Senior Golden Sneakers -March 2011

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  • pjsatticPhoebeWaleskaGA
    pjsatticPhoebeWaleskaGA Posts: 1,701 Member
    Wow, that is great about the new car! So glad you posted the pic! Tell her to take you all to the beach this summer!

    Marie, april fools day is weigh day for me too! Now how about that for a weigh in day!
    going tobrowse recipes at the link you sent, thank you.
    i got a book/magazine 'The Mayo Clinic Home Remedies'. Going to browse it to
    Chili sounds good, i was surprised how many carbs are in chili, even no bean kind. I guess they add sugar or corn syrup. Homemade would be the way to avoid all of that.
    it is raining buckets here and will be colder tomorrow. Our cats are so lazy on rainy days, they dont want to move. We had a good meal in the restaurant here. Lots of vegetables.
    Judi said food costs have gone up in the UK. I guess it is everywhere. The gardeners will get renewed appreciation as costs keep going up. I would say farmers, but there about all gobbled up by the big corporations who havve 'growers'. Last summer was our communities first annual farmers market. It did very well, the local farms sold a lot of food. Lots of crafts, baked goods, and soaps and scented candles.
    we bought lots of okra and put it in the freezer. It was eaten quickly. If we keep working all summer like we do now, we wont need any frozen foods or refrigerated either! The company just sent a message to all the drivers via satellite. That they are busy and please plan on going unless you schedule some time off. So I will get with Jim to see when we want to take off.
    Have a good evening
  • Grandee47
    Grandee47 Posts: 261 Member
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  • tlp8rb
    tlp8rb Posts: 556 Member
    There have been some some posts on here about the earthquake in New Zealand. I have friends and classmates who spend their winters in New Brighton which is 20 minutes from Christchurch. Their son, Steven lives there. I hadn't heard from them until tonight and thought you may want to read a first-hand account of events there.

    Dear Family and Friends,

    We just had another after-shock so some of you may have gotten a blank message as I clicked on the wrong button, sorry.

    First of all, thanks for all your kind thoughts and prayers. We have been so blessed, not like many others in the area. 11 days later and our lives are starting to get back to something called “normal”. Our electric power was restored 2 days ago, yesterday it was water and today the internet. Wow….where to begin. Steven tells us that he has been keeping some of you informed about our general improving conditions but we thought we’d fill you in more detail if you’re interested in our quake experiences.

    On the 22nd we had planned to take a morning bus to the city centre, see the flower show in the cathedral, have lunch, visit the main library and spend the day enjoying the city. We got lucky, Susan e-mailed us and we agreed to Skype with her and we changed our plans. Instead of being in one of two buses that were flattened by rubble, or in the the cathedral which collapsed, or the library which will need to be taken down, or the restaurant that was destroyed, we were Skyping with the Petrofskes around 12:50 pm when the quake hit.

    Steven had come home for lunch and a chance to say hello. The building he would have been in was badly damaged and will have to be taken down. I guess the Schanen luck continues. Being less than 10 miles from the epicenter, the eastern suburbs, like New Brighton, took a major hit.

    What a strange sensation is was to feel the floor drop and then start shaking. The house swayed a good 6 to 12 inches from side to side with all sorts of things flying about, off shelves and out of cupboards. When it finally stopped after more than a minute (they tell us), I (Ann) had a small cut from some broken glass and multiple bruises from being bounced around under the computer desk. Paul’s first thought was to check the structural integrity of the house, but Steven made us all sit down, get our pulses back to normal and calm down a bit. He said this was much worse than the first quake when they only lost a few wine glasses and all their services were intact. Now we had lots of broken glass, empty shelves and liquids all over the kitchen floor, pictures off the walls or tilted at odd angles.

    His house as you can imagine has a few new cracks but is fine. He went to check on an elderly Dutch neighbor across the street but she was not home and her dog was hysterical with lots of broken pottery and things on the floor. Her neighbor came to check on us and told us where the house key was hidden so we could get the dog out. The lady was at some sort of day-care facility and was evacuated, we didn’t know where.

    A few minutes ago, another neighbor came by with the news that she was evacuated to Auckland, in the north island, and we don’t know when she’ll be coming back. Now Gus has another dog to play with and who knows how long Jessie will be with us. We are also looking after a next door neighbor’s cat. They left the week before on a holiday and have stayed away with their two children and enrolled them in school where they are staying for now.

    The time since the quake has been filled with all sorts of interesting experiences and problems. We think if you really want to meet and know people, try it during an emergency. Food, water and toilets were the first problems to be worked on. We took stock of what food we had and planned to eat what would spoil first. Surprisingly the Fisher and Paykel freezer section kept everything frozen for about 5 days. On Sunday a truck from some church was parked on our street handing out food packages. It was very humbling to be on the receiving end of food donations but we were very happy to get them. We have been cooking on the “barby” and one night even made a pizza. Now we have added a recipe called “quake pizza” to our cook book. Some nights we dined by candlelight to save our 2 flashlights.

    We have kept up with the news by listening to a battery radio, the only means of communication we had. A day or so later, it was announced that a water tanker was delivered to a school near by and the fellows went with lots of empty containers. Turns out somebody forgot the spigots so they had to come back later. All this water had to be boiled before we could us it for cooking and brushing teeth so that kept us busy part of each day.

    On Sunday, Steven and some of his workmates went to the office to retrieve equipment and he brought home a gas generator for us to us. We ran it 4 hours a day to keep the frig cold. Besides cleaning up all our messes here, we cleaned up the 2 neighbors kitchens as best we could. Steven took pictures first for the insurance companies. Paul and I cleared out their frigs and freezers and filled their waste bins. We have no idea when any of them will be back at this point.

    Monday we had a real treat. Steven’s boss’s son invited us to his undamaged house to do a load of wash and we all took showers, how nice was that? Then we came home, I hung up wash and Steven went to meet with the people from his office and plan how to get going at a temporary location. It’s been a hectic week for him and I’m sure the weekend didn’t come soon enough.

    A wee bit about the toilet (no pun intended)…since Steven has a rain barrel the water was used for occasional flushes. There is also a porta-loo at the end of the street along with postings of the latest health warnings. We have had over 700 after-shocks since the big one (several as I’m writing) and we’ve taped all the cupboard doors shut to prevent further damage. We think our years of scouting and camping have helped us get through things. We’ve been visited by a council volunteer who gathered info and asked us if we needed any help psychologically. We said we are our own support group.

    They tell everyone to talk about their experiences and that’s what I am doing. Thanks for listening. We’ve kept busy with day to day things, lots of reading and playing gin. I’ve also had knitting.

    That’s about it for now. Thanks again for your thoughts and prayers. Paul may have some pictures at a future date! Love to you all,

    The Survivors, Ann, Paul and Steven
  • pjsatticPhoebeWaleskaGA
    pjsatticPhoebeWaleskaGA Posts: 1,701 Member
    Thanks, Connie. First hand knowledge of survival and the right way to handle things. That Stephen is very level-headed, isnt he.
    im glad they are getting the utilities back, comparitively soon. Ooopps, battery needs a charge
  • tlp8rb
    tlp8rb Posts: 556 Member
    Thanks, Connie. First hand knowledge of survival and the right way to handle things. That Stephen is very level-headed, isnt he.
    im glad they are getting the utilities back, comparitively soon. Ooopps, battery needs a charge

    I failed to mention that these are not young folks, but our age. Paul will be 70 on May 1st, and Ann will be 70 in December. They live in Wisconsin 8 months of the year but spend December through March in New Zealand. I was so relieved to hear from them.
  • Lafla
    Lafla Posts: 685 Member
    Hi to you all. Yup, still winter in Saskatchewan!! Neil had a little meltdown yesterday so I rescued him. I am not sure that it was the right thing to do but it was the right thing for me so I went with it. The staff person working was the one that Neil does not click with. Last night she decided to be firm with him, making him sit at the table until he ate his salad. I understand that they want them to have vegetables. Just a little idea -- they were having pizza, try putting some veg. on the pizza. #2 and the big one is that Neil is not supposed to eat lettuce due to his paralyzed vocal chord. In THE book it is listed that he can not have nuts, seeds or lettuce (Dr. order). When I mentioned that he was not supposed to eat lettuce the girl said "well, that's not the reason he gave us, he said he wasn't hungry"!!! I would have felt better with an "oops, so sorry that we screwed up". He is in a group home because he can't look after himself. Perhaps they should not make excuses for themselves and do their job! He is far from thin and will not fade away if he doesn't eat his bowl of lettuce. An interesting aside is that he loves salad so either he really was not hungry or he knew he shouldn't have it but couldn't explain why.:grumble:

    Sorry for all that but I feel so much better after getting it off my chest.

    Sandy -- Yeah for the car for Bryanna!! She must be so excited.

    Connie -- Thank you for sharing your letter, it was very interesting.

    Thinking of you all. Take care and keep smiling. Your cranky friend, Gayla :heart:
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,255 Member
    :flowerforyou: Sandy, I think you are very disciplined....you don't eat the fast food and junk food that you used to and you keep adding exercise to your day and as long as you keep participating in MFP you are keeping your weight loss journey near the top of your priority list

    :flowerforyou: Phoebe, my first indications of weight loss were the ways my clothes fit that were different, so your longer pants probably are an indication that things are going well.

    :flowerforyou: Marie, I remember a lot of the different food plans you've been on in the two years I've known you.....having a sponsor/partner in this new one might just be the thing you need.

    :flowerforyou: Elli, glad to hear that you got to the gym this morning.:bigsmile: did the dogs talk you into taking them for a walk?

    :flowerforyou: Judy, one of the hardest things for me to do is turn down food that someone has lovingly prepared......fortunately that doesn't happen often and most of my friends know that my eating is "different"

    :flowerforyou: Marilyn, I've been watching what I eat for over two years and I don't feel deprived.......except occasionally I have fantasies of eating the whole jar of peanut butter:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    :flowerforyou: Connie, thanks for sharing the letter from your friends in New Zealand.

    :flowerforyou: Gayla, you are such a great mom to Neil......you always come from a place of love.

    :flowerforyou: I went to a gathering this evening that included homemade chocolate cake and I thanked the hostess and didn't eat the cake.:bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile:
  • maeadair
    maeadair Posts: 496 Member
    Found you...thanks Sandy. Not very computer literate. Worked extra after being out sick, then shopped for last minute baby shower/then to baby shower/groceries for my 92 yr old Mom and visited, now to bed after being up over30 hrs. :yawn: Will try catch up soon. :happy: Mae
  • delraybuzz
    delraybuzz Posts: 2,779 Member
    Struggling to finish my tax returns this weekend :grumble: but when I opened thisemail, I knew I had to post it for all my dear cat lovers out there!
    ______________________________________________________________________________________________:bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile:
    Chap Stick
    We had this great 10 year old cat named Jack who just recently died. Jack was a great cat and the kids would carry him around and sit on him and nothing ever bothered him. He used to hang out and nap all day long on the mat in our bathroom. We have 3 kids and at the time of this story they were 4 years old, 3 years old and 1 year old.

    The middle one is Eli. Eli really loved chap stick. LOVED it. He kept asking to use my chap stick and then losing it.

    Finally one day I showed him where in the bathroom that I kept my chap stick and explained he could use it whenever he wanted to but he needed to put it right back in the drawer after he finished because I used it sometimes several times a day.

    That year, on Mother's Day, we were having the typical rush around to try to get ready for church with everyone crying and carrying on. My two boys are fighting over the toy in the cereal box.

    I am trying to nurse my little one at the same time I am putting on my make-up. Everything is a mess and everyone has long forgotten that this is a wonderful day to honor me and the amazing job that is motherhood.

    We finally have the older one and the baby loaded in the car, and I am looking for Eli. I have searched everywhere and I finally go into the bathroom.

    There was Eli. He was applying my chap stick very carefully to Jack's rear end. Eli looked right into my eyes and said "chapped..."

    Now if you have a cat, you know that he is right - their little bottoms do look pretty chapped. And, frankly, Jack didn't seem to mind. And the only question to ask at that point was whether it was the FIRST time Eli had done that to the cat's behind or the hundredth!?!

    And THAT is my favorite Mother's Day moment ever, because it reminds us that no matter how hard we try to civilize these glorious little creatures, there will always be that day when you realize... they've been using your chap stick on the cat's butt.


    :ohwell: Buzz
  • fancyladyJeri
    fancyladyJeri Posts: 1,319 Member
    Hello Everyone and thanks Lafla for the invite

    I'll introduce myself by saying you look like a fun group. I'm trying my best to lose the weight I've put on over the last few years. I just got back from vacation and I'm now committed to exercising at least 5 days a week. Wish me luck.

    I'm trying for the slow but sure method for eating and losing weight. I'm afraid I have a gluten, dairy and egg intolerance so that complicates the eating business. Eating out is definitely a challenge.

    Best wishes,

    Jeri in Calgary
  • judz46
    judz46 Posts: 359 Member
    Welcome jeri ....you have come to the right site.
  • lyn54
    lyn54 Posts: 415
    Evening,

    Wow, Connie, that was enlightening, reading of a personal experience of the earthquake. I know you were very happy to hear from your friends. Thanks for sharing. I am glad your friends are okay.:smile:

    Sandy-Thanks for the picture. It's an exciting time in one's life when you get your license and a car. A new car...well that doesn't happen for everyone. A very lucky young lady. I know you are so proud of her. My oldest grandson will be 14 soon. He will be a freshman in high school...If you are like me, sometimes you have to pinch yourself to be sure this is really happening. Grandchildren in high school and Grandchildren driving.:noway:

    Gayla-Sometimes, you wonder WHAT people are thinking??:noway: I think you hold your cool really well. You are a good mom.

    Welcome Jeri!

    Buzz ---when I first started reading I thought you were talking about our Elli and then I went back and started at the beginning. That is funny:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    Maddie-I hope you feel better soon!:flowerforyou:

    Judi-(I hope I spelled your name correctly, I am doing this from memory?:noway: ) I have loved seeing the birds nesting this week. They are so busy. So, I enjoyed hearing about yours.

    Judy--your dessert sounded wonderful.. You aredoing good by working it off. Sometimes, you get stuck in situations and you do the best you can and go on. I have found if I angst about it too much the stress can cause me to do even worse. I think you have a good attitude. Keep up the good work!:flowerforyou:

    Marilyn ==be careful flying around:happy: I don't want you to injure your back...:happy: (that was funny:bigsmile: )

    Mae-Glad to see your post!:flowerforyou:

    Barbie--You have the willpower and "constitution" of Iron Man.:noway: Does that come all at once...or do you build up to that kind of determination?:tongue: I am always amazed.:drinker: :drinker:

    Has anyone heard from Irene?

    Good night...
  • pjsatticPhoebeWaleskaGA
    pjsatticPhoebeWaleskaGA Posts: 1,701 Member
    Thanks Connie, for the info on your friends. To me, that makes their good coping skills understandable, their ages, I mean. With maturity often comes wisdom, and I love being around wise people, hoping it will rub off!
    Gayla, congrats on your patience, once again, with the certain person who is making Neils life stressful. I wish it was your clone working there, you would be so much better at the job. I wonder about this persons training.
    Barbie, congrats to you on the chocolate NOT cake. Lol.
    ms. Mae, 30 hours awake is tough, and I dont know how you did it. Are you caught up now? I hope so, for your sake, and I hope you dont get sick again.
    Hi Jeri, and welcome. Here in the states, I've noticed a bit more attention is being given to the gluten free diet. Mixes are arriving on shelves, and recipes abound. Congrats on your losses so far, and be careful on your exercise regimen.
    Buzz, what a cute story! It may be just the ticket for my cat with a chapped backside, although, Im not sure she will let me try it!
    lynn, I know Irene was going to her sons in OR. Maybe she doesnt access. She was going for a couple of weeks, I Think.
    Be safe
  • gigi46
    gigi46 Posts: 196
    Hello Ladies,

    Well this morning the grass is froozen:grumble: :grumble: :grumble: and the temperature is back in the 20's, well is only March.

    Sandy - Bryanna looks so HAPPY, what a surprise, what a wonderful and thoughtful gift - you're a proud grandma:love::love:
    How was the benefit?

    Marie - did you dream come thru? was the fishing succesful HA HA, you already have a prince Jerry, he is a keeper:love::love:

    Judy - This month on the Catholic Post was an article on "After quake all Christchurch perishes closed":angry::angry: :angry:
    until inspected - the engineers had to declarea it safe, the bell towerand front facade collaped. hope things are better by now, our prayers are with you alwyas, love hearing from you.:flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:

    Barb - I must share with you what happen to me when I got to Rome airport, before you get to any country, must filled a form for
    customs to get thru, so I did, of course I needed my passport to get all correct info, so I didn't notice my passport fell to the floor under my seat, got out the plane and when we got ready in line to go thru custom I noticed my passort was gone, of course you can't go back to the plane, right away an officer took me and my daughter to special office, this office was full of officers and stack of passports from the flight, when I saw my passort - I hugged the lady and she froozed I guess she wasn't ready for that, so that was the must worst 20 minutes of my life:angry::angry: :angry: you know what happens if you don't have a passport in a foreign country - you're send back home.:explode: :explode: :explode: so you see happens to all of us.:heart::heart: :heart: :heart:

    Judy - I blew my calories last night:grumble: :grumble: we went out with friends and after one of the couples had everyone at the home for dessert, home made lemon pie I couln't be rude after she made it, so down it went SOOO GOOOD:blushing: :blushing: :blushing:

    Phoebe - Sounds like you're going to be working all the time - hope you're planning on taking sometime off :noway: :noway:
    soundslike things are better for the economi.

    Connie - thanks for sharing the stories from your friends, those folks are AMAZING:love::love: my hats off to Paul and Ann
    God Bless them.

    Gayla - So proud of you, Mom always to the rescued, Neil knows what is best for him- Good Job Neil- that girl should be reported:angry::angry: :angry:

    Buzz - what a story loved it.

    Jeri - Welcome so glad you're going to be part of this amazing group.:flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:

    Hope everyone has a Great Sunday:heart::heart:

    Gigi
  • oldtyke
    oldtyke Posts: 149 Member
    Oh Buzz, what a wonderful story! We have a shop in York that only sells things to do with cats, and one of their best sellers is a cat shaped holer for your teatowels, and guess where you put the towel?
    Well winter seems to be hanging on over ther!After our big freeze in December we've gone back to our usual spring weather.
    Welcome Jeri!
    Ah Gigi! I have nightmares about losing my passport! Which reminds me I must renew it.
    Gayla, it must be so hard for you. If it's anything like the UK then the carers in homes are paid minimum wages. No one , even the nurses appear to have a vocation these days.
    Sunny again, but cold, and the village is full of walkers who go down all the small footpaths, even the ones that don't go anywhere! But it's on the map so away they go.
    Quark is " virtually fat free soft cheese" 21 cals/ 30g. It's ok mixed into something but you wouldn't spread it on a cracker. Well you could but it's very bland.
    I did The 30 Day Shred again yesterday, (2 days running) and today my thighs feel very heavy so I'm going to treat my knees to some consideration and give them a rest!
    I hope that your weather is sunny and you all have a peaceful Sunday. Judi.
  • CALIECAT
    CALIECAT Posts: 12,530 Member
    Good morning. Another busy late evening and early birds here, seems like I go to bed early and get up late.

    First things first. Jei You are so welcome here with our wonderfu; group we are getting to be rather a large family here THE MORE THE MERRIER. sO GALD TO HAVE YOU. Gayla is one of my oldest and dearest friend.
    Alice My daughter........ is on her way out so better get up and get dress.. For we will be getting out to go shoppin andout for lunch. My first time out since I started this diet A little nervouse about going to eat without my food scales.......... Xyla told me her sister in law took her scales along with her but I don't think I would like that.

    The weather man told us the 15th of march is usally our last freeze So will be getting ready to plant soon.


    You all have a beatiful day
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,255 Member
    :flowerforyou: Welcome, Jeri, I hope you will enjoy being part of this group and learn some useful tools for your weight loss journey. I'm sure your meal planning with gluten, dairy, and eggs not being part of it, is a challenge. On the other hand, you have the perfect response to the offer of a lovingly made homemade dessert
    since you can have neither flour nor eggs, it wouldn't be rude to say "no, thank you" to chocolate cake or most other desserts.

    :flowerforyou: my friend who has been on a many year weight loss and maintenance journey with a 12 step program, tells people "that's not my food" when offered something that is not on her food plan.....it works for her and I have adopted her thinking as one more tool for me.

    :flowerforyou: today is my Isagenix cleanse day so everything is off limits beyond the cleanse day products.....I'll give myself a break from exercise except going to the dog park and maybe some walking around the house to add some more steps to the count on my pedometer.........I wonder how many of my steps are related just to dog walking and getting up and down to let the cats in and out :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    :flowerforyou: Gigi, OMG I can't imagine the terror of misplacing your passport in a foreign country....crossing national borders is a nerve wracking experience under the best of circumstances

    :flowerforyou: Sandy, Bryanna looks so happy with her new car......when I got my drivers' license my parents allowed me to drive the family cars if I learned how to change a tire and washed the cars every week.:laugh: :laugh:

    :flowerforyou: It's not actually raining here but the sky looks threatening.
  • fancyladyJeri
    fancyladyJeri Posts: 1,319 Member
    Thanks everyone for the great welcome. I can tell I've found a fun group of friends.

    And barbiecat, you are so right. I've already found that eating in such a restricted manner takes the need for willpower out of lots of situations. I do say no to dessert and I'm not tempted to have a cookie with my coffee when I'm at the bookstore. Heavens, I even lost weight on the cruise I just returned from. Lol

    I'm really trying to build in more exercise into my day to day life. My goal is to walk a mile a day. In cold and snowy Alberta, that means the treadmill. Not my favorite, but I am doing it.

    What do the rest of you do for exercise?



    Treadmill 1.17 miles, 21 minutes
    Bike 2.6 miles, 10 minutes
  • elli
    elli Posts: 593
    happy sunday! I love weekends.:smile: I made it to the gym again this morning early. And yes BARBIE - the dogs did talk me into a walk yesterday. we just got a little bundled up (well, I did neway!:laugh: ) Now i'm cooking - rib eye steaks, 5 cheese ziti and homemade sourdough bread that will be going home with my kids. Definitely Not "my" food! I'm so amazed (BARBIE) that you don't feel deprived. I've been doing this for 5 years now (since i lost 40 lbs with Metabolic Research) and i STILL feel deprived sometimes - either that or i give in to the temptation. You never seem to............you amaze me! How often do you do your cleanse? and on those day you only use the isagenix products? I just like food too much!


    MAE - i don't know how you do 30 hours straight. There's no way i can do that anymore. I'm going to quit complaining about working too much. You humble me!:embarassed:


    BUZZ - omg - the chap stick story. TOO funny!!!!!!:laugh: just the way he looked at you and said "chapped"! Dakota, my younger boy, used to eat the crunchy cat food. His older bro or i would catch him with a mouthful and he'd smile around it and say "it's sweet!"

    Hi JERI and welcome to the best group around! You'll get all the support here. Although, i don't know if any of us are gluten, egg, dairy restricted. That's tough! We all do lots of different stuff for exercise from dancing around our kitchens (which i've been doing today), treadmills and gym equipment, exercise tapes to yoga of all different types! Just don't get bored with what you do. I like to change it up as much as i can.

    JUDI - thanks for explaining quark - that sounds like very usefull stuff! When you say 2 days running, how far, for how long do you run? It's just not something i'm good at. I alternate with walking, but really only jog for 5 minutes at a time........

    MARIE - you're about 7 weeks ahead of us - as a rule we're safe to plant everything on Mother's Day. Of course, i get lettuce, onions, garlic in before that.........

    On Tuesday i get to BABYSIT for Kodi Grace - for the first time they're leaving her! Just for a couple hours, her Mom has to give a safety meeting that morning. I'm SO excited!:happy: :heart: :happy: :heart:

    Everyone have a great Sunday!

    l, e
  • judz46
    judz46 Posts: 359 Member
    Hi to all you lovely ladies...another wet cold day here so not much will be happening today. I really would love to be out in my garden as my roses need some urgent attention.. they are my passion - they flower for months of the year so I consider them the best value for money of any plant. I even got 2nd place in the city garden competition and won some lovely prizes. That was a thrill. Our winters here at not too harsh..we can grow our own veggies - nothing nicer than going out and getting something out of the garden for dinner.

    Geri, a lot of the beautiful old churches have been destroyed but if they can rebuild them they will...the cathedral especially is an icon - Christchurch just would not be the same without it..the church services have been held in the open, all denominations so that is good...they come to worship and make new friends so all good.

    Jeri - so lucky to be able to lose weight on a cruise...i sure didn't with a 4 course meal every night for dinner, although ours was cut short as we sailed out of auckland when the winds were 200 kph and the waves got to 14 mtrs....the ship was so badly damaged we were flown back to auckland and our refunded money was in our bank acct when we arrived back. A group of us had gone too Vanuatu for my son's wedding (photo in my profile) luckily that still went ahead but we were all terrified. (except for my DIL. she had a seizure 2 hours out and was in bed for 3 days...looked lovely on her wedding day though).

    I love my treadmill - i put some nice music on my walkman and jump on it straight after breakfast...in fact, I work out my menu for the day and just up my exercise to suit..i prefer to just watch my food rather than a strict diet, as it has never worked for me..just put it all back on as soon as i start eating normally...this is working for me this time and i feel march will by a good month for me.

    I'm off now for my Monday morning coffee session with an dear friend of mine..so will catch all you lovely ladies later.

    PS don't stress too much about your lunch...I have learn't that one day off does not matter an awful lot.
  • pjsatticPhoebeWaleskaGA
    pjsatticPhoebeWaleskaGA Posts: 1,701 Member
    Jeri, I dont get to exercise much. I did join a gym but when working, I dont have time to go. I go when I am home, and generally do the recumbent bike. That is all I feel comfortable with right now. I have a strong dislike for treadmills, just the feeling of never being able to 'catch up' gives me the creeps!
    Marie, please tell Alice how much I admire her for being such a good daughter. She obviously loves you both so much, but she should know that it shows in her actions.
    i know you are looking forward to garden season too. Jim says he wants to do a soil test this year before planting it. I think there may be too many cat 'visits' in there, and the ph is affected. Lol!
    we are doing laundry in a truck stop, e are in the tv room while I type this, the room is full of drivers, watching nascar racing and talking about big animals in the road. Bad language notwithstanding, they are funny stories. One blew his horn at a moose, and the moose attacked his truck!
    Dh loves nascar, so he is happy, and I have my phone and a readers digest. It is the feb issue, on the cover is an article about the new science of dieting. It confirms the met B theories. Very interesting.
    Hope you all are having a safe and happy Sunday. Monday for Judy in NZ.
  • CALIECAT
    CALIECAT Posts: 12,530 Member
    So good morning to all of you

    Jerry has got our little bed of garden all ready to plant as soon as this cold front leaves in about a week.

    Alice brought me some bad news this morning. She has cancer of the uteres [ spelling] She is going into the hospital Friday for surgery. I had the same thing when I was about her age..They know a lot more about it now. But I was one of the luckey ones They got it all. this was about 25 years ago. I pray that they can get all of hers it. The doctor seems to think they caught it early


    My grandaughter who is 33 years old. Has been having a lot of problems with her lived in boyfriend. He has beat her up a couple times and is under some kind of order from the police Well last night he struck again. She mamage to called Police and a neigbor call the Police too for her. They arrested him This is the third time And they think He will get sentense to jail He has go Probation. They say this third time is a felony. He beat her up pretty badly
    mess her face up and sone somethign to her foot and is in a brace.,

    Jerry will be going to the hospital tomorrow for his test so maybe we will find out soon what the doctors have found out and to see how they are going to treat him.
    Other than all of this all is fine. I am holing up pretty well.
    Hate to dump all of my problems on you guys. But needed to talk about it.

    Don.'t sound like this is going to be a good week. Just hope I can stay on my diet..
  • pjsatticPhoebeWaleskaGA
    pjsatticPhoebeWaleskaGA Posts: 1,701 Member
    Oh Marie, I am so sad to hear that about Alice. Tell her she is in my prayers. I am sure that she will be fine, but Im sorry she has to go thru it at all.
    I'm. Sorry and angry for what has happened to your granddaughter. She has given him more than he should have by way of second chances. Hope she is finished with him now. I think it is one of the most cowardly things a person, male or female, can do to another.
    Grrrrrr!
    love you Marie
  • delraybuzz
    delraybuzz Posts: 2,779 Member
    Haven't read anything but Marie's Post, and Phoebe's reply, but I echo the reply completely! Marie, you must be a saint to keep your wits about you when everything is falling apart this way! Bless your strength, dear gal :flowerforyou:
    I hope Jerry's report will be easy to hear, and Alice has a good chance if hers was early detection, as you well know. As for your granddaughter, what will it take for her to leave this nasty guy? And why do nice women think they deserve anything less than the best? Oh, dear, we all love you and are here for you for moral support, Marie.

    I just finished my tax returns and about to re-enter the world of the living :ohwell: I think it's my most upsetting job of each year. I always say I will be more organized next year, and really think I am until THAT TIME rolls around again! All that's left is shredding the myriad of papers that go with the job!

    Have tickets for a really fun show tonight so I must get prepared, but I'm anxious to see ALL the posts I've missed!
    Buzz
  • marlouise
    marlouise Posts: 286
    Hello ladies;

    BARBIE, put that peanut butter fantacy into real yummy quarter sized peanut butter cookies, you have options to cut out ingredients and replace with lower fat and sugar, one every now and then would be nice, especially as a treat for keeping your health strong.:happy:

    CONNIE, thankyou for sharing the letter, best wishes to your friends. :heart:

    BUZZ, I'm hiding my chapsticks from now on. Grandchildren can make surprise entrances into our lives, so I'm getting practiced, I have five cats in the house!:laugh:

    JERI, welcome, I have a sister that is gluten intolerant and another sister who is lactose intolerant. I do know of some of your woes, but hang in there, you can make some healthy foods that are very filling. If you find you are under a bit of pressure by trying to loose weight and exercising at the same time, try to tell yourself you are portioning your foods better, and substituting better filling foods to make the calories work for you. The exercise is there so you can see how the better choices are working the calories to shape the body better.---There is always a better side of the truth that is not so bad to listen to.:wink: Good luck in your journey!:drinker:

    MARIE <<<HUGS>>>:heart::flowerforyou: Alice will have a good chance if the doctor is right. :flowerforyou: Hopes to your granddaughter that she can get help with her emotions and recuperate to a stronger person. Is there a womens' shelter around her somewhere she can get help from. They can do a lot for her, set her up with a safe home if the boyfriend gets out on bail or what ever the case in the near future.. if she feels he will come back for her. My hopes something works out for her.

    Well so far so good on the exercises, my pelvic muscles are getting sore from using, so I am lessoning my sets to do just a few, tomorrow I will go back to the routine. Forgot to weigh in this morning, will do tomorrow. To all a good day, catch you tomorrow after the dentist!

    Marilyn:smile:
  • elli
    elli Posts: 593
    MARIE - oh wow - don't you ever worry about telling us your troubles! I'm SO sorry about Alice. I'm praying for her that like with you, they caught this early enough and will be able to erradicate it. Very scary!!!!!! And your granddaughter - like everyone else any kind of abuse makes me sad and angry. Especially against women and/or children. It's a vicious cycle. Hopefully this guy will be going away for a long time so he won't be able to get to her and she'll get some help and realize she doesn't deserve to be treated badly.:angry: I'm a believer in forgiveness - it's a good thing to forgive the people that have hurt us but we sure don't want them in our lives anymore! Hang in there Marie. Your family is lucky to have you. Love

    elli
  • delraybuzz
    delraybuzz Posts: 2,779 Member
    :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: WOW! Read ALL the posts to here, and enjoyed every one, met new members, learned new veggie tricks, almost lost my breath along with Barb's wallet , and Connie, what a wonderful story (real) from NZ!! I can't recall everything but it was good to be with you all again, and loved the song we had to "Get up" with until it made me go P from all the shakin'! HELLO again.
    Wanted to ask GIGI where she stays in South Florida that she prefers coming into Ft Lauderdale. That airport drives us nuts, it's so huge, and we love Palm Beach International Airport, which is north of where we live, and smaller. Let me know where, and I hope your Mom can get the help she and her kidneys need! Appreciated your story about Rome airport and your Passport. Almost a nightmare :sick: !
    As I said earlier, we have tickets to see Mal Z Lawrence tonight and he can be so funny...which I need tonight! So gotta cover all those black and blue marks (still there on my cheekbones!) and dress in my best jeans, and strut on out! Love you all...
    Buzz
  • Lafla
    Lafla Posts: 685 Member
    Hi to you all from sunny and cold Saskatchewan. It is very noisy and dusty here as they tear out the kitchen flooring. I guess it is time to go buy some appliances. My allergic nose is running like a tap, interrupted onlyby sneezing. I will be so happy to see the end of this but Dave will be even happier I expect.

    Marie -- I am so sorry to hear your news from Alice and hope it will soon be a bad memory. You are living proof that the outcome can be positive. I will include Alice in my prayers. I also pray that Jerry gets good news tomorrow and the treatment will start soon. It is so hard not to have a voice. Take care of you and please share your worries with us anytime. That is what friends are for, after all. I wish I was close enough to give you a big hug. ((((Marie)))) :heart: :heart:

    Gigi -- I hope your Mom is feeling some better.

    Take care everyone. :heart:
  • gigi46
    gigi46 Posts: 196
    Hello again,

    Marie - you're a rock girl so much going on in your life and I'm so glad you're sharing with all of us, I know that helps the stress and gives some relief to be able to help your love ones:flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: So very sorry about Alice I know in my heart she will be fine, I will burn a candle for her on friday morning at the church, so our prayers will be with you and Alice, your granddaugther needs to get out of that relationship, needs help and hope she gets it.:noway: :noway: hope she got all the help she need for take care of her face. What a jerk:explode: :explode: :explode:

    Buzz - We're staying with our daugther in Sunrise, we're flying into Miami Airport because we did not have any other way, flights were not possible during the time we needed to come, the Fort Lauderdale airport is much smaller and a lot close to Sunrise.
    My Mom was take to the Emergency room yesterday because she was in a lot of pain, got a precription and she is feeling better
    today, I will be taking her to the Dr's on wednesday afternoon, I will feel better after I get to talk to the Dr.:angry::angry: :angry:

    Jeri - I go to the Gym at least 4 time a week, that works for me.

    Hope everyone will have a good evening,

    Gigi
  • judz46
    judz46 Posts: 359 Member
    Marie - just want you to know I'm thinking of you - you're sure having a rough time but I'm sure you're daughter will be fine...I had an operation 20 years ago and have never looked back...your granddaughter will need to have a big rethink about being in a relationship with an abusive partner and hopefully she finds the strength to get him out of her life...big hugs to you. - Judy
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