girls who hit on guys who are taken (or vice versa)
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One: Is this wrong?
Two: If it is, who is at fault? The person who does the hitting, or the person who allows themself to be hit on?
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Two: If it is, who is at fault? The person who does the hitting, or the person who allows themself to be hit on?
Opinions.
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Nothing wrong with the hitting...it's the accepting that's wrong.0
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I see a LOT of this, on here especially and I think it's wrong. The compliment on occasion? Sure, that's fine, but flat out flirting with/hitting on someone that's taken or the person that is taken doing the flirting is wrong.0
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Nothing wrong with the hitting...it's the accepting that's wrong.0
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I don't really think people 'allow themselves to be hit on'. It happens regardless.
A simple 'thankyou' should be where it ends for the most part. Otherwise you'd pretty much be playing into it, and therefor allowing it to continue.
If that makes any sense.0 -
I see a LOT of this, on here especially and I think it's wrong. The compliment on occasion? Sure, that's fine, but flat out flirting with/hitting on someone that's taken or the person that is taken doing the flirting is wrong.0
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I think it's the intent behind the hitting on...I regularly "hit on" people on MFP (male/female married/single) and it's a funny joke and everyone knows it. I think if it goes beyond the joke aspect there is a problem, but I think that each relationship is different and has a different thresh hold for such a thing.0
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I don't really think people 'allow themselves to be hit on'. It happens regardless.
A simple 'thankyou' should be where it ends for the most part. Otherwise you'd pretty much be playing into it, and therefor allowing it to continue.
If that makes any sense.
That makes sense. I agree.0 -
its all on the person thats "taken" they are the one that has to be trustworthy0
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Nothing wrong with the hitting...it's the accepting that's wrong.
Well I should imagine that a majority of people on here are losing weight for vanity so being hit upon would be taken as flattery. To then act upon that is, IMHO, wrong.0 -
I think it's the intent behind the hitting on...I regularly "hit on" people on MFP (male/female married/single) and it's a funny joke and everyone knows it. I think if it goes beyond the joke aspect there is a problem, but I think that each relationship is different and has a different thresh hold for such a thing.0
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If someone hits on someone who they KNOW are in a relationship they are in the wrong.
That being said, if you are in a relationship and "allow" the hitting, by flirting back ect, you are also in the wrong.
Just my opinion.0 -
Nothing wrong with the hitting...it's the accepting that's wrong.
Well I should imagine that a majority of people on here are losing weight for vanity so being hit upon would be taken as flattery. To then act upon that is, IMHO, wrong.)
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I don't think I have ever been hit on? or hit on anyone... So I got nuthin!....0
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I don't think I have ever been hit on? or hit on anyone... So I got nuthin!....
Me too mate!0 -
One: To flirt with someone in a relationship is not the highest moral ground but I can say we all do it at some time or another.
Two: It is the fault of both parties. The person flirting for crossing the line. And the person being flirted with for not speaking up for their relationship.0 -
If someone hits on someone who they KNOW are in a relationship they are in the wrong.
That being said, if you are in a relationship and "allow" the hitting, by flirting back ect, you are also in the wrong.
Just my opinion.
Agreed!0 -
If someone hits on someone who they KNOW are in a relationship they are in the wrong.
That being said, if you are in a relationship and "allow" the hitting, by flirting back ect, you are also in the wrong.
Just my opinion.
I agree!0 -
There's nothing wrong with flirting a little. It's knowing where to draw the line. It can't be overly suggestive, and is more or less in jest if one or both parts are taken. Flirting in good humour is fine.
Hitting on someone as in trying to bring them home if you or they are in a relationship is despicable.0 -
Okay here's where the line SHOULD be drawn in my opinion.
If you wouldn't be comfortable with your spouse being next to you while this person is flirting/hitting on you, you've gone too far.
If you wouldn't feel comfortable if the person you are hitting on/flirting with had their spouse next to them.0 -
One: Is this wrong?
Two: If it is, who is at fault? The person who does the hitting, or the person who allows themself to be hit on?
Opinions.
People are going to hit on others if they are unaware that the other person is in fact taken. There is nothing wrong in that. However, if the person is aware that that person has a partner, then that is when it is wrong! But who are they to care if they don't know the partner personally - to them they're just having a bit of fun? I don't agree with it, I would never do it. I have a partner myself and we've been together for almost 7 years. If he gets hit on I just try and take it as a compliment now - woo I have a hot boyfriend that others want & can't have & he is mine! However, the issue would become U-G-L-Y if my boyfriend retaliated or encouraged this behaviour. It's not his fault that he got hit on, but if he doesn't make her aware of my existence or does the hitting - then prepare for war! :explode: :laugh:
I have to admit - it's a mega compliment getting hit on! Confidence booster. Nothing wrong with that!0
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