Skinny girls are "better" than fat girls ?
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P.S. Sorry for hijacking your thread. :blushing:
My husbands favorite song from them is "Fat Bottom Girls" ha ha0 -
just because her self-esteem is all effed up and she's deluded into believing she is worth something because of how she looks - you guys dont have to tear her apart so heartlessly and viciously and publicly where she cannot defend herself.
How is any of this motivating any of you to become better physically or socially? Motivation via tearing down the neighbor of someone you've never met?
GOD DAMN.
Where is all of your inner beauty today? on another thread?0 -
Doe she really think she is all that, or is she looking for reassurance that her husband is lucky to have her, and that is all the poor thing can come up with?
I'm bigger than any of the women my husband dated before me ( one of them, not by much, plus I'm a bit taller). Anyway, my husband is lucky to have me because I laugh at his jokes. :laugh: Seriously, I'm one of those woman who find goofiness hysterical, and apparently, those who came before didn't. We have been happily married for 16 years, and every day he treats me like I'm a catch!
My point? I have never felt the need to tell my neighbors how lucky my husband is to have me because his old girlfriends never laughed at his jokes. Why not? Because I don't need them to reinforce what a catch I am. My husband does that every day! He is quite a catch as well! (Nope. Not a doctor or lawyer, but I man who makes his wife feel like she is awesome, even when the mirror tells her differently! )0 -
just because her self-esteem is all effed up and she's deluded into believing she is worth something because of how she looks - you guys dont have to tear her apart so heartlessly and viciously and publicly where she cannot defend herself.
How is any of this motivating any of you to become better physically or socially? Motivation via tearing down the neighbor of someone you've never met?
GOD DAMN.
Where is all of your inner beauty today? on another thread?0 -
I would laugh in her face. I live in South Texas, men here LOVE plus size women. I got lucky in that fact! lol.
Hell!!
That's it! I am moving to south Texas!!!
Lol! We got plenty of pretty plus size women in Texas and it seems to be a LOT of the men here like it so I'm not complaining. We like our mexican food and bbq here!0 -
just because her self-esteem is all effed up and she's deluded into believing she is worth something because of how she looks - you guys dont have to tear her apart so heartlessly and viciously and publicly where she cannot defend herself.
How is any of this motivating any of you to become better physically or socially? Motivation via tearing down the neighbor of someone you've never met?
GOD DAMN.
Where is all of your inner beauty today? on another thread?
Please dont tell me to take a 'chill pill' like Im having a temper tantrum in the early nineties. Im just thinking aloud- with everyone saying that inner beauty is what's more important and that you only tear down other to make yourself feel better and then I read this:
vacuous
like a disease
c*nt
twatwaffle (in other words the crisscross dents left on a commando vagina after sporting too-tight fishnets or jeans while walking the streets all night...- nice thing to call a defeated unhappy stranger)
threats to assault her? to socially blacklist her?
needy
stupid
arrogant
skinny piece of bat-**** insane
deciding that her being small must be the ONLY thing going for her in the entire world- cause you obviously know her so well
Yes the OP does know her- but everyone flocking to rip her apart is working against their own pleas for others to be kind and be beautiful from the inside. And you fuss me for simply offering up a different opinion?0 -
:huh: Nice to meet you too.0
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but why am I wrong? :frown:0
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just because her self-esteem is all effed up and she's deluded into believing she is worth something because of how she looks - you guys dont have to tear her apart so heartlessly and viciously and publicly where she cannot defend herself.
How is any of this motivating any of you to become better physically or socially? Motivation via tearing down the neighbor of someone you've never met?
GOD DAMN.
Where is all of your inner beauty today? on another thread?
Please dont tell me to take a 'chill pill' like Im having a temper tantrum in the early nineties. Im just thinking aloud- with everyone saying that inner beauty is what's more important and that you only tear down other to make yourself feel better and then I read this:
vacuous
like a disease
c*nt
twatwaffle (in other words the crisscross dents left on a commando vagina after sporting too-tight fishnets or jeans while walking the streets all night...- nice thing to call a defeated unhappy stranger)
threats to assault her? to socially blacklist her?
needy
stupid
arrogant
skinny piece of bat-**** insane
deciding that her being small must be the ONLY thing going for her in the entire world- cause you obviously know her so well
Yes the OP does know her- but everyone flocking to rip her apart is working against their own pleas for others to be kind and be beautiful from the inside. And you fuss me for simply offering up a different opinion?0 -
Im fat, n i think im attractive. Apparently because i got me a fine husband.
I think it has to do with personality. Anyhow im obviously on this site. I am trying to lose weight so i may be HEALTHY!! I know ill be way more attractive but im bringing my awesome personality with me through this journey.
She is an AIR HEAD!0 -
but why am I wrong? :frown:
I don't think you were wrong, I agreed. :flowerforyou:0 -
just because her self-esteem is all effed up and she's deluded into believing she is worth something because of how she looks - you guys dont have to tear her apart so heartlessly and viciously and publicly where she cannot defend herself.
How is any of this motivating any of you to become better physically or socially? Motivation via tearing down the neighbor of someone you've never met?
GOD DAMN.
Where is all of your inner beauty today? on another thread?
Please dont tell me to take a 'chill pill' like Im having a temper tantrum in the early nineties. Im just thinking aloud- with everyone saying that inner beauty is what's more important and that you only tear down other to make yourself feel better and then I read this:
vacuous
like a disease
c*nt
twatwaffle (in other words the crisscross dents left on a commando vagina after sporting too-tight fishnets or jeans while walking the streets all night...- nice thing to call a defeated unhappy stranger)
threats to assault her? to socially blacklist her?
needy
stupid
arrogant
skinny piece of bat-**** insane
deciding that her being small must be the ONLY thing going for her in the entire world- cause you obviously know her so well
Yes the OP does know her- but everyone flocking to rip her apart is working against their own pleas for others to be kind and be beautiful from the inside. And you fuss me for simply offering up a different opinion?
I pretty much second this opinion.
Sure, the dame obviously needs an attitude adjustment, but who is to say she's not any less insecure as ANY ONE person here? I understand rants, but really?
A bit backwards to tear apart socially dysfunctional people when I'm sure that's what a number of us are here on MFP for in the first place.
Just sayin'.0 -
just because her self-esteem is all effed up and she's deluded into believing she is worth something because of how she looks - you guys dont have to tear her apart so heartlessly and viciously and publicly where she cannot defend herself.
How is any of this motivating any of you to become better physically or socially? Motivation via tearing down the neighbor of someone you've never met?
GOD DAMN.
Where is all of your inner beauty today? on another thread?
Please dont tell me to take a 'chill pill' like Im having a temper tantrum in the early nineties. Im just thinking aloud- with everyone saying that inner beauty is what's more important and that you only tear down other to make yourself feel better and then I read this:
vacuous
like a disease
c*nt
twatwaffle (in other words the crisscross dents left on a commando vagina after sporting too-tight fishnets or jeans while walking the streets all night...- nice thing to call a defeated unhappy stranger)
threats to assault her? to socially blacklist her?
needy
stupid
arrogant
skinny piece of bat-**** insane
deciding that her being small must be the ONLY thing going for her in the entire world- cause you obviously know her so well
Yes the OP does know her- but everyone flocking to rip her apart is working against their own pleas for others to be kind and be beautiful from the inside. And you fuss me for simply offering up a different opinion?
I pretty much second this opinion.
Sure, the dame obviously needs an attitude adjustment, but who is to say she's not any less insecure as ANY ONE person here? I understand rants, but really?
A bit backwards to tear apart socially dysfunctional people when I'm sure that's what a number of us are here on MFP for in the first place.
Just sayin'.
I agree with both these ladies.0 -
Just sayin'.
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Ugh..It's the "Just sayin'" crap.0 -
She's something that starts with C alright... but it ain't catch.0
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So I have a neighbor who is constantly saying that she is so much better than her husbands ex girlfriends because they were "fat". Mind you I am pleasently plump. She seems to have this idea that because she is skinny she is a catch. Let me say this- the only thing she has going for her is her weight. The best was when she said to me "Someone like me should be married to a Dr or a lawyer."
So skinny girls are a catch and fat girls aren't ????
Sounds like she's a gold digger.0 -
just because her self-esteem is all effed up and she's deluded into believing she is worth something because of how she looks - you guys dont have to tear her apart so heartlessly and viciously and publicly where she cannot defend herself.
How is any of this motivating any of you to become better physically or socially? Motivation via tearing down the neighbor of someone you've never met?
GOD DAMN.
Where is all of your inner beauty today? on another thread?
Please dont tell me to take a 'chill pill' like Im having a temper tantrum in the early nineties. Im just thinking aloud- with everyone saying that inner beauty is what's more important and that you only tear down other to make yourself feel better and then I read this:
vacuous
like a disease
c*nt
twatwaffle (in other words the crisscross dents left on a commando vagina after sporting too-tight fishnets or jeans while walking the streets all night...- nice thing to call a defeated unhappy stranger)
threats to assault her? to socially blacklist her?
needy
stupid
arrogant
skinny piece of bat-**** insane
deciding that her being small must be the ONLY thing going for her in the entire world- cause you obviously know her so well
Yes the OP does know her- but everyone flocking to rip her apart is working against their own pleas for others to be kind and be beautiful from the inside. And you fuss me for simply offering up a different opinion?
I can understand ranting, it just seemed strange that to offset misled thinking, the best fix is to have strangers tear her apart. I'll shush.0 -
Fat women are easier to "catch"... we tend to trip and fall and get winded faster.0
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It's the old bully Catch-22. If you fight back against the bully, then you are being just like them. Uh huh. Right.0
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It's the old bully Catch-22. If you fight back against the bully, then you are being just like them. Uh huh. Right.
No need for snark, just a difference in opinion.
JUST SAYIN'.0 -
just because her self-esteem is all effed up and she's deluded into believing she is worth something because of how she looks - you guys dont have to tear her apart so heartlessly and viciously and publicly where she cannot defend herself.
How is any of this motivating any of you to become better physically or socially? Motivation via tearing down the neighbor of someone you've never met?
GOD DAMN.
Where is all of your inner beauty today? on another thread?
Please dont tell me to take a 'chill pill' like Im having a temper tantrum in the early nineties. Im just thinking aloud- with everyone saying that inner beauty is what's more important and that you only tear down other to make yourself feel better and then I read this:
vacuous
like a disease
c*nt
twatwaffle (in other words the crisscross dents left on a commando vagina after sporting too-tight fishnets or jeans while walking the streets all night...- nice thing to call a defeated unhappy stranger)
threats to assault her? to socially blacklist her?
needy
stupid
arrogant
skinny piece of bat-**** insane
deciding that her being small must be the ONLY thing going for her in the entire world- cause you obviously know her so well
Yes the OP does know her- but everyone flocking to rip her apart is working against their own pleas for others to be kind and be beautiful from the inside. And you fuss me for simply offering up a different opinion?
I can understand ranting, it just seemed strange that to offset misled thinking, the best fix is to have strangers tear her apart. I'll shush.0 -
just because her self-esteem is all effed up and she's deluded into believing she is worth something because of how she looks - you guys dont have to tear her apart so heartlessly and viciously and publicly where she cannot defend herself.
How is any of this motivating any of you to become better physically or socially? Motivation via tearing down the neighbor of someone you've never met?
GOD DAMN.
Where is all of your inner beauty today? on another thread?
Please dont tell me to take a 'chill pill' like Im having a temper tantrum in the early nineties. Im just thinking aloud- with everyone saying that inner beauty is what's more important and that you only tear down other to make yourself feel better and then I read this:
vacuous
like a disease
c*nt
twatwaffle (in other words the crisscross dents left on a commando vagina after sporting too-tight fishnets or jeans while walking the streets all night...- nice thing to call a defeated unhappy stranger)
threats to assault her? to socially blacklist her?
needy
stupid
arrogant
skinny piece of bat-**** insane
deciding that her being small must be the ONLY thing going for her in the entire world- cause you obviously know her so well
Yes the OP does know her- but everyone flocking to rip her apart is working against their own pleas for others to be kind and be beautiful from the inside. And you fuss me for simply offering up a different opinion?
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JUST SAYIN'.0
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JUST SAYIN'.
Here, have a cookie. :flowerforyou:0 -
JUST SAYIN'.
Didn't realize it was a trendy phrase. It's just something I've heard for years in the Midwest.0 -
It's not a "fix" any more than complaining about bad drivers or fad diets is a fix. It's about being reassured that not everyone is as shallow and petty as the neighbor. Mission accomplished despite the minority opinion.
Mission failed despite the minority opinion. Seems like shallow pettiness abounds here. I offered to shush but you continue to harp. Best of luck in all of your physical adventures.0 -
She sure sounds like a "catch." In the same way you catch a disease.
This.
That being said, there are great "catches" that are skinny and some who are not. It's all in the quality of person you are and how you carry yourself.0 -
JUST SAYIN'.
I agree with you, just typin.0 -
this is the definition of a twatwaffle
LOL0 -
OK, I have to say, that like yoovie stated, we can't determine this unknown other person's personality based on that ONE comment. She may have some redeeming qualities. We, not one of us, are perfect. All I can say is that that ONE comment is idiotic, narcissistic, and inappropriate.
So to the OP: If this is an overwhelming indication of this person's personality, any chance you can stop hanging out with/around her?0
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