Do you think you're attractive?

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  • RobDelco
    RobDelco Posts: 56
    I am a strong beautiful white man who don't need no creatine.
  • samandlucysmum
    samandlucysmum Posts: 320
    Nope, not me! How can I be at 25 stone!! I have a 60 inch waist!! and 70inch hips!!
    I long for the day when I fell like I look attractive, my husband thinks I am though.
  • GoldenGirl1979
    GoldenGirl1979 Posts: 716 Member
    attractive is an understatement for you... gorgeous is the word!
    yes, i do! but i also suffer from high self-esteem :laugh:
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    awww... thanks doc!! you're so sweet!! & you're pretty good looking yourself :wink:
  • monroe61
    monroe61 Posts: 620 Member
    nope not at all...even in the slightest.
  • artemis222
    artemis222 Posts: 390 Member
    Sometimes I think I'm attractive when I'm getting ready in my own bathroom and mirror. Then, I go outside and see myself in a shop mirror or in the reflection in a widow. The little confidence I had then shatters.

    I have very little self confidence, that's true, but I am working on it.

    In short: Meh
  • galegetsthin
    galegetsthin Posts: 1,340 Member
    It really depends on the day. Some days, absolutely! I mean, I dont think I will be winning any beauty pageants or anything, but attractive ~ maybe even pretty on a really good day. There are other days though, where I look in the mirror and cannot find a single thing that I like. I can be pretty mean to myself. I see me mostly as very plain, nothing special.
  • jamiem1102
    jamiem1102 Posts: 1,196 Member
    I think like most people, there are times that I feel attractive, and there are times when I REALLY don't. I think it also depends on the people I'm around too. Some of my friends make me feel pretty insecure... and even though insecurity makes me feel crappy, I almost like it, because I often times use it as motivation. Is that totally sick?
  • sportsjunkee70
    sportsjunkee70 Posts: 173 Member
    Sometimes I think I'm attractive when I'm getting ready in my own bathroom and mirror. Then, I go outside and see myself in a shop mirror or in the reflection in a widow. The little confidence I had then shatters.

    I have very little self confidence, that's true, but I am working on it.

    In short: Meh


    You're very attractive!
  • FinallyFitAce
    FinallyFitAce Posts: 40
    I feel ugly therefore, I am ugly.
  • FabulouslyFitTam
    FabulouslyFitTam Posts: 70 Member
    I do. I had really low self-esteem for a long time, which led to a long battle with eating disorders. I'm at a really healthy point in my life and not only do I think I'm attractive - I absolutely, positively LOVE myself :-)
  • sinistertitan
    sinistertitan Posts: 603 Member
    I think I'm right around average. I seem to get told otherwise all the time though......
  • teagin2002
    teagin2002 Posts: 1,900 Member
    bump cause the other got locked :flowerforyou:
  • Gwendalyne
    Gwendalyne Posts: 287 Member
    yes, i do! but i also suffer from high self-esteem :laugh:

    hahaha that's too funny, but I agree w/cakedoc you are gorgeous...and I would never know you suffered from high self esteem lol...you are always so modest :)

    BTW...I think I look Great, and hubby always confirms =)
  • CAKEDOC
    CAKEDOC Posts: 110 Member
    thanks my friend :)
    attractive is an understatement for you... gorgeous is the word!
    yes, i do! but i also suffer from high self-esteem :laugh:

    awww... thanks doc!! you're so sweet!! & you're pretty good looking yourself :wink:
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  • mab33
    mab33 Posts: 242 Member
    Its kinda funny when i was at my thinnest I used to think I was ugly. Now that Im bigger I can look back and see wow I was pretty. At the moment I think I look good for someone my weight. Not the best but not the worst either. Im just trying to lose some weight to boost my confidence
    I feel ugly therefore, I am ugly.

    Ditto to both of these.

    Working on it. People used to say the older I got the prettier I got. That stopped a couple years ago. Trying to get the pretty back and build up some self-confidence. Although my best friend once told me I could never be hot (too short).
  • galegetsthin
    galegetsthin Posts: 1,340 Member
    It really depends on the day. Some days, absolutely! I mean, I dont think I will be winning any beauty pageants or anything, but attractive ~ maybe even pretty on a really good day. There are other days though, where I look in the mirror and cannot find a single thing that I like. I can be pretty mean to myself. I see me mostly as very plain, nothing special
  • giggles1973
    giggles1973 Posts: 143 Member
    Your all beautiful in one way or another...

    AGREED!!! :)
  • giggles1973
    giggles1973 Posts: 143 Member
    I think everybody is attractive :) I hope this doesn't sound obnoxious but I think I'm just as attractive dressed up as I do in pajamas. To me attractiveness is being a great mom, a great wife ( Im pretty sure my husband agrees lol) a great friend and is loving to everybody. So I have about 15 lbs to lose, my weight doesn't define who I am. Clearly I don't have a self esteem issue lol but I just wish instead of looking in the mirror and thinking what could change everybody would look in the mirror and see how great they already are :)
  • GoldenGirl1979
    GoldenGirl1979 Posts: 716 Member
    yes, i do! but i also suffer from high self-esteem :laugh:

    hahaha that's too funny, but I agree w/cakedoc you are gorgeous...and I would never know you suffered from high self esteem lol...you are always so modest :)

    BTW...I think I look Great, and hubby always confirms =)

    awww... thanks gwen!!! & yes i do think very highly of myself, but i am also modest, b/c self confidence is one thing, but being arrogant & conceited is another & i'm certainly not that!!!

    & ummmm... yeah, there's absolutely NO doubt that you are stunningly beautiful!!!
  • Gwendalyne
    Gwendalyne Posts: 287 Member
    yes, i do! but i also suffer from high self-esteem :laugh:

    hahaha that's too funny, but I agree w/cakedoc you are gorgeous...and I would never know you suffered from high self esteem lol...you are always so modest :)

    BTW...I think I look Great, and hubby always confirms =)

    awww... thanks gwen!!! & yes i do think very highly of myself, but i am also modest, b/c self confidence is one thing, but being arrogant & conceited is another & i'm certainly not that!!!

    & ummmm... yeah, there's absolutely NO doubt that you are stunningly beautiful!!!

    I completely agree w/you...you are one of the sweetest people I know :flowerforyou:
  • hungryandgrumpy
    hungryandgrumpy Posts: 32
    It just takes one person to think you're attractive for you to be attractive....


    still looking for that one person :P jk
  • plaid405
    plaid405 Posts: 33 Member
    Grandma always told me pretty is as pretty does. I think she's right!
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    I never did... But....... My confidence is getting better so I suppose I am getting there.
  • klbaierwalter
    klbaierwalter Posts: 308 Member
    I guess it jst depends on the day. Lately I feel like as I'm losing weight, I look at myself and keep telling myself "Well that's still not good enough."

    There are some day when I think I do look attractive. I was at work last Thursday and I kept getting compliments from my co-workers, so I felt more attractive then.
  • WishfulShrinking21
    WishfulShrinking21 Posts: 19 Member
    When I look at pictures of my old self, yeah, I actually can look back and say I think I was attractive..now though, my bloated face just makes me look like a complete different person. I hate how I look and its giving me LOTS of motivation to lose this weight!

    I'd actually just settle for a jawline again haha
  • onmywaytoskinny155
    onmywaytoskinny155 Posts: 228 Member
    Nope and I probably never will especially with the 60 extra pounds I am carrying around.
  • Hannaca1992
    Hannaca1992 Posts: 20
    No.
  • brindlechewy
    brindlechewy Posts: 84 Member
    Whenever I go out and people don't laugh, throw things, or chase me with torches, it's a good day. So I guess that makes me a no. :laugh:
  • sambo155
    sambo155 Posts: 88
    No. Never have, skinny or fat. When I was pregnant, of course I wanted my baby girl to be healthy first and second was to NOT look like me. She's came out looking just like me... but a cute version.
  • VictorianJade
    VictorianJade Posts: 705 Member
    Most of the time I think I'm reasonably attractive. I have a nice face, at the very least.

    Some days are bad days. Most days aren't.
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