Things that make a man instantly hotter

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  • Angie80281
    Angie80281 Posts: 444 Member
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    For me, it's a southern drawl. Gets me every time!
  • JediMaster_intraining
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    nice eyes
    intelligence
    spontaneity
    charm
    doesn't play video games for more than 1 hour...
  • keb80
    keb80 Posts: 394
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    confidence with just a touch of arrogance
    seeing the muscles in his jaw flexing... :love:
    tattoos
    some facial hair
    strong, big hands
  • jamiesgotagun
    jamiesgotagun Posts: 670 Member
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    being a firefighter =)
  • writtenINthestars
    writtenINthestars Posts: 1,933 Member
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    ...a man in uniform whether it be PD, FD, military. Dedication to helping others or fighting for this country is a huge turn on.

    Oh yes and having your own car, tats and piercings are always fun. =)
  • coesch
    coesch Posts: 8 Member
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    When he realizes it's all about me! LOL ...
    Sweet and Romantic with a nice smile and bedroom eyes!
  • Mkleder
    Mkleder Posts: 289
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    Doesn't treat his car like a landfill.
    Opens doors, offers his arm on dates.
    Asks for a date and has something planned, instead of "let's hang out."
    Actually fixing something instead of just bragging that he can, then not do it.
    Does NOT roll down the car/truck windows and blast the stereo when "Fat Bottom Girls" comes on the radio when we're out together.
    Replacing TP rolls and changing lightbulbs without being asked.
  • TenLaws
    TenLaws Posts: 273
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    KNOWING that I want him
  • lgwmab
    lgwmab Posts: 274 Member
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    motorcyle (Harley Davidson a must!) .. tatts ..scruffy facial hair mmm like a goatee .. compassion.. stands behind and up for his women.. knows what he wants .. and goes for it! .. confidence but not a ego .. rough hands (nothin freaks me out more than a guy who's hands are softer than mine!!) a querky sence of humor .. can laugh at himself ... loyalty and principles --and sticks to them no matter what !! ..
    Oh yes! A Harley does that as well, maybe that's what attracted me to my old man, the Harley.
  • Dyna18
    Dyna18 Posts: 17
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    Replacing TP rolls without being asked.


    chuckles .... now THAT hunny ... is a keeper .. LOL:laugh:
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
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    A while back, some guy in the parking garage at my office building asked me if I liked his Maserati. I said "Don't know. I've never driven your Maserati. It could be a piece of crap." He looked at me like I just skinned his puppy. A real man would've accepted the challenge and tossed me the keys.

    No.

    A real man would have taken you for a ride that would make you wet your pants.
  • Alissa_Sal
    Alissa_Sal Posts: 141
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    - for some reason, I like to think a man is physically fit, but does so without spending any time becoming fit. I don't like the idea of someone who spends hours at the gym to look a certain way. I prefer you to have a physically fit body without putting the work in. Be a little ashamed of it too, that helps.

    Harsh! How is it even possible to be physically fit without working out?
  • juleseybaby
    juleseybaby Posts: 712 Member
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    How about being a stay at home dad and doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, bills, yardwork, and still massage my wife's feet after a hard days work?

    As long as this actually happens - then yes - it is hot. (Coming from a wifey that was the only one with a job at one point for more than a year and still did most of the grocery shopping, handled the bills, got no daily massage or even a regular one when there was a hard day, still had to clean, kids handled laundry and dishes... ummmmmk. So - yeah - he cooked 4 out of 7 nights and occasionally did yard work. Fortunately - things have improved in all areas.)
  • helenium
    helenium Posts: 546 Member
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    - for some reason, I like to think a man is physically fit, but does so without spending any time becoming fit. I don't like the idea of someone who spends hours at the gym to look a certain way. I prefer you to have a physically fit body without putting the work in. Be a little ashamed of it too, that helps.

    Harsh! How is it even possible to be physically fit without working out?

    I have a weird friend and his hatred of being physically fit is rather adorable :P he has abs without even trying. He doesn't like having abs...
  • Artemis726
    Artemis726 Posts: 587 Member
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    Marching to his own beat without being a sheep, being artistic/musical, being well read and intelligent, being a gentleman, being committed, scruff, lean muscles, expressive eyes, longerish hair, great smile, being a good dancer
  • cloudj9
    cloudj9 Posts: 66 Member
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    a killer smile, and confidence
  • otr12
    otr12 Posts: 632 Member
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    A while back, some guy in the parking garage at my office building asked me if I liked his Maserati. I said "Don't know. I've never driven your Maserati. It could be a piece of crap." He looked at me like I just skinned his puppy. A real man would've accepted the challenge and tossed me the keys.

    No.

    A real man would have taken you for a ride that would make you wet your pants.

    Agreed. No man is ever obligated to let ANYBODY drive his car.

    A bit slimy that he had to ask if you liked it though.

    Cars for driving = hot. Cars for status = gross.
  • shybelle
    shybelle Posts: 254 Member
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    Manners: Especially if they hold my door open. That's the way to a southern girl's heart. haha

    Cologne: Nothing smells better than a man all cleaned up and smelling good

    Glasses: I don't know why...just always had a thing for glasses.

    Like kids: If he like kid's just gives him bonus points to me.

    Sense of Humor: gotta be able to laugh

    Straight Teeth: Looks aren't everything but I definitely love a guy with great teeth!
  • Myslissa
    Myslissa Posts: 760 Member
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    Compassionate
    Passionate
  • gritgirl
    gritgirl Posts: 95 Member
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    hey, when you get to your 40's, all the good ones are taken and apparently looking to hook up with someone besides their wife. it's the most common invite i sadly get nowadays. sigh.