Is it ok to flirt

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  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    Why cant a fitness site just be a fitness site. Complimenting or teasing / joking is fine but does every forum on the internet have to turn into a dating site, cum on.

    Oh, you managed to keep it going almost to the end....
  • _snw_
    _snw_ Posts: 1,298 Member
    i would never EVER flirt. ever. like never ever. really. NEVER. Me? no. never. ever.
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    Hi.....I'm Morgan. I'm 5'2, a Leo and like long walks on the beach.




    Wait...What??? This is a fitness site....:noway:

    is that a beer in your cleavage or are you just happy to see me?
  • supermom2002
    supermom2002 Posts: 180 Member
    I flirt with all my friends...male and female.

    But there's a line that many here cross. If you are married, or engaged, or 2 days from walking up the frikken isle, it is not and never okay to send nekkid pics or talk about sexual acts you would like to do. This to me is cheating. I don't care if you're across the ocean, in a different state or living next door. It makes me sick. And the people that encourage this are just as bad.

    Many of my male friends are married and i would never say something to them that would get them in *kitten* with their wives.

    If you're single--then sure. If thats what you want to do.
  • Bronx_Montgomery
    Bronx_Montgomery Posts: 2,284 Member
    Hi.....I'm Morgan. I'm 5'2, a Leo and like long walks on the beach.




    Wait...What??? This is a fitness site....:noway:


    hahahahahahahaha
  • regina2063
    regina2063 Posts: 203 Member
    Complimenting is one thing.
    But flirting, is a BIG no for me!! its kind of in a way of cheating.
    Thats just my personal opinion.

    to say ...hey youre looking good...keep up the good work...thats complimenting
    hey baby...you are starting to look sooo fine after losing that weight...i gonna have to get those numbers...

    if you have a partner....Be very careful on what you say to someone...because it could be a compliment and they can take it as flirting.
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Why cant a fitness site just be a fitness site. Complimenting or teasing / joking is fine but does every forum on the internet have to turn into a dating site, cum on.

    Hello there! flirtysmile1.gif
  • Farfourah
    Farfourah Posts: 896 Member
    How does one flirt online exactly??
  • ilookthetype
    ilookthetype Posts: 3,021 Member
    I love these general sweeping questions, some single people who be mortified if someone was flirty with them on the internet, some married folk flirt with their internet friends, it all depends on the person and their relationship.

    I flirt, I've posted a few questionable pictures, I've explained some rather inappropriate things to people, it all depends, rules are fluid, unless we're talking about the MFP rules, those are rigid. *winks at Steven*
  • Nikki_42
    Nikki_42 Posts: 298 Member
    i never flirt, i'm just friendly.

    Exactly. :wink:
  • TheWinman
    TheWinman Posts: 684 Member
    If you're not married or have a significant other, it is OK. I flirt all of the time on sites.
  • reneepugh
    reneepugh Posts: 522 Member
    To try to say this in the nicest possible way....this is not an Internet dating site. If that is what you are interested in, than I happen to believe this is not the site for you. This site is simply for those who are wanting to be healthy and I like the fact that for the most part people here are supportive and decent. It would be nice if it stayed that way. I hope I didn't offend anyone, but this site and my friends on it are important to my success so far.
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    <~~~ Married and flirting. A LOT. :love: :love:
  • kimber0607
    kimber0607 Posts: 994 Member
    I agree with most..if isingle go for it
    IF in committed relationship or married, than I still say a BIG NO to flirting on line
    I would say before you say something think about how u would feel if your SO was doing the same....if it would piss u off..dont do it!!
    The line is different for everyone
  • badgerbadger1
    badgerbadger1 Posts: 954 Member
    Flirting on the interwebs is the functional equivalent of unprotected anal sex. Consequently, I have nailed a whole lotta y'all in the keister. Bareback.

    *runs to get tested*
  • GoldspursX3
    GoldspursX3 Posts: 516 Member
    Ladies, guys - Is it ok to flirt with people on internet sites like this one? I have varied opinions - let's hear yours.....

    Yeah, if your single or in a relationship where that kind of behavior won't cause problems.
  • macpatti
    macpatti Posts: 4,280 Member
    Don't let her fool you. Patti flirts with me CONSTANTLY!*runs*
    Silly, Brett! You get all your Christian friends confused!
  • ToEKnee213
    ToEKnee213 Posts: 1,031 Member
    Absolutely ok. It isnt like I am booking flights to go see all these men, that if I were single I would consider it. I won't cheat. The guys I am flirty with are aware that I am unavailiable. I am not sending any nekkid pics, I am not calling them and having phone sex. They aren't feeding me, Fu@#ing me or financing me, so it is no threat.

    Love this!!!
  • AlayshaJ
    AlayshaJ Posts: 703 Member
    For me and my husband flirting is ok. Anything beyond that, is cheating. No sexual talk about anyone other than your spouse, that is not okay. We are both very flirty people in the first place. Its natural. You can't just muffle that. I've been flirting with people since I was a baby! Flirting isn't sexual or bad, unless you make it that way. I do however, make it a point not to flirt with other people in front of my husband. He does the same. Unless, you know, there is an ok to do so... ;)
  • raevynn
    raevynn Posts: 666 Member
    I stopped flirting one day.



    My husband checked me for a pulse. He was worried... thought I'd died.
  • jeffarthur
    jeffarthur Posts: 123 Member
    Complimenting is one thing.
    But flirting, is a BIG no for me!! its kind of in a way of cheating.
    Thats just my personal opinion.

    nsil on the head. NOTHING good can come from it. turn the tables and ask if you would want a significant other flirting...??
  • yaddayaddayadda
    yaddayaddayadda Posts: 430 Member
    I would not participate in online flirting... I am married, so its totally off limits for me, but even if I were not otherwise involved, I don't think the internet is an appropriate forum for meeting men... I would need face to face time to determine if flirting is appropriate.
  • HisPathDaily
    HisPathDaily Posts: 672 Member
    I see it as inappropriate and dangerous if you're in a relationship. If you're not, and interested in someone, not sure why you wouldn't :)
  • Bentley2718
    Bentley2718 Posts: 1,689 Member
    Personally I see flirting, online and off, as a harmless form of fun. It makes everyone feel good, adds a little life to your day, but isn't anything more. Flirting doesn't necessarily imply that you're interested, or that if you are, you are going to take any action on it--its a pleasant social interaction. If the other person doesn't respond in kind, or if you have another indication that it makes them uncomfortable then you should stop, out of respect for the other person, but short of that, have fun.

    I'm married, and my husband doesn't care that I flirt with other people. My boundaries are clear and he trusts me.
  • KXanthos
    KXanthos Posts: 189 Member
    I'm single, I get to flirt all I want online. ;-)
  • _the_feniks_
    _the_feniks_ Posts: 3,412 Member
    sure, if you aren't attached.
    Flirting online is dangerous if you are married, however. I know lots of peeps whose marriage ended over "harmless" flirtations online.

    Couldn't agree more.
  • Firefighter_Jay
    Firefighter_Jay Posts: 426 Member
    yeah, seriously, if you are married, you shouldn't be flirting online. Its no different than calling up one of your wifes hot friends and trying to rail her while your wife is at work. imo anyway.

    just sad, and wrong. being married, means you've made your choice! pull up your big boy pants and deal with it.
  • picassoadagio
    picassoadagio Posts: 407 Member
    totally ok if the person is receptive. it can get creepy if you're pursuing someone who does not want to be pursued.

    i really think married people should stay away from flirting. its not cheating necessarily, but it can lead to to it.

    ^^^^This.
  • Kerri_is_so_very
    Kerri_is_so_very Posts: 999 Member
    It is absolutely ok. There's no harm in it whatsoever. Not a thing to worry about.


    Until your partner joins the site. Then delete, delete, delete!!

    :tongue: :laugh:

    :laugh:

    I would say it depends......I like a little flirting (as long as it isn't stalkerish), but I'm single....so I have no issues. Married people may feel differently.
  • YassSpartan
    YassSpartan Posts: 1,195 Member
    Thank goodness I never flirt. I can't understand people who flirt online. I mean, seriously? :huh: