3 minor confessions

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  • BooLives82
    BooLives82 Posts: 26 Member
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    1~ I let people hurt me daily, I am weak and never stand up for my self.
    2~ I seek the approval of others before I feel good about what I have accomplished
    3~ My fiance has semi-cheated on me twice, and I still plan on marring him. Even though I divorced my first husband for cheating on me. (By Semi-cheated, he was talking inappropriately online to other females.)
  • 10acity
    10acity Posts: 798 Member
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    1. I hate my job. It's not a secret. The secret is that I spend half the day on MFP and FB.
    2. I pretend not to, but I really miss the best friend I lost a year and a half ago.
    3. I have a completely platonic relationship with a coworker-turned-bar-buddy ... except that I totally lust after him. We'd have the best time... I know; I've thought about it.

    Oh yeah... he has a girlfriend. They live together. :|
  • LucieBear
    LucieBear Posts: 117 Member
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    1. I am afraid to grow old and alone (I have no siblings, no kids, therefore no grand-kids and have only 2 nieces and 2 nephews).

    2. Have been happily married for 26 years, I love my husand dearly... but sometimes wonder what would my life be like if I wasn't married.

    3. Eventhough I know I am overweight... contrary to others when I look in the mirror I always think.. It's not that bad
    (reality check I once weighed 265 pounds and I am 5'1 - who was I kidding- it was very bad) (now I weigh 180 and still losing)
  • 10acity
    10acity Posts: 798 Member
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    1. I am afraid to grow old and alone (I have no siblings, no kids, therefore no grand-kids and have only 2 nieces and 2 nephews).

    2. Have been happily married for 26 years, I love my husand dearly... but sometimes wonder what would my life be like if I wasn't married.

    You'd just be wondering the opposite. And #1 wouldn't have changed.
  • joeylu
    joeylu Posts: 208 Member
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    bump for a later post
  • stringqueen16
    stringqueen16 Posts: 44
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    1. Even though I desperately want my boyfriend to propose (we've been dating almost 4 years), I'm terrified of actually getting married.
    2. I'm terribly addicted to cheese.
    3. A motivating factor in my weight loss is the vision of everyone who made fun of me for so long staring at me and eating crow.
  • ChangingMindSets
    ChangingMindSets Posts: 35
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    1. I cry everytime I watch a movie or TV show where the love of someone's life dies. I want that kind of love so badly that it tears me up inside to see someone have that love taken from them.

    2. I'm afraid that once I lose all the weight I'll be ugly.

    3. I love my dog more than most people.
  • msslimann
    msslimann Posts: 122
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    1. I get tired of my friend always talking about the things she does and where she goes cconstantly, knowing I can't. Seems like she is always bragging and trying to rub it in . Now she is taking diet pills and losing weight and talks about my eating yet is always bringing me sweets or wanting to go out to eat somewhere.

    2. Really lonely since my husband passed as my family doesn't get together or see about one another only when they need something.

    3. Spend most of my time playing the games on facebook
  • Jellyphant
    Jellyphant Posts: 1,400 Member
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    I see some people are taking a round 2, so why not? I got more confessions. :)

    1: I NEVER EVER want to get pregnant. Call me a coward but birth, pregnancy, MORE STRETCH MARKS terrifies the *kitten* outta me, plus I've never in my life remembered liking kids. I do feel bad since my husband would be a WONderful father.

    2: I can't stand my in laws. They're manipulative, and it makes me sad that we don't get along.

    3: I had to give away my great dane/chesapeake bay retreiver puppy 3 years ago because I couldn't afford her and wanted her to have a good life and the regret still kills me everyday. This is THE biggest regret I've ever had in my life, even above gaining 100 pounds after highschool. I want my furbaby back.
  • 10acity
    10acity Posts: 798 Member
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    2. I'm terribly addicted to cheese.

    bahaha... ME TOO!
  • ashreynolds09
    ashreynolds09 Posts: 257 Member
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    1. I ate 2 chocolate chunk cookies but I only logged one. I'm okay with that.
    2. I want to throw my scale away. I hate that my husband judges our successes solely by it....yet he likes the 'new feel' of my bum.
    3. I am learning to embrace my stretch marks from my 9lb. 2oz daughter, but I refuse to accept the sagginess of my belly as I lose weight.
  • SchollinJ
    SchollinJ Posts: 22
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    1. I ate 2 chocolate chunk cookies but I only logged one. I'm okay with that.
    2. I want to throw my scale away. I hate that my husband judges our successes solely by it....yet he likes the 'new feel' of my bum.
    3. I am learning to embrace my stretch marks from my 9lb. 2oz daughter, but I refuse to accept the sagginess of my belly as I lose weight.
    Ashely I understand the sagginess issue trust me it will go away I promise, mines starting as for stretch marks those are your damn battle scars be proud!
  • Nikki206
    Nikki206 Posts: 69
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    1. My biggest goal is to see my collar bones again and will sometimes flex/strike poses in the mirror just so I can catch a glimpse of them haha.
    2. I feel weird that everyone I know is super obsessed with Big Bang Theory and I absolutely cannot get into it! Lol.
    3. I HATE when my food touches. If it's not supposed to be together then it CANNOT touch! Lol.
  • TheFitHooker
    TheFitHooker Posts: 3,358 Member
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    1. I always beat myself up if I go over my limit or eat something high in cal.

    2. When I get a sunburn I love to peel the skin lol.

    3. I will always drink cream in my coffee.
  • mynameish
    mynameish Posts: 3
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    1. I have told most of my family and friends that I quit smoking completely as a New Year's Resolution, but the truth is I switched to an e-cigarrette. (Not as bad, but still not quitting).

    2. Despite the fact that I'm a 300 pound, intimidating-looking (so I've been told) man, I was in an abusive relationship, and was actually physically beaten by my 130 pound girlfriend - twice - when I tried to leave it. It's the only serious relationship I've been in, and I always felt she was way out of my league. I still love her, and I miss the good times, but we weren't good for each other. Still dealing with a lot of issues from this.

    3. I miss being in good shape, but diet and exercise is almost more about controlling depression and anger issues for me as it is about actually being in shape.
  • KJVBear33
    KJVBear33 Posts: 628
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    My biggest:

    I wish my boyfriend's mom wasn't so insanely Catholic and so into guilt tripping everyone else. I wish I wasn't going to be forced to convert to Catholicism and have a Catholic wedding, all so that SHE doesn't have a heart attack. Since my feelings and opinions don't matter...

    I say that if she can't handle you being another religion, then she needs to be reminded that God cares for all humankind no matter what religion you are........if she boasts so much about being a Catholic and how much she loves her religion, she needs to look into it more. I am pretty sure that all religions are about acceptance of who a person is no matter the religion.

    Personally, if I were you, I would let your bf know that you feel uncomfortable that his Mom is making you feel bad if you don't convert. And that you love him with all your heart, but that your heart truly belongs with whatever your religion may be and that if it doesn't matter whether or not you convert, that you don't want to be MADE to by her. That if you do, you want it to be because you WANT to. Its not going to help any if you don't want to be that religion........

    You need to have that personal contact with God, love going to church, and be able to allow it to help you in times of trouble. Don't ever let anyone MAKE you feel like you have to be like them just because you are marrying someone of a different faith.
  • iuangina
    iuangina Posts: 691 Member
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    1. I have an inability to turn down a challenge. I'm super competitive.
    2. I often prefer to sleep than eat. My husband doesn't understand this one.
    3. I am addicted to marathons and triathlons. I sign up for them even when I don't have the money to do it.
  • dme1977
    dme1977 Posts: 537 Member
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    is this 3 NEW confessions EVERY DAY??? if so then here goes...

    1. I ate the whipped peaks off the key lime pie and didnt log it
    2. I currently spend MORE time on MFP than any other sites FOR ANYTHING!!! :blushing:
    3. .we have white tile in the kitchen and it drives me nuts to see it dirty so ometimes when there are only a few spots onthe floor I will throw a wet dish cloth on the floor and move it around with my foot to clean the spots instead of mopping the whole floor...
    ( dont get me wrong, i DO mop, just not everyday..)
    *phew* i feel better :laugh:
  • bfuture
    bfuture Posts: 4
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    1. I busted my mans *kitten* coz i found his porn, I over reacted coz they all look better and younger than me now I feel really bad.
    2. I smoke weed and get the munchies and cant remember what I had to add it to my diary.
    3. I count bottles of wine as one glass on my food diary.

    I absolutely LOVE this lol!!

    1. I have a VERY low tolerance for people who act FAKE with or around me and I have a very short fuse at times
    2. No matter how much I think im a nice person..my husband tells me and everyone else different!! :)
    3. I sometimes feel like maybe im afraid to be successful!!
    4. I use exclamation points ALL the time and laugh at any and everything!!
    5. I sing ALL the time and I'm actually good at it but wont sing in front of people!!
    6. I'm actually pretty confident and always have been even tho I'm a big gurl!! :D
    7. I dont have very many female friends!!
    8. Last one I promise...I also dont care too much for Adele!! :)

    I know that's more than 3 but I find this fun and relieving!! :D

    #3 I feel the same way!! I know I have what it takes to succeed (whether it be to get a better job or to better my way of life) but the first step is always the scariest cause it means I commited to it. I don't do things half a**. So, commitment means I care about it and caring about it means it is personal and FEAR OF FAILURE it my greatest flaw.

    1. Even though I HATE fake people, I realized while during MFP that I have been lieing to myself about why I have not lost my pregnancy weight and was never able to be below 200lbs before.

    2. Sometimes I am embarassed to get on free range workout machines cause there is always groups of guys just hanging out about them, even if they are still otu of shape cause they only come to the gym to socialize. GET A LIFE and stopped chillin' ojn the machines like you are sitting on the couch at HOME! GO HOME!

    3. I know I am going to get hell for this but I still secretly love the SPICE GIRLS. Scary Spice was the best and Still looks great!
  • Elohvey
    Elohvey Posts: 65 Member
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    1. My biggest goal is to see my collar bones again and will sometimes flex/strike poses in the mirror just so I can catch a glimpse of them haha.
    2. I feel weird that everyone I know is super obsessed with Big Bang Theory and I absolutely cannot get into it! Lol.
    3. I HATE when my food touches. If it's not supposed to be together then it CANNOT touch! Lol.

    at that number two... i have the same problem.

    #1 I count the time walking around at work (fast since I'm always behind schedule) as brisk walking.
    #2 I am obsessed with Stephen Colbert only as a fan.
    #3 I eat a bag of small chips almost every friday or thursday. DX

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