Fit For Future Families - March 2011

fitterpam

Nichole, I have to disagree with Pam, but only because your cycles have been so short the last two months. If you have a regular luteal phase (time between O and AF; average is 14 days), then you're ovulating super early... like CD 10-12. I would start testing earlier than CD 10 because you'll get your surge 24-48 hours before you O. Maybe as early as CD 8. You can also use the Clear Blue digi OPKs with first morning urine. It reads different hormones than the typical OPK reads, so it's OK to use first thing. I had best luck with second morning urine because I drink too much water throughout the day (and I was using the monitor with my FMU). But you might want to test twice a day in case you have a short surge.

LOL You caught me. :flowerforyou: I don't know much about cycles with people that ovulate, I'm just joining that world :laugh: But that brings up a good point. Do you know what your LP is? I know mine was typically 13 days before I started losing weight, but seems to be 14 days since correcting the hormones. What it was before might not be the same as it is now......

Erica's right - CD 10 is what is suggested as the standard (and they're expecting CD 14 to show the surge) so you should be starting about 4 days earlier than you might ovulate, so CD 8 or there abouts. They don't want the urine to be too concentrated (like FMU usually is) adn they don't want it to be too diluted (within a few hours of water). I know my tests from Clearblue said most women had success with pinopointing surges in the late afternoon urine (about 4 hours after lunch). Each test might be different and the digital might be more sensitive or less than the non digital so I'm not sure what the right answer is anymore. I wasn't even able to get a surge last time (but then I also ran out of tests....LOL)

epa422

Pam, your advice was perfect for someone with a 28 day or longer cycle using regular OPKs. The only reason I know anything about the clearblue digis is because they use the same test strips as the monitor. They detect estrogen and LH, whereas your typical test strip will only detect LH.

LH is the hormone that triggers your body to release an egg, for those who don't know that acronym. :flowerforyou:

nkster781

Yeah I don't even know when I O. I'm still trying to regulate my period. I have only had 3 cycles since coming off the pill. I guess I should probably start temping too. Kit came with 20 strips so I will probably start testing on CD10 just to make sure I catch it.

Thanks for the info ladies

danielleeeee

Hi Everyone.

I just wanted to drop in and say hi. I haven't had a chance to catch up on everything I've missed since my first couple posts last week. I really would like to become a member of this group for real, but have been so preoccupied trying to paint my house and dealing with drama from the inlaws that it's been a struggle just to find time to go through the (pointless) steps of baby-making.

Anyway, I will read up and try to join in. Hope everyone is well.

Danielle

fitterpam

Welcome back Danielle. It's definitely tough when there are other things going on in our lives to get focused on something specific. Just jump on back in!!!

AFM: Today is counselling!!! Last week was an eye opener that there was actually stuff about this process that we hadn't considered so looking forward to finding out if there is anything else. Oh and I wasn't great yesterday, but I don't think too bad either - it was a celebration of kinds (I got totally drunk on 2 glasses of Chardonnay - I couldn't walk straight, the floors were bouncy....WHOOPS!!!). I got some good news at work. I finally got the promotion I've been waiting for for a year - I won't be doing anything different, but I've consistently been told that I'm working above my grade level, so they finally gave me the bump. I was quite shocked when I found out all that it came with, but I get the feeling my boss really had it out with HR on my behalf.....that was the most pleasant surprise of all. Oh and, my project's almost over!!! Just a few more weeks, but I have almost all of my part done for the first phase (deadline is today though too so good thing)

Jessica_Lo

PAM!! Congrats!! What do you do? It's a good thing when the company acknowledges you and your hard work!!

Good luck today on the counseling.

epa422

That's fantastic, Pam! I hope the counseling session helps and doesn't hold any surprises for you!

nkster781

Congratulations Pam on your promotion. That is awesome!

Tiddle

Congrats on the promo - more $$$ is always nice!! :flowerforyou:

Great workout for me this morning...! I have an appt with my doc next week to see what's going on with my cycle. I hope to find something out before my husband comes back next month and maybe we can make a baby :blushing:

fitterpam

Thanks on the promotion - I am now a business advisor for complex global projects for a Fortune 500 company (could that be any more mysterious or obtuse)....LOL. I'm getting nervous about the appointment actually....we leave in 5 minutes.....

andreamichelle82

Congrats Pam!!!!!! Excited for you :drinker: Hope the appt goes well!

AFM, AF showed up, sigh. So rude too! I can't remember cramps this bad! One more month of getting healthy I guess.

epa422

Bah! Sorry Andrea. :grumble:

andreamichelle82

Thanks, Erica. Is it me, or is it more frustrating/disappointing every month? Sorry for the negativity, I'll dial back the positive more later

epa422

Well I can't recall how long you've been trying. I think I hit my most frustrated at 9 months. Since then, I've just given up and lost all hope... so now it's no surprise when AF shows.

andreamichelle82

Hard to calculate how long.,. Went off the pill in october, started timing in november, and just started my fourth cycle in fertility friend.

epa422

So 6 cycles give or take... Yeah, it will either get more frustrating for awhile or you'll get your BFP! :drinker:

andreamichelle82

Thanks, Erica. I think I'll be :drinker: Tonight!

Jessica_Lo

Erica...I can't remember on here if you've said this but have you gone to a fertility doctor to have you and DH tested?

epa422

Yes, Jessica. We started testing at the year mark in January. We're both fine. I ovulate really well and he has a super high count. I could potentially have blocked tubes, but my doctor won't run that test until I've tried medication for three months... which seems backward to me. But at this point, I don't really want to pay for another office visit to another doctor for more testing since none of it is covered by insurance.

Jessica_Lo

Ok. I was wondering. Had a GF that tried with her hubby for like a year then went and he had issues with his stuff and they did IUI and got pregnant on the 2nd try.

I'm with ya on the office visits. Luckily my insurance covered all the testing but they should have checked you completely. I had that test done. Not that My tubes aren't blocked but they still wanted to go in to make sure there were no cysts or growths in the uterus itself...I forget what the test is called... but it's not pleasant and they keep you awake. I think I've had so many issues in that area that anything done down there just causes me anxiety. My GF had it done and she said she didn't feel it at all.

Hopefully you will just have a surprise one day soon. That is what I wish for you.

epa422

Yes, I've had worse done to my cervix, so I'm not worried about the HSG, my doctor just doesn't feel that it's worth the money/pain to do it because, in his experience, most women don't have blocked tubes unless they have risk factors, which I don't. Insurance actually covers that test, which I find silly. Though I guess a one time payment versus months of paying for blood tests and office visits makes sense.

Thanks! I hope I get a surprise soon, too.

Tiddle

:flowerforyou: Hugs to both of you.

epa422

Hugs right back to you, Erin! I hope the doctor can give you an idea of what's going on with your cycle.

fitterpam

It's so frustrating when they find nothing wrong - at least I didn't have that. A friend of mine was in a simliar boat to you Erica and she's going through fertility treatments and having no luck - they call it some technical term "Unexplained infertility".

Appt was much less stressful that I was expecting. She just wanted to talk to us about coping mechanisms and things we can do if the IVF doesn't work...LOL we explained that we've been at this 10 years, if we hadn't come up with coping mechanisms, we'd have killed one another by now....I think she was more overwhelmed than we were by our story.....LOL Oh well!!

epa422

Yeah, isn't that a wonderful term? I actually don't have that label yet since I haven't gotten the HSG done. For now, I'll just stick with the idea that everything is all good, we're just missing a little something. :laugh:

I'm glad the appointment wasn't overwhelming, but it doesn't sound very helpful when you overwhelm the therapist. :noway: One step closer!

heathercrist1

Hi ladies. I miss you all! Hope all is well. I keep an eye on the board from time to time just to see how everyone is doing. I haven't forgotten about you.

Just wanted to also let you know that I had my ultrasound today. They found 2 gestational sacs but one was slightly smaller than the other. The larger one had a fetal pole and a heartbeat. It was amazing how such a small thing as a slight flicker on a screen can make your world. My DH and mother are still holding on that maybe the other baby will appear later...I'm not so sure. I was just praying for at least 1 heartbeat and no more than 2 babies. I got my wish. The ultrasound tech said she thought that it started off as twins but the other baby just didn't develop or was like a blighted ovum. But stranger things have happened. I'm slightly relieved it is just one, but at the same time it wouldn't be the end of the world if there was two. Bang for my buck.

Again, I miss you all and with you all the best. xo

fitterpam

Heather - sorry that the second one is seeming to arrest But yay on the one that seems to be thriving - that is all you can really ask for......It's such a happy thought that in less than a year you will be a mommy!!

epa422

Glad you got to see a heartbeat. I hope you find out soon what's going on with the other sac. But at the very least, I hope the first little bean keeps going strong.

kah78

Yay Heather! I'm sorry you didn't have two sticky beans, but then again, one is usually plenty. ;-) Hope things continue to go well for your pregnancy. Thanks for stopping by!

ucaminax

Hi Everyone!

Thanks again for the warm welcome. I am really impressed how everyone answers everyone else's posts! What a great group. So I thought I'd give it a try, though I have a bad short term memory and I can only remember a few names at a time ;-)

@ Luki-Congrats on no longer being in the "overweight category"! That is an amazing accomplishment. I am looking forward to that time! Wow!

@ Pam-I hope your tummy troubles get better soon, and I'm glad your appt went better than expected!

@Erin-I'm sorry about the lack of insurance-that upsets me when people need care they can't afford! I hope you either get a BFP soon, or at least get some coverage to get more info about what is going on. How frustrating!

@Heather-Congrats on the pregnancy, and I'm sorry about the blighted ovum :-(


I have been doing pretty well this week. I reread my post from Mon, and there was a typo-I weighed in at 156.2, not 162.2 (Thank God) I had said I wanted to get back down to 155 this week and I think I am on track. I have been doing my workouts, getting to bed early (except for Monday-11:30) and keeping within my calories. I have also been getting up at the same time to check my temp-it's been 97.02 for both days. I was surprised it was so low, but I guess that's normal? So from what I had read in my book, it had said charting tells you after you've ovulated, because of the temp rise, but someone had said that eventually you can get a couple days notice prior to O because of a dip? That's great-I hope I get the hang of it.

Good luck to everyone!
Kate

I'm excited