Skinny girls are "better" than fat girls ?

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  • Silverkittycat
    Silverkittycat Posts: 1,997 Member
    just because her self-esteem is all effed up and she's deluded into believing she is worth something because of how she looks - you guys dont have to tear her apart so heartlessly and viciously and publicly where she cannot defend herself.

    How is any of this motivating any of you to become better physically or socially? Motivation via tearing down the neighbor of someone you've never met?

    GOD DAMN.

    Where is all of your inner beauty today? on another thread?
    Um...the woman is anonymous. Only the OP knows who she is. Take a chill pill.

    Please dont tell me to take a 'chill pill' like Im having a temper tantrum in the early nineties. Im just thinking aloud- with everyone saying that inner beauty is what's more important and that you only tear down other to make yourself feel better and then I read this:

    vacuous
    like a disease
    c*nt
    twatwaffle (in other words the crisscross dents left on a commando vagina after sporting too-tight fishnets or jeans while walking the streets all night...- nice thing to call a defeated unhappy stranger)
    threats to assault her? to socially blacklist her?
    needy
    stupid
    arrogant
    skinny piece of bat-**** insane
    deciding that her being small must be the ONLY thing going for her in the entire world- cause you obviously know her so well

    Yes the OP does know her- but everyone flocking to rip her apart is working against their own pleas for others to be kind and be beautiful from the inside. And you fuss me for simply offering up a different opinion?
    It's called a rant. Nobody is telling this woman that's she's shallow and conceited to her face. That would be way too effective. Unfortunately, only the OP can do that and I'd advise that she do it ASAP.

    I can understand ranting, it just seemed strange that to offset misled thinking, the best fix is to have strangers tear her apart. I'll shush.
    It's not a "fix" any more than complaining about bad drivers or fad diets is a fix. It's about being reassured that not everyone is as shallow and petty as the neighbor. Mission accomplished despite the minority opinion.

    Only if your mission is to feel superior, or be justified in your bashing.
  • robot_potato
    robot_potato Posts: 1,535 Member
    I don't care how skinny she is. She sounds horribly ugly on the inside.
  • Laces_0ut
    Laces_0ut Posts: 3,750 Member
    if by skinny we are talking about fit/athletic/musclular etc...arent we all striving for that? doesnt that mean that being in that condition is better than being fat? of course you are not a better person but i think by definition it makes you a better catch right? if everything else is identical isnt the in shape mate more attractive than the fat one?
  • akiramezu
    akiramezu Posts: 278
    i don't mean to offend anyone at all, but i pretty much have only been attracted to skinny girls. Am i shallow? maybe, but then again, who isn't. But i pretty much have the decency and respect to be able to not rant on about bigger girls. That girl sounds like a total Bit*h
  • northfresh
    northfresh Posts: 111
    i don't mean to offend anyone at all, but i pretty much have only been attracted to skinny girls. Am i shallow? maybe, but then again, who isn't. But i pretty much have the decency and respect to be able to not rant on about bigger girls. That girl sounds like a total Bit*h

    That's not shallow at all. I was interested in a guy who was only interested in bigger girls, and even told me I was too skinny for him! I don't think he's shallow, he just has specific tastes. Everyone does, its naive to deny attraction to specific physical attributes. We can't all be attracted to everyone. It's only shallow if you assume that the people (or yourself) who fit into certain physical categories are 'better' than anyone else just because of those specific attributes. IMHO.
  • sunkisses
    sunkisses Posts: 2,365 Member
    It's my personality that makes me better than everyone. *hair-flip, smile-bling*
  • LeanerBeef
    LeanerBeef Posts: 1,432 Member
    All girls, no matter the size, are b*tches.......in a good way. :drinker:
  • ironanimal
    ironanimal Posts: 5,922 Member
    i don't mean to offend anyone at all, but i pretty much have only been attracted to skinny girls. Am i shallow? maybe, but then again, who isn't. But i pretty much have the decency and respect to be able to not rant on about bigger girls. That girl sounds like a total Bit*h

    It looks like you have something dangling from between your legs.

    Also, so she may be shallow and insecure, but that doesn't necessarily make her an evil bltch. That attitude is a creation of the modern world, with the onslaught of glossy mags and 'reality' shows women have their faces rubbed in constantly.
  • dga226
    dga226 Posts: 224 Member
    she has no inner self to stuck up on her self
  • Alicia7896
    Alicia7896 Posts: 21
    So I have a neighbor who is constantly saying that she is so much better than her husbands ex girlfriends because they were "fat". Mind you I am pleasently plump. She seems to have this idea that because she is skinny she is a catch. Let me say this- the only thing she has going for her is her weight. The best was when she said to me "Someone like me should be married to a Dr or a lawyer."

    So skinny girls are a catch and fat girls aren't ????

    She sounds VERY insecure.
  • RestartThisRight
    RestartThisRight Posts: 115
    She's something that starts with C alright... but it ain't catch.
    bahahahah! :laugh:
    (That's my favorite word btw! :P)
  • Eats_With_A_Fist_Returns
    Eats_With_A_Fist_Returns Posts: 77
    So I have a neighbor who is constantly saying that she is so much better than her husbands ex girlfriends because they were "fat". Mind you I am pleasently plump. She seems to have this idea that because she is skinny she is a catch. Let me say this- the only thing she has going for her is her weight. The best was when she said to me "Someone like me should be married to a Dr or a lawyer."

    So skinny girls are a catch and fat girls aren't ????

    Sounds like she's a gold digger.

    I ain't saying she a gold digger, but she ain't messin with no broke, broke... :p (Yay levity!)
  • merilin676
    merilin676 Posts: 10
    daaaaamn. It really doesn't matter if your skinny or fat. As long as you feel comfortable in your body then you're sexy as hell ;)
  • invisibubble
    invisibubble Posts: 662 Member
    Skinny does not equal attractiveness. Hell, having a killer body doesn't make you a catch in anything other than having a pretty figure. Sounds like she's watched one too many Disney films where the baddies are all.. less than aesthetically pleasing.
    It sounds as though she's trying to compensate for having no personality. Or just being incredibly shallow. Same thing.

    Skinny girls are simply skinnier than fat girls. Nothing more. Same as fat girls are simply fatter than the skinny ones.
  • BrunetteRunner87
    BrunetteRunner87 Posts: 591 Member
    How many times do we hear fat girls putting down skinny girls because "real women have curves" or something like that? They both come from e same place... Insecurity.
  • Bikini27
    Bikini27 Posts: 1,290 Member
    JUST SAYIN'.
    Since we're ranting, can people stop with the 'just sayin'? It's one of the most obnoxious trendy phrases to come along in awhile.

    I agree with you, just typin.

    :heart:
  • Bikini27
    Bikini27 Posts: 1,290 Member
    How many times do we hear fat girls putting down skinny girls because "real women have curves" or something like that? They both come from e same place... Insecurity.

    Agreed.
    Fat bashing or fit bashing, it's all wrong.
  • WingMan380
    WingMan380 Posts: 2,139 Member
    ***getting popcorn***
    :noway: :drinker: :smokin: :devil: :sad: :yawn: :huh:
  • meechi53
    meechi53 Posts: 195 Member
    this is the definition of a twatwaffle

    LMAO Twatwaffle!

    Well I've seen flabby "skinny" girls that carry themselves horribly..you know..bad hair, unkempt, bad clothes, horrible makeup, pasty complexions and "big" girls that dress fabulous with beautiful hair and skin..so.. Hmm.. Just sayin! If you are looking at the physical that's much more of a "catch" I mean..look at Amy Winehouse (RIP but she looked like hell) and (in my book) The new and improved Christina Aguilera
  • catshark209
    catshark209 Posts: 1,133 Member
    She's something that starts with C alright... but it ain't catch.

    THIS.
    Being a skinny girl myself, I don't see that I'm a "catch" at all just because of my weight. What a dumb b itch to say that....I hate people like that.
  • tjamuna1
    tjamuna1 Posts: 135 Member
    FIT girls are better than fat or skinny girls / thread
    xx
  • Wendyma1
    Wendyma1 Posts: 289 Member
    It's the words that are coming out of her mouth that make her very unattractive and the fartherst thing from a "Catch". I would much rather be plump with an awesome personality that skinny and ugly on the inside! Hope you get new neighbors soon! :)
  • deniseselah
    deniseselah Posts: 225 Member
    slap a ho.:grumble:

    Is that like the whack a mole game?
    I have quarters
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: <pause for breath> :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • WickedGarden
    WickedGarden Posts: 944 Member
    I got dumped for a girl that would be considered a 'fatty'- I was skinny.

    Besides, when was the last time you heard a guy brag he caught a really skinny fish? they usually brag about catching the fattest/biggest fish...

    She has issues. Guys like women of all sizes...I think that's still true. :embarassed:
  • Valtishia
    Valtishia Posts: 811 Member
    Wow.. I didn't realize it could be a childhood dream to be a trophy wife lol. That lady is off.
  • amy32lynn
    amy32lynn Posts: 157 Member
    arent most of us on this site to get thin? yes most men find thinner women more attactive,,,,
  • SergeantSunshine_reused
    SergeantSunshine_reused Posts: 5,382 Member
    i don't mean to offend anyone at all, but i pretty much have only been attracted to skinny girls. Am i shallow? maybe, but then again, who isn't. But i pretty much have the decency and respect to be able to not rant on about bigger girls. That girl sounds like a total Bit*h

    How i see it too
  • pudadough
    pudadough Posts: 1,271 Member
    arent most of us on this site to get thin? yes most men find thinner women more attactive,,,,

    No. Most of us are here to get healthy. Big difference.
  • lexidell46
    lexidell46 Posts: 143
    she is the perfect case of walking advertisement for birth control.
  • 1Timothy4v8
    1Timothy4v8 Posts: 503 Member
    I would rather spend the day in the dump then hang out with meanies like that
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