In love with flatmate, what to do?

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  • BondBomb
    BondBomb Posts: 1,781 Member
    Although I have become a cynic when it comes to love - this really made me happy!
    Im so glad it worked out for you both! And he IS a lucky guy.
  • dragonbait0126
    dragonbait0126 Posts: 568 Member
    YEH!!!! I'm so happy for you! I'm doing a happy dance for you. Happy Dance, Happy Dance! I wish you both all the best!
  • paigemarie93
    paigemarie93 Posts: 778 Member
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    He served the dessert and sat right next to me taking my hand and told me that any girl might be lucky to have him, but he would be lucky to have me.

    We are going to spend the day at the beach and have ourselves a picnic before going to my family, he really wants to ask my dad for his permission to date me :happy:

    I swear this this stuff doesn't happen in real life! So cute *wipes tears from eyes* This is so beautiful!
  • Genie30
    Genie30 Posts: 316 Member
    Lucky girl! Hold on to that one :flowerforyou:
  • kabloozi
    kabloozi Posts: 119 Member
    OH MY GOODNESS!!!! I was so happy to log in today and read your wonderful news! I am smiling on the inside out for you two!

    Congratulations and keeps us posted-it is so special and like a novel. So nice, so sweet...enjoy the beach and hope it is a good visit at your family's house.

    Ahhh pure happy. :love:
  • jackpotclown
    jackpotclown Posts: 3,275 Member
    That is so great....congrats to you both. Things should get a lot easier from here out. I wouldn't worry too much about the physical stuff as it really should come naturally, and I don't think you'll have to force the issue. Besides, it's a natural thing to want more, so take your time and enjoy it! Do yourselves a favor and get out of your heads because you could have resolved this much sooner by being a bit more forthright :wink: . Anyway, thanks so much for following up as you've held a lot of people in suspense, yet made us reflect on how great our own relationships have been as well. Kudos to you \m/
  • jlewis2896
    jlewis2896 Posts: 763 Member
    Aw, now I'm smile-crying at work!!!

    :) High five.
  • loveliisa
    loveliisa Posts: 47
    This is the sweetest story I've ever heard!! :) I'm so happy for you two!
  • therealangd
    therealangd Posts: 1,861 Member
    What a great ending. Your evening sounded wonderful.
  • kb455
    kb455 Posts: 679 Member
    Awwww... this is just sweet. I'm so glad to hear it went well :-)
  • determinedsocialworker
    determinedsocialworker Posts: 108 Member
    I had to force myself to read through from where I stopped last night... very happy for you!!! Sounds like you guys are lucky! Enjoy the moments..and don't rush them. :)
  • Radcliffe83
    Radcliffe83 Posts: 82
    Late to this thread but loved it!
  • rwozzie
    rwozzie Posts: 24 Member
    Reading how your night went just made my day! Congratulations and best of luck to the both of you!
  • quara
    quara Posts: 255 Member
    So sweet!! So glad things went so well :D
  • vinylscratch
    vinylscratch Posts: 218 Member
    OH MY GOD YES!!!
  • niknak2308
    niknak2308 Posts: 315 Member
    Aw that's so very sweet :) actually made me well up!

    And as for the laying together, that's just one bonus of feeling that comfortable with someone :wink:

    I wish you all the best :drinker:
  • fabi8081
    fabi8081 Posts: 232 Member
    This is sooo amazing!!! He totally reminds me of my husband. Congrats!!!!:flowerforyou:
  • Bysshe
    Bysshe Posts: 428 Member
    I'm so happy this went well!!!
    That is SO romantic!
    I actually teared up a little reading what went down.
    And that is SO sweet that he is asking your dad permission to date you!
    <3 Happy for you guys!!!
  • StacyAS999
    StacyAS999 Posts: 107 Member
    Hooray! That's so sweet and exciting, I am so happy it ended well! And is beginning well! :happy:
  • cprice05
    cprice05 Posts: 82 Member
    YAY!!! Big hugs and I'm soooo happy for you!
  • Finding_Tina
    Finding_Tina Posts: 48 Member
    I am so happy that things worked out so well last night. Your night sounded lovely. Congrats!
  • ryall70
    ryall70 Posts: 519 Member
    I have wondered all day how it went. I am so glad it all turned out well. Congratulations!!!! :flowerforyou:
  • sunkisses
    sunkisses Posts: 2,365 Member
    You let him keep cooking like that for you, and he won't be carrying you anywhere anymore. LOL :tongue: kiddin'
    I'm glad it worked out well for you both. Good job playing it cool, too.
  • krystonite
    krystonite Posts: 553 Member
    I live with one of the most amazing guys ever!! He cooks and even packs me lunch every morning and on special occasions I even get a chocolate for college.

    So he does stuff that is generally tendered to female gender roles? Fantastic! Marry him!
  • CouchSpud
    CouchSpud Posts: 557 Member
    awhh this is such a cute fairytale...




    now pass me the left over waffles... I think I will be depressed ...


    But honestly, very happy for you, such a nice story.
  • embersfallen
    embersfallen Posts: 534 Member
    so sweet!!!! I literally paged through 12 or 13 pages to find your response to how things went! :) And clapped my hands like a little kid reading that it went SO preciously! :bigsmile: So amazing he wants to ask your dad for permission to date you! Barely ever hear that kind of thing... best wishes to you my dear! May this be the start of something incredible for you both!! :flowerforyou:
  • foodfight247
    foodfight247 Posts: 767 Member
    Left off on page 7 the other day....had to read from where I left off so I didn't miss anything! lol...

    Wow....Really pleased. Sounds like a really nice guy. Wish you both the very best from here on in.

    The suspense was getting the better of me.

    Aww. Big Smile.
  • kme2011
    kme2011 Posts: 100 Member
    He sounds like a keeper. Dont let that one go! Hold on tight! Lol
  • Bahet
    Bahet Posts: 1,254 Member
    I NEED ANOTHER UPDATE!!!!
  • Munchi8175
    Munchi8175 Posts: 73 Member
    He served the dessert and sat right next to me taking my hand and told me that any girl might be lucky to have him, but he would be lucky to have me.

    I laughed so loud feeling the tears run down my cheeks as he tries to wipe them off with a napkin. I just kept hugging him and didn't feel like eating the dessert as long as I get to stay in his arms the whole evening. He picked me up and carried me into the living room where we spent the rest of the evening talking about all those special moments we shared but never confessed our feelings to each other. I eventually passed away and woke up in my room this morning so I guessed he carried to my room lol

    We are going to spend the day at the beach and have ourselves a picnic before going to my family, he really wants to ask my dad for his permission to date me :happy:

    Question: I loved laying in his arms last night but would it be inappropriate just to have him lay next to me each and every night to feel his embrace?

    I just knew that it would work out if you told him how you feel! I think that what makes this so special is that you have all this "history" from being friends and roommates, and now that friendship can develop/morph into something so much more. I also think it's adorable that he wants to ask permission to date you. That's really sweet and it's not often that you find guys like that these days. Sounds like he's a keeper! As far as it being okay to lay with each other for the closeness without being intimate, I think that as long as you are both okay with it, go for it!! One of my co-workers went on a 1st date with her husband, got tired and fell asleep in his arms, and as it turns out, she never went home! LOL One day kept running into the next and they just kept making more plans, and before she knew it he said she may as well move in since she was always there. And now they're married! I hope we will occasionally hear more updates!
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