket! Lisa, Kylia, Rosemarie, and DrKatiebug and more!
Allie I will look it up. I could use a laugh!
Heather your painting looks like Van Gogh to me! Especially the specific blue and yellow tones.
Michele Teddy is affectionate with mom, especially when she has food. He has spent extra time lying at her feet this last week.
So tomorrow it's back to the hospital. At least this one has a cafeteria.
Annie in Delaware
Sending hugs, light and love.🙏
Rebecca
Whidbey
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LisaInArkansas wrote: »Cat on my lap giving me the stink eye, purring gently, and reaching up occasionally to pat my chin. If that doesn't derail your thought when you're writing on a keyboard, then you're just not paying attention.
My most peaceful morning hours are right now, when I wake up at 5 and Corey doesn't get up until 6 or 7. He rolled himself up like a burrito and took all the covers and that's what woke me up, but I usually wake up at this time anyway.
The top couple of pounds that jumped on my bohonking backside on Thanksgiving morning have receded, which I appreciate. The other two that hitched a ride with them since Monday will hopefully be departing today or tomorrow. Four pounds for me these days is noticeable... when I weighed 300, it was hard to notice that kind of change, but at 150, it really makes you feel like ca-ca.
No real plans for today... tomorrow, they're delivering the windows for the sunroom and Corey will be working on getting those put in. Hopefully, I can help him a bit with those. The guy should also be here tomorrow to give him a bid for shingling the roof. It was supposed to rain last night, but should be dry this week until Thursday. This is NOT a big job for experienced men, seriously only a few hours with a couple guys up there, so I'm really hoping this can be done this week. We'll see.
Yesterday, he was apologizing to me because he went in and cooked breakfast and got my newly cleaned kitchen a little dirty. I had to try to help him understand that it really doesn't annoy me when I clean the stovetop and then he goes in and cooks bacon or sausage and gets it schmutzy again. It's like laundry. It's just never done. You're not going to go around ripping clothes off people to get them clean, or taking the sheets off the bed while they're in it. Laundry is never, ever done. Neither is any other kind of cleaning, not really. Getting cranky about someone getting things dirty again is just silly. Cleaning is my part of our partnership these days. He goes and works hard, and I spend a small amount of my time cleaning, and the rest of the time I do whatever else I want to, which is a huge gift! Cleaning is a very small price to pay to be able to have that kind of freedom. Plus, he's the kind of person who cleans up after himself anyway. Not the stovetop, admittedly, but he gets dinner dishes in the dishwasher nearly every night. And that's after he cooks dinner. Who doesn't love that?
Ah, Egg has extricated herself from the space between me and the laptop table and is lying on my mousepad instead. And purring. Time for a book and more coffee.
Love y'all,
Lisa in AR
Woke up thinking about you, Annie. Hope you were able to sleep, and that there's better news this morning at the hospital.
Googling bohonking.......is that like badonkadonk....😂😁
Rebecca
Learning never ends with you ladies
Whidbey
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Flea - I thought that might be the one. If I was ready to move, that might have been the place! Might be a bit far from town for what I want next but everything else looks great on the listing!
Kim3 -
Flea - Nice house!
Looks like a great price, though everything looks really inexpensive compared to us south UK people. 
You have worked really hard at getting it ready. 
Are you keeping your share of the inheritance just for you? And would it enable you to retire? Money is freedom and power. And choices.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx3 -
Tracey, thank you for mentioning Michaels. I purchased a couple of figurines from them at a good sale price so happy with that. I'm trying to keep my theme as Victorian for my display. They did have some amazing buildings on half price which would have kept with my theme but decided to just add on smaller items this year as I had already purchased enough for one year. I could see myself getting carried away with this project so glad Michaels isn't close by.
Annie, so sorry to hear what you are going through. Good that you have family support and hopefully will be able to get a definite diagnosis in the coming days.
Had an annoying morning. Yesterday our tv satellite went out on one of our tv's....the one in the living room which is used the most. Tried to get it back by resetting everything but nothing worked so this morning got in touch through my account online with a Bell tech. Was on there about 1/2 hour and tech finally said our account on that one receiver was cancelled. He was telling me that I had cancelled it last month. Told him according to my billing, I was still paying for 2 receivers. I don't think he knew how to fix it so just made up a little story to get me off the chat line. Told him I would call Bell directly and see if they could help me which I did. Apparently the card in that receiver isn't working so they will send one out to me in the mail. Person I was talking to on the phone was very helpful and went through a series of steps to try and solve the problem....unlike the online tech. I did report the online tech as I think he could have been more helpful.
Joy7 -
Flea, very nice property. I would be surprised if it doesn't sell quickly. Looks move in ready and close to the lake.4
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Whidislander wrote: »LisaInArkansas wrote: »Cat on my lap giving me the stink eye, purring gently, and reaching up occasionally to pat my chin. If that doesn't derail your thought when you're writing on a keyboard, then you're just not paying attention.
My most peaceful morning hours are right now, when I wake up at 5 and Corey doesn't get up until 6 or 7. He rolled himself up like a burrito and took all the covers and that's what woke me up, but I usually wake up at this time anyway.
The top couple of pounds that jumped on my bohonking backside on Thanksgiving morning have receded, which I appreciate. The other two that hitched a ride with them since Monday will hopefully be departing today or tomorrow. Four pounds for me these days is noticeable... when I weighed 300, it was hard to notice that kind of change, but at 150, it really makes you feel like ca-ca.
No real plans for today... tomorrow, they're delivering the windows for the sunroom and Corey will be working on getting those put in. Hopefully, I can help him a bit with those. The guy should also be here tomorrow to give him a bid for shingling the roof. It was supposed to rain last night, but should be dry this week until Thursday. This is NOT a big job for experienced men, seriously only a few hours with a couple guys up there, so I'm really hoping this can be done this week. We'll see.
Yesterday, he was apologizing to me because he went in and cooked breakfast and got my newly cleaned kitchen a little dirty. I had to try to help him understand that it really doesn't annoy me when I clean the stovetop and then he goes in and cooks bacon or sausage and gets it schmutzy again. It's like laundry. It's just never done. You're not going to go around ripping clothes off people to get them clean, or taking the sheets off the bed while they're in it. Laundry is never, ever done. Neither is any other kind of cleaning, not really. Getting cranky about someone getting things dirty again is just silly. Cleaning is my part of our partnership these days. He goes and works hard, and I spend a small amount of my time cleaning, and the rest of the time I do whatever else I want to, which is a huge gift! Cleaning is a very small price to pay to be able to have that kind of freedom. Plus, he's the kind of person who cleans up after himself anyway. Not the stovetop, admittedly, but he gets dinner dishes in the dishwasher nearly every night. And that's after he cooks dinner. Who doesn't love that?
Ah, Egg has extricated herself from the space between me and the laptop table and is lying on my mousepad instead. And purring. Time for a book and more coffee.
Love y'all,
Lisa in AR
Woke up thinking about you, Annie. Hope you were able to sleep, and that there's better news this morning at the hospital.
Googling bohonking.......is that like badonkadonk....😂😁
Rebecca
Learning never ends with you ladies
Whidbey
Wa
Rebecca, my funny friend... I will admit a possibly unfortunate tendency to make up a word when I can't think of one that fits. "Bohonking," is much like "badonkadonk," but quite a bit... well, flabbier.
Flea - Thanks for the second link, it's an absolutely beautiful home... and if it was near me, I'd be really interested. Just not willing to be in back in the PNW--my arthritis hurt so much ten years ago that I could barely make it through the winters. There was no pain relief that worked up there for me. Best luck for a bidding war and a quick sale - interest rates are dropping once more, so fingers crossed. It was good to see your post. The Christmas holidays will be here before you know it...
Quiet day. Homemade pizza planned for dinner.
Corey built the first fire of the year in our fireplace:
Egg approved.
Later, y'all,
Love,
Lisa
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cityjaneLondon wrote: »Flea - Nice house! Looks like a great price, though everything looks really inexpensive compared to us south UK people. You have worked really hard at getting it ready.
Are you keeping your share of the inheritance just for you? And would it enable you to retire? Money is freedom and power. And choices.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
Yes. I will invest my share. My husband is still unemployed. One year now. I think I cursed his employment, because about a month before he was fired, I told him I was ready to retire, and that I would use my mom's annuities and help him be successful in his job and just be a wife and mom. A few weeks later, he was laid off. So, no. I won't be able to retire yet. I have set 2.5 years as the limit, one way or another. I will be 65.5 and will get full social security plus be able to access my own retirement funds. I have a very large (for me, anyone) annuity from my mom that has to be paid out by 10 years. I am not planning to take that until I've retired, and that will be quite a large yearly amount. Hubby also has investments and retirement funds, but he doesn't want to use those now because he's planning to live much longer than I will, and he says, "I need something to live on after you're gone."
I'm in a rotten mood today, and should just go hide in a hole and be quiet until I can be nice again.
Flea
Willamette Valley, OR10 -
Anniesquats100 wrote: »Turns out music and sunshine is more effective than caffeine and sugar in getting the dishes done! Yay! It's tiny goals today, so I will celebrate that. Plus I got through the mail, mostly trash, but there was a birthday card from my sister. Yay!
Thank you, Lanette, Margaret and DrKatiebug! Your friendship means a lot to me.
Annie in Delaware
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🌻🎵🎧 Annie you found the answer before I could suggest it. I can do so many chores while listening to music 🎶 😌Lanette. My library is speedy. I managed to be first on th hold list and later got the audio book to enjoy it again
I finished my holiday decorating. Here's what I did.
🤩🌞😘Barbie in NW WA
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Stat for the day-
Housecleaning etc- 3hrs 48min 33sec, dust, vacuum, laundry fold and put away, make and refill hummingbird feeders, wipe down back patio, blow away leaves from front patio and front entryway, make new candle, reorganize first aid stuff in front bathroom, etc= 1036c4 -
SophieRosieMom wrote: »
Debbie - you are doing a great job trying not getting sucked into your DH's relationship woes with his mom. Finding things to do that you enjoy to keep your sanity. I know it's hard. I can't remember - do you think she is starting to get dementia or has a mental illness? Her up and down thinking pattern, never knowing what to expect from her. Will your DH be greeted with open arms or attacked when he walks through her door, for example. Very, very hard place for your DH, her caregiver, to be. And so stressful for him. Hugs to you both.
Lanette
SW WA State
MIL is just a mean, self centered old lady. She has always been this way.
It is worse now because dh is over there twice a day every day, so more time for them to get into fights.
She is very demanding and he thinks if he gives in to her and just lets her yell it won't be as bad the next day. That never happens. Other times it is the fact that they both yell and cuss back and forth. He gets frustrated because he tries to talk and she doesn't listen.
it really isn't a love hate relationship- it truly is a hate/hate one. He goes over out of obligation and to play the marter. She feels she deserves all of his time and is upset if he does anything for himself because it takes away some of the time she thinks should be spent with her.
When it suits her, she understand and responds right, but if it doesn't, she doesn't listen/understand/just ignores him.
It is really sad because I see some of the same traits in him. Not so much the mean part, but the self centered part of it. He doesn't see it in himself.
Would love to put her in a home but at over $8000 a month or more, that is hard to swallow.
We have tried hiring help- the second day the lady was shaking and couldn't get out of the house fast enough. Had hired her for a trial basis of one week.
Would really love to find someone that could work with her. She doesn't need the help. She WANTS a servant there to do stuff for her while she sits and complains about how they are doing it.
She does have what the doctor has said is a disconnect in her brain. It is hard sometimes for people who English is not their first language to understand some things.
The mean nasty part of her is not a part of that.
Today, she referred to me as "what's her name"- we have been married over 31 yrs. Usually I am just referred to as "her"(and not in a good /nice way)7 -
Thanksgiving at my sisters went ok. Mom wasn’t there which I didn’t mind that either. I usually end up washing dishes so it doesn’t pile up. Addison was there and was the first time I saw her since she was at our house. She avoided us which was fine too. We took yogi and left the other two at home. I didn’t take any pictures10
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Wow,caught up.. i had to reload MFP,my phone has been acting wonky...
I was sitting in the den and Alfie kept barking at me..he wanted me to come back and go back to bed lol
Annie- gosh im so sad to hear about your mom,so glad your sister is flying up to help.. and just take things an hour at a time if need be.
Flea- im sorry your down in the dumps i hope your family comes to there senses and thinks of you for once.
Barbie- love the penguin 🐧
Now - messenger is messing up sheesh.5 -
managed to be first on th hold list and later got the audio book to enjoy it again
I finished my holiday decorating. Here's what I did.
🤩🌞😘Barbie in NW WA
I love it! That's more than I'm going to do. Hubby does a huge house light show. He's been working on it for a couple weeks. Once he has it up, we'll take video and post it on youtube. I'll see if I can find the link for last year's lights. They really are amazing.
Flea
Willamette Valley, OR
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Our house display. It's actually from Christmas 2021. Enjoy! You can mute, if you don't want to hear my husband describe what he did. At about 3:13, it's just the lights and music.
https://youtu.be/Xfa8o6FlDP0?si=goyA5ghb1PQ9oolf
Flea
Willamette Valley, OR3 -
The show went pretty well. It was our first time selling the 3D printed stuff and sold quite a bit. Ran out of some of the items.Everyone loved the filament we used. They thought the items were metal. They really loved our prices. We had dragons we were selling for $12 and another booth was selling ones similar for $42! DH had to go and see for himself after the forth person told us the same thing.
He also had people asking for our contact info for doing special orders. One to add to high fashion masks he designs for fashion shows. He showed us pictures and they are VERY unique. He is looking for someone to make small embellishments to attach to the masks and head pieces.
We didn sell many of the toys. I think just 4(two to one of the other vendors but he was beyond thrilled to get them). The first one was a SeaQuest model. He saw it as soon as he walked up and had his cc out before even looking at the price. Was shocked at how low the price was-he has been searching for years for one and they are just not available. (dh has 2 more here at home). Another guy had came by, interested, before the show started and said he would come back to get it, was waiting to sell some of his stuff then come back. He ended up being too late and actually saw it at the new owner's booth. Very disappointed. It was a huge show. 3 floors of vendors and artists/actors doing autographs- I stayed at my booth except for bathroom breaks and to grab dinner Friday night.
We most likely won't do the show again. The overhead is just too high for the size of booth we had(we split it with a friend of dh's. Had to make $500 just to cover the costs.
Dh's friend, the artist that shared a booth with us/split the cost of it made $7!, he only sold one print. He kept leaving the booth to walk around with his girlfriend. They were gone a lot more than they were in the booth. Dh answered questions but our priority this time was our stuff. Usually dh goes and helps(and Paul takes off walking around) and doesn't take much, maybe some of the props he has made. Paul gets upset that he doesn't sell anything but doesn't stay in the booth much plus his stuff isn't that great.
The lady's booth next to us was amazing- going to check out her Instagram page. Loved her stuff but it was large prints and I don't have room for one right now.
https://www.instagram.com/meganewithey/
His mom went off on him this morning, he knew she would. Talking crazy- saying she wants to sell the house and go back home(Okinawa)- seeing dead people. Same stuff as usual. No one left in Okinawa and just a niece in Osaka and she won't take care of her. First, she is care taker for her brother and 2nd) when she came here to visit and stayed at MIL's house, mil accused her niece of stealing her jewelry. Otseko won't take care of her. He told her to NOT go out and move the garbage can after they picked it up. We had a friend go do it. She told dh that she went out at 8pm last night to go put it in. Walking around in the dark. He told her we had someone take it in, she thinks the neighbor boy did so told dh to go give him money- told her, wasn't that kid. She wouldn't listen.
Tomorrow is dh's birthday- turning 60. He has to work at midnight tonight then go to his mom's when he is done- complaining about that. I had to work on my birthday too. Not a big deal. I told him we will go out for lunch-he said he will just pick up Chinese food like he has been doing the past few years(again, feeling sorry for himself).
We will go up Tuesday to get Christmas tree/decorations out of storage. Hope to get at least part of the stuff up or at least, the living room rearranged so son and his girlfriend can get the tree up while I am at mom's this coming weekend.
ok- yacked long enough- sorry about that
Debbie
Napa Valley, CA
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Annie- so sorry about your mom- glad you got her to the hospital where she can get some help/care/comfort2
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Here's a video of the lake with my son (blue kayak) and me (orange kayak) kayaking. My husband is demonstrating the drone, so you can mute if you don't want to hear him describe the features. But it is a beautiful shot of the lake. Skip to 5:18 for the lake shots. I tried to clip it from there, but I must have done something wrong.
https://youtu.be/_MPerKV4YJ4?si=pzlBOxDi7nCVl4tp
We are launching off from my mom's friend's dock, just across the street from her house. It makes me miss the lake. It's going to be very sad not to have it available.
Flea
Willamette Valley, Or5 -
grandmallie wrote: »Wow,caught up.. i had to reload MFP,my phone has been acting wonky...
I was sitting in the den and Alfie kept barking at me..he wanted me to come back and go back to bed lol
Annie- gosh im so sad to hear about your mom,so glad your sister is flying up to help.. and just take things an hour at a time if need be.
Flea- im sorry your down in the dumps i hope your family comes to there senses and thinks of you for once.
Barbie- love the penguin 🐧
Now - messenger is messing up sheesh.
Thanks, Allie. I'm just being a butt. They are fine. I just need a Christmas vacation!
Flea
Willamette Valley, OR5 -
Lisa- our newest cat likes to sit on my lap when I am at the computer and then grabs my hands when I try and type- tiny scratches on my hands or, likes to walk on the keyboard.
You do have a special hubby!!!. Mine has washed dishes two, maybe three times over the past year. I cant even get him to rinse his dishes.
Only "cooking" he does is to warm up leftovers or make a sandwich for himself. Never, every for anyone else and that is rare for him to even do that.
Hugs Rosemarie- do what you have to but don't stress if it doesn't all get done. Starting somewhere is a big step
Annie- for me, the cold weather makes me want to wash dishes more- my hands ache from the cold so soaking my hands in hot water is appreciated. Plus, it seems that I spend more time procrastinating about washing the dishes than it actually takes to DO them.
Rita-dealing with the " poor me " from my dh too. So annoying and exhausting- Hope it doesn't last and it doesn't get to you too much.
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Debbie -- your 3d things are really amazing. I agree that your prices are too low. The filament and time is a huge investment. I'm glad you all were able to make some money at it.
Take care of yourself.
Flea
Willamette Valley, OR4 -
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Christmas is here
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OregonMother wrote: »Debbie -- your 3d things are really amazing. I agree that your prices are too low. The filament and time is a huge investment. I'm glad you all were able to make some money at it.
Take care of yourself.
Flea
Willamette Valley, OR
thanks-
Almost all of the things we printed for the show are articulated. Some great fidget "toys" that look cool
I was just fidgeting with them during the show and people would come over to see them.The most expensive thing we had was $35(sold it for $20 right before we closed up) for a 3ft long cobra. It took I think 4 days to print.
only had four of these but should have had more. We had some on yellow/gold and green/gold. One moved a tiny bit in the bag and for a split second it startled me. Very life like looking. Some of the little dragons, the little kids would be afraid of at first, asking if they were real. One, I had her dad put his hand out and let her touch it with him holding it. Another one touched it a few times, but as soon as she did, she would blow on that hand, like blowing the germs away. Will be making more of a lot of the things.4 -
Annie - I hope you can celebrate your birthday in some way, though I know it's hard right now. Thinking about you. There with you in spirit.
Flea - I find it hard to believe you are ever horrible.
Rori - Loved that picture.
Debbie - I know just how lucky I am, believe me. I spent 28 years with a man who not only didn't cook, and did not wash dishes, but who probably would not have noticed if I didn't come home. I spent a lot of years and a lot of tears trying to change him, with no success.
I had to change myself into someone who felt she was worth being loved. Luckily, I met Corey after I figured that out.
That said, Corey's attempt at a pizza crust wasn't his best... but it was edible after I sliced the bottom two inches of crust away.
Yeast is a fickle mistress I like it that he tries different things.
Later,
Love y'all,
Lisa in AR7 -
Flea – your mother’s house is absolutely gorgeous. No, Denise never even acknowledged the invitation, not that she can’t come or anything. Maybe not responding means she didn’t have to make up an excuse?
Annie – HUGS
Joy – good for you getting that person to help you! The squeaky wheel gets the oil, that’s for sure
Michele NC3
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