In love with flatmate, what to do?

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  • lindalou0703
    lindalou0703 Posts: 226 Member
    bump
  • JRRCLR
    JRRCLR Posts: 338 Member
    Bump! Good luck Honey!
  • mrtentaclenun
    mrtentaclenun Posts: 174 Member
    Bump. I wanna know how it went!
  • pucenavel
    pucenavel Posts: 972 Member
    Wasn't this the plot of several movies?

    Matters not - I'm a hopeless romantic - what happened??!!
  • DanceForever904
    DanceForever904 Posts: 611 Member
    i feel like im listening to a movie ....what happend!!! im so curious and hope everything went good!!!!!!
  • TurtleRunnerNC
    TurtleRunnerNC Posts: 751 Member
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  • YukonJoy
    YukonJoy Posts: 1,279 Member
    DONT tell him you love him.. This is scary when it happens.. Do something nice.. dinner is a good suggestion.. Maybe drink a bit if you're old enough.. And let him drink a bit too.. Make a move.. If you don't - you'll always wonder 'what could've been'.. If you're scared of getting rejected.. Be more subtle about how you feel.. Down play your feelings for him. Tell him you think he's cute when he does those lunches and things for you.. But with meaning. If he continues to do them - he's totally into you. If not - he thinks its weird you think its cute and he's just doing it to be nice.. I doubt it though..

    Or just straight up tell him that you're into him. Ask him on a date.. ??? But let him know it's a date.. and not just as roomies :)

    Youre gorgeous and I'm sure he thinks it too.. GO GET HIM TIGER!!!

    I would really advise against "making a move". That could end really really badly. I would advise against being drunk too.

    I was in love with my best friend for a really long time. He was my next door neighbour. I kept dropping hints but he never got it, the big buffoon.

    One day we were at the pool together and I told him how I felt. It was empty but I just thought a public place would make it less awkward somehow. I think that's personal perference.

    But I really think you should talk to him, not make a move. If you just make a move it could end badly after and ruin your friendship.

    If you tell him how you feel and you are both mature about whatever response he gives then life will go on..Either together or seperate :)

    He is not going to judge you for telling him. Men are not like women. It will be okay, sweetie :smooched: Good luck.
  • devilsangel2
    devilsangel2 Posts: 123 Member
    Did she??? Did he???? Dying to know how the story ends :smile:
  • silhouettes
    silhouettes Posts: 517 Member
    Good luck!
  • stufie
    stufie Posts: 142 Member
    Just found this whole thread, did she decide to tell him?? Oh the suspense!

    Bump
  • catniss
    catniss Posts: 326 Member
    bump--I totally believe in happy endings--let us know!
  • chicky89
    chicky89 Posts: 260 Member
    bump :)
  • radosti1
    radosti1 Posts: 198 Member
    The suspense is killing me!
  • cassblue21
    cassblue21 Posts: 207
    bump, this is better than a book! Want to know how it goes!
  • Finigan84
    Finigan84 Posts: 85
    bump
  • joseph9
    joseph9 Posts: 328 Member
    We could start a betting pool. Who wants: (1) true love, (2) hookup, then break up, (3) friend zone, (4) gay?

    (OP, I'm hoping for #1 - let us know!)
  • aimstein
    aimstein Posts: 94
    Bump! I'm dying to see what happens. I think he has a crush too. You are beautiful!! Good luck!!
  • Jill_newimprovedversion
    Jill_newimprovedversion Posts: 988 Member
    Isn't there some way to DVR topics?
    Hmmmmm guess not.......

    in that case,

    BUMP
  • cwunderlich
    cwunderlich Posts: 35 Member
    bump.........
  • ryall70
    ryall70 Posts: 519 Member
    Hope all goes well!!!! This shouldn't be making me nervous:smile:
  • Munchi8175
    Munchi8175 Posts: 73 Member
    I really hope that all goes well with this. I definitely think that you should tell him how you feel, without using the word love, and make sure to let him know that no matter what you don't want to lose him as a friend. Make sure that he knows that even if he doesn't feel the same way, you don't want things to get weird and you don't want to scare him away.
  • hhorncastle
    hhorncastle Posts: 84 Member
    Hmm.. either it's going really well or, in true sitcom style, there was some kind of hitch - she found the perfect outfit, did her nails, shaved her legs, got the fondue set up.. and he went to the game with his buddies, then to a bar and hasn't come home yet. (but I've got my fingers crossed that they're into their second bottle of wine by now..)
  • TheGoblinRoad
    TheGoblinRoad Posts: 835 Member
    Hmm.. either it's going really well or, in true sitcom style, there was some kind of hitch - she found the perfect outfit, did her nails, shaved her legs, got the fondue set up.. and he went to the game with his buddies, then to a bar and hasn't come home yet. (but I've got my fingers crossed that they're into their second bottle of wine by now..)

    I think I saw that episode...
  • blackfam9
    blackfam9 Posts: 2
    bump
  • sew1222
    sew1222 Posts: 241
    I think I speak for everyone ...OMG....for the love of god woman hurry up and let us know what happens ......please and thank you!!!
  • Gary1977
    Gary1977 Posts: 804 Member
    We could start a betting pool. Who wants: (1) true love, (2) hookup, then break up, (3) friend zone, (4) gay?

    (OP, I'm hoping for #1 - let us know!)

    Hoping for (1)...I'd bet on (2) or (3).... $10 US....any takers?:drinker: :bigsmile: :laugh:
  • his_kid1
    his_kid1 Posts: 177 Member
    I hope everything went well!

    Also, I must say that I'm really impressed by how amazing the MFP community is. There's some really kind, thoughtful advice here. :flowerforyou:

    This is what I was thinking! Hope all went well for you!
  • ruby_red_rose
    ruby_red_rose Posts: 321 Member
    I have been coming back to this thread over and over again to hear what happened. I hope it turns out well.
  • PoshTaush
    PoshTaush Posts: 1,247
    BUMP!! I can't wait to hear how it turned out! lol.....this is like an MFP Soap Opera.....
  • pucenavel
    pucenavel Posts: 972 Member
    Relax everyone. If you've seen the movie, you know that there has to be the deviation where we

    First: being to think he's not really the right guy
    Second: See evidence that he is the right guy but just isn't that into her and she accepts it
    Third: Find out she is going to marry someone else instead

    ..only THEN will she fall back into his gaze just as he realizes that she's always been the one.
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