Do you think you're attractive?

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  • mo_is_here
    mo_is_here Posts: 95
    hell to the no.
  • BettyyRoss
    BettyyRoss Posts: 100 Member
    I think I'm one sexy *****!!
  • trainlikekatniss
    trainlikekatniss Posts: 48
    Not at all
  • yesthistime
    yesthistime Posts: 2,051 Member
    Ha ha i never thought i was all my life but as i get older i look at my pics of before and i think dang i was cute back then y didnt i just enjoy it and keep my head up? But i look at me now and think well i guess the best years are past me now. I try not to think that way. But the extra weight sure does not help

    Yes.
  • chauncyrenayCHANGED
    chauncyrenayCHANGED Posts: 788 Member

    Nerd answer: Research has shown that most people's estimation of their appearance is slightly inflated when compared to what other people think. True story.

    Pretty sure it was that men rated themselves higher and women rated themselves lower. Although, there are probably a few studies out there...
  • mikki629
    mikki629 Posts: 37
    Ha ha i never thought i was all my life but as i get older i look at my pics of before and i think dang i was cute back then y didnt i just enjoy it and keep my head up?

    I feel this exact same way! I look at pictures of myself before having my son and go "WOW! I actually did look hot!" when the whole time back then I just had a horrible idea about how I looked. I'm hoping to get back to how I looked then.


    But to the OP's question... I have days were I think I look 'OK' and days were I think I should just stay at home and hide in the dark. It really depends on the time of the month and my general daily attitude. I wish I had better self esteem, but if I was hard on myself when I did actually look good, I guess thinking I'm 'OK' on my best days now is a good way to go. Here's to hoping I can get better on being nice to myself.
  • Lambiii
    Lambiii Posts: 321
    nope, i think i'm a nice person, but not attractive.. maybe when i start getting healthier i will :)
  • 879311
    879311 Posts: 60
    Nope. Not at all
  • teagin2002
    teagin2002 Posts: 1,900 Member
    I have always felt beautiful, but after dropping over 100lbs I must say I feel HOT!!! and love the way I look. I am still not done as I would like to see those muscles, then I will be the bomb!!! lol
  • thesarahsundae
    thesarahsundae Posts: 240 Member
    I think I'm cute. :tongue:
  • mduvall612
    mduvall612 Posts: 9
    Most days I think I am, but I don't seem to turn heads as much as I did in my 20's. LOL!!!! Overall, I'm happy with my apperance and keep in mind that my opinion is all that matters:)
  • dmpizza
    dmpizza Posts: 3,321 Member
    <<<<<< I have chiseled features.

    Seriously though, I am a decent looking guy.
  • thekat78
    thekat78 Posts: 70 Member
    I've never thought that I was attractive physcally. Maybe a cute face and a cute smile. But that's about as far as it goes. :( Hard walking around sometimes.
  • sjmgde
    sjmgde Posts: 381 Member
    I thinki hold my own:embarassed:
  • Sabresgal63
    Sabresgal63 Posts: 641 Member
    Yes, for 48 I think I am:bigsmile:
  • MariaAlbinaxoxo
    MariaAlbinaxoxo Posts: 290 Member
    Days like today when I'm wearing a lot of makeup I think I look good, but when I first wake up in the morning and slip on my fuzzy robe, I hate to look in the mirror. But no matter how much makeup I have on, I never feel like I'm good looking enough for a boyfriend. weird..
  • adamsonam
    adamsonam Posts: 127
    No I do not and never have. :frown:
  • mathgirl
    mathgirl Posts: 61 Member
    No.
  • gabbingfilly
    gabbingfilly Posts: 106 Member
    I have my days. If I have time to do my makeup and hair, I feel pretty awesome. On the days that I don't, I don't feel the greatest about myself. Plus, I'm sure I will have that much more self esteem once I lose quite a bit of weight.
  • JThomas61
    JThomas61 Posts: 892
    At 51 years old I think I am
  • jeannicoleau
    jeannicoleau Posts: 194 Member
    I am Hot, Sexy and Confident!!!:drinker:
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    I think I am an adorable puppy!!
  • sms1986
    sms1986 Posts: 113 Member
    I'm not the most attractive man around, but I wouldn't ever call myself ugly.
  • lizdavis07
    lizdavis07 Posts: 766 Member
    it's weird, but i think i look my best immediately after waking up in the mornings...it's like i have this "morning glow"

    but other than that...mehhh
  • Jipples
    Jipples Posts: 650 Member
    Insecurity is a *****......sometimes I think I'm ok.....but most often, not.
  • brittanyjeanxo
    brittanyjeanxo Posts: 1,831 Member
    9 times out of ten, definitely. I look at myself in the mirror and I just glow sometimes. I know it's weird to think of myself that way, but I just look and think, is that really me? I guess I think I LOOK beautiful, but I don't feel it sometimes. Then there are other days where I look at myself and see a big, greasy, fat slob and think, ugh, is THAT really me?!
  • stormieweather
    stormieweather Posts: 2,549 Member
    Hmm, well I used to. I was a model and actress so knew I had some level of attractiveness. I've had a bit of an adjustment to make as age has changed me . And then, to get fat on top of it all has really been a blow. I have a hard time balancing loving myself with the desire to improve myself. I've decided that there are things I can make better and things I just have to accept. So I'll work on what I can change (fitness/muscles) and not worry about the rest :flowerforyou:
  • eyestylemom
    eyestylemom Posts: 107 Member
    Eh...it comes and goes. This week because its the week before my period...not so much. But the week after my period...when the bloat is gone and the hormones have steadied a bit, I can be.
  • achbarrow
    achbarrow Posts: 325 Member
    Depends on the day, anxiety can cause me to doubt the way I look but I'm getting a lot better. I think most times I'm described as cute.
  • Fayve
    Fayve Posts: 406 Member
    I used to, but i think my self-esteem has been in a downward spiral since I started trying to lose weight, hmm.
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