Cougar or MILF?
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Oh wow...this got nasty really quick. I brought the popcorn.0
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I think both are disgusting and would prefer not to be reffered to as any one.
If you want to compliment me than open doors for me, pull out my chair, notice my eyes....... I dont like being hooted at or reffered to as sexualized nicknames due to my age and gender.
I just want my BF to think I am pretty, this here isnt for anyone else but him
Yet you use a pic like that. Let's not feign superiority in a half naked profile pic where people can look down your bathing top. LOL
I'm surprised people didn't jump on you for this response.
She said she thinks the term is disgusting and said that she prefers to be treated with respect, and yet you seem to imply that because she is wearing a bathing suit - she is "asking" to be treated otherwise?
I saw no "superiority" in her post, fringed or otherwise... Just a request that she not be hooted or hollered at, and that people not refer to her solely as a "mom I'd love to *kitten*" ..
[sarcasm] But... Hey... If she's gonna wear a bathing suit, and reveal the fact that her body looks great... I guess she deserved that...
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As for me... I prefer to keep my motherhood and sexuality distinct and separate. And I only focus on the fact that my boyfriend thinks I am both a wonderful mom AND a sexy lady.
Call yourself whatever you like.
Looking to be offended?? :laugh: I implied nothing than UTTER HYPOCRISY. I think 'I've been more than clear in all of my responses. You chose to go through life looking to be offended, then so be it. I'm enjoying life and not taking words too seriously.
Me? Offended? Ha! :laugh: :laugh:
You didn't offend me - and neither does the term.
And again... If someone doesn't like to be referred to as fu**able, how is it "UTTER HYPOCRISY" for them to wear a bathing suit pic?
You amuse me.
Rage on. Rage on. God forbid a Puritan in a bathing suit judging others should get called out.
*Looks around for someone who is raging*
*also looks for judgement of others in her post*
Can't find either, really.
It's okay. It will be okay0 -
Milf by far cougar is a woman who prays on younger men MILF just a fit momma :-) xx
Are there atheist cougars?
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I'm baling for now peeps. I absolutely gotta get out for a run so I can get cat called by younger men . Have a great day, and thanks for playing. :happy:
Have fun. I have to get to work myself0 -
I prefer MILF, but hey I am not going turn down some sexy cougars either.0
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Milf by far cougar is a woman who prays on younger men MILF just a fit momma :-) xx
Oh those poor innocent young men... they need to be protected from the clutches of those evil, scheming older women who will entrap them and make them have sex... and steal their youth!
Those older women need to know their place! They don't belong hooking up with pretty, bright young things. They need to go back home, feed their cats and take up their knitting, and behave like proper middle-aged/old ladies.
Am I rite?
Oh, and I think you mean 'prey'.
Oh that's what happened to me..jeez I only know how to crochet...hence the younger man...cougar status and MILF status all in one.
I know... me too!
Well, not the MILF thing. Just cougar. Apparently, he didn't know what was happening when I wove my evil web... poor innocent lamb.0 -
I dunno which is better but I do think it's funny when younger women call themselves MILFs. If you're 20 and you have a baby you're not a MILF. You're just some chick with a baby.
Haha sooooo true!
I think MILF but it is not a term you can apply to yourself. Someone else must think that. As for cougar, well...they pray on their victims.0 -
Milf by far cougar is a woman who prays on younger men MILF just a fit momma :-) xx
Are there atheist cougars?
:raiseshand:
Do you make your young men sit, kneel or lie down before you pray on them?
Or is that a mantis? Are mantis now felids? Mind blown.0 -
Not a mom or old so I'll have to say neither.
Man, I really wish that I could get all kinds of offended and join the party.0 -
Not a mom or old so I'll have to say neither.
Man, I really wish that I could get all kinds of offended and join the party.
33 is old. Sorry. :laugh:0 -
Nobody has ever called me a DILF but I would not take offense ..... lol
I'm trying to imagine a thread where scantily clad dudes proclaim offense over being viewed as sexual objects. It hell a thread where any men complain about being called DILFs.
...oddly enough I just can't picture it.
Cheap Trick had it all wrong. I don't want anyone to want me.
Wash your mouth out with soap!!
Cheap Trick is never, EVER wrong.0 -
I dunno which is better but I do think it's funny when younger women call themselves MILFs. If you're 20 and you have a baby you're not a MILF. You're just some chick with a baby.
Haha sooooo true!
I think MILF but it is not a term you can apply to yourself. Someone else must think that. As for cougar, well...they pray on their victims.
Actually, it's more than praying. There's a serious big ritual... there's dancing, chanting, incense. Sometimes blood sacrifice (don't worry it's just menstrual blood). Just depends on how desperate we are before the hunt.0 -
I wouldn't be laughing. It's the world, man... keeping you down. :brokenheart:
This world, it's a cruel, cold place.0 -
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I think Milf is a little sexier.0
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Oh wow...this got nasty really quick. I brought the popcorn.
Thanks MILF. :bigsmile:0 -
Milf by far cougar is a woman who prays on younger men MILF just a fit momma :-) xx
Are there atheist cougars?
:raiseshand:
Do you make your young men sit, kneel or lie down before you pray on them?
Or is that a mantis? Are mantis now felids? Mind blown.
I make them kneel before me.0 -
I once got called a DILF. This was by two women who were some 15 or so years younger than me at the time. (I was at the ballpark.)
I took it as a compliment. Obviously, men are not as sexually objectified as women are. This is not a case that all things are being equal.
To me, I'd think cougar would more offensive. Cougars are predators after all. Aren't we calling women then, who date younger men really predators? However, men are congratulated and lionized for dating younger. What's the equivalent word for a male cougar? I can't think of any.
I don't know... I get that someone could find either term offensive or neither. I guess would use either with caution I suppose, if not at all.0 -
The term cougar makes me uncomfortable, but I'm OK with being a MILF.0
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Nobody has ever called me a DILF but I would not take offense ..... lol
I'm trying to imagine a thread where scantily clad dudes proclaim offense over being viewed as sexual objects. It hell a thread where any men complain about being called DILFs.
...oddly enough I just can't picture it.
Cheap Trick had it all wrong. I don't want anyone to want me.
Wash your mouth out with soap!!
Cheap Trick is never, EVER wrong.
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Not a mom or old so I'll have to say neither.
Man, I really wish that I could get all kinds of offended and join the party.
33 is old. Sorry. :laugh:
Glad I'm not a woman, otherwise I'd be ancient.
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don't worry it's just menstrual blood
Really hope I get to use that phrase on a cop one day.
For some reason, they don't believe you.0 -
No, you need to read what it says "Not trying to be the youngest hottest milf/hardbody out there, I just dont want to be another obesity statistic. "
He lied and you fell for it, - hook , line and sinker.I think both are disgusting and would prefer not to be reffered to as any one.
If you want to compliment me than open doors for me, pull out my chair, notice my eyes....... I dont like being hooted at or reffered to as sexualized nicknames due to my age and gender.
I just want my BF to think I am pretty, this here isnt for anyone else but him
Doesn't like the word, uses it in her profile.
srsly? tl;dr
How you want to describe yourself is fine but if someone disagrees and prefer not to be looked at like trash, that is there right. Do you want people to tear down you and take away your right to opinions or living your life the way you want to live your life?
Ummm...no he didn't. You may want to revisit and actually read her profile. Last line states her preference for the word MILF. (She doesn't use cougar at all.) So maybe a little due diligence is needed before another type of tear down takes place, yes?
I prefer MILF, myself, thanks. :drinker:
She did not say she wanted to be one. She stated the opposite. She has a sensible goal, not be an obesity statistic. She is not looking for every guys eye or to be viewed as a sex object.
And - for those who think it is ok to shame her for wearing a bikini, you are being ridiculous as you are being snide.0 -
Which one makes better sandwiches?0
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Which one makes better sandwiches?
Now you've gone and done it. :laugh:0 -
Another one who did not distinguish between what the profiles says and what the OP and original poster trying to make it sound like. She used the word but as in the opposite manner. Don't put words in her mouth.
He lied and you fell for it, - hook , line and sinker.I think both are disgusting and would prefer not to be reffered to as any one.
If you want to compliment me than open doors for me, pull out my chair, notice my eyes....... I dont like being hooted at or reffered to as sexualized nicknames due to my age and gender.
I just want my BF to think I am pretty, this here isnt for anyone else but him
Doesn't like the word, uses it in her profile.
srsly? tl;dr
How you want to describe yourself is fine but if someone disagrees and prefer not to be looked at like trash, that is there right. Do you want people to tear down you and take away your right to opinions or living your life the way you want to live your life?
Who lied? From the users' profile who claims that both terms are disgusting:Why I want to get in shape
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Not trying to be the youngest hottest milf/hardbody out there, I just dont want to be another obesity statistic.0 -
As a woman happily married to a slightly older man, MILF is my only option. I am flattered when men find me to be fu¢kable even though I am older and am often covered in snot and other toddler bodily fluids.
You are "older"??:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
Dang I am screwed then.0 -
What's the word for a sexy older man? DILF? FILF? Wallet?0
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This whole thread is a prime example of why people think women are catty b*tches.
Like the word, don't like the word- At the end of the day no one should really give a flying *kitten* as to others opinions, only their own.
You allow someone as much power as you give them. So if you believe a word to be "bad" or "derogatory" you're just giving those who use it more power.
OR you could realize that some things in life aren't that serious, grab on to your inner Mrs. Robinson, and give a big middle finger to the world.
Personally- MILF, Cougar, GILF, DILF = people you find sexually attractive. So who doesn't want to be seen as that? :drinker: Objectify me all ya want- at the end of the day I know I have brains to back up dat *kitten* 0
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