I hate it when really SKINNY girls complain being fat!!
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*like*Get over yourself. Bigger people aren't the only ones with insecurities. THIS pisses me off.0 -
Everyone strives to improve to their "ideal" body. Would it bother you if she said she was too skinny? OMG why can't I gain weight?
People are different with different goals. Support each other's goals. Stop comparing and start supporting. That's what friends do.0 -
Ok, then I suppose it's compketly acceptable to walk around the homeless shelter complaining my 2,000 square foot house is just too small? How about a soup kitchen ranting about how starved I am since I skipped breakfast? It's an implied insult. Personally, I would NEVER complain about how damn fat I am to or around someone larger because obviously it would be insulting.
That's not the same, that's just petty & wouldn't happen!
You never know, the person could have body dismorphia, she could genuinely feel terrible about her appearance & think she's fat.
If she wants to complain about being fat, then damn well let her! It's not YOUR problem.
I see, so you can complain about this, the skinny girl can complain about being fat, but the heavier person who has to hear about it can't complain about anything?
Hypocrite0 -
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you have to realize also that you don't see them naked, they could have a belly or fat in other places.........0
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Personally, unless everybody is talking openly about their body image at the time, I don't think somebody should throw out little sentences while looking in the mirror, etc. It is just a really sensitive subject, and to anybody no matter how big/small could set something off. I say keep it to yourself and if you feel the need to share have a serious discussion with a friend or therapist.0
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Skinny people smell like cotton candy.
What do fat people smell like, then?
bacon....cause I love bacon !0 -
wah. wah. wah.0
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Ok, then I suppose it's compketly acceptable to walk around the homeless shelter complaining my 2,000 square foot house is just too small? How about a soup kitchen ranting about how starved I am since I skipped breakfast? It's an implied insult. Personally, I would NEVER complain about how damn fat I am to or around someone larger because obviously it would be insulting.
That's not the same, that's just petty & wouldn't happen!
You never know, the person could have body dismorphia, she could genuinely feel terrible about her appearance & think she's fat.
If she wants to complain about being fat, then damn well let her! It's not YOUR problem.
I see, so you can complain about this, the skinny girl can complain about being fat, but the heavier person who has to hear about it can't complain about anything?
Hypocrite
Who said bigger people can't complain?0 -
Ok, then I suppose it's compketly acceptable to walk around the homeless shelter complaining my 2,000 square foot house is just too small? How about a soup kitchen ranting about how starved I am since I skipped breakfast? It's an implied insult. Personally, I would NEVER complain about how damn fat I am to or around someone larger because obviously it would be insulting.
That is completely ridiculous to compare that situation to somone just feeling insecure about themselves. You're reaching.
I guess skinny people aren't allowed to voice their feelings around larger people. Because the larger person's feelings are more important than the skinny person's.
Exactly. It's like CENSOR YOURSELF BECAUSE I'M FAT AND I CAN DICTATE WHAT YOU TALK ABOUT.
If you don't like this person, just cut your ties with her, wtf?0 -
get em Bill................i agree with you!!Ok, then I suppose it's compketly acceptable to walk around the homeless shelter complaining my 2,000 square foot house is just too small? How about a soup kitchen ranting about how starved I am since I skipped breakfast? It's an implied insult. Personally, I would NEVER complain about how damn fat I am to or around someone larger because obviously it would be insulting.
That's not the same, that's just petty & wouldn't happen!
You never know, the person could have body dismorphia, she could genuinely feel terrible about her appearance & think she's fat.
If she wants to complain about being fat, then damn well let her! It's not YOUR problem.
I see, so you can complain about this, the skinny girl can complain about being fat, but the heavier person who has to hear about it can't complain about anything?
Hypocrite0 -
Listen: I'm 111lbs and you have absolutely no right to judge how I feel about MYSELF. The fact that I think I'M fat doesn't reflect on how I feel about anyone else.0
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Well. I think it's kind of rude for your friend to be doing that. She should pay attention to the people around her before she starts complaining like that.
But at the same time, she has her own targets and your weight and body have nothing to do with that.0 -
Ok, then I suppose it's compketly acceptable to walk around the homeless shelter complaining my 2,000 square foot house is just too small? How about a soup kitchen ranting about how starved I am since I skipped breakfast? It's an implied insult. Personally, I would NEVER complain about how damn fat I am to or around someone larger because obviously it would be insulting.
That's not the same, that's just petty & wouldn't happen!
You never know, the person could have body dismorphia, she could genuinely feel terrible about her appearance & think she's fat.
If she wants to complain about being fat, then damn well let her! It's not YOUR problem.
I see, so you can complain about this, the skinny girl can complain about being fat, but the heavier person who has to hear about it can't complain about anything?
Hypocrite
Who said bigger people can't complain?
You see, this is why I quoted everything. Everyone who is complaining about the complaint is basically saying don't complain.0 -
Ok, then I suppose it's compketly acceptable to walk around the homeless shelter complaining my 2,000 square foot house is just too small? How about a soup kitchen ranting about how starved I am since I skipped breakfast? It's an implied insult. Personally, I would NEVER complain about how damn fat I am to or around someone larger because obviously it would be insulting.
That's not the same, that's just petty & wouldn't happen!
You never know, the person could have body dismorphia, she could genuinely feel terrible about her appearance & think she's fat.
If she wants to complain about being fat, then damn well let her! It's not YOUR problem.
I see, so you can complain about this, the skinny girl can complain about being fat, but the heavier person who has to hear about it can't complain about anything?
Hypocrite
Don't you dare call me a hypocrite when I never said that!
No matter your size, you can complain about it all you want, it's nothing to do with anyone else!
If you don't want to hear it, then change the topic of conversation or don't have them as your friend.0 -
Ok, then I suppose it's compketly acceptable to walk around the homeless shelter complaining my 2,000 square foot house is just too small? How about a soup kitchen ranting about how starved I am since I skipped breakfast? It's an implied insult. Personally, I would NEVER complain about how damn fat I am to or around someone larger because obviously it would be insulting.
That's not the same, that's just petty & wouldn't happen!
You never know, the person could have body dismorphia, she could genuinely feel terrible about her appearance & think she's fat.
If she wants to complain about being fat, then damn well let her! It's not YOUR problem.
I see, so you can complain about this, the skinny girl can complain about being fat, but the heavier person who has to hear about it can't complain about anything?
Hypocrite
wasn't that how the thread started?0 -
There is an extremely thin girl at my work that was loudly talking about how she ate too many calories for lunch and all she had for lunch was carrots. That annoys me.
If a "skinny" person complains that they are fat, it doesn't have anything to do with you. I am a recovering anorexic and I used to see myself as fat even when I was at an unhealthy weight. I would see other people, obviously larger than me, and think they were thin or just fine. I am not saying that every skinny person that complains about being fat has an eating disorder, just that it has nothing to do with your own physical appearess or fitness.0 -
Basic respect, politeness and compassion for others.0
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Why compare yourself?? Just don't. We all have our own battles to fight. No one's battle taken out of context makes as much sense... think about it. You are where you are, she is where she is. Comparisons get you no where fast. Worry about reaching your own goals.0
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I hate it when I come to the forum boards and it's full of people complaining about meaningless banter.
I think I love you♥
i'll second this...0
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