I look better fat?

kelceyjean12011

i think you're handsome either way it's all about how YOU feel

rayzerwolf

I think it could be a part of jelousy and(or) part of them have never seen you(us) as slim as you(we) are and it goes toward the whole change thing and most people dont like change. I must say I do enjoy my men thick and not bulky but if my man ever decided to lose weight and come to the gym with me I wouldn't stop him. Just keep doing what makes you happy and later they will get used to it. I think you look good in your pic anyway as I am sure you have heard already.

Narisong

They're just jealous.

This !!!

allie864

Seriously? That's ridiculous! You look great and healthy! Don't listen to them at all. :flowerforyou:

yoouperh

If you're happy, then you shouldn't listen to people like that, they are just being dramatic and rude...

Tangerine302

Probably need to consider the source. What types of people are leaving comments, etc. Either that or they just aren't used to you being a different size- if it's someone you know in real life. The only other thing it could be is that there was more of you. There will be so many opinions, but the one that matters the most is yours. I don't think you have anything to worry about.

liog

I think you're smokin'. Don't listen to them.

Agreed.

Chubbyhulagirl

You look great! Screw anyone who just wants to bring you down.

Had to edit. You look even better than great. Very handsome and healthy looking. Just make sure you are happy with your health and fitness goals and let everyone else hate if they want.

Alicia_Monique

It's about what YOU think and what YOU feel. Who cares about the other people?

CaoimheAine

I think you're really cute and hey it's about how YOU feel x

melissa_leah

You look great! Do whatever is healthy for you! It's more important how you want to look

peachied

those people can **** off then. if you feel healthy and good then that's all that matters

DogsK

For what its worth, you should be doing this for yourself. If you do it to impress people with a perceived "hot bod" then you are destined for disappointment because my young friend, there are a lot of people out there who think they know lots but cant back it up with factor knowledge. If you're healthy and happy then that should be the end of it and tell the others to.........
All the best with your future

feduh86

I think you're super hot!
Dont let people get in ur head cuz the ones who said that are obviously blind!

madamepsychosis

Why would anyone even say that? I know some family members in real life can say it to people out of worry, but on here aren't we all meant to be in this together? Unless you're malnourished (which you don't look in your photo, you look healthy and great), why would anyone even say that to you? My best guess is jealousy. Just ignore them. You're doing this for you, not anyone else.

jenilla1

They're joking, right? You look great! WTH is wrong with people?

hexrei

keep trying ladies. he's not too young to bring back to the fold.

keifus18

Bro all that matter is how you feel in your own body, it doesn't matter what others think honestly. What really most important is that your improving your overall health, and it helps with how you view your own body if you feel good about how you are now then embrace it !! Because I'm trying my hardest to achieve the some of the same things you have already done.

committomittxoxo

keep trying ladies. he's not too young to bring back to the fold.

Omg... I seriously can't stop laughing........... I want to hug you. *hug*

Leiki

Do you have before and after pics? I'm curious about why people are saying this to you. Maybe they are jealous and trying to get you down.

Kymmu

keep trying ladies. he's not too young to bring back to the fold.

Omg... I seriously can't stop laughing........... I want to hug you. *hug*

Yes hahaha, goup hug!! Op- join us!!

avafrisbee

I have only been here for 2 weeks and I have found 2 chronic negative posters! These people have something to say in EVERY post but it is NEVER positive. Or their sick version of positive like "I don't see what all the fuss is about, I didn't have any problems with it". Some people need to put others down to feel good about themselves. Some need to be negative to fill some sort of brain chemical addiction some are just nasty people better avoided. Just take it is stride.

You look fantastic and if you feel fantastic and healthy that is all that matters. And when you find the person that loves you for all that you are (if you haven't already) they will appreciate that you are healthy enough to be around with them for a long time.

I wish I knew how to embed pictures because I found this fantastic meme of a kitten on his hind legs doing a strut and it says "Haters gonna hate"

hexrei

^^^THAT BABY IS GRABBING YOUR BOOB IN A LEWD MANNER

1234terri

If your profile pic is you, now, you look terrific. Anyway, it doesn't matter. It matters how you feel, and how healthy you want to be.

-t

whitneyann0

Skinny hipster > fat hipster

not a hipster > hipsters.



its OK for me to hate hipsters though.... they hated me first. before it was cool.

:bigsmile: :laugh:

blancagg87

You know i dont quite remember how the quote goes but let me butcher it i believe it goes something like this "The same people who once called me fat now spread rumors that are anorexic" regardless of what you do someone is always going to have something to say! do what makes YOU happy and screw everyone else

dr00

Pshh! Don't listen to them!
You're adorable!

queenpushycat

i look awful being fat... and you look super awesome!

juliesummers

You look great and extremely sexy.
Society thinks it's okay to criticize thin people, but it's absolutely not. What they're saying to you is unacceptable, and you should definitely de-friend them on here right away. You don't need that in your life.

geckofli

I've received a number of positive messages lately and I appreciate all of the support....BUT I have read some that aren't so great...Some saying I look better fat, not attractive skinny, etc...I don't place a lot of emphasis on my looks, but when I have some users telling me that... it isn't so great! I propose the idea of keeping messages positive, full of love and support! We are all going through this together and everyone should send good vibes!!

if your are in your healthy weight range, if you are happy with how you look, if you are listening to your body and catering to its needs, it doesnt matter a hoot what anybody else says, youve come along in your journey and you should be proud of youurself, this healthy llife style bizzo is a daily thing and it takes dedication to "stay on the wagon"every day
so Sarah says block those nasty pasties, there are usually more then enough haters (dare i say green eyed monsters) in our day to day lives, you shouldnt and do not have to tollerate/acknowledge or deal with that bollocks.

a mental note for when those comments pop up, and this was gifted to me from an old school miner so scuse my french but opinion are like arseholes, everyones got one.
I say everyone has an opinion and they are entitled to it, but i dont have to worry about theirs cause mine is worth more to me. Its taken me over 12 years to actually mean the second half of that, life will be much easier if you can get yourself to that line a little quicker than i did

Now have a great day (: