How to avoid MFP Bullies

1. Do your own research instead of asking a forum. Yep, you may have to think for yourselves...Scary, I know.
2. If you get advise, don't respond with anything starting with "Yeah, but.." If you don't agree with advise given... repeat step one.
3. Remember that often in life , a stupid question will receive a stupid answer.
4. Remember that people you may not like, or who have contradicting opinions also have computers.
5. If you can't take the heat, don't tickle the dragon.
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  • TheSlorax
    TheSlorax Posts: 2,401 Member
    wow thank you so much for posting this thread. I think the forums as a whole really needed this. this is the first time I've seen anything like this around here! great work! :flowerforyou:
  • socajam
    socajam Posts: 2,530 Member
    1. Do your own research instead of asking a forum. Yep, you may have to think for yourselves...Scary, I know.
    2. If you get advise, don't respond with anything starting with "Yeah, but.." If you don't agree with advise given... repeat step one.
    3. Remember that often in life , a stupid question will receive a stupid answer.
    4. Remember that people you may not like, or who have contradicting opinions also have computers.
    5. If you can't take the heat, don't tickle the dragon.

    Thank you very much. Now you are asking them to do too much - why do research when it is so much easier to ask a question, then get upset when the answer is not to their liking - hence more chance to whine.
  • socajam
    socajam Posts: 2,530 Member
    And use the search button in the forums to find the same question you asked has been asked 9,999 times before.


    Most definitely - how much water should I be drinking; why is the water counter in cups; can I count diet soda as water; should I be eating less than 1200 calories and the list goes on.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    6) Don't call other members "trolls" simply because they answer your question with facts rather than fantasy.
  • TribeHokie
    TribeHokie Posts: 711 Member
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  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    6) Don't call other members "trolls" simply because they answer your question with facts rather than fantasy.

    I was called a troll twice this weekend. It was flattering.
  • Iron_Feline
    Iron_Feline Posts: 10,750 Member
    6) Don't call other members "trolls" simply because they answer your question with facts rather than fantasy.

    This also applied to calling people bullies and meanies.

    Everyone here should be over 18 - life isn't always unicorns and glitter - get over it.
  • verymissk
    verymissk Posts: 262 Member
    7] Don't report people because their sense of humor is different than yours.
  • Cranquistador
    Cranquistador Posts: 39,744 Member
    How do I find bullies?
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    How do I find bullies?

    Good question. I have never seen a bully on this site. They must be pretty easy to avoid, because I have been here forever. I was actually born in the "Introduce Yourself" forum.
  • jofjltncb6
    jofjltncb6 Posts: 34,415 Member
    6) Don't call other members "trolls" simply because they answer your question with facts rather than fantasy.

    Troll.
  • Thomasm198
    Thomasm198 Posts: 3,189 Member
    6) Don't call other members "trolls" simply because they answer your question with facts rather than fantasy.

    I was called a troll twice this weekend. It was flattering.

    Only twice? You're slacking! :laugh:
  • Hauntinglyfit
    Hauntinglyfit Posts: 5,537 Member
    6. Deactivate. Buh-bye.
  • tapirfrog
    tapirfrog Posts: 616 Member
    What if we give the dragon sexual favours?

    What's this "we" *kitten*?


    I love you.
  • Sabine_Stroehm
    Sabine_Stroehm Posts: 19,263 Member
    6) Don't call other members "trolls" simply because they answer your question with facts rather than fantasy.

    Troll.
    :drinker:
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    Kill em with humor and intelligence
  • LiftAllThePizzas
    LiftAllThePizzas Posts: 17,857 Member
    1. Do your own research instead of asking a forum. Yep, you may have to think for yourselves...Scary, I know.
    2. If you get advise, don't respond with anything starting with "Yeah, but.." If you don't agree with advise given... repeat step one.
    3. Remember that often in life , a stupid question will receive a stupid answer.
    4. Remember that people you may not like, or who have contradicting opinions also have computers.
    5. If you can't take the heat, don't tickle the dragon.
    FYI stating #3, even though it is true, is considered a personal attack by the moderators.
  • Some_Watery_Tart
    Some_Watery_Tart Posts: 2,250 Member
    How do I find bullies?

    You rang? :flowerforyou:
  • Iron_Feline
    Iron_Feline Posts: 10,750 Member
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    fixed it - I hope
  • nainai0585
    nainai0585 Posts: 199 Member
    1. Do your own research instead of asking a forum. Yep, you may have to think for yourselves...Scary, I know.
    2. If you get advise, don't respond with anything starting with "Yeah, but.." If you don't agree with advise given... repeat step one.
    3. Remember that often in life , a stupid question will receive a stupid answer.
    4. Remember that people you may not like, or who have contradicting opinions also have computers.
    5. If you can't take the heat, don't tickle the dragon.

    This applies to the Real World too.
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    6) Don't call other members "trolls" simply because they answer your question with facts rather than fantasy.

    I was called a troll twice this weekend. It was flattering.

    you should stop living under bridges
  • lilbearzmom
    lilbearzmom Posts: 600 Member
    6) Don't call other members "trolls" simply because they answer your question with facts rather than fantasy.

    OMG, THIS!
  • jerber160
    jerber160 Posts: 2,607 Member
    1. Do your own research instead of asking a forum. Yep, you may have to think for yourselves...Scary, I know.
    2. If you get advise, don't respond with anything starting with "Yeah, but.." If you don't agree with advise given... repeat step one.
    3. Remember that often in life , a stupid question will receive a stupid answer.
    4. Remember that people you may not like, or who have contradicting opinions also have computers.
    5. If you can't take the heat, don't tickle the dragon.

    1)YES to doing your own research first, but newbies haven't caught on and deserve to be gently led in that direction..
    2) HALF YES- repeat a search, but discussion boards are to prompt discussion
    3) NO NO NO NO NO. if you don't have anything nice to say you don't have to reply at all. NO NO NO. YOU HAVE THE ABILITY TO KEEP YOUR SNARKY YAP SHUT! In LIFE, as in face to face, you wouldn't behave rudely toward strangers.

    NEVER FORGET if you click the little down arrow under someone you can ignore any user you want.. USE THIS BUTTON!.
  • ryry_
    ryry_ Posts: 4,966 Member
    TL:DR

    Only one fool proof way to avoid the bullies

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  • Mother_Superior
    Mother_Superior Posts: 1,624 Member
    7. During yard time, go up to the biggest one and take him down.
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    The only stupid question is the question not asked...

    Awe huh huh...woah I'll let you all have this zen moment.

    Give your brains time to process
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    "Remember, there are no stupid questions, only stupid people." Lol I cannot remember what movie that is from.
  • Morninglory81
    Morninglory81 Posts: 1,190 Member
    Opened this thinking #1 and there it is! Faith has been restored.:flowerforyou:
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    6) Don't call other members "trolls" simply because they answer your question with facts rather than fantasy.

    I was called a troll twice this weekend. It was flattering.

    you should stop living under bridges

    My living conditions are none of your business
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