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  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    the club and the hair are the last of your worries. If he's resorted to violence get out.
    It sounds like this isn't healthy for either of you.


    Take care.
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  • PennyM140
    PennyM140 Posts: 423 Member
    If I read right, OP pushed drunk husband and he pushed her back. Not an ideal situation, but certainly not bad enough to write the guy off for. Not domestic abuse. Hate it when people jump to conclusions.
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    If I read right, OP pushed drunk husband and he pushed her back. Not an ideal situation, but certainly not bad enough to write the guy off for. Not domestic abuse. Hate it when people jump to conclusions.

    If you think anything about that situation was ok, seek help.
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  • ew_david
    ew_david Posts: 3,473 Member
    If I read right, OP pushed drunk husband and he pushed her back. Not an ideal situation, but certainly not bad enough to write the guy off for. Not domestic abuse. Hate it when people jump to conclusions.

    I'm sorry, what about any of that makes it okay for him to knock her over?

    She was trying to get his drunk *kitten* away from her kids and he pushed her down. NOT OKAY
  • sheenarama
    sheenarama Posts: 733 Member
    If I read right, OP pushed drunk husband and he pushed her back. Not an ideal situation, but certainly not bad enough to write the guy off for. Not domestic abuse. Hate it when people jump to conclusions.

    Even if he was drunk, it does not make his actions acceptable.
  • skullshank
    skullshank Posts: 4,323 Member
    this thread was fun/funny, until i got to the part where he pushes his pregnant wife, who falls and bumps her head.

    this thread went from :| to :D to >:(

    OP, your husband sounds like a ****, and having the opportunity to make him eat his teeth would bring me joy.
    i'm sorry the whole strip club incident happened to you, but i hope you see that you have revealed a much MUCH bigger issue than his deceit and stupid haircut.
    do you have any friends or family you can reach out to regarding this?
    please dont let this slide. no one deserves the treatment you got.
  • tmm_0127
    tmm_0127 Posts: 545 Member
    Incredibly disrespectful. He sounds like a real winner. :/
  • sseqwnp
    sseqwnp Posts: 327 Member
    If I read right, OP pushed drunk husband and he pushed her back. Not an ideal situation, but certainly not bad enough to write the guy off for. Not domestic abuse. Hate it when people jump to conclusions.

    Really? Wanna show me the part where she said she pushed him, much less pushed him first?

    Since you hate people jumping to conclusions and all...

    I think that would be this part:
    In saying that I was kinda trying to usher him out of the room because he woke the kids up raising his voice and was scaring them. So I may have nudged a little harder then I rrealised and he pushed back but still........
  • tomomatic
    tomomatic Posts: 1,794 Member
    this thread was fun/funny, until i got to the part where he pushes his pregnant wife, who falls and bumps her head.

    this thread went from :| to :D to >:(

    OP, your husband sounds like a ****, and having the opportunity to make him eat his teeth would bring me joy.
    i'm sorry the whole strip club incident happened to you, but i hope you see that you have revealed a much MUCH bigger issue than his deceit and stupid haircut.
    do you have any friends or family you can reach out to regarding this?
    please dont let this slide. no one deserves the treatment you got.

    He's pretty much said it all. Go get couples counseling or gtfo.
    I go by the old adage that if you have to lie about it to your wife, then you were cheating. But if you never talked about it, then you need to talk more.
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    the club and the hair are the last of your worries. If he's resorted to violence get out.
    It sounds like this isn't healthy for either of you.


    Take care.

    so... your troll senses aren't tingling? Mine are buzzing like a live wire...
  • ew_david
    ew_david Posts: 3,473 Member
    If I read right, OP pushed drunk husband and he pushed her back. Not an ideal situation, but certainly not bad enough to write the guy off for. Not domestic abuse. Hate it when people jump to conclusions.

    Really? Wanna show me the part where she said she pushed him, much less pushed him first?

    Since you hate people jumping to conclusions and all...

    I think that would be this part:
    In saying that I was kinda trying to usher him out of the room because he woke the kids up raising his voice and was scaring them. So I may have nudged a little harder then I rrealised and he pushed back but still........

    Again, her getting his drunk self away from her kids is much different than her willfully pushing him away.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    If I read right, OP pushed drunk husband and he pushed her back. Not an ideal situation, but certainly not bad enough to write the guy off for. Not domestic abuse. Hate it when people jump to conclusions.

    Really? Wanna show me the part where she said she pushed him, much less pushed him first?

    Since you hate people jumping to conclusions and all...

    I think that would be this part:
    In saying that I was kinda trying to usher him out of the room because he woke the kids up raising his voice and was scaring them. So I may have nudged a little harder then I rrealised and he pushed back but still........
    "I may have nudged a little harder ..." is not pushing him. And since he kept on his feet the entire time and she ended up on her rear end with an egg on her head, I'm thinking the level of force was not equal.
  • verymissk
    verymissk Posts: 262 Member
    Putting your hands on another person is NEVER okay, and trust me - if someone decides to do it once, they probably have it in them to do it again (unless the seek out help for the problems that caused the violence..)

    So, I didn't read everything, and I'm not going to - I trust the comments my esteemed friends have made ... I sure as *kitten* hope anyone on this thread that gets pushed by a spouse considers strongly not being around anyone that would do such a thing.
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    the club and the hair are the last of your worries. If he's resorted to violence get out.
    It sounds like this isn't healthy for either of you.


    Take care.

    so... your troll senses aren't tingling? Mine are buzzing like a live wire...
    who knows. MFP is a mixed bag.
  • skullshank
    skullshank Posts: 4,323 Member
    If I read right, OP pushed drunk husband and he pushed her back. Not an ideal situation, but certainly not bad enough to write the guy off for. Not domestic abuse. Hate it when people jump to conclusions.

    Really? Wanna show me the part where she said she pushed him, much less pushed him first?

    Since you hate people jumping to conclusions and all...

    I think that would be this part:
    In saying that I was kinda trying to usher him out of the room because he woke the kids up raising his voice and was scaring them. So I may have nudged a little harder then I rrealised and he pushed back but still........

    so you condone his pushing her hard enough to fall, or are you just pointing it out?

    a "nudge a litter harder than realized" does NOT justify a push hard enough to make his pregnant wife fall (nothing really does).
    he probably lost his balance because he was drunk. dudes a total loser 110%.
  • Lauren8239
    Lauren8239 Posts: 1,039 Member
    The more I read, the more I want to hear his side of the story. :huh:
  • firstsip
    firstsip Posts: 8,399 Member
    this thread was fun/funny, until i got to the part where he pushes his pregnant wife, who falls and bumps her head.

    this thread went from :| to :D to >:(

    OP, your husband sounds like a ****, and having the opportunity to make him eat his teeth would bring me joy.
    i'm sorry the whole strip club incident happened to you, but i hope you see that you have revealed a much MUCH bigger issue than his deceit and stupid haircut.
    do you have any friends or family you can reach out to regarding this?
    please dont let this slide. no one deserves the treatment you got.

    This. Concerned for you, OP.
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    The more I read, the more I want to hear his side of the story. :huh:

    Not altogether sure there is a real "he" for "his" side of the story.
  • sseqwnp
    sseqwnp Posts: 327 Member
    If I read right, OP pushed drunk husband and he pushed her back. Not an ideal situation, but certainly not bad enough to write the guy off for. Not domestic abuse. Hate it when people jump to conclusions.

    Really? Wanna show me the part where she said she pushed him, much less pushed him first?

    Since you hate people jumping to conclusions and all...

    I think that would be this part:
    In saying that I was kinda trying to usher him out of the room because he woke the kids up raising his voice and was scaring them. So I may have nudged a little harder then I rrealised and he pushed back but still........

    Again, her getting his drunk self away from her kids is much different than her willfully pushing him away.

    "nudged a little harder than I realized" = pushed.

    So she was involuntarily trying to push him out of the room? I don't get it.
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    the club and the hair are the last of your worries. If he's resorted to violence get out.
    It sounds like this isn't healthy for either of you.


    Take care.

    so... your troll senses aren't tingling? Mine are buzzing like a live wire...
    who knows. MFP is a mixed bag.

    true.dat

    this one though, feels faker then a set of fakies. It's coming across to me as dirty play that's making light of people who do have to live through that.
  • sseqwnp
    sseqwnp Posts: 327 Member
    If I read right, OP pushed drunk husband and he pushed her back. Not an ideal situation, but certainly not bad enough to write the guy off for. Not domestic abuse. Hate it when people jump to conclusions.

    Really? Wanna show me the part where she said she pushed him, much less pushed him first?

    Since you hate people jumping to conclusions and all...

    I think that would be this part:
    In saying that I was kinda trying to usher him out of the room because he woke the kids up raising his voice and was scaring them. So I may have nudged a little harder then I rrealised and he pushed back but still........

    so you condone his pushing her hard enough to fall, or are you just pointing it out?

    a "nudge a litter harder than realized" does NOT justify a push hard enough to make his pregnant wife fall (nothing really does).
    he probably lost his balance because he was drunk. dudes a total loser 110%.

    Just pointing out that the bicep up there was incorrect.
  • HerbertNenenger
    HerbertNenenger Posts: 453 Member
    DISRESPECT !!!
  • ew_david
    ew_david Posts: 3,473 Member
    If I read right, OP pushed drunk husband and he pushed her back. Not an ideal situation, but certainly not bad enough to write the guy off for. Not domestic abuse. Hate it when people jump to conclusions.

    Really? Wanna show me the part where she said she pushed him, much less pushed him first?

    Since you hate people jumping to conclusions and all...

    I think that would be this part:
    In saying that I was kinda trying to usher him out of the room because he woke the kids up raising his voice and was scaring them. So I may have nudged a little harder then I rrealised and he pushed back but still........

    so you condone his pushing her hard enough to fall, or are you just pointing it out?

    a "nudge a litter harder than realized" does NOT justify a push hard enough to make his pregnant wife fall (nothing really does).
    he probably lost his balance because he was drunk. dudes a total loser 110%.

    Just pointing out that the bicep up there was incorrect.

    Not in the slightest, but whatever dude
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    OP, you two have issues. For the sake of your kids, you need to make sure whatever actually happened NEVER happens again...


    Only you and he know the truth here. So do something about it. Discussing or venting here is one thing, but it sounds like you two need much more than an internet forum.
  • firstsip
    firstsip Posts: 8,399 Member
    the club and the hair are the last of your worries. If he's resorted to violence get out.
    It sounds like this isn't healthy for either of you.


    Take care.

    so... your troll senses aren't tingling? Mine are buzzing like a live wire...
    who knows. MFP is a mixed bag.

    true.dat

    this one though, feels faker then a set of fakies. It's coming across to me as dirty play that's making light of people who do have to live through that.

    I dunno; OP's posted before. She's been on here for 2+ years. That's a pretty long con for this type of trolling.

    In your defense, the gradual reveal of more and more details to keep the topic going made me pause, but I do think it could be because OP truly didn't see the being pushed as big of an issue as *we* did.
  • skullshank
    skullshank Posts: 4,323 Member
    If I read right, OP pushed drunk husband and he pushed her back. Not an ideal situation, but certainly not bad enough to write the guy off for. Not domestic abuse. Hate it when people jump to conclusions.

    Really? Wanna show me the part where she said she pushed him, much less pushed him first?

    Since you hate people jumping to conclusions and all...

    I think that would be this part:
    In saying that I was kinda trying to usher him out of the room because he woke the kids up raising his voice and was scaring them. So I may have nudged a little harder then I rrealised and he pushed back but still........

    so you condone his pushing her hard enough to fall, or are you just pointing it out?

    a "nudge a litter harder than realized" does NOT justify a push hard enough to make his pregnant wife fall (nothing really does).
    he probably lost his balance because he was drunk. dudes a total loser 110%.

    Just pointing out that the bicep up there was incorrect.

    he most certainly was not.

    you ever dealt with a belligerent drunk? tried to get them to do something they didnt want to with words?

    she was well within her rights to get him out of there, whether that meant dragging by arm, or nudging.

    his reaction was totally uncalled for and dangerous.

    edit: idk which bicep youre referring to.
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  • PennyM140
    PennyM140 Posts: 423 Member
    If I read right, OP pushed drunk husband and he pushed her back. Not an ideal situation, but certainly not bad enough to write the guy off for. Not domestic abuse. Hate it when people jump to conclusions.

    Really? Wanna show me the part where she said she pushed him, much less pushed him first?

    Since you hate people jumping to conclusions and all...

    This
    Nothing sinister happened:smile: we were angry things were said he pushed me I fell over and hit my head and now have a little egg :grumble: really super angry about that part because he could has done some serious damage seeing as I'm pregnant.
    In saying that I was kinda trying to usher him out of the room because he woke the kids up raising his voice and was scaring them. So I may have nudged a little harder then I rrealised and he pushed back but still........

    And as I said, not an ideal situation. People are telling her that this is abuse and to seek counseling. I don't agree with that. It seems like an isolated incident and he didn't intend to harm her. Just my opinion.

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