Just Jealous.

Cranquistador

Wait?! Does this mean that your wife needs "consoling"? IN!!!!

MINE

redheaddee

Did you bang her right there in the aisle? No? Then who cares. Otherwise, we need video or it didn't happen.

kyleekay10

I have a lot of people to beat up for making me jealous. Thanks interwebz for making me understand how to handle all those feels.

Crank? Where you at? I have a punch or two to throw your way. HOW DARE YOU make me jealous.















:flowerforyou:

can you give her a smack for me...i'm really just too tired today. mmmmkthanks.!

wait a minute...why is erryone wanting to smack me? what I did?

Cause you're hawt

JeniferEverx3

It is natural to find other people attractive but openly showing attraction and flirting is very disrespectful to your spouse. I would never disrespect my husband like that. And if I did show some other man I was attracted to him and flirted with him all in my husband's face...if this man did have the temerity to then say to my husband 'don't be jealous' it is likely that my husband, an easy-going, laid-back kind of man usually, would knock his teeth down his throat.

Basically you and this woman dogged your wife out and then she had the nerve to go rub it in your wife's face. :noway:

^This exactly. My boyfriend would NEVERRRRRRRRRRRR disrespect me. He's a very outgoing person but there is a difference between having a lively or friendly conversation and having a "flirtacious" conversation. The fact that you admitted it was flirtacious literally makes you a jerk. You should apologize to your wife, and next time don't put yourself in a situation like this. Also, you should never let anyone male or female disrespect your wife either. You are wrong on so many levels.

And just for emphasis, I will repeat. That chick would have been eating my fist.

But my wife WAS jealous. Cute stranger lady was right. It's a character defect if you can't look in the mirror and acknowledge what you see. This woman certainly helped me that afternoon and I think if my wife were more mature she would've thanked her too instead of trying to treat me like a housepet.

Whether that other woman;s assumption was correct or not was besides the point. She shouldn't have been flirting with you in the first place, and she shouldn't have addressed your wife that way, period. It's disrespectful. Whether your wife was jealous or not that is between YOU and YOUR WIFE.

I'm thinking it might be best if your husband goes and buys the tree by himself this year.

Is this addressed to me? If it is I don't get your point. I'm not actually married, but regardless, my boyfriend and I spend every single day together. I don't have this problem bc my boyfriend would NEVER have a "flirtacious" conversation with another woman (probably even in my absence he wouldn't do this) and he ABSOLUTELY would NEVER let anyone talk to me like that.

You've been together less that three months, haven't you.

Actually, we've been together for 3 years and 2 months. And close friends for 13 years.

Well, there you go. You guys spend every day together hence no chance for him to get his flirt on.

Okay that's my fault. I should be more literal. My boyfriend and I spend ALMOST every single day together. He is free to do what he wants and go where he wants. He chooses to spend his time with me. In fact we were invited to a friend's halloween party and he asked me if WE were going, and I told him I'd rather him just go and have fun because I knew there would be women there in slutty costumes, and that's just not my scene. He went without me. When he came home, he told me there were 2 girls there that were dressed pretty slutty, they were snobs and he actually ended up cursing them out. Then we stayed up for a little bit, had some drinks, had some sex, and went to bed :drinker:

Can you please keep calling women for sluts for your or other people's five minute interactions with them? It lets everyone know that it's acceptable to judge women solely on clothing or a brief encounter with them! :flowerforyou:

Hmm. Is there not a term for women who dress half-naked when it's like 34 degrees outside and flirt with other people's husbands/boyfriends and then try to insult the wife/girlfriend afterward? Saints? Angels? Conservatives? Virgins??? Get f*cking real.

delicious_cocktail

AGREE TO DISAGREE!

I was just looking to vent about my jealous, controlling wife. I didn't want to start some whole debate.

This place is for support.

Cranquistador

I have a lot of people to beat up for making me jealous. Thanks interwebz for making me understand how to handle all those feels.

Crank? Where you at? I have a punch or two to throw your way. HOW DARE YOU make me jealous.















:flowerforyou:

you rang?


c'mere.

Can I take that back and get the jealous sex instead?

get down with OPP? yeah, you know me.

gmthisfeller

Over thanksgiving weekend, I was out and about christmas tree shopping with my wife and she went over to go look at the tall ones and I was by the short ones and there was an attractive middle-aged woman there looking at trees. We struck up a conversation but even though I was attracted and it was a flirty conversation my wife seemed a little upset when got back.

The woman when she was leaving the aisle said something like "don't be jealous" and my wife shot ME a look. Then she said that the other woman was just jealous of her for having me. Then I told my wife that I thought she was jealous because I was talking to her. My wife told me that I was just jealous of the cougar's ball of yarn or whatever it is they play with and that made me jealous.

Jealous jealous jealous? Jealous. JSF, jealous.

Dude, you signed a non-compete contract, so don't go poking the bear.

MyChocolateDiet

It is natural to find other people attractive but openly showing attraction and flirting is very disrespectful to your spouse. I would never disrespect my husband like that. And if I did show some other man I was attracted to him and flirted with him all in my husband's face...if this man did have the temerity to then say to my husband 'don't be jealous' it is likely that my husband, an easy-going, laid-back kind of man usually, would knock his teeth down his throat.

Basically you and this woman dogged your wife out and then she had the nerve to go rub it in your wife's face. :noway:

^This exactly. My boyfriend would NEVERRRRRRRRRRRR disrespect me. He's a very outgoing person but there is a difference between having a lively or friendly conversation and having a "flirtacious" conversation. The fact that you admitted it was flirtacious literally makes you a jerk. You should apologize to your wife, and next time don't put yourself in a situation like this. Also, you should never let anyone male or female disrespect your wife either. You are wrong on so many levels.

And just for emphasis, I will repeat. That chick would have been eating my fist.

But my wife WAS jealous. Cute stranger lady was right. It's a character defect if you can't look in the mirror and acknowledge what you see. This woman certainly helped me that afternoon and I think if my wife were more mature she would've thanked her too instead of trying to treat me like a housepet.

Whether that other woman;s assumption was correct or not was besides the point. She shouldn't have been flirting with you in the first place, and she shouldn't have addressed your wife that way, period. It's disrespectful. Whether your wife was jealous or not that is between YOU and YOUR WIFE.

I'm thinking it might be best if your husband goes and buys the tree by himself this year.

Is this addressed to me? If it is I don't get your point. I'm not actually married, but regardless, my boyfriend and I spend every single day together. I don't have this problem bc my boyfriend would NEVER have a "flirtacious" conversation with another woman (probably even in my absence he wouldn't do this) and he ABSOLUTELY would NEVER let anyone talk to me like that.

You've been together less that three months, haven't you.

Actually, we've been together for 3 years and 2 months. And close friends for 13 years.

Well, there you go. You guys spend every day together hence no chance for him to get his flirt on.

Okay that's my fault. I should be more literal. My boyfriend and I spend ALMOST every single day together. He is free to do what he wants and go where he wants. He chooses to spend his time with me. In fact we were invited to a friend's halloween party and he asked me if WE were going, and I told him I'd rather him just go and have fun because I knew there would be women there in slutty costumes, and that's just not my scene. He went without me. When he came home, he told me there were 2 girls there that were dressed pretty slutty, they were snobs and he actually ended up cursing them out. Then we stayed up for a little bit, had some drinks, had some sex, and went to bed :drinker:

Your boyfriend sounds like a true gentleman. The very embodiment of style and grace.

You're literally a moron.
I never said my boyfriend was perfect. I said my boyfriend respects me.

I also said those girls were slutty and snobby.

I didn't tell the whole story of WHY he cursed them out, my POINT was that instead of my boyfriend FLIRTING with them, he actually had a NEGATIVE interaction.

Honestly if you have nothing valid to say, kindly STFU.

Holy oxymoron batman!

delicious_cocktail

Did you bang her right there in the aisle? No? Then who cares. Otherwise, we need video or it didn't happen.

I'm allergic to pine needles/sap or something. I have to wear gloves when I handle the tree to get it inside. If I tried something that crazy I would've blown up like a pufferfish lol!

sjohnny

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firstsip

It is natural to find other people attractive but openly showing attraction and flirting is very disrespectful to your spouse. I would never disrespect my husband like that. And if I did show some other man I was attracted to him and flirted with him all in my husband's face...if this man did have the temerity to then say to my husband 'don't be jealous' it is likely that my husband, an easy-going, laid-back kind of man usually, would knock his teeth down his throat.

Basically you and this woman dogged your wife out and then she had the nerve to go rub it in your wife's face. :noway:

^This exactly. My boyfriend would NEVERRRRRRRRRRRR disrespect me. He's a very outgoing person but there is a difference between having a lively or friendly conversation and having a "flirtacious" conversation. The fact that you admitted it was flirtacious literally makes you a jerk. You should apologize to your wife, and next time don't put yourself in a situation like this. Also, you should never let anyone male or female disrespect your wife either. You are wrong on so many levels.

And just for emphasis, I will repeat. That chick would have been eating my fist.

But my wife WAS jealous. Cute stranger lady was right. It's a character defect if you can't look in the mirror and acknowledge what you see. This woman certainly helped me that afternoon and I think if my wife were more mature she would've thanked her too instead of trying to treat me like a housepet.

Whether that other woman;s assumption was correct or not was besides the point. She shouldn't have been flirting with you in the first place, and she shouldn't have addressed your wife that way, period. It's disrespectful. Whether your wife was jealous or not that is between YOU and YOUR WIFE.

I'm thinking it might be best if your husband goes and buys the tree by himself this year.

Is this addressed to me? If it is I don't get your point. I'm not actually married, but regardless, my boyfriend and I spend every single day together. I don't have this problem bc my boyfriend would NEVER have a "flirtacious" conversation with another woman (probably even in my absence he wouldn't do this) and he ABSOLUTELY would NEVER let anyone talk to me like that.

You've been together less that three months, haven't you.

Actually, we've been together for 3 years and 2 months. And close friends for 13 years.

Well, there you go. You guys spend every day together hence no chance for him to get his flirt on.

Okay that's my fault. I should be more literal. My boyfriend and I spend ALMOST every single day together. He is free to do what he wants and go where he wants. He chooses to spend his time with me. In fact we were invited to a friend's halloween party and he asked me if WE were going, and I told him I'd rather him just go and have fun because I knew there would be women there in slutty costumes, and that's just not my scene. He went without me. When he came home, he told me there were 2 girls there that were dressed pretty slutty, they were snobs and he actually ended up cursing them out. Then we stayed up for a little bit, had some drinks, had some sex, and went to bed :drinker:

Can you please keep calling women for sluts for your or other people's five minute interactions with them? It lets everyone know that it's acceptable to judge women solely on clothing or a brief encounter with them! :flowerforyou:

Hmm. Is there not a term for women who dress half-naked when it's like 34 degrees outside and flirt with other people's husbands/boyfriends and then try to insult the wife/girlfriend afterward? Saints? Angels? Conservatives? Virgins??? Get f*cking real.

These women are LITERALLY Hitler, amirite?! High-five girlfriend! Girl power!

kyleekay10

AGREE TO DISAGREE!

I was just looking to vent about my jealous, controlling wife. I didn't want to start some whole debate.

This place is for support.

I'll support more than your gurney.

MyChocolateDiet

I get jealous when my husband gets hit on by other men because I just can't compete with that. Other women? Meh. Then it's just flattering.

I also get jealous when Cranq flirts with other MFP members besides me. So does my husband.

So much jealously, so much.

I hope I never meet you and your husband.

:flowerforyou:

I hope you never meet mine. JEALOUS!!!!!!!!!!

KANGOOJUMPS

hmm,,,
i hope your wife meets a hottie
and we shall see how you act

calibriintx

Okay, so you were by the live trees then. This is all starting to make sense. The attractive woman reminded you of your mom when she was middle aged, amirite?

oh my god.
oh my god what does this mean??

The smell of the live trees reminded you of your childhood and made you feel comfortable flirting. The attractive woman reminded you of your mom, an authority figure, so you feel inclined to defend her to your wife. Your wife is banging hot so you feel jealous of her ball of cougar yarn, since your mom probably yelled at you for messing up her knitting stuff when you were kid. :boxofkleenexforyou:

sjohnny

AGREE TO DISAGREE!

I was just looking to vent about my jealous, controlling wife. I didn't want to start some whole debate.

This place is for support.

I agree. We're all here for the same thing.

Myhaloslipped

lmfao. really? I wouldnt literally punch her for saying that; but thats my initial feeling of course.
MOST PEOPLE CALL IT A FIGURE OF SPEACH!

No one calls it that. But I get what you're saying. Hitting everyone who pisses us off isn't smart, but that doesn't mean we don't want to sometimes.

Otterluv

So did you get a tree?

We got a Douglas fir, seven footer, but that's because I like to trim the scraggly ones off the bottom and then shorten it up a bit.

It looks pretty sweet, but I'm afraid it's going to be forever associated in my mind with my wife's jealousy. I just want to pull all the branches off and throw it out the door.

Sounds nice. Is it real or fake?

Oh jeeze. I'm sorry. This was at the Home Depot. They have live trees in the parking lot which is where we were.

Okay, so you were by the live trees then. This is all starting to make sense. The attractive woman reminded you of your mom when she was middle aged, amirite?

F-ing BRILLIANT!!!

This entire thread is ridiculous. May I have the last 5 minutes of my life back please?

Well, I'm not naming names, but SOMEBODY here sounds jealous.

delicious_cocktail

Dude, you signed a non-compete contract, so don't go poking the bear.

I did sign a non-compete, I agree with you there. But the cougar didn't sign any sort of non-proselytization clause; our vows weren't some sort of tripartite agreement with Home Depot hottie! I also didn't sign a non-disclosure agreement, agree to ANY restrictions on public disclosure (except with regard to marital privilege,) nor any manner of pre-publication review on comments or interactions, except the implied responsibility to promptly afford notice the other Party when such interactions occur. WHICH I DID WHEN SHE GOT BACK TO THE AISLE.

MyChocolateDiet

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