Kissing issue

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  • hbrittingham
    hbrittingham Posts: 2,518 Member
    i didn't like kissing my first boyfriend because he was an awful kisser. second boyfriend was ok. current boyfriend is a really good kisser so i like it now XD

    Maybe practice the way he likes most...he might be more open to it. Having tasty breath and soft lips/clean tongue helps too.

    Good luck ^_^

    An awful kisser would have never become my boyfriend, that's for sure!

    Kissing is a very intimate act and is very important to me. But touch is very important to me, too and something I can't imagine living without.
  • lyssie_3
    lyssie_3 Posts: 1
    I've been with my fiance for almost three years now, for the past two we've kissed on only six occasions. I'm not upset though, our kisses mean everything because they are so few and far between. Don't get me wrong, I absolutely love kissing and wish I could kiss him everyday, but I understand and accept these terms. Oh by the way, he's a US Marine and stationed on the other side of the country, so I only SEE him three times a year (if I'm lucky). Just thought I'd add some perspective. If you're in a loving relationship their kissing habits shouldn't be the end of the world. If you're in a SAFE relationship each member should give 100% not 50-50, why would you only want 50% of someone's efforts?

    Again, just a new perspective.
  • karinaes
    karinaes Posts: 570 Member
    omg! i absolutely LOVE kissing and i think my BF loves kissing MORE than i do!
    i'm sorry, girl :frown:
  • r1ghtpath
    r1ghtpath Posts: 701 Member
    i personally would take it as a huge red flag!!

    my ex and i stopped kissing about 2 yrs after we started dating. he was always stressed out and said that open mouth kissing was "gross." i was young and dumb and figured he'd snap out of it!

    guess what! he never did. and it got worse as the years went on. we got married and he started critiquing and criticizing the "pecks." we would randomly have. like " that was too wet," or " that was too bird like." and it never ended.

    we were together for 15 yrs, had 5 kids ( no kissing during sex really either :-() and during the marriage a whole lotta "issues" arouse in the intimacy/ respect department. it was pretty bad.

    i love kissing. if i were to ever find myself involved with someone that didn't like kissing me or enjoy it or thought it was gross, i would NOT travel down that path again..................
  • ECA67
    ECA67 Posts: 802 Member
    I'm a very passionate kisser. When you find a partner that is great at it then sex just gets raised to a higher level.
  • liljgrafix
    liljgrafix Posts: 177
    I miss kissing. my bf isnt much of a kisser.. and im sorry but my lips were made for kissing.. lol i love kissing.. But he is starting to grow fonder of it..
  • Specialkayrina
    Specialkayrina Posts: 242 Member
    Yeah my husband is not much of a kisser either ;(
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