Bridezilla - Just Venting

devil_in_a_blue_dress

I feel like this thread is about "shocking" people.

NAKED WEDDINGS

JUMPING OVER THE FIRE NAKED

NAKEDNAKEDNAKED

AsaThorsWoman

I would change your party to another date. Just easier.
And as far as the time off people request.

It's pretty easy to say "hey, turns out they changed the date. Can I have _________ off instead"

I am honestly thinking of it.

Theirs is once in a life time.

And I really care about them both.

Maybe I can just push mine into a night time event.

Is 8pm too late to start?

AsaThorsWoman

unless she invited you after the fact in an effort to get you to change your event.

You're on to something....If that were the case, why the hell would you humor her by going to her wedding when she's only inviting you so that you don't sabotage her wedding.

LOL Because I do care about their family and I'm not sure about the bride's motifs, but in any case would be supportive of her groom's choices, and happy for the children involved.

The motifs are likely floral. Or maybe pagan symbolic motifs?

I read it as motive.

I think it's tartan/kilt with black collars with blingy hearts on it.

Despite the fact that this thread probably does sound made up and pointless, truth is stranger than fiction, sometimes.

Now I'm onboard. I thought it was motive as in behaviour earlier, but it was the pattern. My bad.

It was motive earlier. But they do have a motif, as well.

Some_Watery_Tart

Last year we got naked and jumped over the fire pit, though.

Clearly, I need new friends.

Ditto. Wanna have a party? We don't have to be sober for the naked fire jumping right?

occupysmithmachine

Just break up

firstsip

I would change your party to another date. Just easier.
And as far as the time off people request.

It's pretty easy to say "hey, turns out they changed the date. Can I have _________ off instead"

I am honestly thinking of it.

Theirs is once in a life time.

And I really care about them both.

Maybe I can just push mine into a night time event.

Is 8pm too late to start?

What's on the menu?

Guns_N_Buns

Last year we got naked and jumped over the fire pit, though.

Clearly, I need new friends.

Ditto. Wanna have a party? We don't have to be sober for the naked fire jumping right?

For sure! I'll be walking on coals-naked-type-plastered.

EvgeniZyntx

unless she invited you after the fact in an effort to get you to change your event.

You're on to something....If that were the case, why the hell would you humor her by going to her wedding when she's only inviting you so that you don't sabotage her wedding.

LOL Because I do care about their family and I'm not sure about the bride's motifs, but in any case would be supportive of her groom's choices, and happy for the children involved.

The motifs are likely floral. Or maybe pagan symbolic motifs?

I read it as motive.

I think it's tartan/kilt with black collars with blingy hearts on it.

Despite the fact that this thread probably does sound made up and pointless, truth is stranger than fiction, sometimes.

Now I'm onboard. I thought it was motive as in behaviour earlier, but it was the pattern. My bad.

see?

I'm not seeing the blingy hearts. Is that hearts with sparkles?
I'm having a hard time imagining that on Tartan.

Holly_Roman_Empire

Why can't you be normal and have a Fourth of July party? When you say Mid Summer "Event" I'm thinking of a bunch of adults skipping around a pole with different colored ribbons.:yawn:

I keep thinking about Shakespeare, to be honest. lol

sassyjae21

Last year we got naked and jumped over the fire pit, though.

Clearly, I need new friends.

Ditto. Wanna have a party? We don't have to be sober for the naked fire jumping right?

For sure! I'll be walking on coals-naked-type-plastered.

In:drinker:

If I'm invited.

See what i did there?

Guns_N_Buns

high five.

and you're not invited unless you're having a party of your own on the same day/time. haha





jk

TavistockToad

Is 8pm too late to start?

It's never too late to get naked and jump over fire....

sassyjae21

Ha!

BinaryPulsar

:laugh:

PRMinx

If their event starts at 4, the ceremony at 6, then how are you going to have a party at 7?

Is this real life? I don't see how this works. Isn't almost worse to show up and leave?

This whole thread is a lesson on the important of patience.

Would it be worse to show up and leave?

Maybe I should just mail a gift.

I'm not sure what to do.

If I could change my event I would, but a lot of people have already submitted time off requests for the Mid-summer.

I'm not sure what to do.

They honestly can't change their requests?

^This

OP, I think what has gotten you into trouble here is that you have a tendency to assume. That's always a bad idea.

Call your friends that put in requests, apologize and see if they can resubmit. It's really not a big deal. But, in order to sort it out, you are actually going to have to TALK TO PEOPLE.

lizziebeth1028

2 woman, being petty, fighting over their 15 minutes of fame. OH the dramaaaaaa...............:sad:

Some_Watery_Tart

Last year we got naked and jumped over the fire pit, though.

Clearly, I need new friends.

Ditto. Wanna have a party? We don't have to be sober for the naked fire jumping right?

For sure! I'll be walking on coals-naked-type-plastered.

In:drinker:

If I'm invited.

See what i did there?

Maybe. I'll let you know by FB invite about 2 hours before the party starts, k?

AsaThorsWoman

I would change your party to another date. Just easier.
And as far as the time off people request.

It's pretty easy to say "hey, turns out they changed the date. Can I have _________ off instead"

I am honestly thinking of it.

Theirs is once in a life time.

And I really care about them both.

Maybe I can just push mine into a night time event.

Is 8pm too late to start?

What's on the menu?

5 gallons of pomegranate mead, brisket, pie

I'm sure we'll have cheese and meat appetizers, side dishes and a couple cases of German beer.

AsaThorsWoman

If their event starts at 4, the ceremony at 6, then how are you going to have a party at 7?

Is this real life? I don't see how this works. Isn't almost worse to show up and leave?

This whole thread is a lesson on the important of patience.

Would it be worse to show up and leave?

Maybe I should just mail a gift.

I'm not sure what to do.

If I could change my event I would, but a lot of people have already submitted time off requests for the Mid-summer.

I'm not sure what to do.

They honestly can't change their requests?

^This

OP, I think what has gotten you into trouble here is that you have a tendency to assume. That's always a bad idea.

Call your friends that put in requests, apologize and see if they can resubmit. It's really not a big deal. But, in order to sort it out, you are actually going to have to TALK TO PEOPLE.

That's probably the best choice.

the_great_beyond_

I would have just sent her an invitation to the party

if she complained, I'd sent her a salt shaker.