News - woman asked to cover her toned body in the gym?
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The derogatory way some have talked about PF members on here kind of illustrates why some people may feel more comfortable starting out in that environment.
I have no gripe with PF members, unless they share the same mindset as PF marketing.
My issue is entirely with the company itself.
Why the gripe when it's obviously not catered towards you? For example I'm vegetarian so I am not going to go to KFC and tell them I dislike their chicken serving policy. They are not designed for me and my life style choices, I just don't go there.
If they had a whole ad campaign that mocked vegetarians an encouraged meat-eaters to judge and avoid them I'd take issue with that, yes. If they asked people who were eating salads at their location to please have some meat too because their vegetarianism was intimidating the other guests then yes, I'd take issue with that too.
That said, I'm not saying that PF shouldn't be allowed to run their business as they see fit. I'm just saying that I think it's lousy to make money off of the fears/prejudices of their members (yes I know, there are PLENTY of businesses doing the same.) They've taken what could be a good thing (a gym where people could feel comfortable no matter what they look like) and twisted it into "come here and you'll never have to deal with THAT kind of person." What kind? The ones who have already achieved a healthy body. Shock horror. And they're telling everyone that it's okay to judge fit people and assume they're awful just because they're fit. I think that sucks.
^^^^ this pretty much sums up the issue I have with Planet Fitness. Plus the hypocrisy of it being a judgement free zone for everyone except for the kinds of people they don't want in their establishment, who they judge to be "lunks" based on their appearance and fitness goals.... that's about as internally consistent as putting up a sign saying "no f***ing swearing allowed here you c***s!"0 -
The derogatory way some have talked about PF members on here kind of illustrates why some people may feel more comfortable starting out in that environment.
I have no gripe with PF members, unless they share the same mindset as PF marketing.
My issue is entirely with the company itself.
Why the gripe when it's obviously not catered towards you? For example I'm vegetarian so I am not going to go to KFC and tell them I dislike their chicken serving policy. They are not designed for me and my life style choices, I just don't go there.
If they had a whole ad campaign that mocked vegetarians an encouraged meat-eaters to judge and avoid them I'd take issue with that, yes. If they asked people who were eating salads at their location to please have some meat too because their vegetarianism was intimidating the other guests then yes, I'd take issue with that too.
That said, I'm not saying that PF shouldn't be allowed to run their business as they see fit. I'm just saying that I think it's lousy to make money off of the fears/prejudices of their members (yes I know, there are PLENTY of businesses doing the same.) They've taken what could be a good thing (a gym where people could feel comfortable no matter what they look like) and twisted it into "come here and you'll never have to deal with THAT kind of person." What kind? The ones who have already achieved a healthy body. Shock horror. And they're telling everyone that it's okay to judge fit people and assume they're awful just because they're fit. I think that sucks.
^^^^ this pretty much sums up the issue I have with Planet Fitness. Plus the hypocrisy of it being a judgement free zone for everyone except for the kinds of people they don't want in their establishment, who they judge to be "lunks" based on their appearance and fitness goals.... that's about as internally consistent as putting up a sign saying "no f***ing swearing allowed here you c***s!"
Now, if a gym posted that sign, I'd join in an instant!0 -
In addition to "no shoes, no shirt, no service" some McDonalds are enforcing "pull up your pants or you can't come in"
http://www.wrcbtv.com/story/23601165/new-mcdonalds-dress-code-for-customers-pull-up-your-pants
The difference between mcdonalds and planet fitness is that this requirement is clearly stated (what is lunk attire?) and prominently posted on the front door.0 -
I think that's what's happening.
Poorly.
You seem to be advocating that. Some others seem to be advocating that. She doesn't seem to be organizing a social justice action. Boycotts usually come with some kind of argument or call for change. She's just complaining that she's too toned to show it off at a gym that tells you that is their policy. (I haven't read every article out there, sorry if she did.)
Tell her to go to Change.org.
My disdain is really more with the media for all the issues that don't get attention and then something like this does.
My local bar says no jeans. I've seen people walk in wearing some clothing that could definitely be called jeans. Look for me on the news.0 -
People HATE rules. Until their own arbitrary rules get violated.0
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not yet, but she is on trial in Salem for "witchcraft" apparently she used her "magic" to convincing everyone in PF she was too "toned"….Glad to see this thread is still going. Have they burned the poor ho at the stake yet for exposing her shoulders? I mean, that's clearly what she deserves, right?0 -
not yet, but she is on trial in Salem for "witchcraft" apparently she used her "magic" to convincing everyone in PF she was too "toned"….Glad to see this thread is still going. Have they burned the poor ho at the stake yet for exposing her shoulders? I mean, that's clearly what she deserves, right?
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The only thing I've noticed on their dress code is "No Jeans" and "No street shoes". I'm going to look at that more closely tomorrow when I go in!
BECAUSE, gosh, having lost over 30 lbs this past winter, I've started wearing my form fitting yoga tops and pants. God, I feel so much more healthy now and I don't know if I'll ever be able to go back to loose sweats and t-shirts. At 57, of course, I'll never look as hot as most of the gals there but still - no one better tell me to cover it up if I'm wearing exercise clothes. LOL
Can't wait to report on what the dress code really says.
quit now, you are too toned to be a PF member...0 -
Can someone point me to the dress code on their site that I need to agree with prior to joining? Because they'll take my money but I can't actually seem to find it.
(viral marketing is awesome)0 -
I think that's what's happening.
Poorly.
You seem to be advocating that. Some others seem to be advocating that. She doesn't seem to be organizing a social justice action. Boycotts usually come with some kind of argument or call for change. She's just complaining that she's too toned to show it off at a gym that tells you that is their policy. (I haven't read every article out there, sorry if she did.)
Tell her to go to Change.org.
My disdain is really more with the media for all the issues that don't get attention and then something like this does.
My local bar says no jeans. I've seen people walk in wearing some clothing that could definitely be called jeans. Look for me on the news.
She's in Northern CA. I think we all know what's happening
The issue wasn't the dress code. She was in the process of complying with the dress code when a second employee came up and made personal remarks.
ETA: what I mean is complying with the "dress code" that the employee made up there on the spot.0 -
Glad to see this thread is still going. Have they burned the poor ho at the stake yet for exposing her shoulders? I mean, that's clearly what she deserves, right?
Not her shoulders, its her stomach and back, bare, sweating on the equipment that I want to use without her or anyone elses funk all over the vinyl seats.0 -
Glad to see this thread is still going. Have they burned the poor ho at the stake yet for exposing her shoulders? I mean, that's clearly what she deserves, right?
Not her shoulders, its her stomach and back, bare, sweating on the equipment that I want to use without her or anyone elses funk all over the vinyl seats.
I'm sure you wear long sleeves too0 -
Glad to see this thread is still going. Have they burned the poor ho at the stake yet for exposing her shoulders? I mean, that's clearly what she deserves, right?
Not her shoulders, its her stomach and back, bare, sweating on the equipment that I want to use without her or anyone elses funk all over the vinyl seats.
We get it, you think bare skin touching the machines is gross.
But that's not what she was told. If she'd been told it was a hygiene issue this would be a different conversation.0 -
Glad to see this thread is still going. Have they burned the poor ho at the stake yet for exposing her shoulders? I mean, that's clearly what she deserves, right?
Not her shoulders, its her stomach and back, bare, sweating on the equipment that I want to use without her or anyone elses funk all over the vinyl seats.
I don't know how you work out.. But when I work out in a tank, or better yet, a tshirt... I sweat like a hostage. And when I'm done with a bench... There is sweat there regardless of top or no top.
That's what those little hygienic wipes are for.
Since you have such an issue with it. Then bring your own little package of disinfectant wipes and wipe down the machines before (and after) so as to avoid all the nasty germs.
Oh... And PS... Boxing would not be your thing. Sweat. Flies. Everywhere.0 -
Glad to see this thread is still going. Have they burned the poor ho at the stake yet for exposing her shoulders? I mean, that's clearly what she deserves, right?
Not her shoulders, its her stomach and back, bare, sweating on the equipment that I want to use without her or anyone elses funk all over the vinyl seats.
Some people should just stay on their couch away from all the sweat and icky germs in gyms. Hell, some hard working types even bleed once in a while0 -
So they want your money to get to looking like that, but then your not allowed to show it off. Now isn't that some *kitten*?0
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How many of you were there when this woman was told that she was in violation of the dress code. None. That's what I thought. Yet, we are all taking this woman's word as gospel. Of course, she is telling the truth. Of course, it couldn't be that simple that she violated the code and was asked to cover up or she would have to leave. Of course, that ogre of a worker was wrong. No one who works for a corporation could ever be in the right.
You know, no one wants to admit they are wrong so when they retell the story, they add to it to make sure that people side with them. Think about the last time something along those lines happened to you. What sort of story did you spin?
I wonder if it was the woman's attitude rather than her body or tank top that was intimidating. I wasn't there and only have her statements to go by but I think there is more to the story.0 -
So they want your money to get to looking like that, but then your not allowed to show it off. Now isn't that some *kitten*?
Well, if you eat their pizza and bagels and tootsie rolls, you won't be looking like that will you?0 -
Glad to see this thread is still going. Have they burned the poor ho at the stake yet for exposing her shoulders? I mean, that's clearly what she deserves, right?
Not her shoulders, its her stomach and back, bare, sweating on the equipment that I want to use without her or anyone elses funk all over the vinyl seats.
Some people should just stay on their couch away from all the sweat and icky germs in gyms. Hell, some hard working types even bleed once in a while
True story. I'm pretty sure my barbell has some dried blood on it...either from my hands or from scraping my shins while deadlifting...
...but I guess PF has solved the latter problem by prohibiting that particular lift.0 -
So they want your money to get to looking like that, but then your not allowed to show it off. Now isn't that some *kitten*?
Well, if you eat their pizza and bagels and tootsie rolls, you won't be looking like that will you?
HEY! I eat all those things.
Not at planet fitness, but you know, just in general.0 -
How many of you were there when this woman was told that she was in violation of the dress code. None. That's what I thought. Yet, we are all taking this woman's word as gospel. Of course, she is telling the truth. Of course, it couldn't be that simple that she violated the code and was asked to cover up or she would have to leave. Of course, that ogre of a worker was wrong. No one who works for a corporation could ever be in the right.
You know, no one wants to admit they are wrong so when they retell the story, they add to it to make sure that people side with them. Think about the last time something along those lines happened to you. What sort of story did you spin?
I wonder if it was the woman's attitude rather than her body or tank top that was intimidating. I wasn't there and only have her statements to go by but I think there is more to the story.
If this were an isolated incident, I would think that, too, but recently there have been similar reports from now-ex PF members.0 -
She's in Northern CA. I think we all know what's happening
Intrigued. Please do elaborate. I am always interested in how Nor Cal is viewed from afar.0 -
too many people haven;t a clue about being modest and love to put on a show for the men like that's all they got to offer.....their bodies. it's disrespectful to others to walk around uncovered.
Umm, really????
I have been with the same man for 20 years and I dress in GYM ATTIRE for working out at the gym or at home.
Geeesh, the insecurity.0 -
This is backwards thinking. "I feel uncomfortable when I look at you. Therefore, you have offended me and must change." Wrong-O! If looking upon a toned body offends you, then you should evaluate your own insecurities. How my body makes you feel is none of my business!
** With that said if the woman signed up knowing the rules, and broke the rules, then that's on her.
My thoughts exactly. And I don't look any where near as good as I used to look some years ago, but I am working my way back there.0 -
I really hope you seek help for your crippling insecurities, jealousy, and other "issues" that lead to this kind of destructive mentality.too many people haven;t a clue about being modest and love to put on a show for the men like that's all they got to offer.....their bodies. it's disrespectful to others to walk around uncovered.0 -
Interesting. I belong to a PF near my home. I see women in tank tops there all the time. Perhaps some franchises enforce that rule more than others. Maybe an employee got a little overzealous? Can't say. Personally, I didn't find the woman in question's clothing to be offensive, especially for a workout, but I can see where she may be asked to wear a longer top. With that said, I can't help but feel like some embellishment has been applied to the re-telling of this incident. If not, this is one of the oddest stories I've ever heard. Stranger things have happened, I guess.
You remind me of the PF members who used to say, "They aren't banning deadlifts in all PFs. That's ridiculous! I still deadlift in my PF." Of course, weeks/months later, they banned deadlifts in their location.
TL;DR - PF Corporate is doing all it can to ensure compliance with all of their regulations...because it's essential to their business model.
Too true. I should probably keep my mouth shut 'cuz I'm all for tank tops in a gym, especially in summer. :drinker:0 -
Join a gym without a dress code if you want to show your stomach.
When I worked out at the YMCA, a woman was asked to leave because she was in a glorified pair of underwear and bra with a Nike logo on it. You can work out just as well in a tshirt and an actual pair of shorts.
They only dress like that because they want attention. If you want to walk around in a sports bra, go to Walmart. They don't seem to have a dress code.
That is just simply not true. It is best to wear as little, tight fitting clothing as possible so that you can see exactly whats going on in the mirror. You don't think they put those mirrors all over the gym so people can gawk at themselves do you? They are for watching your form and bettering your technique, something you can't see in sweats or baggy clothing. Educate yourself before you make that kind of statement.
This and I also hate my clothes bunching up on me. A tight pair of athletic pants is WAY more comfy than a pair of shorts that crawl and bunch when you're running.I hate t-shirts when I'm running or boxing. Can't stand worrying about tucking it in when I'm planking so that someone cant see up my shirt. I can't imagine doing box jumps with a t-shirt flopping around.
I also like seeing my strength gains. When I am boxing, I like seeing the muscles pop in my shoulders and biceps. When I am lifting, I like being able to see which muscle groupings are being activated. I like feeling proud of my accomplishment.
So for me it's clear that I'd never want to go there. I go where I am comfortable.
Which right now, apart from my boxing club. Is at home in my basement.
My cat doesn't complain about my short shorts, knee highs and sport bra.
OMG.............do you also kiss the mirror while you 'pop' here there and everywhere:ohwell:
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The derogatory way some have talked about PF members on here kind of illustrates why some people may feel more comfortable starting out in that environment.
I believe the critique has been of PF's corporate policy not the actual members ….
They have a corporate policy for a reason and I'm assuming it's successful. The policy is therefore what the majority of members want, otherwise it would be an awful business model. The implication that some people don't have goals that push themselves to the max doesn't make their goals any less valid. I lost a lot of weight just watching my diet and walking. Now I have changed my goals and push myself harder, but we all have to start somewhere and maybe PF is geared towards people starting out.
Personally I don't mind what people wear at the gym, I never really notice to be honest. I just have sympathy with people who may find that environment a good starting point. It's the same reason you have women only gyms I guess, I couldn't care less myself but I can see why some women might want that.
They DONT seem to have a clearly defined corporate policy though.
I suspect their corporate policy is clearly defined, but inconsistently enforced.
Please link to it if you can find it. The nearest I can see is no jeans, no work boots, no bandannas.
I think we'll need an actual PF member to scan it and post it...which I am almost certain will be a violation of the agreement. I suspect PF has many reasons for not wanting the terms of their contract being made public.0 -
How many of you were there when this woman was told that she was in violation of the dress code. None. That's what I thought. Yet, we are all taking this woman's word as gospel. Of course, she is telling the truth. Of course, it couldn't be that simple that she violated the code and was asked to cover up or she would have to leave. Of course, that ogre of a worker was wrong. No one who works for a corporation could ever be in the right.
You know, no one wants to admit they are wrong so when they retell the story, they add to it to make sure that people side with them. Think about the last time something along those lines happened to you. What sort of story did you spin?
I wonder if it was the woman's attitude rather than her body or tank top that was intimidating. I wasn't there and only have her statements to go by but I think there is more to the story.
If this were an isolated incident, I would think that, too, but recently there have been similar reports from now-ex PF members.
Then I agree they definitely need to tightened their definitions about dress code and such. I wouldn't join PF for 2 reasons: I have a gym in my garage and they were making fun of Zumba in their last ad:grumble:. That being said, if they could get some of their business straightened out I'd love to see one in my community. Before anyone comes out screaming, I live in a state that is both very poor and very unhealthy/overweight. Not to mention the growing number of older folks as the younger ones move away. I think that a "milder" gym for $10 a month would appeal to enough people in my area that we could maybe get a little further away from the bottom of the "healthiest states in the country" lists.0 -
Why does this thread keep derailing to dress code?
Is it supposed to be about your leg?
Please stop leg-shaming me.0
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