let's flip the table, what do women prefer in a man?

FearAnLoathing

uniforms are pretty hot

fitnesspirateninja

and a uniform will seal the deal everytime

Well well, hello fellow uniform lover HAHA.
I sometimes wish I could have convinced my husband to join the military...just for the uniforms ROFL.
I asked him to wear one for Halloween and he SO knew what I was doing and just laughed at me..SIGH.

I dated a UPS man...

Still_Sossy

and a uniform will seal the deal everytime

Yeah I am married but even that will turn my head and rock my world, sorry I am married, not dead!!!!

jjeckels

Here's my list
Honesty at all cost
strong sense of worth
treats me like a princess(he so does)
humor
integrity
He has to get me(and he does)
compassion ♥♥♥

Agreed! Well said....

mrmarius

i hear awesomeness is a big turn on

LeeKetty1176

I wish this site was up a few years back !!!! I would of been taking notes for hours !!!!

Carl01

I wish this site was up a few years back !!!! I would of been taking notes for hours !!!!

I was hoping someone would say "none of the above" so I would stand a chance.

Mrs_McFadden

I wish this site was up a few years back !!!! I would of been taking notes for hours !!!!

LMAO hahaha...

We women took notes in the other thread: grow breasts grow breasts shrink waist shrink waist..don't talk..don't talk. kthx.

strandedeyes

What I prefer...

A guy with confidence in himself and attains any goal he sets for himself (goals are key!).
A guy with an active lifestyle, who refuses to just sit around on a friday night to play video games.
Smart, funny, caring (a family type), taller than me (not a hard feat), and someone who enjoys food as I loooove to cook.

Least of all, someone who likes me. That is the weirdest thing to say, I know, but its been my experience that some guys don't really like me...they like what surrounds me or something...

Oh and no drama...pretty please

carolyne2

Sincerity, kindness, honesty and a fabulous sense of humour, with own teeth!:bigsmile:

itsjustme77

Tall, broad shoulders, strong legs, a little squishy. Big personality and sense of humor.
Is that too much?
It seems to be since I am alone, and have been for quite some time.

Yes, you guy is totally out there! I wish i could provide a map but mine just fell in my lap.

Thanks Here's to hoping.

♥Violette♥4Ever♥

Sense of humor
Good self-esteem
Understands a woman's sensuality - a lot of men think they do, but they really don't
Someone smarter than me
Adventurous
Good communication skills
Honest
Loyal
Gorgeous smile
Gorgeous eyes

There are other things but I don't think I can mention those here LMAO!

Still_Sossy

ok what I really look for is someone whos wierd strange sarcastic funny thats what really matters to me . looks wise i love clean cut looking guys.Ive been in the alternative scean for a long long time and while there are goth type guys I find hot,i prefer clean cut.I dont want a guy thats gonna steal my makeup

Me either! Boy would he get bi*** slapped!

roylawrence87

What I prefer...

A guy with confidence in himself and attains any goal he sets for himself (goals are key!).
A guy with an active lifestyle, who refuses to just sit around on a friday night to play video games.
Smart, funny, caring (a family type), taller than me (not a hard feat), and someone who enjoys food as I loooove to cook.

Least of all, someone who likes me. That is the weirdest thing to say, I know, but its been my experience that some guys don't really like me...they like what surrounds me or something...

Oh and no drama...pretty please

Hi! I'm right here!

itsjustme77

Tall, broad shoulders, strong legs, a little squishy. Big personality and sense of humor.
Is that too much?
It seems to be since I am alone, and have been for quite some time.

I too like them tall and a little squishy too... lol and the tall part is harder than I ever expected being 5'11 and change. But honestly its not all about looks, he has to believe in working hard and playing hard. I need him honest and have a great sense of humor. I'm soo tired of lying jerks who expect you to support them!!!

Oh I totally agree... Must be intelligent, hard working, and knows when to have fun, and when to be serious.
I never seem to date the guys that I want, and I never end up being happy. I don't know. I just really want some one that makes me happy and makes me laugh.

bigcurt61

I’m not the relationship Guru, but I love seeing joyful couples and I always ask them questions (about pitfalls, trials, and triumphs). For the women out there who are single, dating, or seriously dating... I hope you find a man that not only matches the things you mentioned, but multiplies/adds to your life vs. dividing/subtracting. What I mean is if your person has all the qualities and traits you are looking for hopefully they make you a better person (at the end of the day). Maybe you’re not the best with finances, but he is or maybe he is a bit of pessimist and you are an optimist. Hopefully he is flexible (able to bend, but not break) to life changes and truly wants to bring joy to your life not happiness (I know people use joy and happiness synonymously, but I think happiness is how you feel at that moment in time vs. joy. You can have joy whether life is great or you’re in a valley). My advice is write a list of all the traits you want and see if that individual meets it (and no that doesn't mean write down he looks like Brad Pitt or Will Smith!!). Be realistic and don't bring in baggage from past relationships, if you aren't healed yet then you probably don't need to start dating again yet.

Sincerely

Male Perspective

LeeKetty1176

Very telling how us guys stuck to Boobs, Figure etc etc.... the ladies are wanting nice eyes, own teeth, can make you laugh, loyal.

Makes me think that a getting a pet dog would do the same for the girls ????

Mrs_McFadden

Very telling how us guys stuck to Boobs, Figure etc etc.... the ladies are wanting nice eyes, own teeth, can make you laugh, loyal.

Makes me think that a getting a pet dog would do the same for the girls ????

Oh, I'm sorry, normally I don't have to mention this but I really love my husband's penis. It's part of the requirement list. Oh and how his body is attached to it, yep. I love a MAN.

kerriBB37

First, Curt - well said! The thing I love about my beau is that we both feel like we hit the jackpot with one another. I have been in relationships were I felt "better" than the other and vice versa, finally this time I think we've got it right. We are proud of one another and if I never saw another person for the rest of my life I think I'd finally be OK with that!

As for traits,

1. pays attention to the little things in life
2. sporty (plays, watches, etc)
3. the bigger the chest/shoulders the better
4. silly (my boyfriend has the silliest giggle and I always tease him about it!)
5. protective
6. helpful to others (he will pull over to help an old lady or carry strangers bags to their car)
7. never ends a convo without a kind word or an I Love You

since 7 is my lucky # I'll stop there!

Shannon023

Very telling how us guys stuck to Boobs, Figure etc etc.... the ladies are wanting nice eyes, own teeth, can make you laugh, loyal.

Makes me think that a getting a pet dog would do the same for the girls ????

I've never wanted a man who could lick his own b@lls. :laugh:

Too much??? :embarassed:

fitmom4ever

I've never had a 'type' physically, have dated all different body types, hair colors, styles, etc. My hubby's ice blue eyes nearly pierced me the first time we met tho, and it was instant... love? prolly not, more like lust, but it developed into the deepest love because of my daughter. When we were still first going out she was only 9 months old and got really sick during a weekend trip to his place. I really think he was more protective and worried about her than I was, and has always since raised her as his own. He is currently fighting his hardest to give her his last name. And even though we now have another little girl of our own, he still treats her no differently, if anything, I really think she is his favorite!
So yeah, the great butt and the motorcycle and the eyes may have attracted me initially, but the genuine caring for me and my daughter, the unfailing patience, and the dedication to providing the best he can for us is what will keep me proudly by his side for the rest of our lives.

rachel1975f

How about hairiness on men? Do you girls prefer a smooth chest and back, or do you like a lot of manly hair?

strandedeyes

What I prefer...

A guy with confidence in himself and attains any goal he sets for himself (goals are key!).
A guy with an active lifestyle, who refuses to just sit around on a friday night to play video games.
Smart, funny, caring (a family type), taller than me (not a hard feat), and someone who enjoys food as I loooove to cook.

Least of all, someone who likes me. That is the weirdest thing to say, I know, but its been my experience that some guys don't really like me...they like what surrounds me or something...

Oh and no drama...pretty please

Hi! I'm right here!

haha Hi back!

Still_Sossy

I wish this site was up a few years back !!!! I would of been taking notes for hours !!!!

Start writting!

LeeKetty1176

How about hairiness on men? Do you girls prefer a smooth chest and back, or do you like a lot of manly hair?

please say we are not going to start the tread on the girls again and ask this !!! things could get out of hand

LeeKetty1176

I wish this site was up a few years back !!!! I would of been taking notes for hours !!!!

Start writting!

one step ahead !!! I am cutting and pasting from the PC to a word Doc !!! this stuff I NEED !!!!!

Still_Sossy

Very telling how us guys stuck to Boobs, Figure etc etc.... the ladies are wanting nice eyes, own teeth, can make you laugh, loyal.

Makes me think that a getting a pet dog would do the same for the girls ????

Oh, I'm sorry, normally I don't have to mention this but I really love my husband's penis. It's part of the requirement list. Oh and how his body is attached to it, yep. I love a MAN.

Oh my God. I need help getting off the floor, I just fell off my chair laughing!

porcelain_doll

I think I've gotten a little pickier as I've gotten older, though I didn't really mean to. I guess since I've gotten to meet so many people along the way and have remained single for so long, that I've been able to give a lot of serious thought to what is important to me and what I really want.

I am naturally more attracted to taller, bulkier (not necessarily Hulk Hogan-ish men, lol) men than leaner, smaller men. I think this is due to my desire to feel "protected" by someone. My dad is a tall, strong man, as is my older brother (and they were/are protective of me), so this also may have something to do with it.

The guy doesn't necessarily have to be a college graduate, but he does need to be smart and have common sense. If those two things are lacking, things will go south quickly.

We need to be on the same page as far as morals and religious beliefs are concerned. That is extremely important to me.

And he's gotta be funny. There are different kinds of funny, though. He's gotta be MY kind of funny.

fitnesspirateninja

Very telling how us guys stuck to Boobs, Figure etc etc.... the ladies are wanting nice eyes, own teeth, can make you laugh, loyal.

Makes me think that a getting a pet dog would do the same for the girls ????

Oh, I'm sorry, normally I don't have to mention this but I really love my husband's penis. It's part of the requirement list. Oh and how his body is attached to it, yep. I love a MAN.

Ahahahaha!

superninjatam

It's ok girls - you can all stop dreaming - I've arrived*









* be gentle