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  • Posts: 7,237 Member
    I used to love it, but now that I'm older it is just too hot and suffocating.... cuz hormones.
  • Posts: 140 Member
    The only cuddling position I can fall asleep in is if I'm the little spoon. Otherwise I get way too warm.
    Cuddling before falling asleep and in the morning when just waking up is always acceptable.
  • Posts: 5,214 Member
    I usually fall asleep with my right leg over my husband's left.
  • Posts: 183 Member
    I like to cuddle for a few minutes. Then I am like GET OUTTA MY WAY, YO.
  • Posts: 673 Member
    Snuggle, spoon, snuggle....too hot......get off me.
  • Posts: 680 Member
    I like cuddling to fall asleep.


    The strangers on the train...they don't like it so well.

    LOVED that! Too funny!!!

    I like cuddling. Hubby gives off so much heat and I'm always cold. So it's a win-win for the both of us, lol!
  • Posts: 2,724 Member
    Snuggle/spoon until just about asleep, then need to separate. So the sleeping gets done. Neither of us sleep in anything, so close contact always leads to her "sleep humping" and waking me up. I hate that!:wink:
  • Posts: 9,420 Member
    I prefer back to back.
  • Posts: 68 Member
    I cant either! We cuddle for 5 minutes before bed. ... then both roll over to our own spaces.. Goodnight! haha
  • Posts: 661 Member
    Depends on if I am cold or hot. Cold? Gimme cuddles! Hot? Gimme space! I can fall asleep in pretty much any position (Sometimes I don't mind being the spoon-er instead of the spoon-e). However, when I wake up I am usually sleeping like a ninja..

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    Yeah, kind of like that but I usually have my pillow in a death grip like hug..

    Oh and knives usually aren't involved.. (^_^)

    And there are less clothes. So yeah, not a very cuddle-able position.
  • Posts: 3,763 Member
    I can't do it either. It used to be it just kept me awake, but now due to back issues, it tends to be uncomfortable too. :ohwell:
  • Posts: 550 Member
    Not happening. Hate it!!
  • Posts: 5,585 Member
    if its cold I can cuddle to sleep until I turn around and do my own thing

    otherwise no cuddles
  • Posts: 2,518 Member
    My husband spoons me until I fall asleep and then he rolls over. He says that as soon as I fall asleep, my furnace kicks in and I get too hot for him to cuddle any more.
  • Posts: 1,151 Member
    cuddling to fall asleep and then moving to your "own" positions.
  • Posts: 946 Member
    My wife is always wanting to "spoon". I'm more of a "forker".

    All utensils for the WIN!


    I like the pre-sleep cuddling, but I just can't sleep like that. I'm a right side sleeper...he's a left side sleeper...but since I do like the contact (but not too much contact), we generally sleep with his butt in the curve of my back zzzzzzzzzzz
  • Posts: 431 Member
    My old cat and I would often try to cuddle to sleep. No go.

    I'm sorry, I'm just too much of a wriggler. The future wife/hubby is probably gonna end up sleeping in a separate bed lol

    this made me giggle. the future "whatever I marry" haha.
  • Posts: 703 Member
    My boyfriend and I have always been the type that had to touch when we slept. Whether he's spooning me, I'm spooning him, I'm tucked under his arm or he sleeps on my stomach, we are always in contact. Helps that we are that way since he works out of town a lot and stays in motels that have full size beds. So when I go spend the night with him it's not that big of a deal.
  • Posts: 1,002 Member
    I can't either. I need the dude to scoot over so I can sprawl out.

    Why am I not surprised.
  • Posts: 1,791 Member
    I love my husband, but I can't fall asleep if he''s spooning me. Vice versa. It's too hot. I am a side sleeper and so is he, but we sleep on opposite sides, so cuddling really doesn't work for us. YMMV.
  • Posts: 1,195 Member
    NOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!
  • Posts: 78 Member
    Can't stand it....too much body heat.
    I am a light sleeper too...
    I know what you mean about feeling strange cuz you don't like it...
    My hubby says he wished I would cuddle- but I bet you a million bucks that if I loved to cuddle he would say it was annoying...
  • Posts: 842 Member
    Love to cuddle, but can't sleep that way. I need my space :bigsmile:
  • Posts: 624 Member
    I can only sleep cuddle when I am sick. My husband usually can tell when I need to call my doctor when I latch on to him like a parasite.

    We usually cuddle until one of us gets drowsy, then move to our sides of the bed.
  • Posts: 1,215 Member
    NOPE...I have a king size bed so I don't have to touch my SO. I want that bed for myself


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  • Posts: 3,069 Member
    I can't either. I need the dude to scoot over so I can sprawl out.

    YEP!
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  • Posts: 269 Member
    I can go either way but I like to have more than 10% of the bed to sleep on. Nothing worse than sleeping halfway on the bed with no covers since she's rolled herself into a burrito and taking the other 90% of the bed. :\
  • Posts: 55 Member
    You are not weird. I sleep on my right side and my partner sleeps on his back because of shoulder pain. I try to sleep on my left to accommodate but as I fall asleep I typically switch over to my right side.

    We could probably switch sides of the bed but I prefer sleeping next to my window and he is a freeze baby.
  • Posts: 735 Member
    I can't stand it. I don't even like sharing a bed! My poor husband!! lol
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