Cougar or MILF?

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  • _Terrapin_
    _Terrapin_ Posts: 4,301 Member
    lets see you guys pull off bikini, run a 5-K in 27:30 and fit into your 1987 prom dress at 45.

    Back in the day, I pulled a bikini or two off; and, honestly, I was trying to get someone out of a 1987 prom dress, not in it. Wait, what?!?
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    I don't take it that seriously. I work hard. If somebody says "oh that's a mom I'd like to _______" well, I'm not working hard to look bad.

    *shrug*

    Don't find anything wrong with cougars either. Again, life just isn't that serious.
  • SunofaBeach14
    SunofaBeach14 Posts: 4,899 Member
    I think both are disgusting and would prefer not to be reffered to as any one.

    If you want to compliment me than open doors for me, pull out my chair, notice my eyes....... I dont like being hooted at or reffered to as sexualized nicknames due to my age and gender.

    I just want my BF to think I am pretty, this here isnt for anyone else but him :)

    Yet you use a pic like that. Let's not feign superiority in a half naked profile pic where people can look down your bathing top. LOL

    I'm surprised people didn't jump on you for this response.
    She said she thinks the term is disgusting and said that she prefers to be treated with respect, and yet you seem to imply that because she is wearing a bathing suit - she is "asking" to be treated otherwise?

    I saw no "superiority" in her post, fringed or otherwise... Just a request that she not be hooted or hollered at, and that people not refer to her solely as a "mom I'd love to *kitten*" ..

    [sarcasm] But... Hey... If she's gonna wear a bathing suit, and reveal the fact that her body looks great... I guess she deserved that...
    [/sarcasm]

    As for me... I prefer to keep my motherhood and sexuality distinct and separate. And I only focus on the fact that my boyfriend thinks I am both a wonderful mom AND a sexy lady.

    Call yourself whatever you like.

    Looking to be offended?? :laugh: I implied nothing than UTTER HYPOCRISY. I think 'I've been more than clear in all of my responses. You chose to go through life looking to be offended, then so be it. I'm enjoying life and not taking words too seriously.

    Me? Offended? Ha! :laugh: :laugh:

    You didn't offend me - and neither does the term.

    And again... If someone doesn't like to be referred to as fu**able, how is it "UTTER HYPOCRISY" for them to wear a bathing suit pic?

    You amuse me.

    Rage on. Rage on. God forbid a Puritan in a bathing suit judging others should get called out.
  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,267 Member
    lets see you guys pull off bikini, run a 5-K in 27:30 and fit into your 1987 prom dress at 45.

    I fit into my prom dress from 1990 in February..I don't run tho...I do wear a bikini...can I come play too?
  • SunofaBeach14
    SunofaBeach14 Posts: 4,899 Member
    lets see you guys pull off bikini, run a 5-K in 27:30 and fit into your 1987 prom dress at 45.

    I'm pretty sure there are laws against me in a bikini and/or a prom dress.

    Meh, I look damn good in a prom dress
  • rebalee8
    rebalee8 Posts: 161 Member
    lets see you guys pull off bikini, run a 5-K in 27:30 and fit into your 1987 prom dress at 45.

    I'm pretty sure there are laws against me in a bikini and/or a prom dress.
    Pretty sure there's not. You just have to have the courage to put up with the laughter, jeers, and taunting that may (it might not - and that would be great) result if you do.

    But it's not illegal (unless you are wearing one that is too small and doesn't provide adequate coverage).
  • Nickellis74
    Nickellis74 Posts: 2
    Milf by far cougar is a woman who prays on younger men MILF just a fit momma :-) xx
  • EvgeniZyntx
    EvgeniZyntx Posts: 24,208 Member
    lets see you guys pull off bikini, run a 5-K in 27:30 and fit into your 1987 prom dress at 45.

    I'm pretty sure there are laws against me in a bikini and/or a prom dress.

    Meh, I look damn good in a prom dress

    I've got the 5k. Now we just need Borat.
  • KseRz
    KseRz Posts: 980 Member
    I am both!:bigsmile:

    Sweet!

    I am a ManBearPig

    manbearpig.jpg
  • roanokejoe49
    roanokejoe49 Posts: 820 Member
    I think both are disgusting and would prefer not to be reffered to as any one.

    If you want to compliment me than open doors for me, pull out my chair, notice my eyes....... I dont like being hooted at or reffered to as sexualized nicknames due to my age and gender.

    I just want my BF to think I am pretty, this here isnt for anyone else but him :)

    Yeah. Good luck with that. Are you serious? You post pics on an open profile that are highly sexualized, and you don't think people are going to see you as a sexual being? Please.
  • Achrya
    Achrya Posts: 16,913 Member
    I always thought a MILF was someone whose grown children's friends decided was hot enough to sleep with... Am I wrong here?

    Excerpt from Urban Dictionary: Mothers, whether married, separated or divorced, that a male individual sees as physically attractive enough to want to have sexual intercourse with them. A MILF is any mother that is sexually desirable.
    There isn't an age stipulation on the children or the woman. Based upon this I fail to see why it would be derogatory but rather complementary.

    Well, there is the whole most women don't want to be judged by their ****ability factor as they go about their daily lives. I mean, it's just not something we're looking to put on our Power Card, yet, a lot of the time, that's seems to be the only factor society thinks we have on our card.

    But, hey, yeah, other than that... totally complimentary.

    Lord knows when I see a guy on the street its his personality that makes me give him a second look not his attractiveness/whether or not I find him screw worthy.

    And I don't imagine you know what most women want/like at all. You know what rustles your jimmies not what rustles mine.
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    lets see you guys pull off bikini, run a 5-K in 27:30 and fit into your 1987 prom dress at 45.

    I'm pretty sure there are laws against me in a bikini and/or a prom dress.
    Pretty sure there's not. You just have to have the courage to put up with the laughter, jeers, and taunting that will result is you do.

    But it's not illegal (unless you are wearing one that is too small and doesn't provide adequate coverage).

    Oh, so you're saying that I'm too fat to look good in a bikini? I see how it is. I thought this place was supposed to be for encouragement, but you're all just trying to keep me down! :laugh:
  • upnorthtim
    upnorthtim Posts: 376 Member
    Nobody has ever called me a DILF but I would not take offense ..... lol
  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,267 Member
    Milf by far cougar is a woman who prays on younger men MILF just a fit momma :-) xx

    Oh ....I "preyed" on my now husband...good to know ...digs out religious artifacts for the praying.
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    Nobody has ever called me a DILF but I would not take offense ..... lol

    I'm actually depressed that I don't get called a DILF. :sad: :laugh:
  • Achrya
    Achrya Posts: 16,913 Member
    Nobody has ever called me a DILF but I would not take offense ..... lol

    I'm trying to imagine a thread where scantily clad dudes proclaim offense over being viewed as sexual objects. Or hell a thread where any men complain about being called DILFs.

    ...oddly enough I just can't picture it.
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    You know what rustles your jimmies not what rustles mine.

    I wanna rustle your jimmies... :flowerforyou:
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    Milf by far cougar is a woman who prays on younger men MILF just a fit momma :-) xx

    Oh ....I "preyed" on my now husband...good to know ...digs out religious artifacts for the praying.

    Truthfully, don't all women prey on their husbands? No? It's just my wife? Damnit, I knew something wasn't right!
  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
    I think both are disgusting and would prefer not to be reffered to as any one.

    If you want to compliment me than open doors for me, pull out my chair, notice my eyes....... I dont like being hooted at or reffered to as sexualized nicknames due to my age and gender.

    I just want my BF to think I am pretty, this here isnt for anyone else but him :)

    Doesn't like the word, uses it in her profile.


    srsly? tl;dr
    He lied and you fell for it, - hook , line and sinker.

    How you want to describe yourself is fine but if someone disagrees and prefer not to be looked at like trash, that is there right. Do you want people to tear down you and take away your right to opinions or living your life the way you want to live your life?

    Sorry no, I didn't lie.
    Not trying to be the youngest hottest milf/hardbody out there, I just dont want to be another obesity statistic.

    Rest of your post - um, I've got nothing.

    I'm confused... I can't see her profile... She says that she doesn't want to be called that.

    That excerpt says she is NOT trying to be one - that she is here for something OTHER than achieving milf status.

    I'm not sure how that excerpt warrants a leap to implying she likes the label?

    But it's early... I try not to think too hard when it's early.

    Mirey, I imagine if one doesn't like a word as a descriptor and consider it derogatory one wouldn't use it to describe what one or others might be.
    Just me, perhaps, but one might skip words self-perceived as derogatory in their own profile.

    Personally, I don't care if someone wants to use the term to describe themselves in the strict or derived "hottie" sense.

    I can totally give you that. :)

    There's a word I loathe.. And as such, I never use it. :)
  • rebalee8
    rebalee8 Posts: 161 Member
    Milf by far cougar is a woman who prays on younger men MILF just a fit momma :-) xx

    Oh those poor innocent young men... they need to be protected from the clutches of those evil, scheming older women who will entrap them and make them have sex... and steal their youth!

    Those older women need to know their place! They don't belong hooking up with pretty, bright young things. They need to go back home, feed their cats and take up their knitting, and behave like proper middle-aged/old ladies.

    Am I rite?

    Oh, and I think you mean 'prey'.
  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,267 Member
    Milf by far cougar is a woman who prays on younger men MILF just a fit momma :-) xx

    Oh ....I "preyed" on my now husband...good to know ...digs out religious artifacts for the praying.

    Truthfully, don't all women prey on their husbands? No? It's just my wife? Damnit, I knew something wasn't right!

    well I guess it depends on who does most of the "chasing"....around the bed..around the table...around the car...you get where I am going with this right...
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    I take either.
  • EvgeniZyntx
    EvgeniZyntx Posts: 24,208 Member
    Milf by far cougar is a woman who prays on younger men MILF just a fit momma :-) xx

    Are there atheist cougars?
  • George_Baileys_Ghost
    George_Baileys_Ghost Posts: 1,524 Member
    Nobody has ever called me a DILF but I would not take offense ..... lol

    I'm trying to imagine a thread where scantily clad dudes proclaim offense over being viewed as sexual objects. It hell a thread where any men complain about being called DILFs.

    ...oddly enough I just can't picture it.

    Cheap Trick had it all wrong. I don't want anyone to want me.
  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,267 Member
    Milf by far cougar is a woman who prays on younger men MILF just a fit momma :-) xx

    Oh those poor innocent young men... they need to be protected from the clutches of those evil, scheming older women who will entrap them and make them have sex... and steal their youth!

    Those older women need to know their place! They don't belong hooking up with pretty, bright young things. They need to go back home, feed their cats and take up their knitting, and behave like proper middle-aged/old ladies.

    Am I rite?

    Oh, and I think you mean 'prey'.

    Oh that's what happened to me..jeez I only know how to crochet...hence the younger man...cougar status and MILF status all in one.
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    as a mom, I'm going with MILF, too.
  • Achrya
    Achrya Posts: 16,913 Member
    You know what rustles your jimmies not what rustles mine.

    I wanna rustle your jimmies... :flowerforyou:

    Y U view me as sex object and not a real person?! How dare you?
  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
    I think both are disgusting and would prefer not to be reffered to as any one.

    If you want to compliment me than open doors for me, pull out my chair, notice my eyes....... I dont like being hooted at or reffered to as sexualized nicknames due to my age and gender.

    I just want my BF to think I am pretty, this here isnt for anyone else but him :)

    Yet you use a pic like that. Let's not feign superiority in a half naked profile pic where people can look down your bathing top. LOL

    I'm surprised people didn't jump on you for this response.
    She said she thinks the term is disgusting and said that she prefers to be treated with respect, and yet you seem to imply that because she is wearing a bathing suit - she is "asking" to be treated otherwise?

    I saw no "superiority" in her post, fringed or otherwise... Just a request that she not be hooted or hollered at, and that people not refer to her solely as a "mom I'd love to *kitten*" ..

    [sarcasm] But... Hey... If she's gonna wear a bathing suit, and reveal the fact that her body looks great... I guess she deserved that...
    [/sarcasm]

    As for me... I prefer to keep my motherhood and sexuality distinct and separate. And I only focus on the fact that my boyfriend thinks I am both a wonderful mom AND a sexy lady.

    Call yourself whatever you like.

    Looking to be offended?? :laugh: I implied nothing than UTTER HYPOCRISY. I think 'I've been more than clear in all of my responses. You chose to go through life looking to be offended, then so be it. I'm enjoying life and not taking words too seriously.

    Me? Offended? Ha! :laugh: :laugh:

    You didn't offend me - and neither does the term.

    And again... If someone doesn't like to be referred to as fu**able, how is it "UTTER HYPOCRISY" for them to wear a bathing suit pic?

    You amuse me.

    Rage on. Rage on. God forbid a Puritan in a bathing suit judging others should get called out.

    *Looks around for someone who is raging*
    *also looks for judgement of others in her post*

    Can't find either, really.
  • rebalee8
    rebalee8 Posts: 161 Member
    lets see you guys pull off bikini, run a 5-K in 27:30 and fit into your 1987 prom dress at 45.

    I'm pretty sure there are laws against me in a bikini and/or a prom dress.
    Pretty sure there's not. You just have to have the courage to put up with the laughter, jeers, and taunting that will result is you do.

    But it's not illegal (unless you are wearing one that is too small and doesn't provide adequate coverage).

    Oh, so you're saying that I'm too fat to look good in a bikini? I see how it is. I thought this place was supposed to be for encouragement, but you're all just trying to keep me down! :laugh:

    No, no... never. You're beautiful. :flowerforyou:

    I wouldn't be laughing. It's the world, man... keeping you down. :brokenheart:
  • sunglasses_and_ocean_waves
    sunglasses_and_ocean_waves Posts: 2,757 Member
    I'm baling for now peeps. I absolutely gotta get out for a run so I can get cat called by younger men . Have a great day, and thanks for playing. :happy:
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