Modest Women?

Iceman1800

To each his own I guess. I have a higher opinion of a woman competing in a wet t-shirt contest than a prude afraid to show her ankles. Self confidence is sexy. Just because a woman shows some cleavage doesn't mean she's sleeping with every guy at the bar.

Iceman1800

I wear very simple clothes. I go for comfort and simplicity, rather than sexiness. However, for me, comfort doesn't preclude tightness - a tight hugging top or leggings can be very comfortable. I don't like clothes where cleavage is showing (either breasts or bum!) because that feels uncomfortable, as if the item of clothing is falling off. I don't like that feeling. I like to feel my clothes are fitting me properly and won't fall off. I like to feel comfortable. It has nothing to do with modesty. I have a hard time understanding what modesty even means in this context. I simply have no interest in sexiness or impressing people - not because I'm modest or virtuous, but because this just doesn't interest me in the slightest.

yeah but you're a tree frog so....

Sarah_Wins

I'm extremely modest. I even cover my boobs when I go out now... MOST of the time. You're welcome.

splashangel

I'm extremely modest. I even cover my boobs when I go out now... MOST of the time. You're welcome.

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: Thanks for that.

opuntia

I wear very simple clothes. I go for comfort and simplicity, rather than sexiness. However, for me, comfort doesn't preclude tightness - a tight hugging top or leggings can be very comfortable. I don't like clothes where cleavage is showing (either breasts or bum!) because that feels uncomfortable, as if the item of clothing is falling off. I don't like that feeling. I like to feel my clothes are fitting me properly and won't fall off. I like to feel comfortable. It has nothing to do with modesty. I have a hard time understanding what modesty even means in this context. I simply have no interest in sexiness or impressing people - not because I'm modest or virtuous, but because this just doesn't interest me in the slightest.

yeah but you're a tree frog so....

Ha - true.

wcjcjplourde

I'm all for the long skirts. But, not out of modestly. I have no problem with showing a little cleavage. I actually think the long skirts are quite sexy, depending on how they're cut.

anwilson_83

i hate skirts and dresses unless its for church or something. i wear jeans almost always and t-shirts. they are not tight but some are fitted. i wear shorts too,but not short ones. dont wear tank tops or sleeveless shirts either because im embarrassed.

Tonysgirl0519

Just a simple observation...... the dress in your profile.... is it not sleeveless.....

Witchmoo

Just a simple observation...... the dress in your profile.... is it not sleeveless.....

Thank you! This as the most recent post means I won't bother with the other pages!

martoosha

I noticed a few people mentioning insecurity and it made me want to comment.

I started dating my boyfriend about 2 months ago and he commented how all my clothes are too big on me and always very baggy. He asked if I was shy about my body.

I'm a personal trainer and I motivate others to be proud of their bodies and it wasn't until he brought it up that I realized I was shy about my body and didn't want to show it off.

With his encouragement that changed. I don't think you need to dress like a hoochie but you can look presentable and classy and still show off your curves. it's not about getting attention, it's about loving yourself and dressing to flatter your body to make yourself feel better.

Just my two cents from personal experiences

Ariana80

Just wanted to see if my ticker works...

megalin9

I'm pretty modest, but mainly because I'm a bit of a tomboy. I just prefer jeans and a t-shirt. BUT...I can tell you...when I get to my goal weight, someone's going to have to make sure I get dressed in the mornings to go to work because I'm gonna be so full of myself I won't want to wear clothes...EVER! :happy:

head_in_rainbows

Hell no! I lost 17 kg and while I have about 3 vanity kg to loose I am definitely showing off my new body. I dreamed about tight dresses, skinny jeans, shorts and mini skirts and I am not going to deny myself. I don't aim at having men stare but I am not going to blush if they do. I love it!

jadedone

I dress cute, but I am fairly modest. I tend to not show much cleavage, because I feel a little uncomfortable about it (i.e. like people are forgetting about my face). That being said, I still wear skinny jeans, shorter skirts and dresses (Typically around 2 inches above or below the knee). I wear sleeveless and fitted clothing. It just looks better and more polished in my book. I finished up the baggy phase in my teens and didn't go back no matter what the tag said on my clothes.

bulbadoof

Nope. I think the human body is a work of natural perfection and I'd encourage everyone on the planet to walk around naked if there weren't laws against it.