Ladies...Do married men constantly talk to you?

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  • HuggyBeahr
    HuggyBeahr Posts: 259
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    Maybe because they dont see anything evolving from conversation with you? Most married men like to talk to women just to gain perspective or to get another womans point of view. Cant go to the bro's for sensitive topics or you just might get a bro answer.

    When I was married, I wasnt really "allowed" female friends even if they were previous strictly platonic relationships.
    I would avoid someone I felt attracted to , just to avoid any issues on either side.
  • PghPensFan69
    PghPensFan69 Posts: 2,393 Member
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    I will let Positive K respond to this one for me.

    Aiyyo sweetie, you're lookin kinda pretty
    What's a girl like you, doin in this rough city
    [Girl] I'm just here, tryin to hold my own ground
    Yeah, I think I like how that sound

    What you say we gets to know each other better?
    [Girl] That sounds good but I don't think that I can let ya
    I don't know, tell me is it so
    Do you get a kick, out of tellin brothers no?

    [Girl] No it's not that see you don't understand
    [Girl] How should I put it, I got a man
    What's your man got to do with me?
    [Girl] I told ya

    I'm not tryin to hear that see
    [Girl] I'm not one of those girls that go rippin around
    I'm not a dog baby, so don't play me like a clown
    [Girl] I'll admit, I like how you kick it

    Now you're talkin baby, dats da ticket
    [Girl] Now don't get excited and chuck your own in
    [Girl] I already told ya, I got a man
    What's your man got to do with me?

    [Girl] I got a man
    I'm not tryin to hear that see
    [Girl] I got a man
    What's your man got to do with me?

    [Girl] I got a man
    I'm not tryin to hear that
    [Girl] Now you can persist to play Don Juan all day
    [Girl] But ain't nothin gonna change

    Yeah baby, sure you're right
    I'mma break it down and do whatever I gots to do
    I tell you know, I got eyes for you
    [Girl] You got eyes, but they not for me

    [Girl] You better use them for what they for and that's to see
    You know what's the problem, ya not used to learnin
    I'm Big Daddy Longstroke, and your man's Pee Wee Herman
    [Girl] I got a question to ask you troop

    [Girl] Are you a chef, cause you keep feedin me soup
    You know what they say about those who sweat thyself
    You might find yourself, by yourself
    I'm not waitin because I'm no waiter

    So when I blow up, don't try to kick it to me later
    [Girl] All them girls must got you gassed
    A-when they see a good thing they don't let it pass
    [Girl] Well that's OK, cause see if that's their plan
    [Girl] Cause for me, I already got a man
    What's your man got to do with me?

    [Girl] I got a man
    I'm not tryin to hear that see
    [Girl] I got a man
    What's your man got to do with me?

    [Girl] I got a man
    I'm not tryin to hear that
    What am I, some crab inmate
    That just came home from jail sweatin you for a date?

    I don't want no beef, I just wants to get together
    [Girl] But how you talkin, pssssh, whatevah!
    We can't have nothin
    [Girl] It all depends

    Well if we can't be lovers than we can't be friends
    [Girl] Well then I guess it's nothing
    Well hey I think you're bluffing
    [Girl] Well I'mma call my man

    Well I can get raggamuffin
    Ya better catch a flashback remember I'm not crabbin it
    You know my style, from I'm Not Havin It
    [Girl] All I remember's an excuse me miss

    [Girl] You can't get a girl like me with a line like this
    Well look I'll treat you good
    [Girl] My man treats me better
    I talk sweet on the phone

    [Girl] My man writes love letters
    I'll tell you that I want you, and tell you that I care
    [Girl] My man says the same except he's sincere
    Well I'm clean cut and dapper, that's what I'm about

    [Girl] My man buys me things and he takes me out
    Well you can keep your man, cause I don't go that route
    [Girl] Don't you know yu haffa respeck me
    There's a lot of girls out there who won't say no

    [Girl] You're out for mami with your DJ Money
    Boom batter my pockets is gettin fatter
    I wanna turn you on and excite you
    Let me know the spot on your body and I bite you

    So when your man don't treat you like he used to
    I kick in like a turbo booster
    You want lovin you don't have to ask when
    Your man's a headache, I'll be your aspirin

    All confusion, you know I'll solve em
    [Girl] I got a man
    You got a what?
    How long you had that problem?
    What's your man got to do with me?

    [Girl] I got a man
    I'm not tryin to hear that see
    [Girl] I got a man
    What's your man got to do with me?

    [Girl] I got a man
    I'm not tryin to hear that
    [Girl] I got a man
    Aiyyo baby put the dial numbers or your address

    [Girl] I got a man
    I told ya I treat you right
    [Girl] I got a man
    Aww c'mon now ain't no future in frontin

    [Girl] I'm not havin it
    C'mon Miss, oh we back on that again
    Uhh, I'm not tryin to hear that see

    [Girl] I got a man
    But your man ain't me
    [Girl] Uhh, uhh, I got a man
    You got a WHAT?
    [Girl] Uhh, uhh, uhh, I got a man
    You got a WHAT?

    http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x145dt9_positive-k-i-got-a-man_music
  • BlueAngelChar
    BlueAngelChar Posts: 1,364 Member
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    Yep but the best thing that's happening to me just now is that their wives join up to MFP and I get deleted lol :noway: don't know if that's an compliment or an insult
  • jasonmh630
    jasonmh630 Posts: 2,850 Member
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    I get this, I don't talk about it because people think I am either flirting or being vain.
    I am a *kitten* magnet, it has left me with a distrust of all men (I know it's not fair)

    I think half my problem is that I have no idea I am being hit on until it's too late and then it's awkward.

    I feel like this is my issue as well. I'm just a very friendly person. And I am highly sensitive and compassionate. I feel maybe that could ignite mixed feelings. :(

    I have been hit on in the strangest of places, once at the gym mid workout, all sweaty and minging and once while dressed as Sadako (Samara) from the ring!
    How is that a come-on? What is wrong with these people?
    And it never happens with hot single guys :(

    This may be your issue... Finding someone who will be good to you and treat you well has nothing to do with how "hot" he is. Don't be so worried about whether he's "hot" or not and get to know the person. Looks will always fade as we get older. The average looking guy might be the ONE guy who treats you better and understands you better than anyone else has. I don't mean any offense by any of that. Just stating my opinion, based on experience. I've dated girls just because I thought they were physically attractive, and ended up getting burned EVERY time... But then, I've dated girls who weren't initially physically attractive as some, but once I got to know them, they became more attractive than the most physically beautiful ones. I'm not saying you definitely do this, but don't keep going after the same type of guy that you know is bad for you. Try a different type... You may be pleasantly surprised. :)
  • MysteriousLdy
    MysteriousLdy Posts: 306 Member
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    I will let Positive K respond to this one for me.

    Aiyyo sweetie, you're lookin kinda pretty
    What's a girl like you, doin in this rough city
    [Girl] I'm just here, tryin to hold my own ground
    Yeah, I think I like how that sound

    What you say we gets to know each other better?
    [Girl] That sounds good but I don't think that I can let ya
    I don't know, tell me is it so
    Do you get a kick, out of tellin brothers no?

    [Girl] No it's not that see you don't understand
    [Girl] How should I put it, I got a man
    What's your man got to do with me?
    [Girl] I told ya

    I'm not tryin to hear that see
    [Girl] I'm not one of those girls that go rippin around
    I'm not a dog baby, so don't play me like a clown
    [Girl] I'll admit, I like how you kick it

    Now you're talkin baby, dats da ticket
    [Girl] Now don't get excited and chuck your own in
    [Girl] I already told ya, I got a man
    What's your man got to do with me?

    [Girl] I got a man
    I'm not tryin to hear that see
    [Girl] I got a man
    What's your man got to do with me?

    [Girl] I got a man
    I'm not tryin to hear that
    [Girl] Now you can persist to play Don Juan all day
    [Girl] But ain't nothin gonna change

    Yeah baby, sure you're right
    I'mma break it down and do whatever I gots to do
    I tell you know, I got eyes for you
    [Girl] You got eyes, but they not for me

    [Girl] You better use them for what they for and that's to see
    You know what's the problem, ya not used to learnin
    I'm Big Daddy Longstroke, and your man's Pee Wee Herman
    [Girl] I got a question to ask you troop

    [Girl] Are you a chef, cause you keep feedin me soup
    You know what they say about those who sweat thyself
    You might find yourself, by yourself
    I'm not waitin because I'm no waiter

    So when I blow up, don't try to kick it to me later
    [Girl] All them girls must got you gassed
    A-when they see a good thing they don't let it pass
    [Girl] Well that's OK, cause see if that's their plan
    [Girl] Cause for me, I already got a man
    What's your man got to do with me?

    [Girl] I got a man
    I'm not tryin to hear that see
    [Girl] I got a man
    What's your man got to do with me?

    [Girl] I got a man
    I'm not tryin to hear that
    What am I, some crab inmate
    That just came home from jail sweatin you for a date?

    I don't want no beef, I just wants to get together
    [Girl] But how you talkin, pssssh, whatevah!
    We can't have nothin
    [Girl] It all depends

    Well if we can't be lovers than we can't be friends
    [Girl] Well then I guess it's nothing
    Well hey I think you're bluffing
    [Girl] Well I'mma call my man

    Well I can get raggamuffin
    Ya better catch a flashback remember I'm not crabbin it
    You know my style, from I'm Not Havin It
    [Girl] All I remember's an excuse me miss

    [Girl] You can't get a girl like me with a line like this
    Well look I'll treat you good
    [Girl] My man treats me better
    I talk sweet on the phone

    [Girl] My man writes love letters
    I'll tell you that I want you, and tell you that I care
    [Girl] My man says the same except he's sincere
    Well I'm clean cut and dapper, that's what I'm about

    [Girl] My man buys me things and he takes me out
    Well you can keep your man, cause I don't go that route
    [Girl] Don't you know yu haffa respeck me
    There's a lot of girls out there who won't say no

    [Girl] You're out for mami with your DJ Money
    Boom batter my pockets is gettin fatter
    I wanna turn you on and excite you
    Let me know the spot on your body and I bite you

    So when your man don't treat you like he used to
    I kick in like a turbo booster
    You want lovin you don't have to ask when
    Your man's a headache, I'll be your aspirin

    All confusion, you know I'll solve em
    [Girl] I got a man
    You got a what?
    How long you had that problem?
    What's your man got to do with me?

    [Girl] I got a man
    I'm not tryin to hear that see
    [Girl] I got a man
    What's your man got to do with me?

    [Girl] I got a man
    I'm not tryin to hear that
    [Girl] I got a man
    Aiyyo baby put the dial numbers or your address

    [Girl] I got a man
    I told ya I treat you right
    [Girl] I got a man
    Aww c'mon now ain't no future in frontin

    [Girl] I'm not havin it
    C'mon Miss, oh we back on that again
    Uhh, I'm not tryin to hear that see

    [Girl] I got a man
    But your man ain't me
    [Girl] Uhh, uhh, I got a man
    You got a WHAT?
    [Girl] Uhh, uhh, uhh, I got a man
    You got a WHAT?

    http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x145dt9_positive-k-i-got-a-man_music


    ROTFLMAO!!!!
  • MysteriousLdy
    MysteriousLdy Posts: 306 Member
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    No no no no....I'm not talking about anyone on here! Many married men that I know IN PERSON talk to me inappropriately.

    :ohwell:

    I'm married and I talk to almost everyone in an inappropriate manner. That's just the way I roll...

    Uh..Mmm..:laugh: :laugh: :flowerforyou:
  • jenn2375
    jenn2375 Posts: 101 Member
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    Give it another ten years.....you will just roll your eyes and walk away!!
  • kaz321123
    kaz321123 Posts: 24 Member
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    Studies show....you know what-I have no idea what I'm saying-I just thought it would make me sound cool! :P
  • PghPensFan69
    PghPensFan69 Posts: 2,393 Member
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    Give it another ten years.....you will just roll your eyes and walk away!!

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  • MysteriousLdy
    MysteriousLdy Posts: 306 Member
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    Give it another ten years.....you will just roll your eyes and walk away!!

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  • jenn2375
    jenn2375 Posts: 101 Member
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    Give it another ten years.....you will just roll your eyes and walk away!!

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    :yawn: :yawn: :yawn: :noway: :noway: :noway: !!!
  • MileHighFitness
    MileHighFitness Posts: 2,298 Member
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    Yes! They are such dogs!
  • PghPensFan69
    PghPensFan69 Posts: 2,393 Member
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    Give it another ten years.....you will just roll your eyes and walk away!!

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    :yawn: :yawn: :yawn: :noway: :noway: :noway: !!!

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  • jenn2375
    jenn2375 Posts: 101 Member
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    Give it another ten years.....you will just roll your eyes and walk away!!

    tumblr_lantz57hW81qdjoqeo1_500.png

    :yawn: :yawn: :yawn: :noway: :noway: :noway: !!!

    :sick:
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  • PghPensFan69
    PghPensFan69 Posts: 2,393 Member
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    Give it another ten years.....you will just roll your eyes and walk away!!

    Please Don't Go Girl

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  • jenn2375
    jenn2375 Posts: 101 Member
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    Eyes rolling......how's my back side look?:tongue:
  • PghPensFan69
    PghPensFan69 Posts: 2,393 Member
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    Eyes rolling......how's my back side look?:tongue:

    Mission accomplished. I am an *kitten* man :wink:
  • jenn2375
    jenn2375 Posts: 101 Member
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    Eyes rolling......how's my back side look?:tongue:

    Mission accomplished. I am an *kitten* man :wink:

    :glasses:

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