FWB ignored me at bar ...
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I'm not saying that I hate him , he's the worst guy ever ... just wanted to make it clear to him it's NOT okay for him to treat me like he never knew me and disrespect me when out in public like that! I've always treated him w/ respect, been honest & upfront w/ him over the two years and just b/c we weren't in a committed relationship I'm not gonna allow him to think he's not gonna be called out on those kinds of actions. I don't stalk him, I don't bug him w/ texts or calls or write him scary letters... I don't think that me ending it for my reason(s) and still wanting him to respect me is so bad or wrong!
He doesn't respect you. And you are in no position to try to make him respect you now. Trying to call him out on not respecting you is not going to earn you any respect. This goes along with the part where he isn't your friend. The best thing you can do now is have some respect for yourself and move on.0 -
To the original poster: please use paragraphs and more punctuation. It's hard to really get the "narrative of you" when the communication isn't separated with mental pauses and dynamic stresses.
1) I have never heard of a guy who had a friend with benefits ever wanting it to go further. I'm not saying it has never happened, but I have never heard of it.
2) I have never heard of a girl who had a friend with benefits NOT wanting it (sooner or later) to progress to the next level.
I'm a "sensitive pirate" so prior to being happily married, I only became intimate with women who I thought I might become committed to further. Because of my experiences detailed in 1) and 2) above.0 -
How is this topic still going!? Nice job OP!
Thx! Is this unusual on this site ... LOL!
I'm amazed definitely
It's crazy because it really seems like most responders are not only reading this entire 'mantle-crushing' message (I admit it. . I did!). but they are buying it!. .0 -
Stop, just stop. Leave the guy alone. This was painful for me to read because I'm embarrassed for you. Don't contact him to let him know how he disrespected you and how you would never disrespect him and blah blah blah. He doesn't care. Move on. Find someone else who does care. Please.0
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How is this topic still going!? Nice job OP!
Thx! Is this unusual on this site ... LOL!
I'm amazed definitely
It's crazy because it really seems like most responders are not only reading this entire 'mantle-crushing' message (I admit it. . I did!). but they are buying it!. .
Sadly, there are way too many 30 something women with this same lack of common sense, therefore I completely buy it.0 -
Want to be friends? 0=)Sadly, there are way too many 30 something women with this same lack of common sense, therefore I completely buy it.0 -
FWB is a scary thing... Someone always ends up with feelings and the other one feels screwed... Don't have FWB unless you know you can handle them being with someone else if it happens.0
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I want that portion of my life back that it took me to read this. I can' t believe this thread is still alive...(I saw it yesterday--but resisted temptation).
Embarrassed for OP. SMH....I mean....seriously.....when you ended it.....if you didn't expect him to come "running back"....why do you give a RIP whether he acknowledges you...doesn't acknowledge you.....and why does it make a difference.
And....the person that posts FWB guys---don't want it to progress vs. FWB girls---usually do want it to progress...you hit the nail on the head.
GIRLS--- THIS IS NOT THE WAY TO FIND YOUR HAPPILY EVER AFTER. FWB are JUST THAT FWB...not Happily Ever After (although admittedly it can start with Once Upon a Time).
I'm going to go try to blow the memory of this thread out of my mind.0 -
To quote one of my favorite movies He's just not that in to you "If a guy treats you like he doesn't give a sh**, he genuinly doesn't give a sh**!"0
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he made it clear you were just a piece of *kitten* to him.
you were a jerk and said you wanted nothing to do with him.
you now are pissed because he didnt stop and talk?
move on. grow up. and gain some self respect while you have the chance.0 -
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How is this topic still going!? Nice job OP!
Thx! Is this unusual on this site ... LOL!
I'm amazed definitely
Cameron_1969, thanks for encouraging the OP. jut what she needs. not.
OP, with every comment you post about the past, you choose to get sucked into the VORTEX all over again.
You can not change him. You can not change the past.
You can only change YOU and your thoughts and your actions.
OP, what are you CHOOSING to do with your new life now ? how about focus on something positive in the future ?
or sadly, you will once again gravity to unhealthy relationships.
aka wash. rinse. repeat.0 -
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Oh, noooooo Mr. Bill.
We're getting sucked into the VORTEX. when will it ever stoppppp ?
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A duck walks into a bar and says.....0 -
A duck walks into a bar and says.....
AFLAC!
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Sorry, I don't see why this guy is a jerk . . .
He's in a non-committed relationship. He had a date with another woman. He gets a call from his FWB saying she is "ending all knowing he can just push me aside after 2years." He apologizes (I guess for taking his date to that specific location???). He doesn't call the woman who ended it with him.
Yeah, this guy sounds terrible.
I would have to agree with you here, the guy could have been leading her on in which case that would make him a jerk; however he told her multiple times that he did not want to be in a commited relationship with her...therefore the fact that she continued to let him use her for sex is her on doing. If she felt more she should have ended it right there and then. And if a girl ends things, why would he call her back or say hi? I wouldnt. Sounds like she needs to date more and gain some experience0 -
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Oh gaaaaawdddd
It won't stop
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
We did have a 9 hour break !!0 -
What's FWB ? Fruit With Bacon ?0 -
FWB = Franks with beans ?0 -
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FWB = Fresh Water Bass ?0 -
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FWB = Friends With Better(lives)0 -
In the end someone always gets hurt, and from observation it was you. It sucks, but never do FWB's unless you know you will never expect anything out of it....I chased a FWB for over 4 years!!! Fell completely hard for him, and never even tried, I fought it the whole way, even admitted to him I was in love with him, and he picks the mother of his child over me (usually understandable), leave me, and marries her. The night before he got married he told me exactly how he felt about me but still went through his marriage, I had to see him in his tux and her in her dress (that's a different long story), and I was completely crushed. They moved and I told him I never want to see you or speak to you again, it's too hard. I left my job where we both worked, and got married a year later myself...
Now he had tried to text me saying he misses me and wishes he picked me, well guess what it's too late!!! All things happen for a reason, and FWB never work out, never. He probably didn't say HI to you because he is either talking to another girl or doesn't want to get involved with you again until it's convenient . Brutal, but the truth0 -
FWB = Farts with bartender0
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