who doesnt like when guys gain muscles

randomtai

Same here especially the body builder type.I find it gross. prefer guys who are not fat but in between, more like average size with a flat stomach.I don't like guys with big belly either as I find it a big turn off. I also don't like when guys are too skinny.so basically a guy who is average size and look nice without those big muscles

Aren't you a peach? :noway:

:huh:

Not sure why this person deserved the snark for just stating what they like

It's fine to have preferences. It's not fine to call anyone "gross."

She finds a body builder type gross. So what? Perhaps it's not the best choice of words. Would "unattractive to me" have been better or is that a no-no as well?

You really need someone to explain to you why calling someone's body type "gross" is not acceptable? Really????? :noway:

Hornsby

Same here especially the body builder type.I find it gross. prefer guys who are not fat but in between, more like average size with a flat stomach.I don't like guys with big belly either as I find it a big turn off. I also don't like when guys are too skinny.so basically a guy who is average size and look nice without those big muscles

Aren't you a peach? :noway:

:huh:

Not sure why this person deserved the snark for just stating what they like

It's fine to have preferences. It's not fine to call anyone "gross."

She finds a body builder type gross. So what? Perhaps it's not the best choice of words. Would "unattractive to me" have been better or is that a no-no as well?

Saying a particular body type is gross on a fitness site where many of the people are body builder types or striving to be is just in bad form. What if I said overweight chics are disgusting?

kaseyr1505

I've noticed more muscular guys have nice veins. I bet phlebotomists like muscular guys.

I_need_moar_musclez

Same here especially the body builder type.I find it gross. prefer guys who are not fat but in between, more like average size with a flat stomach.I don't like guys with big belly either as I find it a big turn off. I also don't like when guys are too skinny.so basically a guy who is average size and look nice without those big muscles

Aren't you a peach? :noway:

:huh:

Not sure why this person deserved the snark for just stating what they like

It's fine to have preferences. It's not fine to call anyone "gross."

She finds a body builder type gross. So what? Perhaps it's not the best choice of words. Would "unattractive to me" have been better or is that a no-no as well?

'Unattractive to me' is stating a preference.
'Gross' is attacking the person for looking that way.

Ok...imagine if somebody posted the following:

'Same here especially the BBW type.I find it gross. prefer girls who are not fat but in between, more like average size with a flat stomach.I don't like girls with back boobs/cankles either as I find it a big turn off. I also don't like when girls are too skinny and flat-chested.so basically a girl who is average size and look nice without those big rolls and folds.'

People would be offended, and who'd blame them?

salembambi

ANYWAY I agree with OP and do not find body builder types or very ripped "fit" men appealing

onward peachtastic

TMM211073

OP has obviously never seen Jessie Pavelka without his shirt on.... Muscles and tattoos - excuse while I get naked



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1911JR

Anyone else who doesn't like the look of guys who gain allot of muscles and look extremely buff?i prefer the normal look and I don't dig that look.anyone else

yaaawwwwnnnnnn, zzzzzzzzzzz...... Sorry, I dozed off for a second.

KseRz

Same here especially the body builder type.I find it gross. prefer guys who are not fat but in between, more like average size with a flat stomach.I don't like guys with big belly either as I find it a big turn off. I also don't like when guys are too skinny.so basically a guy who is average size and look nice without those big muscles

Aren't you a peach? :noway:

:huh:

Not sure why this person deserved the snark for just stating what they like

Because she referred to body builders as gross. Preference or not, the wording is everything.

But given the entire post I even question what they believe a bodybuilder is or what they think one looks like to them. For all we know they think the Stay Puft Marshmallow man is a body builder??? With words and phrases like "not fat but in between" "like average size with a flat stomach" "big belly" "too skinny" and of course the piece de resistance "basically a guy who is average size and look nice without those big muscles" They potentially described every man walking on Earth (depending on ones perspective)

randomtai

ANYWAY I agree with OP and do not find body builder types or very ripped "fit" men appealing

onward peachtastic

yellowlemoned

Come on people, you all know what she means by "normal" ; fit and in shape but not a body builder or overtly muscular. It's not rocket science.

To answer OPs question, you aren't alone. I personally find muscular men unattractive, particularly when they have have bulging veins on their arms/necks. It's just a personal preference. Some people like big, muscular, herculean, men. I prefer slim/average weight (healthy for their height and body type since apparently "average" is this horrible grey area nobody on here seems to understand) and in shape, but without the rippling muscles or 6 pack abs.

KseRz

I hate it when people dont look normal.

Too much muscle, fat, skin and hair. Thats bad. It has to be perfect. You know, like in between all that other stuff. Then its good.

jofjltncb6

I hate it when people dont look normal.

Too much muscle, fat, skin and hair. Thats bad. It has to be perfect. You know, like in between all that other stuff. Then its good.

Moderation in everything.


Every. Thing.

salembambi

Come on people, you all know what she means by "normal" ; fit and in shape but not a body builder or overtly muscular. It's not rocket science.

To answer OPs question, you aren't alone. I personally find muscular men unattractive, particularly when they have have bulging veins on their arms/necks. It's just a personal preference. Some people like big, muscular, herculean, men. I prefer slim/average weight and in shape, but without the rippling muscles or 6 pack abs.

samesies

MagnumBurrito

rml_16

Come on people, you all know what she means by "normal" ; fit and in shape but not a body builder or overtly muscular. It's not rocket science.

Did you read something the rest of us didn't?

salembambi

ANYWAY I agree with OP and do not find body builder types or very ripped "fit" men appealing

onward peachtastic

SrJoben

This thread got pretty terrible around page 6-7, but you guys pulled it out of the fire.

pls carry on with the snark.

randomtai

ANYWAY I agree with OP and do not find body builder types or very ripped "fit" men appealing

onward peachtastic

yopeeps025

Come on people, you all know what she means by "normal" ; fit and in shape but not a body builder or overtly muscular. It's not rocket science.

Did you read something the rest of us didn't?

What looks normal? Yeah she made that up off the top of the dome. Women hear all say that vascular look is unattractive which is technically under body fat % range for men. Veiny look takes really low body fat%.

salembambi

ANYWAY I agree with OP and do not find body builder types or very ripped "fit" men appealing

onward peachtastic