LIBIDO!!! how to get one??

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  • janeshopster
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    I think the Scentuelle patch I tried helped in balancing my hormones and the scent helps in creating a "mood"

    The free ebook in this site can help: http://www.thesoslab.com/scentuelle-products.asp

    I have my own copy but I don't know how to share it here, though you can download it for free. It's a good read- tackles some issues about having decreased libido.Helps keep your mind in a good state and can give you hope. It's said there that low libido can only be a state of mind... we can do something about it.
  • janeshopster
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    Got lots of messages on where to buy Scentuelle (the aroma patch that increases women's libido) ... I think you can buy them at Walgreens but prices there are doubled!!!

    Get them directly at The SOS Lab http://www.thesoslab.com/scentuelle-products.asp

    They are even on sale now... buy 1, get 1

    I'm buying my new set... anyone want to share?=)
  • NakeshiaB
    NakeshiaB Posts: 250 Member
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    This is really sad. I am not judging you or your relationship, but if you are not switched on when your SO walks in the room, there's an underlying problem. Love is complicated and some people make trades between different things to have something close to what they want. When looking for a partner in life, you might say to yourself, "he's not super attractive but he's so freaking funny that it makes up for it". Years later, he's still funny, but the sex drives escapes you and you can't figure out why because you forgot about the little deal you made with yourself.

    Again, this is a generalized comment; nothing about you personally. Just saying, maybe dig deeper and see if it's something else. Do not go for the drugs. That's BS. No one needs drugs to switch on their sex drive. Alcohol, on the other hands, can make it fun.

    Alcohol is a drug, one of a the worst drugs out then in terms of it being so openly encouraged and accepted, people don't think of the problems alcohol causes to your mental and physical health.

    Believe me, you DON"T need alcohol to have a good time. Many many women out there have this problem, myself included. For me it's a factor of low confidence, the contraceptive pill and anxiety/depression. My boyfriend is attractive (to me anyway), funny, supportive and loving but we've still had problems between the sheets.

    I would suggest seeing a doctor and maybe even a psychologist if your problems are psychological. This has worked for me anyway. I'm big on herbal aids as well and have found Maca to be really good, not only for my libido but overall energy levels. Good luck, I wouldn't try any medications or supplements without checking with your doctor first though.
  • denezy
    denezy Posts: 573 Member
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    Lifting weights, heavy weights. I don't know why.
  • Topher1978
    Topher1978 Posts: 975 Member
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    Frequent porn use will harm libido. If this is something that you frequent, which I am not implying in any way, it often will take sex drive away, especially for men, but also for women...
  • nobadkitty
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    Lifting weights, heavy weights. I don't know why.
    I noticed that too!!