I look better fat?
jmuell91
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I've received a number of positive messages lately and I appreciate all of the support....BUT I have read some that aren't so great...Some saying I look better fat, not attractive skinny, etc...I don't place a lot of emphasis on my looks, but when I have some users telling me that... it isn't so great! I propose the idea of keeping messages positive, full of love and support! We are all going through this together and everyone should send good vibes!!
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Don't pay attention, you don't do this just for looking good, it's also a health thing, doing what is best for your body. Don't pay attention to them, if you feel great, you'll look great.0
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as long as you are not underweight, really malnourished, or unhealthy, others opinion should not have any impact.0
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I don't place a lot of emphasis on my looks0
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If you live for vanity and that which comes with it, you will be one of the herd who fights aging tooth and nail only for disappointment.
Live for health and satisfaction of life. Know that by living a healthier lifestyle you will have many more years of life to share with those important to you. That, in my opinion, should matter a whole lot more than compliments or suggestions you receive based on your physical appearance.0 -
I think you're smokin'. Don't listen to them.0
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You look cute just the way you are. As for the negative comments, it comes with the territory, there will always be people on both sides of the fence on how you look, so best just to do what you feel comfortable in, whether they are jealous or just like bigger/smaller people, you will never please them all, but you are correct, they should leave those negative comments with themselves, you didnt lose the weight for them.0
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I've received a number of positive messages lately and I appreciate all of the support....BUT I have read some that aren't so great...Some saying I look better fat, not attractive skinny, etc...I don't place a lot of emphasis on my looks, but when I have some users telling me that... it isn't so great! I propose the idea of keeping messages positive, full of love and support! We are all going through this together and everyone should send good vibes!!
Tell everyone to shove off, you're adorable0 -
Confidence is more attractive than any number on the scale.0
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So you apparently had that some admirers that were into fatties, and don't appreciate the change. Who cares? There are people who like all kinds of builds (and that's good!), but I can guarantee you that a greater percentage will dig a fit body.0
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You look fine to me. Ignore them.0
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I agree with you!!!!!0
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I think you're smokin'. Don't listen to them.
Seriously, though, opinions are opinions. You know you best. And its about what YOU want.0 -
Not sure what they see but you look pretty good to me!0
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They're just jealous.0
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They're silly. You're gorgeous. Don't listen to them.0
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Wow, those people need glasses lol. You are hot! Just saying0
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I think you look really healthy. You're adorable don't let them make you feel bad. I've never seen you fat but I am sure looking healthy is WAY better then looking FAT no matter what!0
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You look AWESOME! Don't let negative people get you down. A lot of dorks hide behind the internet, and write things they would NEVER say to your face... it gives them confidence- to be MEAN. Congrats to you!0
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I think you look great the way you are! Ignore the negative comments0
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I think you look good. There are a lot of negative people who want to bring others own. Don't let them get to you! Keep doing what feels good.0
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Those who are telling you that you are fat are the ones that are jealous of what you have accomplished. I know I have some people that shows the green monster around me. I may not be losing as much weight as I wanted but at least my clothes are loose and that I am eating healthier then they are... Also what really matters is how YOU feel about what you have accomplished for yourself.
Keep it up!!!!0 -
I need to lose more weight, but have several people tell me I look sick. They just have never seen a thin me before.
Also, I do notice all of those "you have lost too much weight" comments come from people that are overweight.0 -
You look very attractive.. Don't let others get to you.. they just aren't used to the thin you!0
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I can not believe that people are so sad to say that to you. I dislike the blogs when some people are hurtful in comments. We are all here for support on our weight loss journey. Also, for a healthy lifestyle... everyone knows that being overweight is not healthy. I think your awesome. Dont listen to the negative comments. Momma must not have told them if they have nothing nice to say then say nothing at all.
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im sorry but I would not sleep with you.
lol, what people mean when they say "look better fat" is that like when you look more muscular... now that you dont have that fat covering your muscles, you dont look as big.
if it bothers you.. lift weights. eat slightly more... and get yourself wherever you want to be without being fat. or if you're happy... good, be happy.0 -
Skinny hipster > fat hipster0
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first of all, you're hot! lol there... the truth has been told....everyone who says anything else is a LIAR!0
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You look HOT! haha, okay maybe that was a little creepy! But anyway, you look great and you've made amazing progress!Never let anyone get you down! This should be a place of encouragment!0
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Skinny hipster > fat hipster
not a hipster > hipsters.
its OK for me to hate hipsters though.... they hated me first. before it was cool.0 -
My guess is they are jealous of your success cause they are probably unhappy with themselves.0
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