At a loss for words...my journey is put on hold.

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  • onedayillbamilf
    onedayillbamilf Posts: 662 Member
    My sister lost weight with both of her pregnancies. She craved veggies and ate a ton of them....mainly spinach.
  • lynzy713
    lynzy713 Posts: 67 Member
    My sister in law still worked out during her pregnancy - her doctor acutally encouraged it since she did it before she got pregnant (she runs marathons). He just had her tone it down a little.
  • knittnponder
    knittnponder Posts: 1,953 Member
    Several years ago I had just lost 50 pounds and was totally done having kids. Then we had our little "love child". I was pretty upset initially and tried really hard to come to grips with the situation. It was a struggle but I finally resigned myself and of course was planning to love the baby no matter what. Then I went to my first appointment where we could hear the little heart beat and I fell in love. There was no more convincing myself that I'd be ok because at this point I became excited.

    Now, seven (almost eight) years later I can't imagine life without that little girl! She is a delight to our entire family and pretty much everyone who meets her. We thought our family was complete but that was before we met her. I finally (just this year) re lost the weight I gained with her but that wasn't her fault. I just never got back in gear. However, she was worth every pound.

    Give yourself time to wrap your head around this new situation. Make the best choices you can while pregnant and know that being healthy isn't just about weight loss. Congratulations!
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    An accident? uhh, no.
  • flobeedoodle
    flobeedoodle Posts: 176 Member
    You sound to me like you want to be convinced that this is a good thing, a blessing, when you think that it might not be. I would urge you to think about your resources and the obligations you have to your children that already exist, and make decisions based on what is best for your entire family: the three children you already have, your husband, and yourself. Only you can look at all these factors and decide what is the best and most logical decision. Do not let anyone make you feel bad for making the best and most logical decision for everyone involved.
  • Secret_Agent_007
    Secret_Agent_007 Posts: 1,082
    You wouldn't be the first person on here thats pregnant and weight lifting. Quitting is not a great idea.
  • akadrea
    akadrea Posts: 85 Member
    ((((hugs)))). I'm actually in the same boat....already have 3 children too - had an oops over new years... I've just changed my calories to maintenance for now and I'm continuing to go to the gym/lift weights. I will not be out of control this time! You have the tools you need to stay healthy and to bounce back! I know it's new, but I always say you'll never regret the children you have, only the ones you don't. It'll all work out!
  • weaverfit
    weaverfit Posts: 124
    Take this opportunity to make this your best pregnancy ever. Feed yourself and your +one on the best organic fruits/veg you find. Fill your system with pure water and terrific nutrients. Give the little one the very best building blocks to create with and enjoy seeing how he/she turns out - could be a Beethovan, an Einstein, who knows.
  • determined136
    determined136 Posts: 330
    You will NEVER regret this sweet baby on the way! Keep your chin up, eat healthy and exercise during and enjoy it! We will all be here for you when you are ready to start the journey again! I have four and the body to prove it but they make my life wonderful!
  • AlbertPooHoles
    AlbertPooHoles Posts: 530 Member
    My husband and I found out we had a little accident and we are pregnant.
    "Accident" will make a great first or middle name. :flowerforyou:
  • MummyOfSeven
    MummyOfSeven Posts: 314 Member
    My husband and I found out we had a little accident and we are pregnant.
    "Accident" will make a great first or middle name. :flowerforyou:

    Take a look at my user name. Do you REALLY think they were all planned? Lol.
  • janegalt37
    janegalt37 Posts: 270 Member
    Congratulations, honey! I am so excited for you! I echo the sentiments of everyone else here - this is a blessing, just wait and see. We're all here for you, you know. No matter what.
    {Hugs!}
  • AlbertPooHoles
    AlbertPooHoles Posts: 530 Member
    My husband and I found out we had a little accident and we are pregnant.
    "Accident" will make a great first or middle name. :flowerforyou:
    Take a look at my user name. Do you REALLY think they were all planned? Lol.
    I have no idea, nor do I care to know. Thanks.
  • jhartram
    jhartram Posts: 165
    You can handle it! It's a shock, I know... had the same thing happen with my second... and I was on birth control at the time! But I was told that the better shape I was in when the baby came the easier it would be, and it actually worked out that way. I was surprised. Your doctor can tell you how to modify your eating habits and your exercise, and as you work out tell yourself that it'll only make it that much better so you don't have to worry about anything during labor.
  • janakroesbergen
    janakroesbergen Posts: 3 Member
    Congrats!

    My mother in law had an surprise baby at 43 (they were thrilled). During her pregnancy she had gestational diabetes and so had to really watch her carb & sugar intake. She was carrying some extra weight before the pregnancy, but wasn't really overweight. Without trying (only trying to follow the diet she was given for the gestational diabetes) she only gained 4 lbs over the whole course of her pregnancy. She also got a treadmill and did 20mins of walking on it most days. Healthy baby boy was born around 7 lbs. The little one is now 2 years old and she's been able to keep off all the weight she lost during her pregnancy by eating healthy!

    It's not impossible to lose weight while pregnant, just make sure your eating healthy and following your doctors recommendations!
  • MummyOfSeven
    MummyOfSeven Posts: 314 Member
    My husband and I found out we had a little accident and we are pregnant.
    "Accident" will make a great first or middle name. :flowerforyou:
    Take a look at my user name. Do you REALLY think they were all planned? Lol.
    I have no idea, nor do I care to know. Thanks.

    Well *that* was totally uncalled for. People are here offering congratulations, support, advice and sharing whether or not they had 'accidents'. Why single me out for spite?
  • AlbertPooHoles
    AlbertPooHoles Posts: 530 Member
    My husband and I found out we had a little accident and we are pregnant.
    "Accident" will make a great first or middle name. :flowerforyou:
    Take a look at my user name. Do you REALLY think they were all planned? Lol.
    I have no idea, nor do I care to know. Thanks.
    Well *that* was totally uncalled for. People are here offering congratulations, support, advice and sharing whether or not they had 'accidents'. Why single me out for spite?
    And why single me out with your question? :huh:

    Let's move on, shall we?
  • maryjay51
    maryjay51 Posts: 742
    my daughter ate healthy and exercised through both her pregnancies.. i did the same thing. nothing happend to our babies .. just because you are prego doesnt mean you cant walk or eat healthy .. ask the doctor for a guideline of things you must have while you try to watch your weight so that it doesnt affect the baby ..and congratulations!!
  • COOKINATOR
    COOKINATOR Posts: 94 Member
    Consider it a beautiful gift from God.......Even tho you are Prego you can still eat healthy and excercise....I have friends that have done that and nothing bad has happened
  • amysj303
    amysj303 Posts: 5,086 Member
    I know it's not much consolation but I came from a family of three and I think it's terrible to have three, the middle one (me) is a mess:tongue:
    you're better with four:flowerforyou:
  • kaetmarie
    kaetmarie Posts: 668 Member
    congratulations! you can keep up your healthy lifestyle while pregnant, just check with your doc to make sure that you're doing what's best for you and your baby!
  • daffodilsoup
    daffodilsoup Posts: 1,972 Member
    Is it that you don't feel ready because of your fitness goals, or you don't feel ready to have another child in your family?

    If it's the latter, why do something that you aren't ready for?
  • dubois75
    dubois75 Posts: 7
    Your journey is not put on hold, it's just been modified! A child is a blessing and although you were not expecting this little one chose you and your husband! =) You can continue to workout during your pregnancy, so you'll remain healthy and afterwards baby weight should easily drop. Keep your head up! Everything happens for a reason and your little one happened because you are already a healthier you.
  • apena_06
    apena_06 Posts: 50
    A friend of mine did pre-natal yoga through her entire pregnancy and she said she felt amazing. Maybe try that (your other kids can even participate with you :smile: ) and continue to eat healthy. Children are always a blessing but like I was told when I had my little one....there's never really a "good" time for a new baby because life's always going to be hectic. Congratulations :heart:
  • juliesummers
    juliesummers Posts: 738 Member
    You sound to me like you want to be convinced that this is a good thing, a blessing, when you think that it might not be. I would urge you to think about your resources and the obligations you have to your children that already exist, and make decisions based on what is best for your entire family: the three children you already have, your husband, and yourself. Only you can look at all these factors and decide what is the best and most logical decision. Do not let anyone make you feel bad for making the best and most logical decision for everyone involved.

    This^ It's your body, your life and your choice.
    I know it's "taboo", but if you really feel like you can't (or sincerely don't want to) raise and bring another child into this world, you certainly don't have to.If it would do more harm than good to your family, finances, resources, etc. it's worth considering alternative options.
  • daffodilsoup
    daffodilsoup Posts: 1,972 Member
    This^ It's your body, your life and your choice.
    I know it's "taboo", but if you really feel like you can't (or sincerely don't want to) raise and bring another child into this world, you certainly don't have to.If it would do more harm than good to your family, finances, resources, etc. it's worth considering alternative options.

    This.
  • DrBorkBork
    DrBorkBork Posts: 4,099 Member
    Hey, be happy! Your body is producing HCG. Use it to your advantage ;)
    There's no reason you can't continue to exercise and eat healthy for the remainder of your pregnancy.
  • MrsRobertson1005
    MrsRobertson1005 Posts: 552 Member
    Like everyone said your journey is no where near over and doesn't have to be stopped :). I understand how you're feeling. My fiancé and I are getting married in October and are paying a lot of to student loans. We always talk about the what ifs. We decided that no matter what our situation in life if we got pregnant it must have been meant to be. As much as we would like to be more settled or have more money or whatever the case, I never want to be upset about having a child, that's what I remember. Congratulations :)
  • keywestsunset
    keywestsunset Posts: 139 Member
    My husband and I are actively trying for our 2nd and my plan is to continue mfp even after I get pregnant. Im sure I will have to tweak my calorie intake, but I want to stay on this healthier path I've started. So keep logging, you don't have to go anywhere!!
  • harley0269
    harley0269 Posts: 384 Member
    For years i never used protection. nothing happened. Then when I did use protection, SUPRISE!!!
    So let me tell you...THERE IS NO ACCIDENTS, ONLY BLESSINGS IN DISGUISE!
    God bless you & your family!

    ...the best presents are the ones you dont expect :wink:
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