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  • Carissa145
    Carissa145 Posts: 604 Member
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    I've tried talking to him about crushes before. I actually asked him if he was into this one girl. he got all nervous and weird and kept on asking me to repeat myself.... I think he was highly uncomfortable.

    Maybe he's gay.
    No he isn't. He had a crush on this one girl about a year ago

    Erm, did he start dating her? Have you known him to actually date anyone?

    Well, I don't know the details, but I think they might have... As I said before when I mentioned her he flipped. And he's made gay jokes before too.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
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    I've tried talking to him about crushes before. I actually asked him if he was into this one girl. he got all nervous and weird and kept on asking me to repeat myself.... I think he was highly uncomfortable.

    Maybe he's gay.
    No he isn't. He had a crush on this one girl about a year ago

    Erm, did he start dating her? Have you known him to actually date anyone?

    Well, I don't know the details, but I think they might have... As I said before when I mentioned her he flipped. And he's made gay jokes before too.

    My gay best friend makes gay jokes all the time.
  • TheSlorax
    TheSlorax Posts: 2,401 Member
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    I've tried talking to him about crushes before. I actually asked him if he was into this one girl. he got all nervous and weird and kept on asking me to repeat myself.... I think he was highly uncomfortable.

    Maybe he's gay.
    No he isn't. He had a crush on this one girl about a year ago

    Erm, did he start dating her? Have you known him to actually date anyone?

    Well, I don't know the details, but I think they might have... As I said before when I mentioned her he flipped. And he's made gay jokes before too.

    not really conclusive but fo reals OP, grow a pair and let the guy know how you feel. embarrassment feels a hell of a lot better than the agony you're putting yourself through wondering does he or doesn't he.
  • Carissa145
    Carissa145 Posts: 604 Member
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    I've tried talking to him about crushes before. I actually asked him if he was into this one girl. he got all nervous and weird and kept on asking me to repeat myself.... I think he was highly uncomfortable.

    Maybe he's gay.
    No he isn't. He had a crush on this one girl about a year ago

    Erm, did he start dating her? Have you known him to actually date anyone?

    Well, I don't know the details, but I think they might have... As I said before when I mentioned her he flipped. And he's made gay jokes before too.

    My gay best friend makes gay jokes all the time.

    Well, lets just say he's very conservative in general... and I do know for sure he isn't gay. From what he has said.
  • Carissa145
    Carissa145 Posts: 604 Member
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    Should I tell him I like him, or should I ask him if he likes me first?
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
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    I've tried talking to him about crushes before. I actually asked him if he was into this one girl. he got all nervous and weird and kept on asking me to repeat myself.... I think he was highly uncomfortable.

    Maybe he's gay.
    No he isn't. He had a crush on this one girl about a year ago

    Erm, did he start dating her? Have you known him to actually date anyone?

    Well, I don't know the details, but I think they might have... As I said before when I mentioned her he flipped. And he's made gay jokes before too.

    My gay best friend makes gay jokes all the time.

    Well, lets just say he's very conservative in general... and I do know for sure he isn't gay. From what he has said.

    Yeaaaah. Because no gay person ever made up stories or pretended to like girls. :tongue:
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
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    Should I tell him I like him, or should I ask him if he likes me first?

    Tell him.
  • Carissa145
    Carissa145 Posts: 604 Member
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    Should I tell him I like him, or should I ask him if he likes me first?

    Tell him.

    This good? "You know, Hunter, I think that over this past year, I've really grown to like you."
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
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    Should I tell him I like him, or should I ask him if he likes me first?

    Tell him.

    This good? "You know, Hunter, I think that over this past year, I've really grown to like you."

    That works.
  • Carissa145
    Carissa145 Posts: 604 Member
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    Should I tell him I like him, or should I ask him if he likes me first?

    Tell him.

    This good? "You know, Hunter, I think that over this past year, I've really grown to like you."

    That works.

    Then what? haha should I just stop and let him kick in?
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
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    Should I tell him I like him, or should I ask him if he likes me first?

    Tell him.

    This good? "You know, Hunter, I think that over this past year, I've really grown to like you."

    That works.

    Then what? haha should I just stop and let him kick in?

    Cozy up to him and try to make out later?
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
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    Or better yet, take him jeans and underwear shopping. Let him into the changing room.
  • Carissa145
    Carissa145 Posts: 604 Member
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    Should I tell him I like him, or should I ask him if he likes me first?

    Tell him.

    This good? "You know, Hunter, I think that over this past year, I've really grown to like you."

    That works.

    Then what? haha should I just stop and let him kick in?

    Cozy up to him and try to make out later?

    Seriously, I don't think I want to get physical when I've never dated before. What I'm asking is if I should keep on going on... or just stop there.
  • Madame_Goldbricker
    Madame_Goldbricker Posts: 1,625 Member
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    Seriously how you have shows there like "Sixteen & pregnant" I'm really starting to wonder :huh:
  • fatfudgery
    fatfudgery Posts: 449 Member
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    OP, how old are you?
  • Carissa145
    Carissa145 Posts: 604 Member
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    OP, how old are you?

    Freshman in college-- never dated before though. I've been asked, but I've refused. They were all strange.
  • TheSlorax
    TheSlorax Posts: 2,401 Member
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    OP, how old are you?

    Freshman in college-- never dated before though. I've been asked, but I've refused. They were all strange.

    I thought this may be why you are so nervous about this (not sure if you specified that earlier in the thread, I haven't read the past couple pages). relax, it's really not as scary as it may seem. that was a great opening line you had above and then from there you can feel it out and gauge his reaction. good luck and again... relax a little!
  • j3nnal3igh13
    j3nnal3igh13 Posts: 134
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    Flirt. Be funny. Touch... causally. Compliment. If he doesn't notice your "extra" attention, he's not worth your time.

    Edited to say... I haven't read the previous posts. Not sure of your situation.
  • TheSlorax
    TheSlorax Posts: 2,401 Member
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    Flirt. Be funny. Touch... causally. Compliment. If he doesn't notice your "extra" attention, he's not worth your time.

    Edited to say... I haven't read the previous posts. Not sure of your situation.

    NO. :angry: NO SUBTLE HINTS. after 9 pages of advice, OP is going to work on being direct because homeboy hasn't picked up on any of her other subtle hints. thanks for playing though.
  • Carissa145
    Carissa145 Posts: 604 Member
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    OP, how old are you?

    Freshman in college-- never dated before though. I've been asked, but I've refused. They were all strange.

    I thought this may be why you are so nervous about this (not sure if you specified that earlier in the thread, I haven't read the past couple pages). relax, it's really not as scary as it may seem. that was a great opening line you had above and then from there you can feel it out and gauge his reaction. good luck and again... relax a little!

    Thank you!! I'll try. I just hope he doesn't totally blow me off... or get all quiet when I tell him...

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