Skinny girls are "better" than fat girls ?

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  • PJilly
    PJilly Posts: 22,186 Member
    P.S. Sorry for hijacking your thread. :blushing:
    NP-
    My husbands favorite song from them is "Fat Bottom Girls" ha ha
    My husband's too. :happy:
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    just because her self-esteem is all effed up and she's deluded into believing she is worth something because of how she looks - you guys dont have to tear her apart so heartlessly and viciously and publicly where she cannot defend herself.

    How is any of this motivating any of you to become better physically or socially? Motivation via tearing down the neighbor of someone you've never met?

    GOD DAMN.

    Where is all of your inner beauty today? on another thread?
  • PJilly
    PJilly Posts: 22,186 Member
    Doe she really think she is all that, or is she looking for reassurance that her husband is lucky to have her, and that is all the poor thing can come up with?

    I'm bigger than any of the women my husband dated before me ( one of them, not by much, plus I'm a bit taller). Anyway, my husband is lucky to have me because I laugh at his jokes. :laugh: Seriously, I'm one of those woman who find goofiness hysterical, and apparently, those who came before didn't. We have been happily married for 16 years, and every day he treats me like I'm a catch!

    My point? I have never felt the need to tell my neighbors how lucky my husband is to have me because his old girlfriends never laughed at his jokes. Why not? Because I don't need them to reinforce what a catch I am. My husband does that every day! He is quite a catch as well! (Nope. Not a doctor or lawyer, but I man who makes his wife feel like she is awesome, even when the mirror tells her differently! )
    Love this post. :heart:
  • Chipmaniac
    Chipmaniac Posts: 642 Member
    just because her self-esteem is all effed up and she's deluded into believing she is worth something because of how she looks - you guys dont have to tear her apart so heartlessly and viciously and publicly where she cannot defend herself.

    How is any of this motivating any of you to become better physically or socially? Motivation via tearing down the neighbor of someone you've never met?

    GOD DAMN.

    Where is all of your inner beauty today? on another thread?
    Um...the woman is anonymous. Only the OP knows who she is. Take a chill pill.
  • ShadowSoldier23
    ShadowSoldier23 Posts: 321 Member
    I would laugh in her face. I live in South Texas, men here LOVE plus size women. I got lucky in that fact! lol.

    Hell!!
    That's it! I am moving to south Texas!!!

    Lol! We got plenty of pretty plus size women in Texas and it seems to be a LOT of the men here like it so I'm not complaining. We like our mexican food and bbq here! :)
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    just because her self-esteem is all effed up and she's deluded into believing she is worth something because of how she looks - you guys dont have to tear her apart so heartlessly and viciously and publicly where she cannot defend herself.

    How is any of this motivating any of you to become better physically or socially? Motivation via tearing down the neighbor of someone you've never met?

    GOD DAMN.

    Where is all of your inner beauty today? on another thread?
    Um...the woman is anonymous. Only the OP knows who she is. Take a chill pill.

    Please dont tell me to take a 'chill pill' like Im having a temper tantrum in the early nineties. Im just thinking aloud- with everyone saying that inner beauty is what's more important and that you only tear down other to make yourself feel better and then I read this:

    vacuous
    like a disease
    c*nt
    twatwaffle (in other words the crisscross dents left on a commando vagina after sporting too-tight fishnets or jeans while walking the streets all night...- nice thing to call a defeated unhappy stranger)
    threats to assault her? to socially blacklist her?
    needy
    stupid
    arrogant
    skinny piece of bat-**** insane
    deciding that her being small must be the ONLY thing going for her in the entire world- cause you obviously know her so well

    Yes the OP does know her- but everyone flocking to rip her apart is working against their own pleas for others to be kind and be beautiful from the inside. And you fuss me for simply offering up a different opinion?
  • PJilly
    PJilly Posts: 22,186 Member
    :huh: Nice to meet you too.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    but why am I wrong? :frown:
  • Chipmaniac
    Chipmaniac Posts: 642 Member
    just because her self-esteem is all effed up and she's deluded into believing she is worth something because of how she looks - you guys dont have to tear her apart so heartlessly and viciously and publicly where she cannot defend herself.

    How is any of this motivating any of you to become better physically or socially? Motivation via tearing down the neighbor of someone you've never met?

    GOD DAMN.

    Where is all of your inner beauty today? on another thread?
    Um...the woman is anonymous. Only the OP knows who she is. Take a chill pill.

    Please dont tell me to take a 'chill pill' like Im having a temper tantrum in the early nineties. Im just thinking aloud- with everyone saying that inner beauty is what's more important and that you only tear down other to make yourself feel better and then I read this:

    vacuous
    like a disease
    c*nt
    twatwaffle (in other words the crisscross dents left on a commando vagina after sporting too-tight fishnets or jeans while walking the streets all night...- nice thing to call a defeated unhappy stranger)
    threats to assault her? to socially blacklist her?
    needy
    stupid
    arrogant
    skinny piece of bat-**** insane
    deciding that her being small must be the ONLY thing going for her in the entire world- cause you obviously know her so well

    Yes the OP does know her- but everyone flocking to rip her apart is working against their own pleas for others to be kind and be beautiful from the inside. And you fuss me for simply offering up a different opinion?
    It's called a rant. Nobody is telling this woman that's she's shallow and conceited to her face. That would be way too effective. Unfortunately, only the OP can do that and I'd advise that she do it ASAP.
  • Striving4Fit_MrsOrtiz
    Striving4Fit_MrsOrtiz Posts: 399 Member
    Im fat, n i think im attractive. Apparently because i got me a fine husband.
    I think it has to do with personality. Anyhow im obviously on this site. I am trying to lose weight so i may be HEALTHY!! I know ill be way more attractive but im bringing my awesome personality with me through this journey.

    She is an AIR HEAD!
  • natashamcn
    natashamcn Posts: 145 Member
    but why am I wrong? :frown:

    I don't think you were wrong, I agreed. :flowerforyou:
  • heavensshadow
    heavensshadow Posts: 264 Member
    just because her self-esteem is all effed up and she's deluded into believing she is worth something because of how she looks - you guys dont have to tear her apart so heartlessly and viciously and publicly where she cannot defend herself.

    How is any of this motivating any of you to become better physically or socially? Motivation via tearing down the neighbor of someone you've never met?

    GOD DAMN.

    Where is all of your inner beauty today? on another thread?
    Um...the woman is anonymous. Only the OP knows who she is. Take a chill pill.

    Please dont tell me to take a 'chill pill' like Im having a temper tantrum in the early nineties. Im just thinking aloud- with everyone saying that inner beauty is what's more important and that you only tear down other to make yourself feel better and then I read this:

    vacuous
    like a disease
    c*nt
    twatwaffle (in other words the crisscross dents left on a commando vagina after sporting too-tight fishnets or jeans while walking the streets all night...- nice thing to call a defeated unhappy stranger)
    threats to assault her? to socially blacklist her?
    needy
    stupid
    arrogant
    skinny piece of bat-**** insane
    deciding that her being small must be the ONLY thing going for her in the entire world- cause you obviously know her so well

    Yes the OP does know her- but everyone flocking to rip her apart is working against their own pleas for others to be kind and be beautiful from the inside. And you fuss me for simply offering up a different opinion?

    I pretty much second this opinion.
    Sure, the dame obviously needs an attitude adjustment, but who is to say she's not any less insecure as ANY ONE person here? I understand rants, but really?
    A bit backwards to tear apart socially dysfunctional people when I'm sure that's what a number of us are here on MFP for in the first place.
    Just sayin'.
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
    just because her self-esteem is all effed up and she's deluded into believing she is worth something because of how she looks - you guys dont have to tear her apart so heartlessly and viciously and publicly where she cannot defend herself.

    How is any of this motivating any of you to become better physically or socially? Motivation via tearing down the neighbor of someone you've never met?

    GOD DAMN.

    Where is all of your inner beauty today? on another thread?
    Um...the woman is anonymous. Only the OP knows who she is. Take a chill pill.

    Please dont tell me to take a 'chill pill' like Im having a temper tantrum in the early nineties. Im just thinking aloud- with everyone saying that inner beauty is what's more important and that you only tear down other to make yourself feel better and then I read this:

    vacuous
    like a disease
    c*nt
    twatwaffle (in other words the crisscross dents left on a commando vagina after sporting too-tight fishnets or jeans while walking the streets all night...- nice thing to call a defeated unhappy stranger)
    threats to assault her? to socially blacklist her?
    needy
    stupid
    arrogant
    skinny piece of bat-**** insane
    deciding that her being small must be the ONLY thing going for her in the entire world- cause you obviously know her so well

    Yes the OP does know her- but everyone flocking to rip her apart is working against their own pleas for others to be kind and be beautiful from the inside. And you fuss me for simply offering up a different opinion?

    I pretty much second this opinion.
    Sure, the dame obviously needs an attitude adjustment, but who is to say she's not any less insecure as ANY ONE person here? I understand rants, but really?
    A bit backwards to tear apart socially dysfunctional people when I'm sure that's what a number of us are here on MFP for in the first place.
    Just sayin'.

    I agree with both these ladies.
  • Chipmaniac
    Chipmaniac Posts: 642 Member
    Just sayin'.
    [/quote]
    Ugh..It's the "Just sayin'" crap.
  • summergirl73
    summergirl73 Posts: 70 Member
    She's something that starts with C alright... but it ain't catch.
    LMAO this. So many of those out there.
  • MrsLVF
    MrsLVF Posts: 787 Member
    So I have a neighbor who is constantly saying that she is so much better than her husbands ex girlfriends because they were "fat". Mind you I am pleasently plump. She seems to have this idea that because she is skinny she is a catch. Let me say this- the only thing she has going for her is her weight. The best was when she said to me "Someone like me should be married to a Dr or a lawyer."

    So skinny girls are a catch and fat girls aren't ????

    Sounds like she's a gold digger.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    just because her self-esteem is all effed up and she's deluded into believing she is worth something because of how she looks - you guys dont have to tear her apart so heartlessly and viciously and publicly where she cannot defend herself.

    How is any of this motivating any of you to become better physically or socially? Motivation via tearing down the neighbor of someone you've never met?

    GOD DAMN.

    Where is all of your inner beauty today? on another thread?
    Um...the woman is anonymous. Only the OP knows who she is. Take a chill pill.

    Please dont tell me to take a 'chill pill' like Im having a temper tantrum in the early nineties. Im just thinking aloud- with everyone saying that inner beauty is what's more important and that you only tear down other to make yourself feel better and then I read this:

    vacuous
    like a disease
    c*nt
    twatwaffle (in other words the crisscross dents left on a commando vagina after sporting too-tight fishnets or jeans while walking the streets all night...- nice thing to call a defeated unhappy stranger)
    threats to assault her? to socially blacklist her?
    needy
    stupid
    arrogant
    skinny piece of bat-**** insane
    deciding that her being small must be the ONLY thing going for her in the entire world- cause you obviously know her so well

    Yes the OP does know her- but everyone flocking to rip her apart is working against their own pleas for others to be kind and be beautiful from the inside. And you fuss me for simply offering up a different opinion?
    It's called a rant. Nobody is telling this woman that's she's shallow and conceited to her face. That would be way too effective. Unfortunately, only the OP can do that and I'd advise that she do it ASAP.

    I can understand ranting, it just seemed strange that to offset misled thinking, the best fix is to have strangers tear her apart. I'll shush.
  • _Christine_
    _Christine_ Posts: 1,385 Member
    Fat women are easier to "catch"... we tend to trip and fall and get winded faster.
  • Chipmaniac
    Chipmaniac Posts: 642 Member
    It's the old bully Catch-22. If you fight back against the bully, then you are being just like them. Uh huh. Right.
  • heavensshadow
    heavensshadow Posts: 264 Member
    It's the old bully Catch-22. If you fight back against the bully, then you are being just like them. Uh huh. Right.

    No need for snark, just a difference in opinion.
    JUST SAYIN'.
  • Chipmaniac
    Chipmaniac Posts: 642 Member
    just because her self-esteem is all effed up and she's deluded into believing she is worth something because of how she looks - you guys dont have to tear her apart so heartlessly and viciously and publicly where she cannot defend herself.

    How is any of this motivating any of you to become better physically or socially? Motivation via tearing down the neighbor of someone you've never met?

    GOD DAMN.

    Where is all of your inner beauty today? on another thread?
    Um...the woman is anonymous. Only the OP knows who she is. Take a chill pill.

    Please dont tell me to take a 'chill pill' like Im having a temper tantrum in the early nineties. Im just thinking aloud- with everyone saying that inner beauty is what's more important and that you only tear down other to make yourself feel better and then I read this:

    vacuous
    like a disease
    c*nt
    twatwaffle (in other words the crisscross dents left on a commando vagina after sporting too-tight fishnets or jeans while walking the streets all night...- nice thing to call a defeated unhappy stranger)
    threats to assault her? to socially blacklist her?
    needy
    stupid
    arrogant
    skinny piece of bat-**** insane
    deciding that her being small must be the ONLY thing going for her in the entire world- cause you obviously know her so well

    Yes the OP does know her- but everyone flocking to rip her apart is working against their own pleas for others to be kind and be beautiful from the inside. And you fuss me for simply offering up a different opinion?
    It's called a rant. Nobody is telling this woman that's she's shallow and conceited to her face. That would be way too effective. Unfortunately, only the OP can do that and I'd advise that she do it ASAP.

    I can understand ranting, it just seemed strange that to offset misled thinking, the best fix is to have strangers tear her apart. I'll shush.
    It's not a "fix" any more than complaining about bad drivers or fad diets is a fix. It's about being reassured that not everyone is as shallow and petty as the neighbor. Mission accomplished despite the minority opinion.
  • SinIsIn
    SinIsIn Posts: 1,865 Member
    just because her self-esteem is all effed up and she's deluded into believing she is worth something because of how she looks - you guys dont have to tear her apart so heartlessly and viciously and publicly where she cannot defend herself.

    How is any of this motivating any of you to become better physically or socially? Motivation via tearing down the neighbor of someone you've never met?

    GOD DAMN.

    Where is all of your inner beauty today? on another thread?
    Um...the woman is anonymous. Only the OP knows who she is. Take a chill pill.

    Please dont tell me to take a 'chill pill' like Im having a temper tantrum in the early nineties. Im just thinking aloud- with everyone saying that inner beauty is what's more important and that you only tear down other to make yourself feel better and then I read this:

    vacuous
    like a disease
    c*nt
    twatwaffle (in other words the crisscross dents left on a commando vagina after sporting too-tight fishnets or jeans while walking the streets all night...- nice thing to call a defeated unhappy stranger)
    threats to assault her? to socially blacklist her?
    needy
    stupid
    arrogant
    skinny piece of bat-**** insane
    deciding that her being small must be the ONLY thing going for her in the entire world- cause you obviously know her so well

    Yes the OP does know her- but everyone flocking to rip her apart is working against their own pleas for others to be kind and be beautiful from the inside. And you fuss me for simply offering up a different opinion?

    :heart:
  • Chipmaniac
    Chipmaniac Posts: 642 Member
    JUST SAYIN'.
    Since we're ranting, can people stop with the 'just sayin'? It's one of the most obnoxious trendy phrases to come along in awhile.
  • Bikini27
    Bikini27 Posts: 1,290 Member
    JUST SAYIN'.
    Since we're ranting, can people stop with the 'just sayin'? It's one of the most obnoxious trendy phrases to come along in awhile.

    Here, have a cookie. :flowerforyou:
  • heavensshadow
    heavensshadow Posts: 264 Member
    JUST SAYIN'.
    Since we're ranting, can people stop with the 'just sayin'? It's one of the most obnoxious trendy phrases to come along in awhile.

    Didn't realize it was a trendy phrase. It's just something I've heard for years in the Midwest.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    It's not a "fix" any more than complaining about bad drivers or fad diets is a fix. It's about being reassured that not everyone is as shallow and petty as the neighbor. Mission accomplished despite the minority opinion.

    Mission failed despite the minority opinion. Seems like shallow pettiness abounds here. I offered to shush but you continue to harp. Best of luck in all of your physical adventures.
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
    She sure sounds like a "catch." In the same way you catch a disease.

    This.

    That being said, there are great "catches" that are skinny and some who are not. It's all in the quality of person you are and how you carry yourself.
  • hapoo100
    hapoo100 Posts: 926 Member
    JUST SAYIN'.
    Since we're ranting, can people stop with the 'just sayin'? It's one of the most obnoxious trendy phrases to come along in awhile.

    I agree with you, just typin.
  • SergeantSunshine_reused
    SergeantSunshine_reused Posts: 5,382 Member
    this is the definition of a twatwaffle

    LOL
  • Tiggerrick
    Tiggerrick Posts: 1,078 Member
    OK, I have to say, that like yoovie stated, we can't determine this unknown other person's personality based on that ONE comment. She may have some redeeming qualities. We, not one of us, are perfect. All I can say is that that ONE comment is idiotic, narcissistic, and inappropriate.

    So to the OP: If this is an overwhelming indication of this person's personality, any chance you can stop hanging out with/around her?
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