Bridezilla - Just Venting

sassyjae21

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unless she invited you after the fact in an effort to get you to change your event.

You're on to something....If that were the case, why the hell would you humor her by going to her wedding when she's only inviting you so that you don't sabotage her wedding.

Yes!

UsedToBeHusky

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unless she invited you after the fact in an effort to get you to change your event.

You're on to something....If that were the case, why the hell would you humor her by going to her wedding when she's only inviting you so that you don't sabotage her wedding.

Aha! I sense alterior motives FOR EVERYONE!

AsaThorsWoman

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unless she invited you after the fact in an effort to get you to change your event.

You're on to something....If that were the case, why the hell would you humor her by going to her wedding when she's only inviting you so that you don't sabotage her wedding.

LOL Because I do care about their family and I'm not sure about the bride's motifs, but in any case would be supportive of her groom's choices, and happy for the children involved.

GreenIceFloes

PRMinx

If their event starts at 4, the ceremony at 6, then how are you going to have a party at 7?

Is this real life? I don't see how this works. Isn't almost worse to show up and leave?

This whole thread is a lesson on the important of patience.

EvgeniZyntx

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unless she invited you after the fact in an effort to get you to change your event.

You're on to something....If that were the case, why the hell would you humor her by going to her wedding when she's only inviting you so that you don't sabotage her wedding.

LOL Because I do care about their family and I'm not sure about the bride's motifs, but in any case would be supportive of her groom's choices, and happy for the children involved.

The motifs are likely floral. Or maybe pagan symbolic motifs?

sassyjae21

If their event starts at 4, the ceremony at 6, then how are you going to have a party at 7?

Is this real life? I don't see how this works. Isn't almost worse to show up and leave?

This whole thread is a lesson on the important of patience.

I failed, started talking about make-up instead

bloodyhonest

Do you only treat her like a "close friend" when she treats you like one ? If you're a "close friend" I would assume you wouldn't mind changing the date to an event that you have annually, considering hers is suppose to happen once in a lifetime....but I guess "close friend" doesn't actually mean "good friend", so maybe I just misunderstood...

AglaeaC

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unless she invited you after the fact in an effort to get you to change your event.

You're on to something....If that were the case, why the hell would you humor her by going to her wedding when she's only inviting you so that you don't sabotage her wedding.

LOL Because I do care about their family and I'm not sure about the bride's motifs, but in any case would be supportive of her groom's choices, and happy for the children involved.

The motifs are likely floral. Or maybe pagan symbolic motifs?

I read it as motive.

AsaThorsWoman

If their event starts at 4, the ceremony at 6, then how are you going to have a party at 7?

Is this real life? I don't see how this works. Isn't almost worse to show up and leave?

This whole thread is a lesson on the important of patience.

Would it be worse to show up and leave?

Maybe I should just mail a gift.

I'm not sure what to do.

If I could change my event I would, but a lot of people have already submitted time off requests for the Mid-summer.

I'm not sure what to do.

Guns_N_Buns

Why can't you be normal and have a Fourth of July party? When you say Mid Summer "Event" I'm thinking of a bunch of adults skipping around a pole with different colored ribbons.:yawn:

GreenIceFloes

AsaThorsWoman

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unless she invited you after the fact in an effort to get you to change your event.

You're on to something....If that were the case, why the hell would you humor her by going to her wedding when she's only inviting you so that you don't sabotage her wedding.

LOL Because I do care about their family and I'm not sure about the bride's motifs, but in any case would be supportive of her groom's choices, and happy for the children involved.

The motifs are likely floral. Or maybe pagan symbolic motifs?

I read it as motive.

I think it's tartan/kilt with black collars with blingy hearts on it.

Despite the fact that this thread probably does sound made up and pointless, truth is stranger than fiction, sometimes.

AsaThorsWoman

Why can't you be normal and have a Fourth of July party? When you say Mid Summer "Event" I'm thinking of a bunch of adults skipping around a pole with different colored ribbons.:yawn:

Close, that's Walpurgis/Beltane.

Last year we got naked and jumped over the fire pit, though.

AsaThorsWoman

Do you only treat her like a "close friend" when she treats you like one ? If you're a "close friend" I would assume you wouldn't mind changing the date to an event that you have annually, considering hers is suppose to happen once in a lifetime....but I guess "close friend" doesn't actually mean "good friend", so maybe I just misunderstood...

That is very true, very, very true.

devil_in_a_blue_dress

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If their event starts at 4, the ceremony at 6, then how are you going to have a party at 7?

Is this real life? I don't see how this works. Isn't almost worse to show up and leave?

This whole thread is a lesson on the important of patience.

Would it be worse to show up and leave?

Maybe I should just mail a gift.

I'm not sure what to do.

If I could change my event I would, but a lot of people have already submitted time off requests for the Mid-summer.

I'm not sure what to do.

They honestly can't change their requests?

AglaeaC

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unless she invited you after the fact in an effort to get you to change your event.

You're on to something....If that were the case, why the hell would you humor her by going to her wedding when she's only inviting you so that you don't sabotage her wedding.

LOL Because I do care about their family and I'm not sure about the bride's motifs, but in any case would be supportive of her groom's choices, and happy for the children involved.

The motifs are likely floral. Or maybe pagan symbolic motifs?

I read it as motive.

I think it's tartan/kilt with black collars with blingy hearts on it.

Despite the fact that this thread probably does sound made up and pointless, truth is stranger than fiction, sometimes.

Now I'm onboard. I thought it was motive as in behaviour earlier, but it was the pattern. My bad.

Guns_N_Buns

Last year we got naked and jumped over the fire pit, though.

Clearly, I need new friends.

oregonzoo

I would change your party to another date. Just easier.
And as far as the time off people request.

It's pretty easy to say "hey, turns out they changed the date. Can I have _________ off instead"

AsaThorsWoman

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If their event starts at 4, the ceremony at 6, then how are you going to have a party at 7?

Is this real life? I don't see how this works. Isn't almost worse to show up and leave?

This whole thread is a lesson on the important of patience.

I failed, started talking about make-up instead

That's OK.

I love make up talk too.

I think the most under-rated make-up is Victoria Secret. It goes on sale %90 off twice a year and it is so good.

It really stays on and true to the color it's supposed to be.

devil_in_a_blue_dress

I feel like this thread is about "shocking" people.

NAKED WEDDINGS

JUMPING OVER THE FIRE NAKED

NAKEDNAKEDNAKED

AsaThorsWoman

I would change your party to another date. Just easier.
And as far as the time off people request.

It's pretty easy to say "hey, turns out they changed the date. Can I have _________ off instead"

I am honestly thinking of it.

Theirs is once in a life time.

And I really care about them both.

Maybe I can just push mine into a night time event.

Is 8pm too late to start?

AsaThorsWoman

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unless she invited you after the fact in an effort to get you to change your event.

You're on to something....If that were the case, why the hell would you humor her by going to her wedding when she's only inviting you so that you don't sabotage her wedding.

LOL Because I do care about their family and I'm not sure about the bride's motifs, but in any case would be supportive of her groom's choices, and happy for the children involved.

The motifs are likely floral. Or maybe pagan symbolic motifs?

I read it as motive.

I think it's tartan/kilt with black collars with blingy hearts on it.

Despite the fact that this thread probably does sound made up and pointless, truth is stranger than fiction, sometimes.

Now I'm onboard. I thought it was motive as in behaviour earlier, but it was the pattern. My bad.

It was motive earlier. But they do have a motif, as well.

Some_Watery_Tart

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Last year we got naked and jumped over the fire pit, though.

Clearly, I need new friends.

Ditto. Wanna have a party? We don't have to be sober for the naked fire jumping right?

occupysmithmachine

Just break up

firstsip

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I would change your party to another date. Just easier.
And as far as the time off people request.

It's pretty easy to say "hey, turns out they changed the date. Can I have _________ off instead"

I am honestly thinking of it.

Theirs is once in a life time.

And I really care about them both.

Maybe I can just push mine into a night time event.

Is 8pm too late to start?

What's on the menu?

Guns_N_Buns

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Last year we got naked and jumped over the fire pit, though.

Clearly, I need new friends.

Ditto. Wanna have a party? We don't have to be sober for the naked fire jumping right?

For sure! I'll be walking on coals-naked-type-plastered.

EvgeniZyntx

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unless she invited you after the fact in an effort to get you to change your event.

You're on to something....If that were the case, why the hell would you humor her by going to her wedding when she's only inviting you so that you don't sabotage her wedding.

LOL Because I do care about their family and I'm not sure about the bride's motifs, but in any case would be supportive of her groom's choices, and happy for the children involved.

The motifs are likely floral. Or maybe pagan symbolic motifs?

I read it as motive.

I think it's tartan/kilt with black collars with blingy hearts on it.

Despite the fact that this thread probably does sound made up and pointless, truth is stranger than fiction, sometimes.

Now I'm onboard. I thought it was motive as in behaviour earlier, but it was the pattern. My bad.

see?

I'm not seeing the blingy hearts. Is that hearts with sparkles?
I'm having a hard time imagining that on Tartan.

Holly_Roman_Empire

Why can't you be normal and have a Fourth of July party? When you say Mid Summer "Event" I'm thinking of a bunch of adults skipping around a pole with different colored ribbons.:yawn:

I keep thinking about Shakespeare, to be honest. lol

sassyjae21

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Last year we got naked and jumped over the fire pit, though.

Clearly, I need new friends.

Ditto. Wanna have a party? We don't have to be sober for the naked fire jumping right?

For sure! I'll be walking on coals-naked-type-plastered.

In:drinker:

If I'm invited.

See what i did there?