Things that make a man instantly hotter

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  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    A while back, some guy in the parking garage at my office building asked me if I liked his Maserati. I said "Don't know. I've never driven your Maserati. It could be a piece of crap." He looked at me like I just skinned his puppy. A real man would've accepted the challenge and tossed me the keys.

    No.

    A real man would have taken you for a ride that would make you wet your pants.
  • Alissa_Sal
    Alissa_Sal Posts: 141
    - for some reason, I like to think a man is physically fit, but does so without spending any time becoming fit. I don't like the idea of someone who spends hours at the gym to look a certain way. I prefer you to have a physically fit body without putting the work in. Be a little ashamed of it too, that helps.

    Harsh! How is it even possible to be physically fit without working out?
  • juleseybaby
    juleseybaby Posts: 712 Member
    How about being a stay at home dad and doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, bills, yardwork, and still massage my wife's feet after a hard days work?

    As long as this actually happens - then yes - it is hot. (Coming from a wifey that was the only one with a job at one point for more than a year and still did most of the grocery shopping, handled the bills, got no daily massage or even a regular one when there was a hard day, still had to clean, kids handled laundry and dishes... ummmmmk. So - yeah - he cooked 4 out of 7 nights and occasionally did yard work. Fortunately - things have improved in all areas.)
  • helenium
    helenium Posts: 546 Member
    - for some reason, I like to think a man is physically fit, but does so without spending any time becoming fit. I don't like the idea of someone who spends hours at the gym to look a certain way. I prefer you to have a physically fit body without putting the work in. Be a little ashamed of it too, that helps.

    Harsh! How is it even possible to be physically fit without working out?

    I have a weird friend and his hatred of being physically fit is rather adorable :P he has abs without even trying. He doesn't like having abs...
  • Artemis726
    Artemis726 Posts: 587 Member
    Marching to his own beat without being a sheep, being artistic/musical, being well read and intelligent, being a gentleman, being committed, scruff, lean muscles, expressive eyes, longerish hair, great smile, being a good dancer
  • cloudj9
    cloudj9 Posts: 66 Member
    a killer smile, and confidence
  • otr12
    otr12 Posts: 632 Member
    A while back, some guy in the parking garage at my office building asked me if I liked his Maserati. I said "Don't know. I've never driven your Maserati. It could be a piece of crap." He looked at me like I just skinned his puppy. A real man would've accepted the challenge and tossed me the keys.

    No.

    A real man would have taken you for a ride that would make you wet your pants.

    Agreed. No man is ever obligated to let ANYBODY drive his car.

    A bit slimy that he had to ask if you liked it though.

    Cars for driving = hot. Cars for status = gross.
  • shybelle
    shybelle Posts: 254 Member
    Manners: Especially if they hold my door open. That's the way to a southern girl's heart. haha

    Cologne: Nothing smells better than a man all cleaned up and smelling good

    Glasses: I don't know why...just always had a thing for glasses.

    Like kids: If he like kid's just gives him bonus points to me.

    Sense of Humor: gotta be able to laugh

    Straight Teeth: Looks aren't everything but I definitely love a guy with great teeth!
  • Myslissa
    Myslissa Posts: 760 Member
    Compassionate
    Passionate
  • gritgirl
    gritgirl Posts: 95 Member
    hey, when you get to your 40's, all the good ones are taken and apparently looking to hook up with someone besides their wife. it's the most common invite i sadly get nowadays. sigh.
  • StaceyL76
    StaceyL76 Posts: 711 Member
    That look that makes a woman cross her legs and twirl her hair with her fingers. Not all men can give you that look. It is indeed a skill. ; )
  • StaceyL76
    StaceyL76 Posts: 711 Member
    hey, when you get to your 40's, all the good ones are taken and apparently looking to hook up with someone besides their wife. it's the most common invite i sadly get nowadays. sigh.
    That sucks!
  • gritgirl
    gritgirl Posts: 95 Member
    Here's my real answer:

    - wit and intelligence (glasses add to that)
    - kindness and a sense of normal humility (ie, not arrogant)
    - self confidence and a willingness to take charge when needed and knowing when it's best to just sit back

    - knowing that that man has my back, no matter what. that one is the biggest turn on of all
  • katapple
    katapple Posts: 1,108 Member
    can carry a tune and doesn't have two left feet....funny since my husband of 10 years can't do either, but hey, he's got everything else going for him :)
  • liftingbro
    liftingbro Posts: 2,029 Member
    can carry a tune and doesn't have two left feet....funny since my husband of 10 years can't do either, but hey, he's got everything else going for him :)
    Good thing I already found mine.

    I can't dance. My wife says dancing with me is like trying to dance with a panicked herd of wildebeests.

    I can't sing either. When there's a good song on in the car and I sing to it my three year old daughter says, "Daddy...can you stop that?".
  • claudiamarquez
    claudiamarquez Posts: 1
    So... what you all are saying.. is that all that money I blew on a cool car was wasted?

    Crap.

    i prefer to be the one with the cool car =P, his car only needs to be taken care of and clean.
    and i prefer a man that actually knows how the car works, i love watching my husband take apart a motor and put it back together, he's so cute with all the grease on his face and stuff hehehe all that talent is just sexy!! :)
  • katapple
    katapple Posts: 1,108 Member
    can carry a tune and doesn't have two left feet....funny since my husband of 10 years can't do either, but hey, he's got everything else going for him :)
    Good thing I already found mine.

    I can't dance. My wife says dancing with me is like trying to dance with a panicked herd of wildebeests.

    I can't sing either. When there's a good song on in the car and I sing to it my three year old daughter says, "Daddy...can you stop that?".

    So funny! See, since the thread wasn't about what I want in my husband, I felt it was ok to say what make a guy go from cute to hot. My husband is fully aware that one day we will take a dance class together, he's a lots cause on the voice though ;-P
  • liftingbro
    liftingbro Posts: 2,029 Member
    can carry a tune and doesn't have two left feet....funny since my husband of 10 years can't do either, but hey, he's got everything else going for him :)
    Good thing I already found mine.

    I can't dance. My wife says dancing with me is like trying to dance with a panicked herd of wildebeests.

    I can't sing either. When there's a good song on in the car and I sing to it my three year old daughter says, "Daddy...can you stop that?".

    So funny! See, since the thread wasn't about what I want in my husband, I felt it was ok to say what make a guy go from cute to hot. My husband is fully aware that one day we will take a dance class together, he's a lots cause on the voice though ;-P

    My wife keeps threatening me with dance classes. That would be like going to detention for me. I'm not good at dancing and don't like dancing.
  • brattyworm
    brattyworm Posts: 2,137 Member
    can carry a tune and doesn't have two left feet....funny since my husband of 10 years can't do either, but hey, he's got everything else going for him :)
    Good thing I already found mine.

    I can't dance. My wife says dancing with me is like trying to dance with a panicked herd of wildebeests.

    I can't sing either. When there's a good song on in the car and I sing to it my three year old daughter says, "Daddy...can you stop that?".

    So funny! See, since the thread wasn't about what I want in my husband, I felt it was ok to say what make a guy go from cute to hot. My husband is fully aware that one day we will take a dance class together, he's a lots cause on the voice though ;-P

    My wife keeps threatening me with dance classes. That would be like going to detention for me. I'm not good at dancing and don't like dancing.

    but it allows you to hold her, and accidently rub things while you're trying to get the right position and could be lots of fun... i have gotten mine to agree to go to them..
  • liftingbro
    liftingbro Posts: 2,029 Member
    can carry a tune and doesn't have two left feet....funny since my husband of 10 years can't do either, but hey, he's got everything else going for him :)
    Good thing I already found mine.

    I can't dance. My wife says dancing with me is like trying to dance with a panicked herd of wildebeests.

    I can't sing either. When there's a good song on in the car and I sing to it my three year old daughter says, "Daddy...can you stop that?".

    So funny! See, since the thread wasn't about what I want in my husband, I felt it was ok to say what make a guy go from cute to hot. My husband is fully aware that one day we will take a dance class together, he's a lots cause on the voice though ;-P

    My wife keeps threatening me with dance classes. That would be like going to detention for me. I'm not good at dancing and don't like dancing.

    but it allows you to hold her, and accidently rub things while you're trying to get the right position and could be lots of fun... i have gotten mine to agree to go to them..

    I can do that on the couch at home while watching football, eating a sandwich and drinking a beer. :laugh:
  • katapple
    katapple Posts: 1,108 Member
    can carry a tune and doesn't have two left feet....funny since my husband of 10 years can't do either, but hey, he's got everything else going for him :)
    Good thing I already found mine.

    I can't dance. My wife says dancing with me is like trying to dance with a panicked herd of wildebeests.

    I can't sing either. When there's a good song on in the car and I sing to it my three year old daughter says, "Daddy...can you stop that?".

    So funny! See, since the thread wasn't about what I want in my husband, I felt it was ok to say what make a guy go from cute to hot. My husband is fully aware that one day we will take a dance class together, he's a lots cause on the voice though ;-P

    My wife keeps threatening me with dance classes. That would be like going to detention for me. I'm not good at dancing and don't like dancing.

    but it allows you to hold her, and accidently rub things while you're trying to get the right position and could be lots of fun... i have gotten mine to agree to go to them..

    I can do that on the couch at home while watching football, eating a sandwich and drinking a beer. :laugh:

    BUT...doing it this way means you are WAY more likely to get lucky later :) (especially since you are instantly hotter now)
  • liftingbro
    liftingbro Posts: 2,029 Member
    can carry a tune and doesn't have two left feet....funny since my husband of 10 years can't do either, but hey, he's got everything else going for him :)
    Good thing I already found mine.

    I can't dance. My wife says dancing with me is like trying to dance with a panicked herd of wildebeests.

    I can't sing either. When there's a good song on in the car and I sing to it my three year old daughter says, "Daddy...can you stop that?".

    So funny! See, since the thread wasn't about what I want in my husband, I felt it was ok to say what make a guy go from cute to hot. My husband is fully aware that one day we will take a dance class together, he's a lots cause on the voice though ;-P

    My wife keeps threatening me with dance classes. That would be like going to detention for me. I'm not good at dancing and don't like dancing.

    but it allows you to hold her, and accidently rub things while you're trying to get the right position and could be lots of fun... i have gotten mine to agree to go to them..

    I can do that on the couch at home while watching football, eating a sandwich and drinking a beer. :laugh:

    BUT...doing it this way means you are WAY more likely to get lucky later :) (especially since you are instantly hotter now)

    Or I can just do the dishes and give here a back rub, works everytime.
  • mrphil86
    mrphil86 Posts: 2,382 Member
    can carry a tune and doesn't have two left feet....funny since my husband of 10 years can't do either, but hey, he's got everything else going for him :)
    Good thing I already found mine.

    I can't dance. My wife says dancing with me is like trying to dance with a panicked herd of wildebeests.

    I can't sing either. When there's a good song on in the car and I sing to it my three year old daughter says, "Daddy...can you stop that?".

    So funny! See, since the thread wasn't about what I want in my husband, I felt it was ok to say what make a guy go from cute to hot. My husband is fully aware that one day we will take a dance class together, he's a lots cause on the voice though ;-P

    My wife keeps threatening me with dance classes. That would be like going to detention for me. I'm not good at dancing and don't like dancing.

    but it allows you to hold her, and accidently rub things while you're trying to get the right position and could be lots of fun... i have gotten mine to agree to go to them..

    I can do that on the couch at home while watching football, eating a sandwich and drinking a beer. :laugh:

    BUT...doing it this way means you are WAY more likely to get lucky later :) (especially since you are instantly hotter now)

    Or I can just do the dishes and give here a back rub, works everytime.

    Too much work
  • liftingbro
    liftingbro Posts: 2,029 Member


    Too much work

    Yeah, but if it's that or dancing..........back rub it is.
  • brattyworm
    brattyworm Posts: 2,137 Member
    can carry a tune and doesn't have two left feet....funny since my husband of 10 years can't do either, but hey, he's got everything else going for him :)
    Good thing I already found mine.

    I can't dance. My wife says dancing with me is like trying to dance with a panicked herd of wildebeests.

    I can't sing either. When there's a good song on in the car and I sing to it my three year old daughter says, "Daddy...can you stop that?".

    So funny! See, since the thread wasn't about what I want in my husband, I felt it was ok to say what make a guy go from cute to hot. My husband is fully aware that one day we will take a dance class together, he's a lots cause on the voice though ;-P

    My wife keeps threatening me with dance classes. That would be like going to detention for me. I'm not good at dancing and don't like dancing.

    but it allows you to hold her, and accidently rub things while you're trying to get the right position and could be lots of fun... i have gotten mine to agree to go to them..

    I can do that on the couch at home while watching football, eating a sandwich and drinking a beer. :laugh:


    but then you dont have the added excitement of trying to do so without being seen by the others... or if you're voyeuristic... then you dont get the joy of others watching lol... its all part of that flirting thing... i have to say when i did training with my hubby (now it wasn't dancing it was asp (the baton type thing cops have) training and we did that and it sooo made me want to jump him right there... lol. just saying
  • mrphil86
    mrphil86 Posts: 2,382 Member


    Too much work

    Yeah, but if it's that or dancing..........back rub it is.

    I'll just Al Bundy it. Hands half-way in my pants and watch TV. I'm sure no woman can resist that.
  • VelcroPooh
    VelcroPooh Posts: 152
    Too much work

    That made me think of another one:

    Knows that relationships are work and that they have to put forth effort :)
  • CasperO
    CasperO Posts: 2,913 Member
    tattoos
    I got my tattoo before I got married and my wife doesn't really care for it and doesn't want me to get anymore. Most other people like it though.
    Yea, a tattoo kind of would have been a deal breaker. My husband feels the same way.
    I have a couple of tattoos. I had one of them before we married and got the other many years after. I don't give a damn if she likes them or not. That might not make me hot, but it does make me a man. :smile:
  • bree2012
    bree2012 Posts: 179
    Hmm...if he can sat the alphabet backwards without stumbling...that's pretty hot. JK!
  • jipper44
    jipper44 Posts: 111
    The ability to take care of your own stuff. I'm not your mother.
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